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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too many fantasist on here. "
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again |
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again "
Sorry to hear that. Some people just suck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone knows this kinda thing happens to most of us at some point. So it's not just you, forget it and carry on, treat it like a bump in the road, unexpected maybe but the journey continues  |
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"Everyone knows this kinda thing happens to most of us at some point. So it's not just you, forget it and carry on, treat it like a bump in the road, unexpected maybe but the journey continues "
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
Had this discussion with someone else tonight - dickheads are spoiling it for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
Sorry to hear that, he's probably got something to hide obviously he's enjoyed the conversation but not got the balls to follow through, not all guys are like that and he's the type to give the genuine guys a bad name don't let it knock your confidence its definitely his loss xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
Are you attracted to a certain kind of man? The bad boy or as I like to call them, cunts?
Me too 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m really sorry this has happened to you. Unfortunately is a common thing in this site, I’ve been through it as well.
It’s his loss though, you look stunning x |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
This is why I find clubs easier to meet.
Don't let this knock your confidence its a regular occurance on here for one reason or another.
I suppose men get nervous too sometimes as well as us women
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, i can only reiterate what others have already said.
The fact he stood you up has nothing to do with how you look. In fact, he almost definitely started messaging you because you look amazing.
The reality is he almost definitely had no intention of meeting you. Just another fantasist, wasting peoples time.
Its not unique to this site either. Speaking to the girls at work on vanilla dating sites, its common there too.
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again "
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx |
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"no dont give up you have the most beautiful eyes, im not sweet talking here they are,,
I agree she has stunning eyes I'm a sucker for a woman's eyes"
Wow. Embarassing levels of simping there lads. Cop yerselves on ffs |
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx"
Why is it his loss exactly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx
Why is it his loss exactly? "
Well he certainly hasn't gained anything by chatting to someone for a month and then bottling meeting up has he? |
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx
Why is it his loss exactly?
Well he certainly hasn't gained anything by chatting to someone for a month and then bottling meeting up has he? "
Possibly not, but he probably hasnt lost anything either. Or of he has, he clearly doesnt care for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you have been stood up as much as me
Loads wasted more time getting ready n sat waiting for no shows"
Yep, I think that's the annoying bit. I mean I have no illusions that on the occasion I do decide to chat with someone that it'll probably go no further than that. I've pulled out of socials/meets myself, but always at the very minimum try to give 24hrs notice. We all have our lives away from Fab, and it's crap when someone just blows you off when you've carved out that time to meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could never do that to someone, all it takes is a message to explain if something has changed.
But what do I know, I'm over 50 so not on most peoples radar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx
Why is it his loss exactly?
Well he certainly hasn't gained anything by chatting to someone for a month and then bottling meeting up has he?
Possibly not, but he probably hasnt lost anything either. Or of he has, he clearly doesnt care for it "
Have a word with yourself, fella.
People are passing on their support to someone who is clearly feeling low, dejected and lacking self confidence after being stood up and blocked.
But all you've done is criticise some of the replies. How about keeping your opinions to yourself, and just let others be supportive of fellows FAB members |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe try the Barnsley social, at quest. You can suss people out, in a safe environment and keep in touch for meets after. Just an idea x"
I wouldn't want to go on my own but thanks it's an idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got stood up too, once. I moved to a new area in my 20s and arranged to meet someone I connected with (via a wedding site) at a local pub. She just disappeared, never arrived, didn’t answer her phone. I stood waiting for far too long. It was an awful numb feeling, going home. I’m so sorry, OP, it’s rubbish that happened to you. Dust yourself off and get back up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try the Barnsley social, at quest. You can suss people out, in a safe environment and keep in touch for meets after. Just an idea x
I wouldn't want to go on my own but thanks it's an idea "
When I’m feeling the clubs again, I’m happy to meet you for a drink! I’ve made good friends with a few other single ladies, who went to the last one! I went on my own - I was nervous but I’m glad I did, just for the mates I’ve made, if nothing else x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get this all the time. Just because their body is fit it doesn't mean their minds are. Weekends are the worst for "meaningful wank merchants" that need talking through their self love. It's getting easier to spot the red flags now.
However... there are tonnes of incredibly gorgeous hot gym fit young lads that do show up and know how to please a fuller figured mature woman like myself. The last meet I had from here was pure perfection. Fab unfortunately is a long game but when it pays out its well worth the wait. |
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
Change your boundaries
Change your way of working
As you say .. YOU have spent more time being stood up' ....
Spend less AND for what it's worth don't become somebody's digital wank porn....
Meeting pretty early on sorts the wankers from the meeters.
How much time you spend being 'adored' and having a 'lovely' chat is entirely in your hands. |
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By *anny Boy31Man
over a year ago
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
Bad form that!
Should there not be some kind of thread on here to call them out? It can happen that something crops up but it’s not a big deal to let the other parties know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets
Bad form that!
Should there not be some kind of thread on here to call them out? It can happen that something crops up but it’s not a big deal to let the other parties know "
He was sposed to set off at 9pm by 9.20 I was unfriended then blocked happens loads on here starting to think no point renewing. Why waste time? Just don't get it but I agree should be able to at least talk to admin with names so could look into these fake profiles and get them removed and the time wasters ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets
Bad form that!
Should there not be some kind of thread on here to call them out? It can happen that something crops up but it’s not a big deal to let the other parties know
He was sposed to set off at 9pm by 9.20 I was unfriended then blocked happens loads on here starting to think no point renewing. Why waste time? Just don't get it but I agree should be able to at least talk to admin with names so could look into these fake profiles and get them removed and the time wasters ! "
You can report people that arrange to meet but don't turn up |
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"If they've acted like a knobhead early doors, try and consider it as a bullet dodged and move on."
This is the best way to think about it. In fact we were stood up with less than 30min notice only this morning having already arrived at the agreed venue for a social meet that we had hoped would lead on to more. We're now feeling relieved that we didnt actually meet the guy concerned |
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By *ougal2Man
over a year ago
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"If they've acted like a knobhead early doors, try and consider it as a bullet dodged and move on.
This is the best way to think about it. In fact we were stood up with less than 30min notice only this morning having already arrived at the agreed venue for a social meet that we had hoped would lead on to more. We're now feeling relieved that we didnt actually meet the guy concerned"
That's partly why I've always preferred a social first. If they don't show up, I at least get a coffee & cake (or a pint) so not a total wasted journey!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d love a name and shame thread! Had my fair share of time wasters as well."
problem with that is anyone could lie about anyone just because they were rejected
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"I’d love a name and shame thread! Had my fair share of time wasters as well.problem with that is anyone could lie about anyone just because they were rejected "
Speaking of which, where were you this morning, you bastard?
I changed the sheets and everything.
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"I’d love a name and shame thread! Had my fair share of time wasters as well.problem with that is anyone could lie about anyone just because they were rejected
Speaking of which, where were you this morning, you bastard?
I changed the sheets and everything.
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Just let me know earlier |
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx
Why is it his loss exactly?
Well he certainly hasn't gained anything by chatting to someone for a month and then bottling meeting up has he?
Possibly not, but he probably hasnt lost anything either. Or of he has, he clearly doesnt care for it
Have a word with yourself, fella.
People are passing on their support to someone who is clearly feeling low, dejected and lacking self confidence after being stood up and blocked.
But all you've done is criticise some of the replies. How about keeping your opinions to yourself, and just let others be supportive of fellows FAB members "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He probs had a wank before he was bout to leave the gaff, bust his nut an thought fuck it cba???????
It happens to the best of us,
Never mind have a ribena figbt on live another day
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That's pants it's happened soz! But chin up! There will b others! And as others have said his loss! I've got a coffee meet tomoz! I arrange one for our local outlet center if I can so if a no show I can least browse the shops x |
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
How ould any guy resist those super hot sexy rules of yours. You have me hooked on you for sure. I'd love to come up your way and have an all night long session all around the house I'm a very good oral guy and love spending hours doing it. |
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again "
Probably not an actual gym fit guy, but a fantasist who knew that the game would be up if he turned up. |
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over a year ago
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"He probs had a wank before he was bout to leave the gaff, bust his nut an thought fuck it cba???????
It happens to the best of us,
Never mind have a ribena figbt on live another day
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I’m not sure I want to know what a Ribena fight is… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't give up, or lose your confidence "
there are still lots of good genuine peeps on-site...!
so try & remain positive despite temporary setbacks...
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx
Why is it his loss exactly?
Well he certainly hasn't gained anything by chatting to someone for a month and then bottling meeting up has he?
Possibly not, but he probably hasnt lost anything either. Or of he has, he clearly doesnt care for it
Have a word with yourself, fella.
People are passing on their support to someone who is clearly feeling low, dejected and lacking self confidence after being stood up and blocked.
But all you've done is criticise some of the replies. How about keeping your opinions to yourself, and just let others be supportive of fellows FAB members "
Im as entitled to my opinion as anyone else on here pal. And i shall continue to give it, whether it tallies with your thoughts in what it should be or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Oh babes so sorry to hear this happened. His loss not yours. Chin up it happens to loads on here. Xx
Why is it his loss exactly?
Well he certainly hasn't gained anything by chatting to someone for a month and then bottling meeting up has he?
Possibly not, but he probably hasnt lost anything either. Or of he has, he clearly doesnt care for it
Have a word with yourself, fella.
People are passing on their support to someone who is clearly feeling low, dejected and lacking self confidence after being stood up and blocked.
But all you've done is criticise some of the replies. How about keeping your opinions to yourself, and just let others be supportive of fellows FAB members
Im as entitled to my opinion as anyone else on here pal. And i shall continue to give it, whether it tallies with your thoughts in what it should be or not"
Oooooh, someone's woke up cranky |
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"And there’s me posting for meets constantly and not even a reply "
Thats because your profile pic is of you rooting out some woman. Havent you learned from the other threads that the good ladies on here dont like to see pics of women hanging off the end of your cock/fingers |
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By *eliusMan
over a year ago
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again "
You have mastery over your confidence… what if the guy thought ‘shit, she’s too hot me I’ll just show myself up.’ What if he’s in a relationship and just got cold feet? What if it’s one of these basement dwellers who get off on leading others on.
You have nothing to lose confidence about. You were prepared and ready, they weren’t - looks to me like they need a confidence boost! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What the hell is the point in arranging a meet if your gonna get blocked and unfriended when your spoaed to be meeting I give up on this site ! Spent more time being stood up than I have on meets "
We used to go to clubs to meet people but have been trying the social route with little success.
We've been stood up, literally been sat at the venue and had a no show, also had last minute cancellations. And then there's the people who do show up and are nothing like their pictures.
Think for some, when the fantasy starts to becomes a reality they feel overwhelmed and aren't sure it's actually what they want.
Know it's easier said than done, but try not to take it personally, but understand your frustration after spending so much time preparing |
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Consider it a bullet dodged, better to find out now who the "wankers" are early than afterwards & regret it.
Don't let it knock your confidence, we get stood up every other week, very frustrating but we enjoy ourselves on here too much to let it ruin it.
Although it does lead to a few days of staying off the site but we come back eager.
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it’s happening often maybe look at your selection process! And if there are red flags don’t ignore them.
I’ve actually never had a no show but I’m pretty stringent with my processes. And I listen to my head a lot.
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Don't give up but as has already been said we all have had it and a complete mystery why anyone does it ?? ....We quite proud of our record of only having to cancel twice during all the time we've been on the scene ! but doesn't seem to matter if you offer sex on a plate or just a meet/greet social type of meet and we are mainly on here now to try to top our best ever excuse we've heard ....  |
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"If it’s happening often maybe look at your selection process! And if there are red flags don’t ignore them.
I’ve actually never had a no show but I’m pretty stringent with my processes. And I listen to my head a lot.
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What’s a red flag? |
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"If it’s happening often maybe look at your selection process! And if there are red flags don’t ignore them.
I’ve actually never had a no show but I’m pretty stringent with my processes. And I listen to my head a lot.
What’s a red flag?"
It’s not singular lol I have a whole list of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many fantasist on here.
A month talking to finally have balls to meet a gym fit guy ( me being a bigger woman) to get unfriended and blocked when we were sposed to meet. Confidence gone again
Probably not an actual gym fit guy, but a fantasist who knew that the game would be up if he turned up."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Happened once to me which I think is pretty good seeing as I've been on and off here for 6ish years.
At 11am we arranged a meet for 1pm. Because he didn't have constant contact from me in that 2 hours he didn't turn up (that's what he said) lol. I class it as a lucky escape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chances are he was a fake. Probably in his mid 70s, tiny cock that don’t get hard, bald, no teeth….. you dodged a bullet girl "
Hey, that's out of order....i do have some teeth. |
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"Chances are he was a fake. Probably in his mid 70s, tiny cock that don’t get hard, bald, no teeth….. you dodged a bullet girl "
Or he got just enough wank material to spunk up without the effort of leaving home |
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"Maybe try the Barnsley social, at quest. You can suss people out, in a safe environment and keep in touch for meets after. Just an idea x
I wouldn't want to go on my own but thanks it's an idea "
I'd love to go with you - we can be newbies together |
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