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Rules. Your own ones. The ones on your profile that state "must be well endowed", or "must be local". How strict are you with them?
Do you use them to deter the wanking masses and bend them for the ones you like, or are they set in stone?
Conversely, if you're contacted by a profile with rules you sit outside of, how do you feel?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes don't block as quickly as I suggest.
I also allow a few non local/non forum ppl on my hotlist (not a profile rule, but one I have behind the scenes) |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Do you use them to deter the wanking masses and bend them for the ones you like, or are they set in stone?
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Whilst many will always state they're cast in stone I think this quote accurately sums up reality for many.
For the right person/people I suspect plenty would bend/break/throw out the window some 'rules' they have in place.
Others will have a degree of flexibility all the time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have hard rules that I will not brake no mater what
Then there are soft rules that can be bent in the right situations
Like one off my hard rules would be I don’t top guys if I did I wouldn’t be here I be make paper else whare ha ha
But a soft rule sort off would be
If traveling hotel meets only
Ie for instance i have meet the person a lot over like a 4 month period and felt like I could trust him them her or what ever to accommodate then we drop the hotels
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best meet I ever had was with a long bearded, married smoker. All things I generally avoid !"
I generally like a dad bod but most of my meets recently have been total opposite of what I normally go for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If rules involved they’ll be respected , if there are certain requirements/requests involved they’ll be carried out, and new things exploring needs communication am for it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My preferences are firm and I've never bent them for anyone.
I'd hope they would deter people but sadly it doesn't seem the case. "
I never bend mine. And I agree it doesn't deter. Some even start with....I know I'm a smoker but... I just delete lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I had to double check if I had rules, I didn't think I did. Yeah, I'm sticking with no NSA. Unless Cumbersnatch suddenly appeared on Fab, it really doesn't do anything for me. So I'd say that one's not going to budge but rare penis owners might change this. Very rare. Unlikely. |
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My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible "
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like rules.
I do find it odd when guys message me when I'm clearly not their type though. Kinda proves my point that guys will meet anyone! "
I wouldn’t meet anyone . Tho I’m very easy going …
I like slim all way to BBW . Like all colours .
It can create a wrong impression . I know ….
I Stil fussy. I have my limits. starting from personality .
I had FFM lover , she was cute n sexy but being rude and nasty to other girls over rejection ,to join for FFM , she got the exit door faster then the entrance .
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By (user no longer on site)
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The rules help to filter but … it’s more about the gut feeling. There are certain nos that we won’t bend. There are others that there’s a bit of grey area going on. |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test."
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social… |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social… "
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
In "
Well I’m already known for starting the kissing at group socials.. will up the ante to licking.. just need to figure out where I am licking… |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
In
Well I’m already known for starting the kissing at group socials.. will up the ante to licking.. just need to figure out where I am licking…"
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible "
Yes that’s what “ preference “ means .
Not like ladies who got offended I texted anyway then I had to say :
- I’m sorry , but it doesn’t say “ only “
I thought it was a preference ….
And yeah , meets with out social , or social with out a good bit of chat … hmmm not seeing it happening again ….
Tho …. The first social can turn with a colourful end … I do like strong instant chemistry…
No rules x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say that I’m fairly strict in that I would very much prefer for the lady to have a pulse…"
That’s a sensible rule.. not sure many without a pulse send messages on fab though.. maybe that’s just the affect you have on them once they’ve received communication from you? |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social… "
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
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"Rules are for the guidance of the wise and the obedience of fools "
I would love to try be ruled by a Dom . And she put me right on the spot .
Would love that … |
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"I would say that I’m fairly strict in that I would very much prefer for the lady to have a pulse…
That’s a sensible rule.. not sure many without a pulse send messages on fab though.. maybe that’s just the affect you have on them once they’ve received communication from you?"
Hmmm….they do always seem to go mysteriously quiet…. |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
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So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted) |
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"I would say that I’m fairly strict in that I would very much prefer for the lady to have a pulse…
That’s a sensible rule.. not sure many without a pulse send messages on fab though.. maybe that’s just the affect you have on them once they’ve received communication from you?
Hmmm….they do always seem to go mysteriously quiet…. "
Apologies for the delay.. just had a funny turn and ended up short of breathe… |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted) "
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely. |
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"I would say that I’m fairly strict in that I would very much prefer for the lady to have a pulse…
That’s a sensible rule.. not sure many without a pulse send messages on fab though.. maybe that’s just the affect you have on them once they’ve received communication from you?
Hmmm….they do always seem to go mysteriously quiet….
Apologies for the delay.. just had a funny turn and ended up short of breathe…"
I clearly have a super power of some description….the ability to bore…I mean, magically render any lady instantly fast asleep.
Hmmm….Avengers here I come! |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely. "
When’s our licking social happening then? |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then? "
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn. |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then?
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn. "
You omitted the Wrigleys Extra Cool Breeze chewing gum beforehand..… I’m out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then?
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn.
You omitted the Wrigleys Extra Cool Breeze chewing gum beforehand..… I’m out! "
Pfft, amateur, sort yourself out.
Breath strips. Minty, fresh and dissolvable.
Swapping gum, what are we, animals?
Be gone vile woman, be gone. |
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then?
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn.
You omitted the Wrigleys Extra Cool Breeze chewing gum beforehand..… I’m out!
Pfft, amateur, sort yourself out.
Breath strips. Minty, fresh and dissolvable.
Swapping gum, what are we, animals?
Be gone vile woman, be gone."
Whatever happened to minty breathe spray…quick squirt before a snog or to hide the fact you’d been smoking from your Mum..
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then?
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn.
You omitted the Wrigleys Extra Cool Breeze chewing gum beforehand..… I’m out!
Pfft, amateur, sort yourself out.
Breath strips. Minty, fresh and dissolvable.
Swapping gum, what are we, animals?
Be gone vile woman, be gone.
Whatever happened to minty breathe spray…quick squirt before a snog or to hide the fact you’d been smoking from your Mum..
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Two words, friendly fire.
Have you any idea what it's like taking an unwanted liquid to the eyes?
You simply cannot imagine the discomfort.
At all.
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then?
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn.
You omitted the Wrigleys Extra Cool Breeze chewing gum beforehand..… I’m out!
Pfft, amateur, sort yourself out.
Breath strips. Minty, fresh and dissolvable.
Swapping gum, what are we, animals?
Be gone vile woman, be gone.
Whatever happened to minty breathe spray…quick squirt before a snog or to hide the fact you’d been smoking from your Mum..
Two words, friendly fire.
Have you any idea what it's like taking an unwanted liquid to the eyes?
You simply cannot imagine the discomfort.
At all.
"
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then?
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn.
You omitted the Wrigleys Extra Cool Breeze chewing gum beforehand..… I’m out!
Pfft, amateur, sort yourself out.
Breath strips. Minty, fresh and dissolvable.
Swapping gum, what are we, animals?
Be gone vile woman, be gone.
Whatever happened to minty breathe spray…quick squirt before a snog or to hide the fact you’d been smoking from your Mum..
Two words, friendly fire.
Have you any idea what it's like taking an unwanted liquid to the eyes?
You simply cannot imagine the discomfort.
At all.
My mouth is too big to miss.. never took a misdirected shot to the eyes…"
Yet... never taken a misdirected shot yet...
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"My only rule is no impromptu meets.. always a social first & I won’t bend that rule..
I do state preferences but they’re not rules per se and are flexible
OK actually on reflection, yeah, that.
Social first for the vibe, egregious filter usage and lick for crazy test.
You can tell if they’re crazy by licking them??will try that at my next social…
Well, if they don't immediately throw their drink on me and slap me, I can only assume they are
It's when they groan and say "harder papi" I get the really confusing boner and know for certain.
Some might call this strategy aggressive, unnecessary, maybe even sticky.
But we just have to know.
So you’re seeking the crazy… as opposed to deterring them? (Noted)
Seeking, I think they're just drawn at this point.
I'm getting better, I think, maybe.
OK I'm not.
But I try!
Barely.
When’s our licking social happening then?
After I've brushed my teeth.
Cause I'm like, super duper polite.
May floss too, crazy stuff right?
Watch and learn lads, watch and learn.
You omitted the Wrigleys Extra Cool Breeze chewing gum beforehand..… I’m out!
Pfft, amateur, sort yourself out.
Breath strips. Minty, fresh and dissolvable.
Swapping gum, what are we, animals?
Be gone vile woman, be gone.
Whatever happened to minty breathe spray…quick squirt before a snog or to hide the fact you’d been smoking from your Mum..
Two words, friendly fire.
Have you any idea what it's like taking an unwanted liquid to the eyes?
You simply cannot imagine the discomfort.
At all.
My mouth is too big to miss.. never took a misdirected shot to the eyes…
Yet... never taken a misdirected shot yet...
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"You have fine tuned motor skills clearly"
Good enough to trim this god awful quote train
And no, I'm about as cack handed and dexterous as a new born giraffe with fetal alcohol syndrome.
But God loves a trier.
Optometrists too.
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