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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I just shake my head and think why did someone this that was a good opener
it’s like would you walk up to someone stranger in a bar
And say here love I want to ram my cock in your ass
Probably not would probably result in a slap around the lugs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
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"Yes I just shake my head and think why did someone this that was a good opener
it’s like would you walk up to someone stranger in a bar
And say here love I want to ram my cock in your ass
Probably not would probably result in a slap around the lugs
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I've always thought this... Why would you open with getting your cock out in the pub and displaying it with the style and finesse of a peacock?? |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
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I really dislike it too.
I ignore, but if they then come back with another similar message or one whining about the fact I haven’t replied, I think fuck it, if seeing my pics is making you like this, then I’ll take that privilege away.
BLOCK.
It does feel like you have to treat some people like small children and just remove them from the situation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
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Not asking them to talk about the weather but a “Hi, I’m … and I liked xyz on your profile. How’s your day so far” yes we’re here for sex but let’s have some manners about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really dislike it too.
I ignore, but if they then come back with another similar message or one whining about the fact I haven’t replied, I think fuck it, if seeing my pics is making you like this, then I’ll take that privilege away.
BLOCK.
It does feel like you have to treat some people like small children and just remove them from the situation "
Don’t get me started on the tantrums over not getting a reply. Straight block. You’re a grown adult, act like one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you send face pics before agreeing to a social op? "
Yes. Face pics and socials are non negotiable for me. Won’t interact further without face pic and won’t engage in sexual activity without a social first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
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Ah yes, the ‘I’ll send you a message about objectifying you because you have your boobs out’ mentality of men. It is genuinely a classic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
Ah yes, the ‘I’ll send you a message about objectifying you because you have your boobs out’ mentality of men. It is genuinely a classic. "
Telling me to sit on your face when I’ve never seen said face and you could look like a bridge troll. No thanks. |
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"anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
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With a name like GeorgiaPeach i bet you get all the 'eaten out' one liners  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Generally just block them.
Had one earlier. Said 'i know you aren't looking for men, but I'd love to fuck you etc etc 'and accompanied by a dick pic.
Straight to block
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Ugh, this irritates the life out of me. “I know you aren’t looking for men” bugger off then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
With a name like GeorgiaPeach i bet you get all the 'eaten out' one liners "
Too many to count at this point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
Ah yes, the ‘I’ll send you a message about objectifying you because you have your boobs out’ mentality of men. It is genuinely a classic.
Telling me to sit on your face when I’ve never seen said face and you could look like a bridge troll. No thanks. "
True that. Would you entertain a face mask if the dudes body is a 10? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
Ah yes, the ‘I’ll send you a message about objectifying you because you have your boobs out’ mentality of men. It is genuinely a classic.
Telling me to sit on your face when I’ve never seen said face and you could look like a bridge troll. No thanks.
True that. Would you entertain a face mask if the dudes body is a 10? "
No |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
Ah yes, the ‘I’ll send you a message about objectifying you because you have your boobs out’ mentality of men. It is genuinely a classic.
Telling me to sit on your face when I’ve never seen said face and you could look like a bridge troll. No thanks. "
What if it was a bridge troll with a penis shaped nose and a very long tongue? 
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like it but I'm not surprised. The site is full of gapping fannies, spunky cocks, naked tits, sex reviews/ sex menus of what sex acts are offered.
They assume the site is primarily about sex so why would they chat about the weather in a first message....
Ah yes, the ‘I’ll send you a message about objectifying you because you have your boobs out’ mentality of men. It is genuinely a classic.
Telling me to sit on your face when I’ve never seen said face and you could look like a bridge troll. No thanks.
What if it was a bridge troll with a penis shaped nose and a very long tongue?
A"
If you wanna get the boys hole, you gotta pay the troll toll. |
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"anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
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Puts me off but that might be due to my neurodivergent brain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I just shake my head and think why did someone this that was a good opener
it’s like would you walk up to someone stranger in a bar
And say here love I want to ram my cock in your ass
Probably not would probably result in a slap around the lugs
I've always thought this... Why would you open with getting your cock out in the pub and displaying it with the style and finesse of a peacock??"
Same here I look at a open message the same was as someone approaching me in a bar / night club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m always polite and try to relate the message to something in the profile. It still fails on most occasions!!
Never sent a dick pic, still no replies. I'm just fugly "
I don't send them anymore either. (SARCASM) |
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I generally ignore, but have occasionally sent sarcastic replies back letting them know that it sounds great and we can get round to it just as soon as I've finished rogering them with the spiky end of the biggest pineapple I can find, and asking when we can meet. Strangely it's them that usually do the blocking after that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I generally ignore, but have occasionally sent sarcastic replies back letting them know that it sounds great and we can get round to it just as soon as I've finished rogering them with the spiky end of the biggest pineapple I can find, and asking when we can meet. Strangely it's them that usually do the blocking after that "
Ahahah, yeah depending on my mood I either immediately block or give a sarcastic reply. But half of them are so dim, they don’t pick up on the sarcasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a couple in my inbox earlier send a completely sexual first message… I blocked then deleted. Don’t understand how they think sending filth will get an instant positive reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a couple in my inbox earlier send a completely sexual first message… I blocked then deleted. Don’t understand how they think sending filth will get an instant positive reply."
If anything it just shrivels me up, gets like the Sahara. It’s never the lookers either, not that it would be any better if it was |
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"anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
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Damn filters, I was going to send you a message of all the PG ways I would romance thee.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never do that always start as if you wanted to be talked to and make sure there ok etc
On the flip side hate the women that think it’s ok to say want a face and or a dick pick with first message ffs if your that shallow to make a judgement from that then your defo not going to be nice to talk to
Just be nice people we all want to be talked to nicely even if you don’t like someone just say no thank you it’s just manners
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a guy myself I find it absolutely disrespectful to open a message such as that how any male thinks that's ok let alone think it will work is beyond me |
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It does strike me as ridiculous. I have to wonder if they go up to strangers in real life and say "I'd like to fuck your slut wife up the arse".
Most of the messages we get that extend past "Hi" are this way.
Most messages we receive go straight in the bin. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It does strike me as ridiculous. I have to wonder if they go up to strangers in real life and say "I'd like to fuck your slut wife up the arse".
Most of the messages we get that extend past "Hi" are this way.
Most messages we receive go straight in the bin. "
It’s one extreme to the other isn’t it. Either incredibly basic or absolute filth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
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What’s the point in that ?
Reminded me the very first time I joined in fabs
Couple years ago
Very first message from a man straight away
I barely opened my profile :
“Any women to share ?”
Fuck in hell , want some pork chops as well ? No ?
Jizz manizz |
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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago
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"anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
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I agree with you,it puts me off too. They get my standard reply that predicted text picks up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike them with a passion, I don't get them often but while I want more than "how's you", going into detail (that they sent to at least 20 other women) really doesn't do it for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 600 word cut and paste erotic story messages don't even have the first line read. Straight to delete. "
I just reply I didn't bother to read any of it because they didn't bother reading my profile. |
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I always send individualised and carefully crafted messages designed to entice, engage and delight. Although since last week I decided to scrap all that and do a load of “GIZZASHAG!” messages instead. |
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Speaking as a single guy, the guys that do it are clearly only able to do it on here i.e keyboard warriors. I guarantee they would never say a majority of the shit i hear that they say to women they would like to have sex with in person! They wouldnt have the bollocks to do so! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very relieved to hear this.(previous comment)
When we see those ridiculous crude type posts,we wonder if they realise everyone knows they're pathetic loners, probably virgins!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anyone else dislike it when a man opens with an overtly sexual message about what he wants to do to you before any conversation has taken place? Or just me? Puts me right off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone actually sent their first message to us with a simple "oi" the other night. The next message was "got any face pics " After telling this so called couple that they should maybe try a different approach, they "he" blocked us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone actually sent their first message to us with a simple "oi" the other night. The next message was "got any face pics " After telling this so called couple that they should maybe try a different approach, they "he" blocked us. "
Time wasters. It takes seconds to attach a picture |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone actually sent their first message to us with a simple "oi" the other night. The next message was "got any face pics " After telling this so called couple that they should maybe try a different approach, they "he" blocked us.
Time wasters. It takes seconds to attach a picture "
When you say "Time wasters"
Who are you meaning?
Us or them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I just shake my head and think why did someone this that was a good opener
it’s like would you walk up to someone stranger in a bar
And say here love I want to ram my cock in your ass
Probably not would probably result in a slap around the lugs
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Ha ha I'm sure that happens at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone actually sent their first message to us with a simple "oi" the other night. The next message was "got any face pics " After telling this so called couple that they should maybe try a different approach, they "he" blocked us. "
It really goes from one extreme to the other. Honestly. No manners, just want to quickly get inside some pussy. Then the excuse is “well this is a sex site” get a grip ya loser |
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