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over a year ago
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
I have a tendency to dive in, look at and like photos then go "oh I should see what their profile says" |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
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If the profile is devoid of narrative (or meaningful narrative) then I will defer to the photographs. But then photos rarely tell me anything insightful on their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't speak for every man but that's fairly reasonable.
Typically the profile pic might garner interest, a few quick glances to see what's occurring, then onto the profile to see what's going on between the ears.
Bing bang bong.
Assuming everything is good, then it's time to move onto the next phase.
Rejection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
It depends, sometimes I will read s profile first other times I'll look at pics first.
My go to is profile to confirm if it's worth messaging but depends on my mood |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't speak for every man but that's fairly reasonable.
Typically the profile pic might garner interest, a few quick glances to see what's occurring, then onto the profile to see what's going on between the ears.
Bing bang bong.
Assuming everything is good, then it's time to move onto the next phase.
Rejection."
I actually laughed out loud  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
- Quick look at photos ,
- fab what U want to fab ,
- read the profile
- send a message if sounds appealing
- go back and enjoy the photos after read her words . And probably fab more , hoping for a positive result ^^
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
Someone finally gets it instead of complaining about men not reading profiles, the picture is the bait. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always kept my blurb short and to the point
No point beating around the bush as it were
I find that no matter how short, not everyone takes note!
Loving this fab life
Missy x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x
Someone finally gets it instead of complaining about men not reading profiles, the picture is the bait."
Oops!
I might have just mentioned the not reading the profile bit!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't speak for every man but that's fairly reasonable.
Typically the profile pic might garner interest, a few quick glances to see what's occurring, then onto the profile to see what's going on between the ears.
Bing bang bong.
Assuming everything is good, then it's time to move onto the next phase.
Rejection.
I actually laughed out loud "
You're welcome, but I mean, I was being deadly serious.
Jesus if it worked, what next?
No ones ever got that far, right? |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x
- Quick look at photos ,
- fab what U want to fab ,
- read the profile
- send a message if sounds appealing
- go back and enjoy the photos after read her words . And probably fab more , hoping for a positive result ^^
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I am goose to this maverick 
But i will fab anyone if i find them attractive. Doesn't mean i want to meet just spreading some love. |
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"I can't speak for every man but that's fairly reasonable.
Typically the profile pic might garner interest, a few quick glances to see what's occurring, then onto the profile to see what's going on between the ears.
Bing bang bong.
Assuming everything is good, then it's time to move onto the next phase.
Rejection.
I actually laughed out loud
You're welcome, but I mean, I was being deadly serious.
Jesus if it worked, what next?
No ones ever got that far, right? "
I couldn't get that far if I tried. No plans to visit Stonehenge and what do you do with a hidden profile...Nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't speak for every man but that's fairly reasonable.
Typically the profile pic might garner interest, a few quick glances to see what's occurring, then onto the profile to see what's going on between the ears.
Bing bang bong.
Assuming everything is good, then it's time to move onto the next phase.
Rejection.
I actually laughed out loud
You're welcome, but I mean, I was being deadly serious.
Jesus if it worked, what next?
No ones ever got that far, right?
I couldn't get that far if I tried. No plans to visit Stonehenge and what do you do with a hidden profile...Nothing."
I do plenty ta  |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
Very interesting. I have to put on a filter because I get too many messages from men.
So....I go by
1. where do you live. The further away from Putney you live the less likely I will ever meet you. so I don't waste time.
2. do I fit your criteria
3. I like all shapes and sizes of....kno....I mean noses. lol!
I don't fab pick or check who fabs me at all. It might be a neurodivergent thing.
I'm convinced men spend ages looking at photos, wanking to photos and creating fantasies of 2D photos in their heads and then....
"oh crap a real woman in 4DHD what so I do.....talk? Nah.. stare at boobs....I'm good at staring at boobs...keep to type......every woman knows a man is a boob starer from the age of 11." |
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"I can't speak for every man but that's fairly reasonable.
Typically the profile pic might garner interest, a few quick glances to see what's occurring, then onto the profile to see what's going on between the ears.
Bing bang bong.
Assuming everything is good, then it's time to move onto the next phase.
Rejection.
I actually laughed out loud
You're welcome, but I mean, I was being deadly serious.
Jesus if it worked, what next?
No ones ever got that far, right?
I couldn't get that far if I tried. No plans to visit Stonehenge and what do you do with a hidden profile...Nothing.
I do plenty ta "
Ok have to take your word for it since I can't see it.  |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
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From the OP first comment. If referring to FAB only ?. In my case if only FAB or if another site. I look at photo’s . If I find attracted . Then check profile to see if “compatible “ . If ok then depending on site . Like / wink or send message |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
I check out the photos..reading a profile from top to bottom the photos come first...
Then the disappointments start
How far away are they ..too far
How old are they ...too young
Then the actual description..OK she's bi ..no partner
Then the big blurb
Must be bare as a babies bum
No beards
Etc
Must mention blue danube in your reply or no answer
Must send face pic ..I'm happy with that...so usually all I can do is fab her pix ..and if I'm lucky send a wink or a nice boobs message...only if I meet all the requirements do I send a let's get together message  |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy xI check out the photos..reading a profile from top to bottom the photos come first...
Then the disappointments start
How far away are they ..too far
How old are they ...too young
Then the actual description..OK she's bi ..no partner
Then the big blurb
Must be bare as a babies bum
No beards
Etc
Must mention blue danube in your reply or no answer
Must send face pic ..I'm happy with that...so usually all I can do is fab her pix ..and if I'm lucky send a wink or a nice boobs message...only if I meet all the requirements do I send a let's get together message "
and I totally forgot about how big my cock has to be or am I too white |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
I would say they’re definitely more visual. I was told I’d never get a meet without pictures on my profile. However I did so clearly they aren’t all visual.
(When I was meeting I didn’t have any pictures on my profile just before someone points out I do have them) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just men couples and woman also
I tested this one time by hiding a keyword in a big wall off text
Just randomly in the middle
And only 5% total that message me used the keyword |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From the OP first comment. If referring to FAB only ?. In my case if only FAB or if another site. I look at photo’s . If I find attracted . Then check profile to see if “compatible “ . If ok then depending on site . Like / wink or send message "
Meaning fab yes |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x
Very interesting. I have to put on a filter because I get too many messages from men.
So....I go by
1. where do you live. The further away from Putney you live the less likely I will ever meet you. so I don't waste time.
2. do I fit your criteria
3. I like all shapes and sizes of....kno....I mean noses. lol!
I don't fab pick or check who fabs me at all. It might be a neurodivergent thing.
I'm convinced men spend ages looking at photos, wanking to photos and creating fantasies of 2D photos in their heads and then....
"oh crap a real woman in 4DHD what so I do.....talk? Nah.. stare at boobs....I'm good at staring at boobs...keep to type......every woman knows a man is a boob starer from the age of 11.""
It is younger than that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The avatar may catch my eye initially. But I’ll look at the profile text and preferences first, to see if I’d be what they’re looking for. If they are, then I’ll check out the pic’s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do check pictures before reading.
But it doesn’t mean that if the pictures are appealing that I will text, especially if the text isn’t appealing. However, if the pictures are not appealing for a number of reasons and not necessarily because I don’t find the woman attractive, but the text pleased my sense, I will text.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Posts - pictures - profile. That's the order I usually go when deciding to look at a profile  I think in general guys are more visual creatures though, yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine are three categories
1. Not read profile - send dick pics, face pics +ask about meeting
2. Read profile +to prove it ask me to explain what SSC, RACK are
3. My target market.. Read profile, understand kink... Send a message that elicits a response |
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I don't search for profiles and only click on people I don't recognise in the forums.
The first thing I look at is age and if they fall outside my preferences I don't look any further.
Otherwise I will always read the bio before looking at the pics and often never look at the pics at all if the bio isn't interesting. |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
i think it depends on the initial pic,, if its as lovely as your pic most guys with browse and fab the pics then read the profile,, stunning figure and bottom by the way,,, fav pic the one with the leaf dress flashing boob,, very artistic,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I'm just a perve, or really a guy because I check the pics first then read the bio then go back to pics and maybe have a wank 
Cherry x"
Me too.. Pervert |
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"Maybe I'm just a perve, or really a guy because I check the pics first then read the bio then go back to pics and maybe have a wank
Cherry x
Me too.. Pervert "
Takes one to know one  *fist bump emoji
Cherry x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I'm just a perve, or really a guy because I check the pics first then read the bio then go back to pics and maybe have a wank
Cherry x
Me too.. Pervert
Takes one to know one *fist bump emoji
Cherry x "
*Picturing them wanking over each other's pics* |
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"Maybe I'm just a perve, or really a guy because I check the pics first then read the bio then go back to pics and maybe have a wank
Cherry x
Me too.. Pervert
Takes one to know one *fist bump emoji
Cherry x
*Picturing them wanking over my cock pics* "
Yes LvM. We do. And maybe we are right now...
Cherry x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I'm just a perve, or really a guy because I check the pics first then read the bio then go back to pics and maybe have a wank
Cherry x
Me too.. Pervert
Takes one to know one *fist bump emoji
Cherry x
*Picturing them wanking over my cock pics*
Yes LvM. We do. And maybe we are right now...
Cherry x"
Had to double check what I'd typed! Pervert  |
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"You assume men read at all.
Profile Not Available
This member has hidden their profile.
See, I read yours. "
Is this true? Has she hidden her profile, then bitching about men not bothering to read profiles? That can't be true! |
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x
Very interesting. I have to put on a filter because I get too many messages from men.
So....I go by
1. where do you live. The further away from Putney you live the less likely I will ever meet you. so I don't waste time.
2. do I fit your criteria
3. I like all shapes and sizes of....kno....I mean noses. lol!
I don't fab pick or check who fabs me at all. It might be a neurodivergent thing.
I'm convinced men spend ages looking at photos, wanking to photos and creating fantasies of 2D photos in their heads and then....
"oh crap a real woman in 4DHD what so I do.....talk? Nah.. stare at boobs....I'm good at staring at boobs...keep to type......every woman knows a man is a boob starer from the age of 11."
It is younger than that "
Lol! I didn't notice the boys staring at boobs until I was about 11. The boy might have started younger but probably hid it more from girls and women. From 11 it was like some sort of free for all!!
At 11, I was happy not to have boobs. Felt sorry for the girls with G cups at 11. Walking around getting eye-r@p£d and verbally sexed when you just want to play with your dolls and watch cartoons. Cringe. They got it from women and older girls too who just assumed that they were promiscuous because they had big boobs. shudder....humans.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You assume men read at all.
Profile Not Available
This member has hidden their profile.
See, I read yours.
Is this true? Has she hidden her profile, then bitching about men not bothering to read profiles? That can't be true! "
Oh but it can be |
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"You assume men read at all. "
Cackle. We have to be fairer than that to men.
I know men read just as I play football on a muddy field outside in the winter.
*down with the gender stereotypes* Now if you said "you assume men read and actually process what they have read!" that might be a more accurate comment.
I work in a supermarket and many more men than women will ask me where something is and it will be right in front of them. and the men don't ask the male colleagues where anything is at all..Lol! *tears* |
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"Mine are three categories
1. Not read profile - send dick pics, face pics +ask about meeting
2. Read profile +to prove it ask me to explain what SSC, RACK are
3. My target market.. Read profile, understand kink... Send a message that elicits a response "
I'm crying... |
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"You assume men read at all.
Profile Not Available
This member has hidden their profile.
See, I read yours.
Is this true? Has she hidden her profile, then bitching about men not bothering to read profiles? That can't be true! "
Cackle. Men do it to. Lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x i think it depends on the initial pic,, if its as lovely as your pic most guys with browse and fab the pics then read the profile,, stunning figure and bottom by the way,,, fav pic the one with the leaf dress flashing boob,, very artistic,, "
Aww thank you |
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Pictures do catch my eye, normally.. then its read the profile time, if age range includes me.
Yes it maybe visual first, but a nice profile is what makes me send a message.
Or a great sense of humour on forum, will pique my attention too |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"In assuming that, generally speaking, men are more visual and will check photos out before reading a profile?
Missy x"
I think everyone regardless of sex will look at a profile photo ten look at the text before deciding if that person was for them or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Op. Probably, if I see someone I think looks nice, I look at them. But if someone is saying something that’s interesting, I’ll look at them too.
So how do women view profiles, because I think women are the same also. That’s why tinder and all those other ‘swipe’ apps lead with the photo and not the bio.
Correct me if I’m wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im more touch than anything thats why i prefer video games to films tv and music i can control whats happening and its same with a woman god forbid she trys to handcuff me |
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