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By *abio OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
Outside of the forums.. you know.. in real life
Do you have “game”? How good is it?
I think I have the best “no game” game in history… it’s shockingly bad .. and on the receiving end unless there is a big flashing neon billboard pointing above your head saying “I’m interested!” I have zero clue!!!
In terms of game I’d compare myself to Switzerland.. completely neutral! Everyone mates ! |
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Absolutely not. I'm always hyper-aware of the things I say so can't help but cringe if I did try to flirt in real life. If others were flirting with me, I'd maybe pick up on it but feel as though I'd change the subject in case I could be wrong and get the wrong idea to avoid awkwardness.
It's a genuine surprise I've had sex at all  |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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"Outside of the forums.. you know.. in real life
Do you have “game”? How good is it?
I think I have the best “no game” game in history… it’s shockingly bad .. and on the receiving end unless there is a big flashing neon billboard pointing above your head saying “I’m interested!” I have zero clue!!!
In terms of game I’d compare myself to Switzerland.. completely neutral! Everyone mates ! "
In RL i just always think people wouldn't be interested so I don't bother trying to play the game, I just go home and play solitaire  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None, never learned it, my first relationship at 17 took me to 40+, I have had to try to learn to flirt and more importantly to recognise it, and I'm utterly shite at it, just full on imposter syndrome, and if anyone is even blatantly obvious I'll just style it out with humour to deflect :/ |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Yes. I think at times I might be giving off signs of being engaged when no intent is there. I'm just a very outgoing and talkative person.
It blossomed as I drifted into my 40's  |
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"Help an oldie out. Is 'game' when you are good at flirting?
Generally how you attract the opposite sex. Could be flirting, good dress sense, smelling good etc."
Oh right, thanks. Does it have a faint whiff of cynicism to it? |
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I don't do games and i'm not into games at all, i have no time at all for people who have this behaviour. I always keep my distance away because i found this type of people the ones they are very smiling and friendly in front of you but they already have stab you on your back. To me are, two faced people two dangerous people .
That's just my opinion . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In RL i just always think people wouldn't be interested so I don't bother trying to play the game, I just go home and play solitaire "
Believe me people would be interested, you're lovely
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I flirt constantly so I’m told  . But I am totally thick & oblivious if anyone flirts back - I just assume everyone is friendly.
Generally the husband has to tell me. He had to spell it out when he was trying to pull me as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah I’ve got zero interest in having game in the real world. Not something I think about as I rarely meet anyone I’m attracted to. "
Also not quite sure I understand your exact meaning. Do you mean flirting with someone or playing a cat and mouse chase game? The latter I’m def not interested in. |
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By *abio OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I just looked at urban dictionary. According to that only men have 'game' so no, I don't have it "
Oh my god hell no… some of the best people I know with game are women
Me… apparently I’m too intimidating in person! Lol |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Help an oldie out. Is 'game' when you are good at flirting?
Generally how you attract the opposite sex. Could be flirting, good dress sense, smelling good etc."
I just be myself it’s not a game. If I like someone I’ll flirt a little and if I get signals back I’ll ask them out. I think about my appearance and make sure I smell good when leaving the house, 99% of the time. |
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