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By *om_38 OP Man
over a year ago
stoke |
Been on here a short time and after making a couple of friends and speaking.. I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies that ain’t nice. With blocking not helping they only make new profiles. No wonder it’s hard to start up conversation when you ladies are bombarded with what appears to be so many idiots.. this is supposed to be a fun site and it gets ruined..
so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them. |
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over a year ago
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While I agree it can be unfortunate, I’ll not apologise for what other people do, that’s up to them. I can only influence what I do and the way I behave and take responsibility and accountability for my own behaviour.
Likewise I hope people judge me on this basis too, be that positively or negatively, and don’t group me in with anyone else. |
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By *om_38 OP Man
over a year ago
stoke |
"While I agree it can be unfortunate, I’ll not apologise for what other people do, that’s up to them. I can only influence what I do and the way I behave and take responsibility and accountability for my own behaviour.
Likewise I hope people judge me on this basis too, be that positively or negatively, and don’t group me in with anyone else. "
I hope to be judged on me too just damn annoying this place can be ruined by people who just don’t deserve to be here |
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Been on here a short time and after making a couple of friends and speaking.. I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies that ain’t nice. With blocking not helping they only make new profiles. No wonder it’s hard to start up conversation when you ladies are bombarded with what appears to be so many idiots.. this is supposed to be a fun site and it gets ruined..
so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them. "
I think a bit of sick come up then... thanks for that.  |
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"Been on here a short time and after making a couple of friends and speaking.. I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies that ain’t nice. With blocking not helping they only make new profiles. No wonder it’s hard to start up conversation when you ladies are bombarded with what appears to be so many idiots.. this is supposed to be a fun site and it gets ruined..
so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them.
I think a bit of sick come up then... thanks for that. "
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Nobody needs to apologise for the actions of anyone else.
It doesn't help, change anything, or make you look any better to your target audience either I'm afraid.
It just comes across as blatant white knighting and a case of 'look at me....I'm not like them'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes. |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes."
But.....
By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.
But.....
By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again. "
Calm down dear it was a joke  |
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"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies..."
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I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.
I expect a level of trust from a "lady". |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.
But.....
By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.
Calm down dear it was a joke "
"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies...
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I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.
I expect a level of trust from a "lady"."
Good point. I would expect a new thread started by a lady, apologising for other ladies sharing their private messages.
Oh and those off site Kik and Telegram groups where they do exactly that |
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"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.
But.....
By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.
Calm down dear it was a joke
"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha "
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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.
But.....
By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.
Calm down dear it was a joke
"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha
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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian."
Ah but is that in Boo years? |
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"While I agree it can be unfortunate, I’ll not apologise for what other people do, that’s up to them. I can only influence what I do and the way I behave and take responsibility and accountability for my own behaviour.
Likewise I hope people judge me on this basis too, be that positively or negatively, and don’t group me in with anyone else.
I hope to be judged on me too just damn annoying this place can be ruined by people who just don’t deserve to be here "
I don’t agree with the sentiment that other people ruin the site, in fact the wallies of this world make the Normal Normans stand out even more  |
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"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies...
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I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.
I expect a level of trust from a "lady".
Good point. I would expect a new thread started by a lady, apologising for other ladies sharing their private messages.
Oh and those off site Kik and Telegram groups where they do exactly that "
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Just a moment - there's "Kik and Telegram groups"?!?!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies...
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I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.
I expect a level of trust from a "lady".
Good point. I would expect a new thread started by a lady, apologising for other ladies sharing their private messages.
Oh and those off site Kik and Telegram groups where they do exactly that
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Just a moment - there's "Kik and Telegram groups"?!?!!! "
Personally I don’t believe it. Fake news. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Why on earth would you feel the need to apologise for the actions of others on here. If you're not sending abuse then why apologise for it. It looks disingenuous and more like look at me I'm one of the good guys.
And not all women are bombarded with messages or abuse I know I'm not. And the very rare occasion I get abuse I block and forget about them even if they come back and do it again they are just wasting their time, because they just end up blocked again straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why on earth would you feel the need to apologise for the actions of others on here. If you're not sending abuse then why apologise for it. It looks disingenuous and more like look at me I'm one of the good guys.
And not all women are bombarded with messages or abuse I know I'm not. And the very rare occasion I get abuse I block and forget about them even if they come back and do it again they are just wasting their time, because they just end up blocked again straight away. "
What she said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why on earth would you feel the need to apologise for the actions of others on here. If you're not sending abuse then why apologise for it. It looks disingenuous and more like look at me I'm one of the good guys.
And not all women are bombarded with messages or abuse I know I'm not. And the very rare occasion I get abuse I block and forget about them even if they come back and do it again they are just wasting their time, because they just end up blocked again straight away. "
Exactly … And what other men do, doesn’t effect how Fab is for you. Nobody ruins it for you |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.
But.....
By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.
Calm down dear it was a joke
"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha
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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian.
Ah but is that in Boo years?"
It's the "Boo" that's keeping me young! Ha ha |
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"Been on here a short time and after making a couple of friends and speaking.. I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies that ain’t nice. With blocking not helping they only make new profiles. No wonder it’s hard to start up conversation when you ladies are bombarded with what appears to be so many idiots.. this is supposed to be a fun site and it gets ruined..
so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them. "
That armour is so white its blinding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies all round
Bob Carolgees all round
Don't Spit !
You've said that before.
More than once 
^She's a repeater.
Sadly, some men aren't "
I put the pete in repete |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"Dont agree with that sentiment op. Youre only responsible for your own actions and words. If dicks wanna behave like dicks then those dicks get no pussy "
this ... nobody ruins it for others they only ruin it for themselves ..
dont be one of them that hides behind others wrong doing that is also a turn off also alot will look at this as white knighting (creeping to women for self advantage) that again is a massive turn off ..
be you follow your path its a hard enough one to follow with out worrying about how others are .. |
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"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.
But.....
By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.
Calm down dear it was a joke
"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha
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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian.
Ah but is that in Boo years?
It's the "Boo ze" that's keeping me young! Ha ha "
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She loves her Booze. ^ |
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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago
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"Been on here a short time and after making a couple of friends and speaking.. I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies that ain’t nice. With blocking not helping they only make new profiles. No wonder it’s hard to start up conversation when you ladies are bombarded with what appears to be so many idiots.. this is supposed to be a fun site and it gets ruined..
so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them. "
Apologise as much as you like, still won't get you a shag though |
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