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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many unread messages do you currently have in your inbox? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1322 x"
Seriously?  |
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0 I don't get many so can easily keep on top of them haha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"0 I don't get many so can easily keep on top of them haha "
Haha same as me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easy to keep on top of them tbh and it's good that way so atm I've no unread ones . |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
london |
"1322 x
Seriously?
Yup x"
Will you ever get round to reading them you think???  |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please) |
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Trying to read maybe 5 in the morning, 5 at lunch.. 5 in an evening... By which time there will be more.
So I tend to scroll and click on usernames i recognise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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7 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 I read mine as I get them and reply to all. its easy for us men , if we're lucky we may get a couple of messages a day, but that's only if she send a message first. I consider myself lucky if I get just one reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None, but it’s not difficult to keep on top of my messages  |
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33. Having just deleted a few received overnight. I have a few chats ongoing and don't always have the time or energy to reply quickly |
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Most are from men though
"straight" men looking to "drain" me
Now I know why makes her cb a bad name on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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14. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 woke up to 9 cleared them all down now back to 4 as I type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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15 at the moment
But will read them today |
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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago
Paisley Scotland |
0 always read and reply, coz thats how i like to be treated xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 I’ve just replied to them all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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462 |
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"462"
Why not just delete them all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"462
Why not just delete them all? "
Because I’ll get through them! I can clear my inbox pretty quickly it’s not unmanageable. Awful profile pics and first lines will help me quickly clear at least half probably more. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Zero. I don't get many so it's easy to deal with them when I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Zero. I don't get many so it's easy to deal with them when I do. "
That zero won’t last now |
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Feel sorry for some of the women that post on here about struggling to find good meets while dieting through, daily, 100s of messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zeeeeeero |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
None. I've just read the 4 that appeared overnight  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had 6 but I'm currently down to 4.
When I notice the ladies have been online a few times, yet my message still goes unanswered, I assume they have no interest so I just delete them, no big deal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None ive just opened all my mail haha |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
alpha centauri |
Currently 11,
I tend to not open messages first thing in the morning, too early for unwanted cock pics and 'hi', 'so how's this site treating you' messages, they'll put me straight back to sleep zzzzzz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1....think I will keep in case I don't ever get another! |
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"None
I like a tidy box"
Don't we all!
Just had a housekeeping session so zero unread at the mo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nil |
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By *..WillowCouple
over a year ago
East Lincs |
None now
Just replied to the 6 we had this morning. |
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0....I’m lucky if I get a message....I think I’ll announce a public holiday when I get 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zilch, I'm like super organised and shit when it comes to reading and deleting the bimonthly reply stating "no ta fuck face". |
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0, if replied to them all. I can get about 3 or 4 a day and I'm even terrible at replying to those straight away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A big fat Zero…..Man on fab who unless messages woman might get one reply in about 20.
It is what it is though.
Get more winks and looks at profiles from men..Maybe it’s the ‘bear’ in me… (Not for me though)  |
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"A big fat Zero…..Man on fab who unless messages woman might get one reply in about 20.
It is what it is though.
Get more winks and looks at profiles from men..Maybe it’s the ‘bear’ in me… (Not for me though) "
1 reply in 20 that’s a good ratio  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A big fat Zero…..Man on fab who unless messages woman might get one reply in about 20.
It is what it is though.
Get more winks and looks at profiles from men..Maybe it’s the ‘bear’ in me… (Not for me though)
1 reply in 20 that’s a good ratio "
That’s a sort of top of my head figure .. Not Sydney Uni research standards |
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A message you say? Never heard of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero, I manage to stay on top of the 100s of messages I get a day well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None a dont get many |
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"A big fat Zero…..Man on fab who unless messages woman might get one reply in about 20.
It is what it is though.
Get more winks and looks at profiles from men..Maybe it’s the ‘bear’ in me… (Not for me though)
1 reply in 20 that’s a good ratio
That’s a sort of top of my head figure .. Not Sydney Uni research standards "
Ahhhh right hahaha did you is it closer to 1/200 that’s average |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A big fat zero  |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
Now and then a supporters message ... that counts, right?! |
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0 I read them all. The unread message notification bugs me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive just culled a load in mine. I figure if they logged on but not bothered to open mine, having made a genuine attempt to strike up a conversation, within a week of me sending it, then they are not worth the effort. The messages are deleted and profile block (for my benefit so I don't write to them again).
As for the others, if they haven't logged in for about 2 weeks after sending it, I delete the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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649 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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41 I can already see they haven't read my profile without even opening them |
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None, but then single males can’t message us |
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Only one as I've been through then last night and the rest this morning, like to keep my box clean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wish I could say 69 but I have 68 |
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Used to be alot more but I use the block button as a filter and the list is huge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wish I could say 69 but I have 68"
You always need 1 more for a 69 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None unread, I keep on top of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On cue … 1 from a fella admiring the chest |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
My ocd tendencies couldn't deal with unread messages. I need to that feeling of closure. |
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"1322 x
Seriously?
Yup x
Will you ever get round to reading them you think??? "
Not all of them x |
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For all you lovely ladies sporting high message counts right now, could you quickly open them all and report back just how many have unsolicited dick pics attached? |
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2. They came through while i was asleep. Will tackle them shortly. |
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"For all you lovely ladies sporting high message counts right now, could you quickly open them all and report back just how many have unsolicited dick pics attached? "
That might take a while x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For all you lovely ladies sporting high message counts right now, could you quickly open them all and report back just how many have unsolicited dick pics attached? "
An educated guess would be 150/480! They won’t all get opened so it’s just an educated guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So of the first 10 with attachments that I opened 7 had dick pics! |
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"So of the first 10 with attachments that I opened 7 had dick pics! "
A full 70% ?!! 
That’s a lot of junk to wade through. A veritable sea of willies in fact
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just the 1
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None now I’ve just bulk deleted them all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None now I’ve just bulk deleted them all "
That's the last time I send you my number.... harrumph |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None now I’ve just bulk deleted them all "
Popular man are we..
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Three |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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12 but I sent them myself to myself to feel alive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None now I’ve just bulk deleted them all
Popular man are we..
Her x"
Nah it was a joke  I don’t think I’ve ever bulked deleted messages |
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None, but as a single guy it's not hard to keep on top of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 all long running ongoing chats i dont often message people out of the blue unless im mid wank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"465"
Not surprised after that video |
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I think you should have prefaced that question with ladies,…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just 9 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just 9"
Message me?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero. I’d love to get a message lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Zero"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3"
1 now. I'm debating on replying. |
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None - finally got through them all |
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By *eeman1Man
over a year ago
liverpool |
Never mind unread how about any at all ?? |
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Right now i have 56 but ive no energy to go through them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8 all of certain people I try to avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. I was supposed to show Mrs NE his pictures for a potential meet and I keep forgetting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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14 and most won’t be responded to as they’ve not my profile…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1322 x
Seriously?
Yup x"
No filters
No response
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 at present, but that's about to be 0 in the next few minutes. #ontopofmyfabmin |
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Zero. Haven't had a message in three weeks! |
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I've already filled my monthly quota of one message so it would be rude to leave it unread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Zero
Filters Steve "
I know, I tried ages ago! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me go and add them up....took ages that.. none |
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"How many unread messages do you currently have in your inbox? "
Zero unread. But there are some good conversations within the read.
Filtering who you want to message really does help everyone!
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1279 now am getting through them gradually x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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[Removed by poster at 15/09/22 16:48:39] |
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One at the moment, saving it for later. I’m
Very selective about who I message, namely those that have the same published likes as me, so not many messages sent at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 |
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0 I tend to keep on top of them. I had 9 this morning though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, I don’t get many "
I’d drop you a message but not the right age aha |
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"1322 x
Seriously?
Yup x"
why keep them and not delete? As soon as I get some piling up and just bulk delete |
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Right now 89, and I’ll be deleting the lot, as there’s no way I’ll get through them, and have zero desire to either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right now 89, and I’ll be deleting the lot, as there’s no way I’ll get through them, and have zero desire to either "
I find it quite easy to get through 100s really quickly! Cock or action shot profile pic - delete
Crude first line - delete
First line is just hi - delete
Gets rid of 2/3 very quickly |
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1322 unread messages. Wowser. That has definitely made my mind up about this site! Unbelievable. You must be getting Blitzed by people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right now 89, and I’ll be deleting the lot, as there’s no way I’ll get through them, and have zero desire to either
I find it quite easy to get through 100s really quickly! Cock or action shot profile pic - delete
Crude first line - delete
First line is just hi - delete
Gets rid of 2/3 very quickly "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just 9"
None now, all read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just 9
Message me? "
Zero now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just 9
Message me?
Zero now "
Can’t message otherwise would be 1 haha
Apparently to young for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero. I have inbox OCD and anything in there upsets me.
Plus my profile is rather "fuck off" |
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"1322 x
Seriously?
Yup x why keep them and not delete? As soon as I get some piling up and just bulk delete "
They don't bother me don't feel the need to tbh?? X |
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"1322 unread messages. Wowser. That has definitely made my mind up about this site! Unbelievable. You must be getting Blitzed by people. "
At first it was pretty daunting! Felt I had to try reply to them all! But not now just open and answer which I like look of from their profile x |
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"Right now 89, and I’ll be deleting the lot, as there’s no way I’ll get through them, and have zero desire to either
I find it quite easy to get through 100s really quickly! Cock or action shot profile pic - delete
Crude first line - delete
First line is just hi - delete
Gets rid of 2/3 very quickly "
skills! |
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Unread messages = 0
We’re very decisive with our inbox since returning.
Most get deleted immediately without reading for all the reasons listed in our profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 but I only have a total of 10 I spent today just deleting them and friends that I will never meet |
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None ,we have men blocked and use filters for ages etc. Miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1322 x"
1323 actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero, barely get any currently never mind any I can leave unread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feel sorry for some of the women that post on here about struggling to find good meets while dieting through, daily, 100s of messages "
Precisely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None as it’s only polite to read what someone has taken the time to message us both. It’s nice to be nice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently 16. Only just unbidden my profile and have requested winks rather than messages. If I had left or a free for all is probably have more. There was about 300 odd I bulk deleted before I hid my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oooh 1 brb...
Sigh! Just another young nymphomaniac begging to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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788
I've made a real effort to keep on top for the last couple of weeks... I've replied to loads!
They'll start to auto delete soon, it'll take it down by half |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently 16. Only just unbidden my profile and have requested winks rather than messages. If I had left or a free for all is probably have more. There was about 300 odd I bulk deleted before I hid my profile. "
That you coyote? |
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80,085
Either that or someone has written boobs at the top of my screen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 it’s a hard job keeping up, but I manage … |
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21 but I have just hidden my profile and removed my photo so I suspect it’ll stay at 21 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
I literally just mass deleted lol |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
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0 . Glad someone started this thread. Reminded me to fit new lamp in message box . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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982 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None.
Either I am of no interest to people, my filters are like Fort Knox or I am a remarkably well organised person at keeping my inbox in order.
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently 16. Only just unbidden my profile and have requested winks rather than messages. If I had left or a free for all is probably have more. There was about 300 odd I bulk deleted before I hid my profile.
That you coyote?"
Sorry to disappoint you. But no |
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None unread and the 5 that I did have have all been replied to |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"2 at present, but that's about to be 0 in the next few minutes. #ontopofmyfabmin"
...'fabmin' like it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"0 it’s a hard job keeping up, but I manage …"
The struggle is real lol |
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4 in mine, over 5000 in our couples profile... Just can't keep up!! |
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"21 but I have just hidden my profile and removed my photo so I suspect it’ll stay at 21"
Apparently this hasn’t helped, crept up to 26 now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"0 it’s a hard job keeping up, but I manage …
The struggle is real lol"
I don’t know why the women complain so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None. I’m not popular lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was zero, as I just literally cleared them all down but just as I started to type this one popped up again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually, by the time I finished it was two!
The end! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One. My site support is due |
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