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When you flirt with someone on the forums
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only flirt with those I would, if you know what I mean. But obviously you take it in the context of the forums. It’s not like you’re down the pub or owt, although you wouldn’t necessarily shag everyone you flirted with in real life would you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only people I’m joking with are men and couples because I don’t meet any of those.
If I flirt I am fairly serious even though I know nothing will happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To those that are just playing - do you ever worry about the implications of someone taking you more seriously than you intended? "
They don’t care about our feelings lmao. It’s fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To those that are just playing - do you ever worry about the implications of someone taking you more seriously than you intended? "
no because i try use location as a buffer i also express the tiny tiny odds of anything happening from it as life is too busy awkward and expensive to have fun anymore i would only book time for the very very very very very few and they know who they would be
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"To those that are just playing - do you ever worry about the implications of someone taking you more seriously than you intended? "
I would only do that with guys who know I have no sexual interest in them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't flirt because that's waaaay beyond my skill set. I will, however, hold up a sign occasionally saying "I REALLY FANCY YOU!".
I'd be a bit put out if someone I fancied was only flirting with me to pass the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To those that are just playing - do you ever worry about the implications of someone taking you more seriously than you intended? "
I only flirt with women and our profile says we’re both straight and I (Mr) don’t touch anyone other than Mrs NE, so assuming women read profiles it shouldn’t be a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will admit I don't usually mean it... I only flirt back if someone flirts with me first, to be polite...
If I do like someone from the forums though I'll usually DM them about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will admit I don't usually mean it... I only flirt back if someone flirts with me first, to be polite...
If I do like someone from the forums though I'll usually DM them about it "
I'm guilty of this. I just jump straight on in there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only people I’m joking with are men and couples because I don’t meet any of those.
If I flirt I am fairly serious even though I know nothing will happen.
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The thing is, I always forget you’re a couples account   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I will admit I don't usually mean it... I only flirt back if someone flirts with me first, to be polite...
If I do like someone from the forums though I'll usually DM them about it
I'm guilty of this. I just jump straight on in there "
And they said women don't message first... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will admit I don't usually mean it... I only flirt back if someone flirts with me first, to be polite...
If I do like someone from the forums though I'll usually DM them about it
I'm guilty of this. I just jump straight on in there
And they said women don't message first... "
I'm a modern day woman
If I want something I'm gonna get it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t really flirt on the forums. I tend to slide into their DMs if they’re tickling my pickle "
Oh gosh if only I could purchase that “off putting personality “ from you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will admit I don't usually mean it... I only flirt back if someone flirts with me first, to be polite...
If I do like someone from the forums though I'll usually DM them about it
I'm guilty of this. I just jump straight on in there
And they said women don't message first...
I'm a modern day woman
If I want something I'm gonna get it "
That is very hot to read |
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In the forums its banter,private messages for anything more.
I never pick up on signs of people flirting with me.
I'm crap at messaging also.
I do try when I want things to go further but only if I'm get something back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will admit I don't usually mean it... I only flirt back if someone flirts with me first, to be polite...
If I do like someone from the forums though I'll usually DM them about it
I'm guilty of this. I just jump straight on in there
And they said women don't message first...
I'm a modern day woman
If I want something I'm gonna get it
That is very hot to read "
I'm even worse in real life |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No. Generally if I'm really interested in someone, not just messing around with friends on the fora, I won't flirt with them openly. I've always thought I wasn't that flirty but yeah. Flirt with friends only. I don't worry they'd get the wrong impression, bar my stalker falafel. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. Generally if I'm really interested in someone, not just messing around with friends on the fora, I won't flirt with them openly. I've always thought I wasn't that flirty but yeah. Flirt with friends only. I don't worry they'd get the wrong impression, bar my stalker falafel. "
Ffs now I'm imagining a falafel slyly following you down the street |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Generally if I'm really interested in someone, not just messing around with friends on the fora, I won't flirt with them openly. I've always thought I wasn't that flirty but yeah. Flirt with friends only. I don't worry they'd get the wrong impression, bar my stalker falafel.
Ffs now I'm imagining a falafel slyly following you down the street "
She sees me rolling… |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"No. Generally if I'm really interested in someone, not just messing around with friends on the fora, I won't flirt with them openly. I've always thought I wasn't that flirty but yeah. Flirt with friends only. I don't worry they'd get the wrong impression, bar my stalker falafel.
Ffs now I'm imagining a falafel slyly following you down the street "
That's exactly what it's like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will admit I don't usually mean it... I only flirt back if someone flirts with me first, to be polite...
If I do like someone from the forums though I'll usually DM them about it
I'm guilty of this. I just jump straight on in there
And they said women don't message first...
I'm a modern day woman
If I want something I'm gonna get it
That is very hot to read
I'm even worse in real life "
You sound like fun |
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"The only people I’m joking with are men and couples because I don’t meet any of those.
If I flirt I am fairly serious even though I know nothing will happen.
The thing is, I always forget you’re a couples account "
Mr KC does exist. People on here have met him and everything |
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I mostly use the forums to have fun and make myself laugh. Flirting might happen if it amuses me.
If I genuinely want to rip a mans clothes off and bang him into a happy oblivion I will eventually let him know via a private message  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I mostly use the forums to have fun and make myself laugh. Flirting might happen if it amuses me.
If I genuinely want to rip a mans clothes off and bang him into a happy oblivion I will eventually let him know via a private message "
Still waiting for my message……. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume a lifelong commitment from anyone that does those eyelash emojis at me
Whoops
I need your dob for the mortgage application btw"
I’m nomadic I don’t do permanent residency lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never expect a forum flirt to mean much unless I got a private message on the back of it  "
I love a good flirt, its great fun.
It depends what sets it off really - sometimes I mean it, sometimes we both know its banter, anything that needs explanation can usually be sorted out in PM's. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The only people I’m joking with are men and couples because I don’t meet any of those.
If I flirt I am fairly serious even though I know nothing will happen.
The thing is, I always forget you’re a couples account
Mr KC does exist. People on here have met him and everything "
Is he from out of town? |
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"The only people I’m joking with are men and couples because I don’t meet any of those.
If I flirt I am fairly serious even though I know nothing will happen.
The thing is, I always forget you’re a couples account
Mr KC does exist. People on here have met him and everything
Is he from out of town? "
No, he's upstairs in bed right now, here in this house |
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"To those that are just playing - do you ever worry about the implications of someone taking you more seriously than you intended? "
This is why I don't... I don't want a msg in my inbox then have to say I'm not interested. I mean, I don't even know what half of the people in the forums actually look like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I flirt I mean it.
Though I never expect anything from it
You’re not? 
I should never say never should I "
You shouldn’t! You don’t want to miss out on the magic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely flirt as I feel clunky, obvious and awkward doing so. On the rare occasion I do it isn't with the expectation of anything happening. I'm part of a couple and who we/I meet depends more on "our" wants than just mine. That said, if I've flirted with you and the stars align such that we're in the same county plus her ladyship is interested in joining, or even just hearing about it, then yes, I would like to do more. You lucky, lucky woman you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't. Been on the receiving end of some nasty messages when I used too (even if it was just playing) Just not worth the hassle x"
Seriously? Some people really are GGGRRRRRRR |
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"I don't. Been on the receiving end of some nasty messages when I used too (even if it was just playing) Just not worth the hassle x
Seriously? Some people really are GGGRRRRRRR "
One of the reasons I don't use the site or forums so much these days x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't. Been on the receiving end of some nasty messages when I used too (even if it was just playing) Just not worth the hassle x
Seriously? Some people really are GGGRRRRRRR
One of the reasons I don't use the site or forums so much these days x"
That's a real shame. It's unfortunate that there are so many idiots on here. Ruins it for the genuine ones |
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"I don't. Been on the receiving end of some nasty messages when I used too (even if it was just playing) Just not worth the hassle x
Seriously? Some people really are GGGRRRRRRR
One of the reasons I don't use the site or forums so much these days x
That's a real shame. It's unfortunate that there are so many idiots on here. Ruins it for the genuine ones"
Very true x |
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If/When I flirt it's mostly for playing along with an ever so subtle undertone of seriousness.
If someone takes me seriously, I don't consider it an implication, instead I'll interpret it as a natural progression to 'something...or nothing'. |
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