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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Would you open it? Remember, once you know /see something you cannot unsee /unknown it

It could be any aspect of life / home /work

.. Would you rather live blissfully unaware forever (maybe with a needling sensation at the edges) .... or know the truth which leads to blowing up everything you thought was real

Have you done it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Open...all day long

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By *lynJMan  over a year ago

Morden

As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom."

I don't think hope is included in the package

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

After my husband died I chose not to open his laptop or phone in case there was anything which would upset me. I don't regret my decision.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"After my husband died I chose not to open his laptop or phone in case there was anything which would upset me. I don't regret my decision. "

I think that’s a wise move..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"After my husband died I chose not to open his laptop or phone in case there was anything which would upset me. I don't regret my decision. "

I think that was a good and positive decision

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package "

A message of inspiration from your friends at Yoplait. Fruit on the bottom, hope on top!

Any excuse to slip a bit of Mitch in.

Ignorance is bliss sometimes, and our impressions of people can be based on the filtered best parts of them, avoiding all the unpleasantness.

When faced with the cold hard reality, that can be trickier, requiring that deeper connection to bridge the inevitable frailties of character.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Open.

I am too much of a control freak to not know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am a rebel who like to live on the edge off life so would open it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package

A message of inspiration from your friends at Yoplait. Fruit on the bottom, hope on top!

Any excuse to slip a bit of Mitch in.

Ignorance is bliss sometimes, and our impressions of people can be based on the filtered best parts of them, avoiding all the unpleasantness.

When faced with the cold hard reality, that can be trickier, requiring that deeper connection to bridge the inevitable frailties of character.

"

Wise words!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Open.

I am too much of a control freak to not know."

Me too!

What if you thought it was open, but it had a false bottom?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I open it can I change the outcome of the things I might see or are those the cards laid out

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I am a rebel who like to live on the edge off life so would open it "

I can see that! I think you would just take it in your stride

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If I open it can I change the outcome of the things I might see or are those the cards laid out "

Oooo that is a philosophical Q! I guess you can influence the outcome, but it might not be what you wanted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have opened that box, got the scars to prove it..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ignorence is bliss

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I have opened that box, got the scars to prove it.."

Do you wish you hadn't opened it on reflection? Do you think opening it improved your life /outlook /wellbeing over time??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Open

All day long

I'd know the whole of it and could deal or try to at least

Imaginings and uncertainties would be worse for myself personally

Bring it on

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ignorence is bliss"

I think for some people this is definitely a preferred option..

But what if that ignorance has a whisper every now and then..could you sweep it under the carpet and ignore it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Open

All day long

I'd know the whole of it and could deal or try to at least

Imaginings and uncertainties would be worse for myself personally

Bring it on "

What if the imagined things turned out to be nothing at all.. But in establishing, that you damaged whatever the thing was and it was destroyed as part of the process?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd definitely love a look in Pandora's box

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a rebel who like to live on the edge off life so would open it

I can see that! I think you would just take it in your stride "

I think so as well x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd definitely love a look in Pandora's box "

what if you don't like what you see?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I am a rebel who like to live on the edge off life so would open it

I can see that! I think you would just take it in your stride

I think so as well x"

I need you to be my life coach

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Open! X

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know

"

Oh come on surely you know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd definitely love a look in Pandora's box

what if you don't like what you see?! "

Make my excuses and leave through the bathroom window

But seriously, I don't think I could live with the burden of looking inside and overthinking would happen so I would leave things be

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know "

Oh I know. Terrible film!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know

Oh I know. Terrible film!"

One of my favourites

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know

Oh I know. Terrible film!

One of my favourites "

Says more about you than anything. Rhys Ifans is pretty good in it though, he almost makes it worth watching

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I open it can I change the outcome of the things I might see or are those the cards laid out

Oooo that is a philosophical Q! I guess you can influence the outcome, but it might not be what you wanted "

It’s getting opened then

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know

Oh I know. Terrible film!

One of my favourites

Says more about you than anything. Rhys Ifans is pretty good in it though, he almost makes it worth watching"

My apologies for always being wrong

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know

Oh I know. Terrible film!

One of my favourites

Says more about you than anything. Rhys Ifans is pretty good in it though, he almost makes it worth watching

My apologies for always being wrong "

You aren't wrong grumpy, I was just pulling your leg

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I open it can I change the outcome of the things I might see or are those the cards laid out

Oooo that is a philosophical Q! I guess you can influence the outcome, but it might not be what you wanted

It’s getting opened then "

That would be even worse! You'd alter your normal decisions and it doesn't end up like you wanted and you wonder if it could've been better had you left it alone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have opened that box, got the scars to prove it..

Do you wish you hadn't opened it on reflection? Do you think opening it improved your life /outlook /wellbeing over time?? "

No, I’m a rather know and deal with it kind of guy than he left wondering for the rest of my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Open! X"

I think it's the only way

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I knew a girl called Pandora once.

Never did get to see her box though

#if you know

Oh come on surely you know "

He knows

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd definitely love a look in Pandora's box

what if you don't like what you see?!

Make my excuses and leave through the bathroom window

But seriously, I don't think I could live with the burden of looking inside and overthinking would happen so I would leave things be "

Thats true. Once you know it is impossible to return to life as it once was

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If I open it can I change the outcome of the things I might see or are those the cards laid out

Oooo that is a philosophical Q! I guess you can influence the outcome, but it might not be what you wanted

It’s getting opened then

That would be even worse! You'd alter your normal decisions and it doesn't end up like you wanted and you wonder if it could've been better had you left it alone "

But once its opened you have to start making different decisions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Open

All day long

I'd know the whole of it and could deal or try to at least

Imaginings and uncertainties would be worse for myself personally

Bring it on

What if the imagined things turned out to be nothing at all.. But in establishing, that you damaged whatever the thing was and it was destroyed as part of the process? "

Do any of your 'what if's have a positive outcome lol

That's just life. No certainties, no guarantees. Making decisions based on what's available, managing the risk, planning for contingencies and hoping it'll turn out for the best.

Owning it all

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By *ickshawedCouple  over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'd definitely love a look in Pandora's box "

How did you find out my name was Pandora?!

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By *lynJMan  over a year ago

Morden


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package "

Hope was the last thing left in Pandora's box.

We all need hope.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd definitely love a look in Pandora's box

How did you find out my name was Pandora?! "

You whispered it to me that time we were round the back of that Tesco's

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I open it can I change the outcome of the things I might see or are those the cards laid out

Oooo that is a philosophical Q! I guess you can influence the outcome, but it might not be what you wanted

It’s getting opened then

That would be even worse! You'd alter your normal decisions and it doesn't end up like you wanted and you wonder if it could've been better had you left it alone

But once its opened you have to start making different decisions "

Why do I have to make different decisions I might like what’s in the box

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"

We all need hope. "

Or Trust in Truss

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By *lynJMan  over a year ago

Morden


"

We all need hope.

Or Trust in Truss"

Not the same thing at all.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package

A message of inspiration from your friends at Yoplait. Fruit on the bottom, hope on top!

Any excuse to slip a bit of Mitch in.

Ignorance is bliss sometimes, and our impressions of people can be based on the filtered best parts of them, avoiding all the unpleasantness.

When faced with the cold hard reality, that can be trickier, requiring that deeper connection to bridge the inevitable frailties of character.

"

Yes very much this Falafel.

Hope is an essential part of Pandora's box anyway. I'd like to think I wouldn't open it but I have such curiosity about the world I'd probably give in. Maybe not actually. I respect people a lot and if they want to tell me something, I want that to be their choice. Freewill. Not take the decision to know from them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Open

All day long

I'd know the whole of it and could deal or try to at least

Imaginings and uncertainties would be worse for myself personally

Bring it on

What if the imagined things turned out to be nothing at all.. But in establishing, that you damaged whatever the thing was and it was destroyed as part of the process?

Do any of your 'what if's have a positive outcome lol

That's just life. No certainties, no guarantees. Making decisions based on what's available, managing the risk, planning for contingencies and hoping it'll turn out for the best.

Owning it all "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package

Hope was the last thing left in Pandora's box.

We all need hope. "

Indeed we do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If I open it can I change the outcome of the things I might see or are those the cards laid out

Oooo that is a philosophical Q! I guess you can influence the outcome, but it might not be what you wanted

It’s getting opened then

That would be even worse! You'd alter your normal decisions and it doesn't end up like you wanted and you wonder if it could've been better had you left it alone

But once its opened you have to start making different decisions

Why do I have to make different decisions I might like what’s in the box "

you are assuming it is something good.. Pandoras box traditionally hasn't been such a happy box

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

We all need hope.

Or Trust in Truss"

Oh christ

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I am a rebel who like to live on the edge off life so would open it "

Right behind you NH

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package

A message of inspiration from your friends at Yoplait. Fruit on the bottom, hope on top!

Any excuse to slip a bit of Mitch in.

Ignorance is bliss sometimes, and our impressions of people can be based on the filtered best parts of them, avoiding all the unpleasantness.

When faced with the cold hard reality, that can be trickier, requiring that deeper connection to bridge the inevitable frailties of character.

Yes very much this Falafel.

Hope is an essential part of Pandora's box anyway. I'd like to think I wouldn't open it but I have such curiosity about the world I'd probably give in. Maybe not actually. I respect people a lot and if they want to tell me something, I want that to be their choice. Freewill. Not take the decision to know from them."

I agree. Well on the assumption that what you at provided with is truthful and trustworthy to begin with.. Trust.. The foundation key stone

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By *onyneedsbjMan  over a year ago

STEVENAGE

I opened it once. Went through my ex wife's texts

I moved out the next day.

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby

I wouldn't open , to me it would spoil the all meaning of adventure and enigma in life

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a rebel who like to live on the edge off life so would open it

I can see that! I think you would just take it in your stride

I think so as well x

I need you to be my life coach "

Anytime wonderful x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I opened it once. Went through my ex wife's texts

I moved out the next day."

Oops!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wouldn't open , to me it would spoil the all meaning of adventure and enigma in life "

I like that outlook

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I am a rebel who like to live on the edge off life so would open it

I can see that! I think you would just take it in your stride

I think so as well x

I need you to be my life coach

Anytime wonderful x"

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby


"I wouldn't open , to me it would spoil the all meaning of adventure and enigma in life

I like that outlook "

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box."

Ummmm... Sorry to be pedantic but don't we want hope to be let out as well because in the original story, the silly bitch closed it after letting all the bad things out, leaving hope in there

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

Open it? I'd probably climb inside.

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If it would cause me to worry with zero control over any aspect, then no blissfully unaware is for me.

If I could fix it then yes jack that box open

I've spent time In a constant state of anxiety and it's fucking horrible

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By *helby_335Couple  over a year ago

Aberaeron

I'd be worried about finding Schrodinger's pussy inside the box

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm far too nosey so, yeah.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Open.

I am too much of a control freak to not know.

Me too!

What if you thought it was open, but it had a false bottom? "

Wouldn’t happen.

I’s have inspected the box prior to opening, and once opened would then be rooting around in it to try and “understand” it and make sure I hadn’t missed anything.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package

A message of inspiration from your friends at Yoplait. Fruit on the bottom, hope on top!

Any excuse to slip a bit of Mitch in.

Ignorance is bliss sometimes, and our impressions of people can be based on the filtered best parts of them, avoiding all the unpleasantness.

When faced with the cold hard reality, that can be trickier, requiring that deeper connection to bridge the inevitable frailties of character.

Yes very much this Falafel.

Hope is an essential part of Pandora's box anyway. I'd like to think I wouldn't open it but I have such curiosity about the world I'd probably give in. Maybe not actually. I respect people a lot and if they want to tell me something, I want that to be their choice. Freewill. Not take the decision to know from them.

I agree. Well on the assumption that what you at provided with is truthful and trustworthy to begin with.. Trust.. The foundation key stone "

Trust is. I trust people. Like to have faith and hope. It's a nice assumption to make isn't it? Have optimism for people.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

Ummmm... Sorry to be pedantic but don't we want hope to be let out as well because in the original story, the silly bitch closed it after letting all the bad things out, leaving hope in there "

One of the ways that the myth is interpreted, is that if hope was let out of the box along with all the evils, there be nowhere for hope to reside for humans

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

Ummmm... Sorry to be pedantic but don't we want hope to be let out as well because in the original story, the silly bitch closed it after letting all the bad things out, leaving hope in there

One of the ways that the myth is interpreted, is that if hope was let out of the box along with all the evils, there be nowhere for hope to reside for humans "

Ahhh that's interesting, I never read about that interpretation as I always thought the box was meant to keep everything in and as a result of hope still being locked in, it's the reason for the despair of humanity

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS  over a year ago

London


"Would you open it? Remember, once you know /see something you cannot unsee /unknown it

It could be any aspect of life / home /work

.. Would you rather live blissfully unaware forever (maybe with a needling sensation at the edges) .... or know the truth which leads to blowing up everything you thought was real

Have you done it? "

Always open and yes I have done it.

I hate the idea of living in a comfortable lie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would you open it? Remember, once you know /see something you cannot unsee /unknown it

It could be any aspect of life / home /work

.. Would you rather live blissfully unaware forever (maybe with a needling sensation at the edges) .... or know the truth which leads to blowing up everything you thought was real

Have you done it?

Always open and yes I have done it.

I hate the idea of living in a comfortable lie"

A comfortable lie....

I like it, definitely stealing that

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

Ummmm... Sorry to be pedantic but don't we want hope to be let out as well because in the original story, the silly bitch closed it after letting all the bad things out, leaving hope in there

One of the ways that the myth is interpreted, is that if hope was let out of the box along with all the evils, there be nowhere for hope to reside for humans

Ahhh that's interesting, I never read about that interpretation as I always thought the box was meant to keep everything in and as a result of hope still being locked in, it's the reason for the despair of humanity "

Maybe I'm a bit more optimistic and hopeful

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’d say no! Leave the lid firmly closed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’d say no! Leave the lid firmly closed

"

I just can't. I'm going in.....

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By *gent CoulsonMan  over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I was blinded by how I thought someone was, turns out I was completely fooled, so for me I would open the box and never get fooled again

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box."

Omg Frida!! I wasn't going that deep

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

Ummmm... Sorry to be pedantic but don't we want hope to be let out as well because in the original story, the silly bitch closed it after letting all the bad things out, leaving hope in there "

did you read Mythos?? You might enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Open it? I'd probably climb inside."

What and close it shut after you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who’s box are we trying to get into?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If it would cause me to worry with zero control over any aspect, then no blissfully unaware is for me.

If I could fix it then yes jack that box open

I've spent time In a constant state of anxiety and it's fucking horrible "

That is the paradox isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd be worried about finding Schrodinger's pussy inside the box"

Well I'd be quite happy if that was what I found!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm far too nosey so, yeah. "

Like a cat, using up its nine lives!

What would you do if it wasn't a good experience and changed your life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Open.

I am too much of a control freak to not know.

Me too!

What if you thought it was open, but it had a false bottom?

Wouldn’t happen.

I’s have inspected the box prior to opening, and once opened would then be rooting around in it to try and “understand” it and make sure I hadn’t missed anything."

I think that is maybe what i am doing.. Shaking it empty

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

I don't think hope is included in the package

A message of inspiration from your friends at Yoplait. Fruit on the bottom, hope on top!

Any excuse to slip a bit of Mitch in.

Ignorance is bliss sometimes, and our impressions of people can be based on the filtered best parts of them, avoiding all the unpleasantness.

When faced with the cold hard reality, that can be trickier, requiring that deeper connection to bridge the inevitable frailties of character.

Yes very much this Falafel.

Hope is an essential part of Pandora's box anyway. I'd like to think I wouldn't open it but I have such curiosity about the world I'd probably give in. Maybe not actually. I respect people a lot and if they want to tell me something, I want that to be their choice. Freewill. Not take the decision to know from them.

I agree. Well on the assumption that what you at provided with is truthful and trustworthy to begin with.. Trust.. The foundation key stone

Trust is. I trust people. Like to have faith and hope. It's a nice assumption to make isn't it? Have optimism for people."

I always have optimistim, even when let down x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Would you open it? Remember, once you know /see something you cannot unsee /unknown it

It could be any aspect of life / home /work

.. Would you rather live blissfully unaware forever (maybe with a needling sensation at the edges) .... or know the truth which leads to blowing up everything you thought was real

Have you done it?

Always open and yes I have done it.

I hate the idea of living in a comfortable lie"

That is a great phrase.. A comfortable lie. I wonder how many of us are currently doing just that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I’d say no! Leave the lid firmly closed

"

, with some duct tape, just in case?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I was blinded by how I thought someone was, turns out I was completely fooled, so for me I would open the box and never get fooled again "

Its truly horrible to discover you are a fool x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into? "

Choose one at random

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into? "

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!.. "

I double dare you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you "

I think I’d always rather know what’s inside

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ignorence is bliss

I think for some people this is definitely a preferred option..

But what if that ignorance has a whisper every now and then..could you sweep it under the carpet and ignore it? "

depends who it sounds like

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you

I think I’d always rather know what’s inside"

I think it is the best way long term.. But often causes pain that must be endured along the way

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

Omg Frida!! I wasn't going that deep "

Sorry Midnight

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

Omg Frida!! I wasn't going that deep

Sorry Midnight "

And i can't remember now if we had hope or not

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Think Pandora has already opened it, first Covid, war in Ukraine, cost of living crisis. There blinking well better be hope left in there after she opened the box.

Omg Frida!! I wasn't going that deep

Sorry Midnight

And i can't remember now if we had hope or not "

I reckon we do, so all good

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom."

Hope, in the myth, is both a blessing and a curse. Think not just optimism, but also clinging on in vain.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS  over a year ago

London


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

Hope, in the myth, is both a blessing and a curse. Think not just optimism, but also clinging on in vain."

Hope can jog on, give me an actionable plan any day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

Hope, in the myth, is both a blessing and a curse. Think not just optimism, but also clinging on in vain."

Omg just take me now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you "

Hold my hand, we can dive in together..

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As long as there's still hope at the bottom.

Hope, in the myth, is both a blessing and a curse. Think not just optimism, but also clinging on in vain.

Omg just take me now "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you

Hold my hand, we can dive in together.. "

We might get sucked in forever

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you

Hold my hand, we can dive in together..

We might get sucked in forever "

You say that like it's a bad thing?..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you

Hold my hand, we can dive in together..

We might get sucked in forever

You say that like it's a bad thing?.. "

Who is doing the sucking?

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By *ugarbonkCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire

Open as I'd rather know the whole truth. How can you navigate life if you don't know where you are truly starting from?

Yes I've been there, I've seen what I believe is my truth and it hurt in the past but I don't regret any of my life experiences because they have made me who I am and I quite like me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you

Hold my hand, we can dive in together..

We might get sucked in forever

You say that like it's a bad thing?..

Who is doing the sucking? "

All options can be explored..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Open as I'd rather know the whole truth. How can you navigate life if you don't know where you are truly starting from?

Yes I've been there, I've seen what I believe is my truth and it hurt in the past but I don't regret any of my life experiences because they have made me who I am and I quite like me."

I love this (i also love your profile +pics )

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you

Hold my hand, we can dive in together..

We might get sucked in forever

You say that like it's a bad thing?..

Who is doing the sucking?

All options can be explored.."

I'll bring Henry!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

Pretty sure it didn't work out well for Pandora when she opened the box.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Pretty sure it didn't work out well for Pandora when she opened the box. "

It didn't work out for me either

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"Pretty sure it didn't work out well for Pandora when she opened the box.

It didn't work out for me either "

Well, that's a shame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Pretty sure it didn't work out well for Pandora when she opened the box.

It didn't work out for me either

Well, that's a shame."

Its the risk you take x

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"Pretty sure it didn't work out well for Pandora when she opened the box.

It didn't work out for me either

Well, that's a shame.

Its the risk you take x"

'Tis indeed, I think there's a lesson to be learned from the story of Pandoras Box

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't be able to help myself...I'd have to open it.

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito

Already did and found myself here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Pretty sure it didn't work out well for Pandora when she opened the box.

It didn't work out for me either

Well, that's a shame.

Its the risk you take x

'Tis indeed, I think there's a lesson to be learned from the story of Pandoras Box "

Duct tape the fucker up

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wouldn't be able to help myself...I'd have to open it. "

I think most people would

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Already did and found myself here "

Oh that's interesting! Lucky for the rest of us x

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"Already did and found myself here "

That was fab Dora's box

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely keep closed. Harsh truths find us soon enough, no need to seek them out. Blissful illusions have a lot going for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Already did and found myself here

That was fab Dora's box "

Did you exolor-a

I swear that sounded better in my head

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Definitely keep closed. Harsh truths find us soon enough, no need to seek them out. Blissful illusions have a lot going for them. "

Ahh where were you with your sage advice a week ago

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By *ugarbonkCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Open as I'd rather know the whole truth. How can you navigate life if you don't know where you are truly starting from?

Yes I've been there, I've seen what I believe is my truth and it hurt in the past but I don't regret any of my life experiences because they have made me who I am and I quite like me.

I love this (i also love your profile +pics ) "

Why thank you your profile isn't too shabby either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Open for me, if I see something there that can't be unseen, there is always beer to help me forget lol

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I can distinctly remember the time I sat and seriously considered whether I should lift the lid... I did, and oh boy, was it so much more than I ever could have imagined!

That lid is never going back on!

C

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've wished I hadn't opened the lid many times.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s box are we trying to get into?

Some woman called Pandora. Apparently it might be the last thing you ever do!..

I double dare you

Hold my hand, we can dive in together..

We might get sucked in forever

You say that like it's a bad thing?..

Who is doing the sucking?

All options can be explored..

I'll bring Henry! "

Will that count as a threesome?

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By *ryan...Man  over a year ago

1950's Original

..what if you opened the box and found Schodingers cat...both dead and alive at the same time

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By *lynJMan  over a year ago

Morden


"..what if you opened the box and found Schodingers cat...both dead and alive at the same time "

But you wouldn't see it dead and alive. The act of opening the box would collapse the multiple states to a single state.

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By *ryan...Man  over a year ago

1950's Original


"..what if you opened the box and found Schodingers cat...both dead and alive at the same time

But you wouldn't see it dead and alive. The act of opening the box would collapse the multiple states to a single state."

.

.too late.. I've just bought some cat food

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By *lynJMan  over a year ago

Morden


"..what if you opened the box and found Schodingers cat...both dead and alive at the same time

But you wouldn't see it dead and alive. The act of opening the box would collapse the multiple states to a single state..

.too late.. I've just bought some cat food "

There's a 50/50 chance you'll need it.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Open.

I am too much of a control freak to not know.

Me too!

What if you thought it was open, but it had a false bottom?

Wouldn’t happen.

I’s have inspected the box prior to opening, and once opened would then be rooting around in it to try and “understand” it and make sure I hadn’t missed anything.

I think that is maybe what i am doing.. Shaking it empty "

At least you then “know” where you are.

Some times the only way we progress is to tear everything down and start again.

I don’t want any surprises from my “empty” box.

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By *ryan...Man  over a year ago

1950's Original

Pandora's box was originally Pandora's jar....mistranslated to a box

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