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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?
Gives me the ick 
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I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you
I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis
Shall we commence on the morrow?
Certainly.
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wuu2 u wnt fun now?
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"I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you
I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis
Shall we commence on the morrow?
Certainly.
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wuu2 u wnt fun now?
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 Strewth! That’s rendered me throbbing that has  |
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"I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you
I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis
Shall we commence on the morrow?
Certainly.
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Is it bad this would actually work on me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But it's not always the specific act of sex is it.
Many many people on here do all kinds of various sexual activities that don't involve the act of sex itself. |
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"I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you
I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis
Shall we commence on the morrow?
Certainly.
Is it bad this would actually work on me? "
Maybe this is the reason I don't get many replies... My messages don't read like that of a dandy cad.
Look out ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But it's not always the specific act of sex is it.
Many many people on here do all kinds of various sexual activities that don't involve the act of sex itself. "
That is very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok lets fuck
Now??  hard n ready
On my way!! You best be on your back when I get there!  i will be its about 3 hours il be fast asleep
S'ok, I'll wake you up "
il leave the shorts off n the door open stiffen it and climb on im sure il wake |
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"Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?
Gives me the ick
Pxx"
Gosh, so true. I can’t stand the omnipresent “fun”, gives me the ick too! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But it's not always the specific act of sex is it.
Many many people on here do all kinds of various sexual activities that don't involve the act of sex itself. "
I get that but the word sex can cover a spectrum, if detail is really needed then it can be given . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?
Gives me the ick
Pxx
Gosh, so true. I can’t stand the omnipresent “fun”, gives me the ick too!"
See, glad it's not just me. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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What do you call the bits in between?
Is sex just penetrative or does it cover any form of genital activity?
Why can’t sex be “fun” if you have fun doing it?
Why can’t it be “play” if you are playful when doing it?
Using the word sex would be a misnomer for me as there are so many other things we do outside the envelope of genitals touching. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?
Gives me the ick
Pxx"
Because there's more to sex than sex, the whole experience should be fun. It depends on your version of fun too I suppose |
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I had a "fun couple looking for fun" that kept messaging me with one word;
"fun"
I'll bring the Pictionary shall I?
But yes, I've always found it a bit odd that a community that prides itself on liberation and openness can't say 'sex'.
Instead we get nawty fun, playing etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Also I’d remove the comment in your profile about having fun, especially if it gives you the ick.  "
Fun doesn't have to be just bumping uglies
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(Who is possibly not ick'd by the use of the word, but would be boring if we all had the same likes) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don’t really see the ick to it, but that’s just me.
Although I would use it in a past tense to describe the time I had with someone (not just about sex, might have been dancing in a club). “I had a fun evening with you”
I personally wouldn’t use it in a way of the word sex - “Do you fancy having some fun” |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Fun doesn't have to be just bumping uglies "
I get that, so what word would you use instead of fun if you wanted to suggest to someone that you engage in some enjoyable activities that may or may not involve sex? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I personally don’t really see the ick to it, but that’s just me.
Although I would use it in a past tense to describe the time I had with someone (not just about sex, might have been dancing in a club). “I had a fun evening with you”
I personally wouldn’t use it in a way of the word sex - “Do you fancy having some fun”"
This is more what I meant, I just described it badly I'm not against the word totally, it's when it's used to describe sex.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fun doesn't have to be just bumping uglies
I get that, so what word would you use instead of fun if you wanted to suggest to someone that you engage in some enjoyable activities that may or may not involve sex?"
I think possibly because we're both Poly and looking for more than just sex and likely social more than anything else we just generally wouldn't be talking about sexual acts via an electronic medium.
So no specific word, not defining it and just letting things flow.
We'd possibly be more direct if there was a bdsm component to avoid miscommunique.
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