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Does anyone really meet on here?
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"For the blokes on here...there are so many of us either some are getting it all or 10% lucky dudes do!?"
No luck a few replies but nothing substantial, I do need to update my profile I think but no I haven't had any luck |
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Of course people meet, but the ratio of men to women is not on our side, so it can take a while to get your first.
Once you get some good feedback it helps.
My advice is dont be so keen to meet, chat to a few people in chatrooms and forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure, why wouldn't I/we be getting meets?
Does this place need a FAQ or guide for people a slice short of a whole cake? Or is it just considered part of the vetting procedure, a Darwin style sink or swim litmus test? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
I havent for a while ..what with covid and moving areas but have had my fair share of lovely meets with some amazing ladies and also wonderful couples with my good lady wife so i cannot complain  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"The 10% all meet up at a Wetherspoons that’s where they swap notes "
Not falling for that.
We all know there's a mass WhatsApp chat with 400 women on it, all manipulating 40,000 men into a state of frustration, while cackling manically. It's been well documented...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The 10% all meet up at a Wetherspoons that’s where they swap notes
Not falling for that.
We all know there's a mass WhatsApp chat with 400 women on it, all manipulating 40,000 men into a state of frustration, while cackling manically. It's been well documented...
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You must mean 370 women and 30 men with profiles pretending to be women  |
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If you aren’t getting the outcome you desire on here then change how you approach things.
Go to socials, clubs, get your face seen and your personality across.
Unless you’ve got a good variety of pics and a fantastic profile, you don’t stand out online.
It’s all in your hands how successful FAB is for you…the tools are provided for you to use.
K |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"If you aren’t getting the outcome you desire on here then change how you approach things.
Go to socials, clubs, get your face seen and your personality across.
Unless you’ve got a good variety of pics and a fantastic profile, you don’t stand out online.
It’s all in your hands how successful FAB is for you…the tools are provided for you to use.
K"
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They definitely do, and although the easy advice is to go to clubs I'm not a big fan of that advice because clubs aren't for everyone.
I'd say the best you can do is work on your profile to make it the best it can be and just keep trying with messages and you never know what can happen from there. Some women get 100s of messages, others don't so it's always worth a go in my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sure, why wouldn't I/we be getting meets?
Does this place need a FAQ or guide for people a slice short of a whole cake? Or is it just considered part of the vetting procedure, a Darwin style sink or swim litmus test?"
So true!
If your not successful with the ladies in real life then truth be told your going to really struggle on here.
Wit, charm, personality, humour, respect for yourself as well as others and an infectious positive attitude are just a few of the key tools that are easier to implement or get across when face to face outside of fab life. The thing is these tools and traits are just as important on Fab and due to the medium they take even more effort to deploy or get across.
A cut and paste "wanna meet to fuck now" with Cock picture attached will deliver about the same level of success as if you used that approach in a real life pub.
Sadly a fact of life is not everyone gets picked for the football team. All you can be is your best self. If that doesn't make the grade then there are paid services out there for those who decide to go that route.
Swinging is a lifestyle with its own culture what it most definitely isn't is a free brothal for tight fisted incels hoping to finally fill their boots.
Happy swinging.
KJ |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.
Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door....."
...well you've never given me your front door number?!   |
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"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.
Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door.....
...well you've never given me your front door number?! "
I'm still waiting to give you my cream  |
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My impression so far is a bit of a waste of my time if i'm honest. Or my online game must just be utterly woeful it seems much easier to meet and talk to women / pick up in person than on here. Far far higher success rates in the real world!
Maybe I'm just too polite about things and need to be more forthcoming with stuff I don't know. 
Maybe the guys with good success, share some wisdom!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the blokes on here...there are so many of us either some are getting it all or 10% lucky dudes do!?"
Try attending an organised social and get networking. I find that helps. |
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"If you aren’t getting the outcome you desire on here then change how you approach things.
Go to socials, clubs, get your face seen and your personality across.
Unless you’ve got a good variety of pics and a fantastic profile, you don’t stand out online.
It’s all in your hands how successful FAB is for you…the tools are provided for you to use.
K"
In fairness that actually sounds like nail on head advice right there to all |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.
Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door.....
...well you've never given me your front door number?!
I'm still waiting to give you my cream "
It must be clotted by now..?! |
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By *educerMan
over a year ago
Brentwood |
"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.
Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door.....
...well you've never given me your front door number?! "
85   |
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...only at socials and clubs though, right?! 
