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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?

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By *klifeCouple  over a year ago

reading

Your profile give nothing away … maybe some photos will help … doesn’t have to be your face but a few may help x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only you can decide that.

We have no idea on how you message, if you send pics in the first message or what.

If you find this is bringing you no joy, I guess you can either change your approach or put it to a stop.

There are plenty of threads here offering advice on profiles and messaging style.

There is also a big competition out there for you, as a single guy.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Many women don't look at winks, so I wouldn't use that as your yardstick.

Messaging is a competitive sport. Many of us don't look at the message until we have looked at the profile. You haven't asked for profile advice but always start there.

Only you know what you desire from Fab, and only you know whether you want to keep trying to find it.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d say no don’t give up

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By *ecky and justCouple  over a year ago

Godalming

All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

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Go to a club.!

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Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Many women don't look at winks, so I wouldn't use that as your yardstick.

Messaging is a competitive sport. Many of us don't look at the message until we have looked at the profile. You haven't asked for profile advice but always start there.

Only you know what you desire from Fab, and only you know whether you want to keep trying to find it.

Good luck.

"

Any chance of any profile advice?

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West

Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs "

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east

Maybe review your approach ...if what youre currently doing NEVER works then your doing something wrong ..if you believe you are doing everything right then maybe fab isnt for you

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By *awpleasureMan  over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Maybe review your approach ...if what youre currently doing NEVER works then your doing something wrong ..if you believe you are doing everything right then maybe fab isnt for you "

What they said, plus put public photos up. Disguise your face if necessary.

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By *ister CMan  over a year ago

liverpool

Call it a day mate...

The ratios are completely against you...

Alternatively just treat it like other people treat it... like a pervy weird version of Facebook.

Don't expect anything from it, even if you follow the protocols being suggested and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Haha I'm the same OP I have met 3 women from here, have really good veries, I don't think I'm ugly but get barely any replies at all. Is what it is I guess.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

Now you’ve asked for profile advice I would say as a woman that’s been on fab several years and I think has the lay of the land that I wouldn’t look at you twice

No public pics (usually a red flag for “married and cheating”) - needn’t be face pics but some torso, bum, legs, arms, clothed and unclothed either better than nothing! There are ways to disguise identifying items. Have a face pic ready to go in your private section though for when asked I never meet without seeing a face pic

No veri - not even cam, going to a swingers club no need to play just get along to meet people who can then verify you are who you say you are

Can’t accommodate (also often a red flag for “married and cheating”)

Bio nothing to speak of plus you’ll meet all my needs?! Nobody can do that and I have some amazing regular meets but they’re very different and the dynamic and the needs they meet differs

Basically more effort in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Now you’ve asked for profile advice I would say as a woman that’s been on fab several years and I think has the lay of the land that I wouldn’t look at you twice

No public pics (usually a red flag for “married and cheating”) - needn’t be face pics but some torso, bum, legs, arms, clothed and unclothed either better than nothing! There are ways to disguise identifying items. Have a face pic ready to go in your private section though for when asked I never meet without seeing a face pic

No veri - not even cam, going to a swingers club no need to play just get along to meet people who can then verify you are who you say you are

Can’t accommodate (also often a red flag for “married and cheating”)

Bio nothing to speak of plus you’ll meet all my needs?! Nobody can do that and I have some amazing regular meets but they’re very different and the dynamic and the needs they meet differs

Basically more effort in.

"

Thank you

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

chichester

goto a club , you will then actually get somewhere with this OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd try a different approach. Upload some new pics that spark curiosity...

I don't think many women look at winks..could be wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world."

I wouldn't say they are prick teases but you have to u dertsnd this place is like a sweet shop for women. They can have any type of man they desire.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman  over a year ago

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"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world."

What a charmer you are

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world."

Maybe your attitude is the reason you can’t get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What happens if you don’t want to go to a club that it just isn’t your scene? Personally for me

I could never do the club scene because I’m just not confident and don’t like to be around lots of people due to personal issues I won’t go into.

For that reason I will just go with the flow because I can get lots of meets if I wanted them I just choose to be choosy and I tend to get some questionable messages

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world."

Blame the men for fucking any wet hole. It's great, I look like the back end of a bus but desperate men beg to fuck me. It's a wonderful ego boost.

Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What happens if you don’t want to go to a club that it just isn’t your scene? Personally for me

I could never do the club scene because I’m just not confident and don’t like to be around lots of people due to personal issues I won’t go into.

For that reason I will just go with the flow because I can get lots of meets if I wanted them I just choose to be choosy and I tend to get some questionable messages "

Sounds like the same reason as me.

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich

If what you are doing isn't working and your profile/messages are a true representation of you then just give up.

Swinging isn't for everyone

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

Become a sniper rather than a machine gunner.

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Become a sniper rather than a machine gunner.

"

Good advice. You can try too hard

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!"

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs.

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,."

Why not I did

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs."

Clubs are not seedy at all. Get him told! x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What happens if you don’t want to go to a club that it just isn’t your scene? Personally for me

I could never do the club scene because I’m just not confident and don’t like to be around lots of people due to personal issues I won’t go into.

For that reason I will just go with the flow because I can get lots of meets if I wanted them I just choose to be choosy and I tend to get some questionable messages

Sounds like the same reason as me."

Unfortunately a club would be the easiest solution to your problem.

If it’s not possible for you to go then you’ll have to get creative and put some serious work in to get anywhere on here as 1 of thousands of single men.

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli

You've been here 5 weeks and your profile needs a major spruce up, I wouldn't say give up but I will say try harder

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By *he Artful TodgerMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!"

Swim out and meet it, what a brilliant way to write the best ethos, I like that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs."

So he’s watched too many tv programmes to call clubs seedy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did"

Your bravery is far more then mine

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world."

Now I can see why your getting nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did"

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs.

So he’s watched too many tv programmes to call clubs seedy? "

It was not the club he referred to as seed but the people who attended.

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs.

So he’s watched too many tv programmes to call clubs seedy?

It was not the club he referred to as seed but the people who attended."

This isn't the site for him then x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here "

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

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By *lynJMan  over a year ago

Morden


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,."

Clubs are usually very friendly and welcoming. You shouldn't have any trouble going to a club alone

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs.

So he’s watched too many tv programmes to call clubs seedy?

It was not the club he referred to as seed but the people who attended.

This isn't the site for him then x"

Exactly what I told him.

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here "

Invite open. I'll be back in Yorkshire in September. Quest in Leeds. Let's go

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here "

I never said I was confident I was shitting myself but I stepped out of my comfort zone

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs.

So he’s watched too many tv programmes to call clubs seedy?

It was not the club he referred to as seed but the people who attended."

My reply to that message would've got me banned.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs.

So he’s watched too many tv programmes to call clubs seedy?

It was not the club he referred to as seed but the people who attended.

This isn't the site for him then x

Exactly what I told him. "

Correct lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All these threads are the same.

The advice is always the same.

.

.

Go to a club.!

.

Socialise, meet people. Get verified. Get invited to more parties.

Don’t wait for your ship to come in…

Swim out and meet it..!!!!!

I gave this exact advice to a man who messaged me today. He told me he did not want to meet seedy people who attended clubs.

So he’s watched too many tv programmes to call clubs seedy?

It was not the club he referred to as seed but the people who attended."

Oh bless him!! Mostly classy virginal women on here so he will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

I never said I was confident I was shitting myself but I stepped out of my comfort zone "

We drove over 100 miles to go to our first club and sat outside in the car for half an hour absolutely shitting it.

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich

We asked a bloke in a club why he didn't bring his wife along.

He looked horrified and actually said " she's not a slag"

And then he probably wondered why no one would talk, let alone play, with him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We asked a bloke in a club why he didn't bring his wife along.

He looked horrified and actually said " she's not a slag"

And then he probably wondered why no one would talk, let alone play, with him"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you."

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"We asked a bloke in a club why he didn't bring his wife along.

He looked horrified and actually said " she's not a slag"

And then he probably wondered why no one would talk, let alone play, with him"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

Invite open. I'll be back in Yorkshire in September. Quest in Leeds. Let's go "

Thanks for the offer but seriously I’m not one for this sort of club scene I wouldn’t fit in at all

And I’d rather not be known as the timid frigid one who hardly spoke to people or get involved lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc "

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

Invite open. I'll be back in Yorkshire in September. Quest in Leeds. Let's go

Thanks for the offer but seriously I’m not one for this sort of club scene I wouldn’t fit in at all

And I’d rather not be known as the timid frigid one who hardly spoke to people or get involved lol "

No problem. Seems daunting, but it's not x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow 5 weeks and you’ve messaged every woman in your area

Every woman?

Every shape, age, colour and preference.

Well done mate.

The jobs a good un. Go home.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads."

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

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By *ister CMan  over a year ago

liverpool


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view "

Weird cos I litterally cant stop looking at you

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view "

I'd talk to you, but I'm outside your range. No problem at all x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

Weird cos I litterally cant stop looking at you "

Thank you! I know what it will be though I don’t want to say on the forums and offend people by my personal experience and views.

I’m not saying all this because I want attention I’m not it’s just all this ‘single males it’s hard

For us on here’ we’ll yeah it’s hard for anyone and I’m a single woman who literally gets 4 messages a day if that so I don’t know how anyone can say I get a load of male attention when I know that I don’t!

On that note I won’t say anymore on the matter as I’ll probably get called out on my views

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view "

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan  over a year ago

Little clacton

Try going to a club... They're usually very helpful if it's your first time attending (they understand some might feel anxious)

Or maybe go on cam in a room that's near the area you live,and try and make connections that way

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

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"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year."

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat "

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat "

You’re a top bloke who makes effort. Plus everyone loves goats. They’re cute

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

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"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here "

Some fellas don't. It's all down to practice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here "

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views.

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

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"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views."

You have to put effort in, to get any kind of meeting/friendship going

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views."

Why does it even matter how long I use the forums or not am I not allowed an opinion just because it differs from yours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views."

Well since posting this I’m up to 18

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

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"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views.

Well since posting this I’m up to 18 "

Now, get yersen to a club

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I’m honest I read a lot of forums. I will see what and how someone writes and see if there’s a common interest. Then I may message them on something they’ve said.

The reality is that when a post becomes “look at me” or “a bit whiny about things” it’s an instant no

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

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"If I’m honest I read a lot of forums. I will see what and how someone writes and see if there’s a common interest. Then I may message them on something they’ve said.

The reality is that when a post becomes “look at me” or “a bit whiny about things” it’s an instant no "

Lucy is lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views.

Why does it even matter how long I use the forums or not am I not allowed an opinion just because it differs from yours! "

I’m not giving an opinion. I’m giving a fact based on what I’ve read over the year I’ve used the forums. I asked how long you have used to get an idea of how much you’ve seen from single men in here.

I think you think I’m being arsey and I’m genuinely not. I’m just telling you what I’ve seen on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views.

Why does it even matter how long I use the forums or not am I not allowed an opinion just because it differs from yours!

I’m not giving an opinion. I’m giving a fact based on what I’ve read over the year I’ve used the forums. I asked how long you have used to get an idea of how much you’ve seen from single men in here.

I think you think I’m being arsey and I’m genuinely not. I’m just telling you what I’ve seen on here."

I get possibly the wrong thread but I’m just giving my own personal opinion on the fact it’s also hard for me as a single woman on here as much as a single male.

I’m not about to change my profile to full on nudity etc just to get messages as it seems the profiles that do the best are tue ones with more provocative pictures and that’s just from my experience.

I know we don’t agree on this

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

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"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views.

Why does it even matter how long I use the forums or not am I not allowed an opinion just because it differs from yours!

I’m not giving an opinion. I’m giving a fact based on what I’ve read over the year I’ve used the forums. I asked how long you have used to get an idea of how much you’ve seen from single men in here.

I think you think I’m being arsey and I’m genuinely not. I’m just telling you what I’ve seen on here.

I get possibly the wrong thread but I’m just giving my own personal opinion on the fact it’s also hard for me as a single woman on here as much as a single male.

I’m not about to change my profile to full on nudity etc just to get messages as it seems the profiles that do the best are tue ones with more provocative pictures and that’s just from my experience.

I know we don’t agree on this "

You do what you want with your profile. I don't think you've taken his comment the right way. Just have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views.

Why does it even matter how long I use the forums or not am I not allowed an opinion just because it differs from yours!

I’m not giving an opinion. I’m giving a fact based on what I’ve read over the year I’ve used the forums. I asked how long you have used to get an idea of how much you’ve seen from single men in here.

I think you think I’m being arsey and I’m genuinely not. I’m just telling you what I’ve seen on here.

I get possibly the wrong thread but I’m just giving my own personal opinion on the fact it’s also hard for me as a single woman on here as much as a single male.

I’m not about to change my profile to full on nudity etc just to get messages as it seems the profiles that do the best are tue ones with more provocative pictures and that’s just from my experience.

I know we don’t agree on this "

I’m not disagreeing. I can’t tell you what your experience is on here because I’m not you. I was just originally replying to the comment about clubs as that was more aimed at single men and somehow ended up having a back and forth.

We have an absolute nightmare on here when we are looking to meet. Time wasters, ghosters, dick pics, one word messages so I know it’s hard for everyone on here. You just have to find what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view

4 messages is more than some single men get in a year.

I do ok, and i look worse than a goat

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here

How long have you been using the forums? Read the hundreds of posts by single men on here and you’ll see for yourself.

There was one about how many views they’ve had today and some hadn’t even had 4 views.

Why does it even matter how long I use the forums or not am I not allowed an opinion just because it differs from yours!

I’m not giving an opinion. I’m giving a fact based on what I’ve read over the year I’ve used the forums. I asked how long you have used to get an idea of how much you’ve seen from single men in here.

I think you think I’m being arsey and I’m genuinely not. I’m just telling you what I’ve seen on here.

I get possibly the wrong thread but I’m just giving my own personal opinion on the fact it’s also hard for me as a single woman on here as much as a single male.

I’m not about to change my profile to full on nudity etc just to get messages as it seems the profiles that do the best are tue ones with more provocative pictures and that’s just from my experience.

I know we don’t agree on this

I’m not disagreeing. I can’t tell you what your experience is on here because I’m not you. I was just originally replying to the comment about clubs as that was more aimed at single men and somehow ended up having a back and forth.

We have an absolute nightmare on here when we are looking to meet. Time wasters, ghosters, dick pics, one word messages so I know it’s hard for everyone on here. You just have to find what works for you."

The last bit we can both agree on then because it’s the same for me at times! Which is why I hardly get messages because there all degrading, unsolicited dick pictures, time wasters etc !

Sorry for derailing the thread

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North


"Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?"

You’ve been on 5 weeks and from what you say have somehow managed to indiscriminately message every female in your area. Unless you’re truly prolific I’m guessing that’s a lot of messages which read a bit copy paste. Trust me messages like that become very easy to spot.

Go to clubs as others advised. Approach fab more like social media than hitting up everything with a pussy and a pulse. Start or join in chats. Get into cam chat. Get known basically. Yes there are a lot of men in here but it’s a misleading ratio as many of them are just unmeetable. So ignore the ratios and just up your game and be patient.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world.

I wouldn't say they are prick teases but you have to u dertsnd this place is like a sweet shop for women. They can have any type of man they desire."

I can't get a meet with any type of man I might desire. I do get men wanting explicit pictures, to see my face and to meet immediately, at my place.

Some women do better on here than others.

This idea that we can just click our fingers and a man will do our bidding helps no one. However, it makes you feel better about not having a meet just go ahead. It won't change your situation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world.

I wouldn't say they are prick teases but you have to u dertsnd this place is like a sweet shop for women. They can have any type of man they desire.

I can't get a meet with any type of man I might desire. I do get men wanting explicit pictures, to see my face and to meet immediately, at my place.

Some women do better on here than others.

This idea that we can just click our fingers and a man will do our bidding helps no one. However, it makes you feel better about not having a meet just go ahead. It won't change your situation."

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Clubs aren't the only way to get a verification, you could try attending a social. They are non-sexual, in public places and just a group of people meeting up.

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By *gent CoulsonMan  over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

5 weeks isn't long, stick with it

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By *ampWithABrainWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

Some seem to have odd ideas about the swinging clubs!

Ime and from chatting with a friend that swings elsewhere in country swinging clubs are generally more friendly and less pressured/avaricious sexually than “normal” nightclubs!

If I go to an ordinary club the hassle I get is ridiculous! And the bouncers are usually rubbish for helping out.

At the swinging club I go to such behaviour simply isn’t tolerated, anyone being overly aggressive sexually after being told no is swiftly ejected! The vast majority of the attendees are just normal folk happy to chat and guide and be friendly

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

Well since posting this I’m up to 18 "

...all seeing if you've actually acted on the advice re: your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a new member to this, and due to my ignorance, I assumed it was more difficult to get into clubs as a single guy?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a new member to this, and due to my ignorance, I assumed it was more difficult to get into clubs as a single guy?"

Most clubs have a particular night where single guys are welcome.

Some couples and single lady’s specifically like to attend on these nights.

Check the club websites for details or phone them. It’s often necessary to book as many clubs limit the number of single guys to prevent a sausage fest.

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By *ad boy maverickMan  over a year ago

basildon

If you went to a night club how many women would you chat up ? / be attracted to. How many women would chat you up ?

The ratio on here is about the same. Ie the percentage that you are going to attract is very small. And it might be just one thing that puts them off. But if that one thing is their deal breaker or passion killer there's nothing you can do.

Effort in your profile helps. Mine probably isn't as good as it could be but it's honest. Added to when something comes up. The thing I found most irritating is people not verifying me when I met them. The women were purely selfish. They admitted if they gave me good veri's I'd be more busy and less available to them.

There's nothing easy about swinging for a single guy.

I've been to clubs in Kent and the way some guys present themselves and behave just ruins it for the decent guys.

Treat people how you want to be treated.

Blue Eyes I can't believe you struggle. I would have thought you'd be inundated however, men do take a while to mature and some never do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha I'm the same OP I have met 3 women from here, have really good veries, I don't think I'm ugly but get barely any replies at all. Is what it is I guess. "

You've had 3 verifications in 3 months which is alot for any man on here so don't know how you're complaining that you never get replies?

How did you arrange those 3 meets if the people in question didn't reply?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m getting exactly the same mate, the ratio on here is a joke, I was on here 6 years ago and had some great meets with couples and singles, it seems totally different now, there’s a lot of attention seekers asking for face pictures etc when they don’t have any pictures themselves, lot of prick teasing also I reckon, I’m only giving it another couple of weeks I reckon. Half on here wouldn’t get a second glance in the real world."

If you wouldn't give them a 2nd glance in the real world why are you trying to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can sell you the cheat code which guarantees your wang getting wet.

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


"

I’m going to say I doubt that they only get 4 messages a year what is this based on? If it was that dire surely they would just give up on here "

Unfortunately not. If they did it would leave the ones that are prepared to make an effort and make it easier for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I appreciate the reply. It was something that my ex had suggested and we had spoken about a lot. Unfortunately the relationship ended before we had the opportunity to go. It’s just something I’d still like to explore, although I’d assume the dynamic would be different, going alone as opposed to with a partner. I guess we may find out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a new member to this, and due to my ignorance, I assumed it was more difficult to get into clubs as a single guy?

Most clubs have a particular night where single guys are welcome.

Some couples and single lady’s specifically like to attend on these nights.

Check the club websites for details or phone them. It’s often necessary to book as many clubs limit the number of single guys to prevent a sausage fest. "

You are replying to message:

I appreciate the reply. It was something that my ex had suggested and we had spoken about a lot. Unfortunately the relationship ended before we had the opportunity to go. It’s just something I’d still like to explore, although I’d assume the dynamic would be different, going alone as opposed to with a partner. I guess we may find out.

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By *he Artful TodgerMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"I can sell you the cheat code which guarantees your wang getting wet. "

Is that like the code from the matrix, I thought only Neo had such power…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

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By *tephenBunChowMan  over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Lulz you need to put some effort in it mate if you want to get anywhere.

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By *illanelleWoman  over a year ago

Ryde, Isle of Wight


"Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?"

You never winked at or messaged me... #rude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?"

Saying that you've contacted most of the women in your area can't be doing you any favours now. How to make someone feel like you'll go with anyone who will say yes to you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

You judgemental t**t.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view "

you should have no problem getting people interested in you ...you do have the most beautiful eyes ..and confidence is all about taking it at your pace and feeling comfortable and at ease.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Every single man here must sell himself very well. If he can't or won't, then I'd say give up. Go to clubs instead.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yawn

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple  over a year ago

Back of the bins.

You’re just looking for single women, this is such a narrow field that you’re really going to struggle. If you broaden out to couples you may find more luck.

Clubs and organised socials are a good starting point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Are you slim?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Add more photos and maybe try different intro messages or just wink first then message if she winks back?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

It's because most women get 100s of messages so you need to stand out. Show your sexual personality in your photos. Say something short and exciting in your message then you probably get more luck. Or just go to clubs to meet people. They can verify you as i wouldn't talk to someone with few photos and no verifications

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?"

You must have a tiny search area, as you've never messages or winked me...

Perhaps you're limiting your options, or not making enough effort? Nothing just lands in our lap. Effort = reward for all of us.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

No one ruins it for you, it’s nobody else’s fault for your lack of.

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Now we know why your not getting anywhere. Still here??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?"

Yep

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Now we know why your not getting anywhere. Still here??"

Some of us like the rounder figure. Judgemental never got anyone, anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Not everyone can have a 6 pack like you, oh wait……

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Now that's effective marketing! Sure you'll do well elsewhere, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Patience is a virtue my friend

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By *toC Thats MeWoman  over a year ago

Sheffield


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Yet I bet you’ve messaged these salad dodgers steak bake anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having messaged or winked at most of the woman in a few postcode areas close to me or a suitable distance away, I never get a reply or nobody seems to chat, the local search’s are always the same people showing up, who I have either messaged or winked at, does that mean I should just give up?"

You only joined 5 weeks ago so be patient. Your profile seems ok but few better pics might help. You defo have the equipment xx

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Yet I bet you’ve messaged these salad dodgers steak bake anyone?"

I'll get the sausage rolls in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Yet I bet you’ve messaged these salad dodgers steak bake anyone?"

2 for 1? Yes please. I’ll chuck a couple of sausage rolls in as well.

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Yet I bet you’ve messaged these salad dodgers steak bake anyone?

2 for 1? Yes please. I’ll chuck a couple of sausage rolls in as well. "

Doughnuts too? 8 pack should do it

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Not everyone can have a 6 pack like you, oh wait……"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Yet I bet you’ve messaged these salad dodgers steak bake anyone?

2 for 1? Yes please. I’ll chuck a couple of sausage rolls in as well.

Doughnuts too? 8 pack should do it "

That’s my snack sorted, what’s everyone else havin’?

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Yet I bet you’ve messaged these salad dodgers steak bake anyone?

2 for 1? Yes please. I’ll chuck a couple of sausage rolls in as well.

Doughnuts too? 8 pack should do it

That’s my snack sorted, what’s everyone else havin’?"

FAB picnic....yay!

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By *amie7474Man  over a year ago

stockport


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Your bravery is far more then mine "

You can do whatever you want to do. It just depends how badly you want it and how much of a priority it is to you. We often put up barriers that don’t really exist to justify staying in our comfort zone. What’s the worst that could happen if you went to a club and just sat at the bar for a couple of drinks?

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple  over a year ago

Worcestershire

Go and try a club, don't go with expectations just mingle and chat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe look at your profile. I’d it the best it can be also what about clubs

Going to be honest, I don’t think I could go to a club alone, especially first time,.

Why not I did

Because it isn’t as easy as that for some people. Some people can find it hard to go alone I know it’s a sex site blah blah but not everyone is confident on here

You’re a single woman on a site where you are outnumbered 100 to 1. The go to a club advice isn’t really aimed at you.

That’s your opinion though just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I get a lot of attention or that I cannot attend a club! It’s been mentioned to me a few times now about how the club scene is amazing and to use that etc etc

I am 100% certain you get more attention than any of the single men that have made “can’t get meets” threads.

If only you could see my inbox I’ve literally got 4 messages today and I’ve seen women on here saying they get hundreds a day so no I wouldn’t say I get more attention than a single male and that’s just my point of view you should have no problem getting people interested in you ...you do have the most beautiful eyes ..and confidence is all about taking it at your pace and feeling comfortable and at ease. "

Awww thank you honey

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Wow and you wonder why no one wants to meet you with this attitude you’ve got going on! It’s men like you who make it so much more harder for the single men on here who are decent and genuine! Your not exactly ripped yourself my love maybe you need to take your own advice and stop dodging the salad and keep off the greggs yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Not everyone can have a 6 pack like you, oh wait……"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep best to give up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change "

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change "

Yes to Greggs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not "

I’m vegetarian so the vegan sausage rolls are yummy!! Yes vegetarians can be fatties

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Yes to Greggs "

I love myself a bit of Greggs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

I’m vegetarian so the vegan sausage rolls are yummy!! Yes vegetarians can be fatties "

Now I’ll have to try one, for research purposes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

I’m vegetarian so the vegan sausage rolls are yummy!! Yes vegetarians can be fatties

Now I’ll have to try one, for research purposes. "

If you’ve got a pound bakery close to you try their vegetarian sausage rolls there amazing!!

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not "

Neither has to be a cheese and onion slice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

Neither has to be a cheese and onion slice "

They are also my favs the cheesier the better!! In fact I may pick one up today & gorge my fat face on one because I can

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By *irDomin8Man  over a year ago

Southend-On-Sea

So my two penny worth. I also have not had a meet yet. And I say yet because I will. Firstly I don't scatter bomb msgs. Read the profile. Read the profile. Read the profile. Be prepared to be flexible in your tastes but don't engage In an act you do not like or are not comfortable with just to get ya dick wet. Can't imagine a more unsatisfying playtime. I am not a 23 yr old adonis, I am older but for those that know it brings experience. It's unlikely that a young couple or single fem, will be interested and if they are, they will be looking For me. great sex is better than a quick shag, unless asked for for first by couple/fems. Don't come across desperate doesn't work in life won't work here. I have a right hand for spontaeneously feeling horny lol. Build a rapport msg chat and be genuine, as long as your genuine is being a good sort. Never never take a rejection to heart, even if you believe it would have been the best sex ever, they didn't think so and says nothing about you personally, unless ya a twat, always thank a polite refusal, they are after all rare. So yeah I think I will get meets in time. Oh and

engage on a higher level do ya wanna fuck maybe what you really want to hear as a bloke, but think, ya generally not looking to have sex with another bloke. Not bragging but I get about 3 to 4 visits a day 50% of which are tv/ts starting to doubt my own sexuality now lol.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Don't send message like "you make a good cum whore"

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So my two penny worth. I also have not had a meet yet. And I say yet because I will. Firstly I don't scatter bomb msgs. Read the profile. Read the profile. Read the profile. Be prepared to be flexible in your tastes but don't engage In an act you do not like or are not comfortable with just to get ya dick wet. Can't imagine a more unsatisfying playtime. I am not a 23 yr old adonis, I am older but for those that know it brings experience. It's unlikely that a young couple or single fem, will be interested and if they are, they will be looking For me. great sex is better than a quick shag, unless asked for for first by couple/fems. Don't come across desperate doesn't work in life won't work here. I have a right hand for spontaeneously feeling horny lol. Build a rapport msg chat and be genuine, as long as your genuine is being a good sort. Never never take a rejection to heart, even if you believe it would have been the best sex ever, they didn't think so and says nothing about you personally, unless ya a twat, always thank a polite refusal, they are after all rare. So yeah I think I will get meets in time. Oh and

engage on a higher level do ya wanna fuck maybe what you really want to hear as a bloke, but think, ya generally not looking to have sex with another bloke. Not bragging but I get about 3 to 4 visits a day 50% of which are tv/ts starting to doubt my own sexuality now lol."

Its ok i get messages from tv/ts and bi sexual women but I definitely know I'm straight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Yes to Greggs

I love myself a bit of Greggs "

You’ve made me hungry now

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Don't send message like "you make a good cum whore" "

Yes, that's likely to not get any sort of rapport going. Some fellas....

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By *irDomin8Man  over a year ago

Southend-On-Sea


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

Neither has to be a cheese and onion slice

They are also my favs the cheesier the better!! In fact I may pick one up today & gorge my fat face on one because I can "

I will be serving ring doughnuts in the foyer later, ya better get in quick cos too long on the stand and they tend to fall off.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Yes to Greggs

I love myself a bit of Greggs

You’ve made me hungry now "

sorry!! I’m hungry mywelf now but I forgot I need to starve myself and live off salad haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

Neither has to be a cheese and onion slice

They are also my favs the cheesier the better!! In fact I may pick one up today & gorge my fat face on one because I can I will be serving ring doughnuts in the foyer later, ya better get in quick cos too long on the stand and they tend to fall off. "

I don’t like doughnuts thank goodness!! Unless there from the seaside

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some of the men on here like us more fuller figured ladies there’s more to hold onto haha

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By *irDomin8Man  over a year ago

Southend-On-Sea


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

Neither has to be a cheese and onion slice

They are also my favs the cheesier the better!! In fact I may pick one up today & gorge my fat face on one because I can I will be serving ring doughnuts in the foyer later, ya better get in quick cos too long on the stand and they tend to fall off.

I don’t like doughnuts thank goodness!! Unless there from the seaside "

ya try an help "read the profile" I come from Southend-on-Sea. Little tip never never eat seaside doughnuts. Ya supposed to add fresh water to the batter not bodily filtered. Know someone who did this.

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

Neither has to be a cheese and onion slice

They are also my favs the cheesier the better!! In fact I may pick one up today & gorge my fat face on one because I can I will be serving ring doughnuts in the foyer later, ya better get in quick cos too long on the stand and they tend to fall off.

I don’t like doughnuts thank goodness!! Unless there from the seaside ya try an help "read the profile" I come from Southend-on-Sea. Little tip never never eat seaside doughnuts. Ya supposed to add fresh water to the batter not bodily filtered. Know someone who did this."

Yuck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

Neither has to be a cheese and onion slice

They are also my favs the cheesier the better!! In fact I may pick one up today & gorge my fat face on one because I can I will be serving ring doughnuts in the foyer later, ya better get in quick cos too long on the stand and they tend to fall off.

I don’t like doughnuts thank goodness!! Unless there from the seaside ya try an help "read the profile" I come from Southend-on-Sea. Little tip never never eat seaside doughnuts. Ya supposed to add fresh water to the batter not bodily filtered. Know someone who did this."

Why would I read your profile? I don’t read profiles - We’ll I’ll still eat them lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Wow! That’s one way of avoiding any possible meets I guess

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha

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By *ampWithABrainWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha"

So tempted! This veggie fat lass hasn’t been in a greggs for months as it happens. I am rather partial to the vegan sausage rolls, cheese and onion bakes, but my favourite is the Belgian buns!

No shortage of offers here either - on fab and in real life people like all sorts of body shapes, looks and personalities - although ugly personalities tend to be rather off putting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha"

Can I have a sausage and bean melt please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha

So tempted! This veggie fat lass hasn’t been in a greggs for months as it happens. I am rather partial to the vegan sausage rolls, cheese and onion bakes, but my favourite is the Belgian buns!

No shortage of offers here either - on fab and in real life people like all sorts of body shapes, looks and personalities - although ugly personalities tend to be rather off putting "

Not all veggies are fat I was just speaking about myself!

I love the vegan sausage rolls and the cheese and onion bakes think I’m going to treat myself today and dodge that salad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha

Can I have a sausage and bean melt please "

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha

So tempted! This veggie fat lass hasn’t been in a greggs for months as it happens. I am rather partial to the vegan sausage rolls, cheese and onion bakes, but my favourite is the Belgian buns!

No shortage of offers here either - on fab and in real life people like all sorts of body shapes, looks and personalities - although ugly personalities tend to be rather off putting

Not all veggies are fat I was just speaking about myself!

I love the vegan sausage rolls and the cheese and onion bakes think I’m going to treat myself today and dodge that salad "

Lots of sausage is the best way to get rid of weight

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By *abasaurus RexMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Call it a day mate...

The ratios are completely against you...

Alternatively just treat it like other people treat it... like a pervy weird version of Facebook.

Don't expect anything from it, even if you follow the protocols being suggested and you'll be fine

"

Nail on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha

So tempted! This veggie fat lass hasn’t been in a greggs for months as it happens. I am rather partial to the vegan sausage rolls, cheese and onion bakes, but my favourite is the Belgian buns!

No shortage of offers here either - on fab and in real life people like all sorts of body shapes, looks and personalities - although ugly personalities tend to be rather off putting

Not all veggies are fat I was just speaking about myself!

I love the vegan sausage rolls and the cheese and onion bakes think I’m going to treat myself today and dodge that salad

Lots of sausage is the best way to get rid of weight "

Oh bloody hell maybe one selective one when I can find the chosen one lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only if it's light outside.

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Anyone fancies a greggs I’m passing hahahaha

So tempted! This veggie fat lass hasn’t been in a greggs for months as it happens. I am rather partial to the vegan sausage rolls, cheese and onion bakes, but my favourite is the Belgian buns!

No shortage of offers here either - on fab and in real life people like all sorts of body shapes, looks and personalities - although ugly personalities tend to be rather off putting

Not all veggies are fat I was just speaking about myself!

I love the vegan sausage rolls and the cheese and onion bakes think I’m going to treat myself today and dodge that salad

Lots of sausage is the best way to get rid of weight

Oh bloody hell maybe one selective one when I can find the chosen one lol "

Is this like a new highlander? There can be only one!

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs

Wow! That’s one way of avoiding any possible meets I guess "

Absolutely.

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By *enuine MikeMan  over a year ago

Guildford

Dude! you've been a member for like 5 weeks.

It took me 10 months before I had a successful meet. I've been fortunate to have met a handful of ladies and couples since but it doesn't get easier.

Women dont just flock to you. It's frustrating, all men know that but what I will say is dont take it personally and let rejection or the lack of interaction drag you to a dark place.

Take it with a pinch of salt and if something happens, bonus.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way I love myself a bit of greggs as much as I like salad all in moderation !! I don’t have the body I would like but my body housed and birthed a beautiful little human and so what if I’ve my rolls than subway no one is forcing you to meet! Weight can be lost sadly your ugly personality will never change

Sausage roll or steak bake?

Your answer will determine if I like you or not

I’m vegetarian so the vegan sausage rolls are yummy!! Yes vegetarians can be fatties "

???? you and me both. I don't have them often because there's not a Greggs near me, but when I do, they're mouth watering.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm going to be honest, If I was in your local area and read that you had messaged or winked most of the women in the area, it wouldn't really help attract me to you. Unless you just happen to be surrounded by women that are all your type .

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Is salad dodging like fruit ninja? Imagine being smacked in the chops with a cucumber!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Typical reaction from someone who’s not getting what they feel they’re entitled to.

You’re probably better off deleting rather than resorting to insulting people on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some of the men on here like us more fuller figured ladies there’s more to hold onto haha "

Curves are kryptonite

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a joke these days! 99% salad Dodgers who you wouldn't look at in a million years normally. Loads of fakes/timewasters and village idiots ruining it for the few decent ones. I'll be deleting it myself unfortunately. Better off on tinder, least some of them aren't sponsored by Greggs "

Oh, you're still here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hang on in there dude

I get where your coming from but it's rough with the smooth the same as life in general

If your expecting to score you need to change your expectations as there are a lot of men here life's a learning curve same for fab

Take a couple days out, chill out, dont drop out...you got this

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By *ull English with teaMan  over a year ago

London


"Hang on in there dude

I get where your coming from but it's rough with the smooth the same as life in general

If your expecting to score you need to change your expectations as there are a lot of men here life's a learning curve same for fab

Take a couple days out, chill out, dont drop out...you got this "

What a lovely uplifting message - I agree, keep on keeping on!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hang on in there dude

I get where your coming from but it's rough with the smooth the same as life in general

If your expecting to score you need to change your expectations as there are a lot of men here life's a learning curve same for fab

Take a couple days out, chill out, dont drop out...you got this "

Totally this!!

When I first came on I had a total different attitude I was a different person to how I am now but I came on here with the expectations of being able to get men easily than what I would in the real world! Yes it worked but for me it was such an empty way of living but as I grew I realise it’s more about how you approach it and find someone who works for you!

What is your goal on here? What are you hoping to get? If your just wanting a quick shag I can imagine ir will be hard but I’m sure just as there are men on here just wanting sex that there would also be women just wanting the same?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hang on in there dude

I get where your coming from but it's rough with the smooth the same as life in general

If your expecting to score you need to change your expectations as there are a lot of men here life's a learning curve same for fab

Take a couple days out, chill out, dont drop out...you got this

Totally this!!

When I first came on I had a total different attitude I was a different person to how I am now but I came on here with the expectations of being able to get men easily than what I would in the real world! Yes it worked but for me it was such an empty way of living but as I grew I realise it’s more about how you approach it and find someone who works for you!

What is your goal on here? What are you hoping to get? If your just wanting a quick shag I can imagine ir will be hard but I’m sure just as there are men on here just wanting sex that there would also be women just wanting the same? "

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