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What is something you learned about yourself while being on Fab
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm poly. It was quite a shock at first and I thought no; I'm just a soppy mare, confusing lust with feelings but... I'm definitely poly. And that's something I'm actively celebrating and enjoying.
I've also learned that sexy isn't a particular shape, size etc. I'm sexy sometimes. In a cutesy way but still sexy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That my desire to watch my partner or share her with other men is not utter madness and my depraved fantasies are actually called 'consensual non-consensual' sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That I am still quite naive when it comes to sexual activities, have led a very sheltered life and trying to explore things now most would have done when much younger |
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I’ve found that I now know my self worth, i am not broken, ugly, a whale or depraved and that as strong as I am, I’m attracted to equally strong people who can push my boundaries but also hold me tight when I need them too x
I’m free
I’m content
I’m having fun
But mostly….. I’ve found myself again as that sexy girl was missing for decades x  |
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"I’ve found that I now know my self worth, i am not broken, ugly, a whale or depraved and that as strong as I am, I’m attracted to equally strong people who can push my boundaries but also hold me tight when I need them too x
I’m free
I’m content
I’m having fun
But mostly….. I’ve found myself again as that sexy girl was missing for decades x "
Love this. Go you!  |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’ |
Have a sense of humour & don't take yourself too seriously.
Also, don't take it to heart when someone is being unpleasant to you. Just ignore like you never heard it.
Stand up for yourself too. Some will hate & some will like. You can't have everyone liking. It would be a boring place...
"Cest la vie!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always thought I was unattractive. Never body confident. Now I think I’m a classy, sexy, confident lady with that secret twinkle in her eye her friends in RL that have no clue about  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
How wrong I was, stuck in vanilla relationships with women who never liked being fingered.
With my reputation and dangerous knowledge, that is a waste of my talents. 
Luckily, I have a lil' fan club, well my fingers do!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That not as many women care to actively look to enjoy sex as much as men (hence why the men out number the women on here by 100/1 probably more).
And before you all have a go, I know there are lots on here that do. Its the one's who aren't on here, its aimed at. (just a shame they wont get to read it) |
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"I’ve found that I now know my self worth, i am not broken, ugly, a whale or depraved and that as strong as I am, I’m attracted to equally strong people who can push my boundaries but also hold me tight when I need them too x
I’m free
I’m content
I’m having fun
But mostly….. I’ve found myself again as that sexy girl was missing for decades x "
Really happy for you.
Be happy, be content, have fun and wring the joy out of everything you do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve learnt to become a lot more confident sexually and that it wasn’t about me but that the confidence I lacked was due to previous partners being v v vanilla.
I’ve also learnt to love and be proud of my body. |
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That actually the opposite sex do find me attractive...maybe not in a conventional way but possible on a more cerebral level
Before I got into this scene I always found it awkward when chatting ladies up
But my confidence has grown immensely and now I know I can talk to anyone without fear of feeling stupid or rejection
Silly really ....only wish I'd joined earlier |
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I’ve learnt was a true orgasm is!
I’ve gained self confidence, by body confidence is a lot higher.
I’ve learnt that there’s so much fun to be had if you’re willing to open your mind and trust your partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can give the most excellent porn star, deep throat blow job I like to do this in front of people watching. I thank Fab for making my realise, I was born an exhibitionist and enjoy the attention. |
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By *ihmMan
over a year ago
West Wales |
"that surprised you?
For me was the realisation that the older I get, the more I enjoy sex and that’s ok."
That meeting people from fab doesn't really work for me and not what I want. I much prefer interacting with and meeting people in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That sex can be bloody amazing and the sex I was having before fab was only mediocre, at best.
That I'm far less inhibited and shy when I'm naked than in real life with my clothes on.
That one off's with no connection are not for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that surprised you?
For me was the realisation that the older I get, the more I enjoy sex and that’s ok."
That I've got next to no patience for idiots! |
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That with the right person I enjoy certain kinks a lot
That I tend to the exhibitionist side
That I am not completely unattractive - ex did a real number on me mentally that way and fab has undone a lot of that damage (he’d have a FIT if he saw me on here! Plus 2nd wife apparently won’t even do bjs)
That I’m possibly poly
That I’m definitely bi
Fab is an amazing community in many ways |
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