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What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take it as a compliment, I do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block men from messaging you, or alternatively, don't worry about it. |
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Same as the straight guys messaging and sometimes meeting gay guys. Nobody can turn you lol |
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It's frustrating, especially on my singles account. However guys are notorious pushy on here and so many guys who indentify as straight are not entirely straight. So I guess they're just chancing their luck. It's not a huge bother to be fair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not messaging any straight men on here. Frankly I don’t need to. So that’s at least one less than all of them.
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Block lads from messaging, certainly made my life on here easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block single men. Easy.
Or just delete emails that come from men. Fairly easy.
And then use the experience to reflect on what it's like to be a gal here ! |
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Just block guys like I did from day one, problem solved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No different than the straight men that want me to suck them off, or fuck their arses.
Who’d have think it eh?
Where’s the drama? |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
Ever liked a lesbian and told her? It's the same thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No issues with the mail to be honest most are very friendly and polite, they know am straight but just want to compliment my pics etc think you can only be "turned" if you already know inside you want it |
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose? "
Some men of all orientations view people's preferences as a challenge to be overcome. I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The same as straight men messaging me, a lesbian. It happens. Unless they are being homophobic, I just delete the message and move on. |
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"Block men from messaging you, or alternatively, don't worry about it. "
Sound advice right here. I wouldn't sweat it, mate. |
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Very easy just to block them and be done with it. |
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Close your messages to them
Problem solved |
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Twenty quid is twenty quid...
LvM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Twenty quid is twenty quid...
LvM"
with today's inflation, you can even buy a tenner for twenty quid. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose? "
Then you read their Verifications and find that 75% are from single men. |
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Go to account, go to message filters, block single men. Problem solved! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same as the straight guys messaging and sometimes meeting gay guys. Nobody can turn you lol "
awww you crushed my dream  |
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It happens to me with monotonous regularity. I don't make an issue of it though, and always drop them a polite reply, ever remembering that if I looked like Quasemodo they wouldn't be chancing their luck in the first place. |
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Just block single men from messaging if it's bothering you so much. They do it because a lot of men on here who are listed as straight aren't. |
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"Same as the straight guys messaging and sometimes meeting gay guys. Nobody can turn you lol awww you crushed my dream "
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to account, go to message filters, block single men. Problem solved!"
Done when joined |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I get the opposite, usually along the lines of " I'm a married straight guy but I'd love to fuck you"
Guys just trying their luck but afraid to admit what they like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people these days are pretty flexible with their sexuality, I identify as (mostly) straight and only generally find females attractive but I sometimes like playing with a good looking guy. And in my experience the best head I've ever received has been from males ?? |
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There are no men who are 100% straight. Everyone has a threshold.... |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes."
A like is a like, it might mean they like the pic rather than think they're going to bang you?
Perhaps they are trying their luck after reading you are friends with a couple of TV/TS members?
I guess the best thing to do would be to ask the next guy that sends you a message. That way you'd have some data rather than speculating.
If it's a real problem though, just change your filters.
Gbat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are no men who are 100% straight. Everyone has a threshold.... "
5 beers or 4am usually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Use your filters if it bothers you this much! |
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose? "
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different. |
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Use your filters if it bothers you this much! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different."
Quite the same ie being contacted by a demographic they don’t want to get contacted by. Which demographic is irrelevant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
To be fair 80% of my messages from males are off single guys with ‘straight’ on their profile.
I’m surprised anybody contacts you at all with your attitude.
Block single guys and fabs on your photos if it really gets to you that much.
They won’t turn you unless you allow them. |
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"There are no men who are 100% straight. Everyone has a threshold.... "
This is definitely not true, sorry to break your clouded reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I compliment if I see and like their photos. Doesn't mean anything more than a friendly compliment like i.e: that's a nice t shirt.
I also get men that identify as all sorts message me- no judgement here and act according to both of us.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of curiousity how many messages per day or week are straight guys getting from gay guys? I’m just curious as to what this amounts to if it’s unrelenting? |
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"Out of curiousity how many messages per day or week are straight guys getting from gay guys? I’m just curious as to what this amounts to if it’s unrelenting? "
None now I blocked them all but majority of time the fabs I receive are lads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of curiousity how many messages per day or week are straight guys getting from gay guys? I’m just curious as to what this amounts to if it’s unrelenting?
None now I blocked them all but majority of time the fabs I receive are lads "
Very sensible approach but I’m not talking fabs. After all a fab night mean nice abs bro or whatever. Not necessarily sexual. So I’m asking about messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Then you read their Verifications and find that 75% are from single men."
Jesus (face palm) did we say we didn’t take messages from single men.
Nice stalking btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem is there’s to meny fab straight people it’s hard to know who’s fab straight and who’s stright stright
I mean 90% off my messages come from
Guy who have straight in they profile and only looking for woman or couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different."
Conflating is a new word on me but actually I believe the phenomena is comparable.
One fab user (of any sexual orientation) requesting a thing from other fab users but having their request ignored. |
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By *ev257Man
over a year ago
cardiff |
I'm a straight man n I quite often do get messages from bi men asking if I want to meet up for a blow job.
It never bothered me n most times I do reply with a thanks for the offer, but no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
Just try it OP, you know you want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same as the straight guys messaging and sometimes meeting gay guys. Nobody can turn you lol awww you crushed my dream lol"
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
Last time I saw a post like the OP on a forum, angry and vociferous, it was from a guy we found out had actually wanted to get involved in Bi stuff. He had already met four TV/TS's and enjoyed it! (He should have hidden his verifications!)
Of course the other reason for a post like this could be "Look at me, I am straight as a die, pick me!"
It is nice to be noticed. |
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"Last time I saw a post like the OP on a forum, angry and vociferous, it was from a guy we found out had actually wanted to get involved in Bi stuff. He had already met four TV/TS's and enjoyed it! (He should have hidden his verifications!)
Of course the other reason for a post like this could be "Look at me, I am straight as a die, pick me!"
It is nice to be noticed. "
Erm no, actually, there’s no anger here on my part, buddy  Messages from guys is a massive compliment, and I always reply kindly to them lol. Hope you’re having a good day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your opening post came across as quite angry about it. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Your opening post came across as quite angry about it. "
That is how I read it, and still read it that way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your opening post came across as quite angry about it. "
It did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your opening post came across as quite angry about it.
That is how I read it, and still read it that way!"
It did, and he knows he can block men or just delete the message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your tone seems very pointed.
You're not the first guy on here to get them and won't be the last, just block men if it annoys you so much.
I get guys that have straight on their profile messaging me all the time and their verifications are all women.
I'm not going to have a bitch fit about it and write a nasty post on the forums. |
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"The problem is there’s to meny fab straight people it’s hard to know who’s fab straight and who’s stright stright
I mean 90% off my messages come from
Guy who have straight in they profile and only looking for woman or couples "
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Suffolk - East Anglia |
"Take it as a compliment, I do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Twenty quid is twenty quid...
LvM"
Can I borrow a fiver? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
I hear you, very annoying, I just treat it as a compliment now with a polite thanks but no thanks... |
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different.
Quite the same ie being contacted by a demographic they don’t want to get contacted by. Which demographic is irrelevant.
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Seems quite contrarian... like you're looking for a trigger...
Anyhoooo i'd disagree, on the premise both parties are citing demographics as the standard for their requirement. Which demographic it is evidently key to both...
Convoluting a demographic about fast cars (relationships) and ice cream (sexuality) isn't really conducive of a sound arguement if you take my meaning
In essence, it's not apples with apples is it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different.
Quite the same ie being contacted by a demographic they don’t want to get contacted by. Which demographic is irrelevant.
Seems quite contrarian... like you're looking for a trigger...
Anyhoooo i'd disagree, on the premise both parties are citing demographics as the standard for their requirement. Which demographic it is evidently key to both...
Convoluting a demographic about fast cars (relationships) and ice cream (sexuality) isn't really conducive of a sound arguement if you take my meaning
In essence, it's not apples with apples is it... "
Not at all contrarian. Reductio ad absurdum isn’t an argument btw.
If I don’t like ice cream (and I don’t) and don’t like fast cars (I’m ambivalent but basically not) their categorical difference is irrelevant. The fact I like neither is. Which is my point.
And I’m not convoluting anything. It’s simple and within the parameters of your initial point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do men over 40 send messages to gay women asking them to meet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
Turn off your filters then..
Although that would mean you get no messages at all |
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By *ihmMan
over a year ago
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"Your opening post came across as quite angry about it.
That is how I read it, and still read it that way!
It did, and he knows he can block men or just delete the message "
I rather suspect there is an element of satisfaction/affirmation derived from receiving messages from gay and bi men, possibly even a smattering of titillation? Maybe a little discomfort/inner turmoil at how much of a buzz it is? Otherwise why are single men not blocked?
It is flattering if anyone finds you attractive, ofcourse it is. I haven't blocked anyone, I talk to lots of people on here I have no interest in jumping into bed with for lots of different reasons, male, female and couples. I am up front on my profile that I am not going to oblige and always clear when replying to messages. But I have spoken to some really decent chaps.
In response to the question how many messages do straight men get from gay or bi men, personally I get one or two a day on average. By no means incessant or unrelenting. Maybe some people get a lot more? |
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different.
Quite the same ie being contacted by a demographic they don’t want to get contacted by. Which demographic is irrelevant.
Seems quite contrarian... like you're looking for a trigger...
Anyhoooo i'd disagree, on the premise both parties are citing demographics as the standard for their requirement. Which demographic it is evidently key to both...
Convoluting a demographic about fast cars (relationships) and ice cream (sexuality) isn't really conducive of a sound arguement if you take my meaning
In essence, it's not apples with apples is it...
Not at all contrarian. Reductio ad absurdum isn’t an argument btw.
If I don’t like ice cream (and I don’t) and don’t like fast cars (I’m ambivalent but basically not) their categorical difference is irrelevant. The fact I like neither is. Which is my point.
And I’m not convoluting anything. It’s simple and within the parameters of your initial point. "
Well you are really, and seeking to dress a response in latin essetially over reaches what is a simple statement that you neglect to recognise... guessing that's a behavior you feel serves you well?
Comparing the things which can be compared with each other, not the ones which don’t fit the specific criteria of each other is the point you spectacularly miss... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different.
Quite the same ie being contacted by a demographic they don’t want to get contacted by. Which demographic is irrelevant.
Seems quite contrarian... like you're looking for a trigger...
Anyhoooo i'd disagree, on the premise both parties are citing demographics as the standard for their requirement. Which demographic it is evidently key to both...
Convoluting a demographic about fast cars (relationships) and ice cream (sexuality) isn't really conducive of a sound arguement if you take my meaning
In essence, it's not apples with apples is it...
Not at all contrarian. Reductio ad absurdum isn’t an argument btw.
If I don’t like ice cream (and I don’t) and don’t like fast cars (I’m ambivalent but basically not) their categorical difference is irrelevant. The fact I like neither is. Which is my point.
And I’m not convoluting anything. It’s simple and within the parameters of your initial point.
Well you are really, and seeking to dress a response in latin essetially over reaches what is a simple statement that you neglect to recognise... guessing that's a behavior you feel serves you well?
Comparing the things which can be compared with each other, not the ones which don’t fit the specific criteria of each other is the point you spectacularly miss..."
Straight men who don’t want to be contacted by gay men.
Women or couples who don’t want to be contacted by single men.
This really doesn’t need explanation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose?
Only its not is it...?
Youre conflating relationship status and sexuality...
Quite different.
Quite the same ie being contacted by a demographic they don’t want to get contacted by. Which demographic is irrelevant.
Seems quite contrarian... like you're looking for a trigger...
Anyhoooo i'd disagree, on the premise both parties are citing demographics as the standard for their requirement. Which demographic it is evidently key to both...
Convoluting a demographic about fast cars (relationships) and ice cream (sexuality) isn't really conducive of a sound arguement if you take my meaning
In essence, it's not apples with apples is it...
Not at all contrarian. Reductio ad absurdum isn’t an argument btw.
If I don’t like ice cream (and I don’t) and don’t like fast cars (I’m ambivalent but basically not) their categorical difference is irrelevant. The fact I like neither is. Which is my point.
And I’m not convoluting anything. It’s simple and within the parameters of your initial point.
Well you are really, and seeking to dress a response in latin essetially over reaches what is a simple statement that you neglect to recognise... guessing that's a behavior you feel serves you well?
Comparing the things which can be compared with each other, not the ones which don’t fit the specific criteria of each other is the point you spectacularly miss...
Straight men who don’t want to be contacted by gay men.
Women or couples who don’t want to be contacted by single men.
This really doesn’t need explanation. "
Well this has all become rather absurd.
Think some people should get themselves in the shade |
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Methinks perhaps this thread was designed as a 'look how manly I am' attempt.
That backfired
KM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was too many long words and sentences and people getting heated! So i got bored lol
There are just some people on here that wink, fab pics and message people that are not what they're necessarily looking for or not what the person receiving wants. It could be boredom, it could be they think they might get a response. Doesn't matter, everyone has the choice to reply politely, not reply, block and delete, filter out. That's my simple opinion. No long words that need a dictionary lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there a reason why your verification is hidden ....
If I were looking for clues of fab straight guys, that would make me think, he could be you know....
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"There are no men who are 100% straight. Everyone has a threshold....
This is definitely not true, sorry to break your clouded reality "
You protest too much |
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By *piral36Man
over a year ago
South west |
"A mouths, a mouth? Right?  "
Lol |
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Tom will wager a week's wages that if the lights were out then he could make the OP cum in Toms mouth and Tom is not even gay.. |
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By *piral36Man
over a year ago
South west |
Take it as a compliment, it's no big deal, I've messaged loads of women that don't want to respond lol dont take it personally. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Tom will wager a week's wages that if the lights were out then he could make the OP cum in Toms mouth and Tom is not even gay.. "
The beard might give it away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tom will wager a week's wages that if the lights were out then he could make the OP cum in Toms mouth and Tom is not even gay..
The beard might give it away "
Is Tom that good though |
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"There are no men who are 100% straight. Everyone has a threshold....
This is definitely not true, sorry to break your clouded reality
You protest too much "
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
what about straight men pestering tvts ? My inbox is rammed most days, just try to be a more relaxed about other people's sexualities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are no men who are 100% straight. Everyone has a threshold....
This is definitely not true, sorry to break your clouded reality
You protest too much
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He doesn't I've pritested and yes some guys are actually straight in her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" what about straight men pestering tvts ? My inbox is rammed most days, just try to be a more relaxed about other people's sexualities "
Surely having your inbox rammed is the point of being here |
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"Tom will wager a week's wages that if the lights were out then he could make the OP cum in Toms mouth and Tom is not even gay.. "
LOl |
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"Why do men over 40 send messages to gay women asking them to meet? "
They are the one to fuck the gay out if you I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wank anybody |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
Perhaps the guys think it is your Secret Passion. You do have a gay guy in your list of friends. Just block guys. |
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over a year ago
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I haven’t blocked single guys from messaging me purely because when on here previously about 5 years ago I met a local straight guy on here and we ended up having some threesomes with a nice local lady . Would never have had all that fun if I had blocked men , on the flipside I do get unwelcome messages but just delete/block etc . Get called Daddy by a fair few younger guys which actually just makes me laugh |
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Nit suprising there a shocking number of straight guys on here who are actually bi, but don't put it as it reduces their chances of meeting womenr |
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Like straight men messaging people who aren't interested or compatible.
Hoping they've messaged at the time you're d*unk and horny enough to not care about the details and only care about climax |
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Tom has been involved in various scenarios such as mmff where the other guy suddenly wants some mm action. They invariably make the usual lame comments like it was the first time and that he only did it to please his partner..Not sure why but these types have usually been northers .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had plenty of "straight" men message me wanting their dick sucked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s almost as ‘relentless’ as the straight guys that would “love to suck you off”.
Easy to ignore, just block men.
Problem solved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah same as when a guy has totally straight on his profile but messages saying he wants to fuck me.
If you bothers you that much and you can't ignore it just block guys from messaging you, it's that simple. |
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It can be a bit exasperating at times, but a little part of me (stop laughing) would feel a bit sad if suddenly I stopped getting that attention... Fab, for me would become very quiet very quickly.
As many have stated, block the men. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Has anyone suggested blocking single guys yet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Secret passion 776 would not have complained like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put up with it for a while now I just block to keep it simple.
Makes you wonder if there are that many gay guys looking for sex/blow jobs etc. Why don't they just fuck each other?
Must be a kink in there that they like the idea of turning a straight man or something.. |
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I sometimes message to compliment someone's pictures, with zero intention of following up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put up with it for a while now I just block to keep it simple.
Makes you wonder if there are that many gay guys looking for sex/blow jobs etc. Why don't they just fuck each other?
Must be a kink in there that they like the idea of turning a straight man or something.."
Probably because so many guys on here have straight on their profile despite fucking or sucking other men! There’s straight then there’s fab straight! |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"Take it as a compliment, I do.
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I do,I've long accepted that whilst I'm straight, I'm also universally appealing.
These guys may also message because not all straight men on here play straight,hence the term "Fab straight". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone suggested blocking single guys yet? "
Tina will you stop being sensible and stating the obvious! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same phenomena as all the single guys messaging couples that state “no single guys” we suppose? "
So true |
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"Has anyone suggested blocking single guys yet? "
Winner winner all the chicken dinners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone suggested blocking single guys yet? "
I dunno…..maybe you’re onto something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site needs to have a function to block viewing by the same categories as you block messages .. that would stop it. Annoys me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone suggested blocking single guys yet? "
Twelve weeks ago.  |
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"Has anyone suggested blocking single guys yet? Twelve weeks ago. "
That was me!
I feel seen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mind it. I occasionally get them. I take it as a compliment |
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As long as it’s not Jeffrey dahmer then you’ve nothing to worry about |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
It doesn’t bother me tbh, it does happen a lot though I wonder if I’m giving off gay vibes. If I was gay I’d clearly be getting much more sex here |
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No straight guys on my profile - doesn’t matter still get messages.
Gay / Bi- Straight
Straight- Gay / Bi
TV - Straight
Straight- TV
Nobody reads profiles, nobody particularly cares, hook up site for some, swingers site for others.
In the end it doesn’t really matter, it’s only a fucking message, keep yer knickers on (I do). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You hear that?
That's the sound of a dying horse being beaten for 12 weeks now. I think it's dead guys. We could do 1 more round of beating just to be 100% sure we beat all areas.
2 lessons I took: 1. There is an incredibly high chance that gay guys like straight guys from time to time, largely because they fall under that hugely important umbrella of "guys".
And 2. Filters are our friends
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it will all stop as soon a straight men stop sucking gay men off?… |
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By *anJXMan
over a year ago
Warrington |
All the messages I get are from guys. Take it as a compliment, reply back and go on with my day
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
And u secretly like the attention I bet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
No different to the men who read profiles of women who describe a specific type of man and still message them 'trying their luck' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it will all stop as soon a straight men stop sucking gay men off?…"
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Or men who live far away messaging me. We all have our crosses to bear but luckily messages are easy to delete. Problem solved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always the possibility some of them think themselves as more feminine than masculine, in that sense messaging a straight guy would make them more heterosexual in their mind? Maybe... I have no idea but a compliment is always good |
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Only people with their own insecurities or prejudices will let it worry them excessively surely. Most people respect other's preferences and though might fab a pic, will not really message. If they do inappropriately, well block and move along. As many said, everyone gets sometimes messages from people who don't meet their requirements weather men, women, gay, bi, straight, TV/TS ... There are bigger things to worry about, surely. |
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"Only people with their own insecurities or prejudices will let it worry them excessively surely. Most people respect other's preferences and though might fab a pic, will not really message. If they do inappropriately, well block and move along. As many said, everyone gets sometimes messages from people who don't meet their requirements weather men, women, gay, bi, straight, TV/TS ... There are bigger things to worry about, surely. "
That should of course say whether men etc. Not weather men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
Bet you’re loving your full in box |
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It's a pretty homophobic attitude to have.
Do single men think every woman wants them ?
Do men think they can turn any woman who says she doesn't.
People can message who they like. Same rules apply - if you don't fancy them block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's only gay if your balls touch! |
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"It's only gay if your balls touch!"
That’s all the couples meeting men fucked then with dp as balls touch most of the time in that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That’s all the couples meeting men fucked then with dp as balls touch most of the time in that "
Good point  |
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Probably cos there's straight which is actual straight, then there's fab straight which is where half the "straight" blokes on here will let another bloke suck them off or will fuck a transvestite when they're horny. |
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By *rith47Man
over a year ago
Erith |
90% of men who message me have 'straight' on their profile. In that circumstance it is impossible to tell who likes what. |
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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago
Yorks/Lincs |
unless you want them to use your filters .. |
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"90% of men who message me have 'straight' on their profile. In that circumstance it is impossible to tell who likes what."
They probably are. They are just having little lapses momentarily |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
You poor sod.
It must be awful being inundated with messages from people you have little to no interest in. If only someone knew what that felt like on here...
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Whilst it's not a common occurrence for me I have no issue whatsoever being contacted by "the gay guys"..."on here".
It's just one person contacting another person.
What I wish to do with those messages from "the gay guys" is an entirely different matter. I just exercise my prerogative.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!!
You poor sod.
It must be awful being inundated with messages from people you have little to no interest in. If only someone knew what that felt like on here...
C"
Poor men. I can't imagine how that feels. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Some will some won't some like it some don't some might want to explore further and others won't be open minded use the tools available if it bothers you as much but same time if it's no interest of yours why have you got message filters open so any male could message you.... |
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I ended up blocking guys from messaging me on here. Even though I'm bi, the amount of 'straight' guys which I'm not interested in or just total dipshits messaging me got really tedious.
Just block them and move on with your life. Unless you like the attention and just want people to know you get a lot of messages? |
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"Just block them and move on with your life. Unless you like the attention and just want people to know you get a lot of messages?"
A number of reoccuring threads on the forum are made precisely for this reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A mouths, a mouth? Right? "
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!!
You poor sod.
It must be awful being inundated with messages from people you have little to no interest in. If only someone knew what that felt like on here...
C
Poor men. I can't imagine how that feels. "
Pmsl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!!
You poor sod.
It must be awful being inundated with messages from people you have little to no interest in. If only someone knew what that felt like on here...
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Poor men. I can't imagine how that feels. "
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ngl i get a lot messages and request from men than i do woman |
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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago
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"All the messages I get are from guys. Take it as a compliment, reply back and go on with my day
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Best way to be now. Used to aggitate me now I just take it in my stride. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At least you get some social interaction |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
Kettering |
It can be annoying maybe they just don't read profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Basically just block guys if you don’t want messages from them. Simples |
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Well Fab straight is known as halfway between curious, bi, and gay pmsl. |
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Dude you know how many "straight" guys message me? Probably just as much if not more than you. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
If your that against it why haven’t you blocked men duh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We/I get a few and IMO, live and let live as it does not take a lot to ignore/delete/bloc/etc.
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!!
If your that against it why haven’t you blocked men duh! "
Because he secretly likes it and the post was to traffic even more messages to boost his ego. |
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I often fab a straight guys pics, there're there to be dabbed after all. I have no intentions of 'converting' anyone, however many of the so called straight guys have responded and are actually not as straight as you might think... |
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99% of our "likes" are guys
They're the majority on here so naturally, every kind of person gets inundated! |
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
Don't worry
I've looked at your pics, there's nothing there for me to fab. |
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I get on average 2-3 messages each day from gay guys trying there luck. I don’t want to block all guys as I want to network with straight guys for MFM etc. why can’t I have the option to block messages from gay or bi men ? |
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its the only attention that i get
i see it as a compliment now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive only had messages from gay men or tvs,cds even though it says straight on my profile but where all here for the same thing so wheres the problem just ignore or change your settings if it bothers you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So 14 weeks on and the OP still hasn’t blocked guys.
Obviously not that much of a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
I always take it as a compliment, but I agree. I had to block single men after a while, as they were the only messages I would get, something along the lines of "I know you're straight, but are you curious at all?"
Do gay men on here use Fab Guys as well? I'm curious about that as well |
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"So 14 weeks on and the OP still hasn’t blocked guys.
Obviously not that much of a problem "
Why should he have to??? He should have the option to block gay guys.!?? We have the option to block TVs and TS after all !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block single men. Easy.
Or just delete emails that come from men. Fairly easy.
And then use the experience to reflect on what it's like to be a gal here !"
This.
And maybe message back saying thanks, but that you're straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!! "
A lot of guys are "fab straight" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should he have to??? He should have the option to block gay guys.!?? We have the option to block TVs and TS after all !! "
Chill…. What’s with all the ???? and !!!!!
The OP was clearly unhappy with guys messaging.
The obvious answer is to block, as others have also suggested. |
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Why should he have to??? He should have the option to block gay guys.!?? We have the option to block TVs and TS after all !!
Chill…. What’s with all the ???? and !!!!!
The OP was clearly unhappy with guys messaging.
The obvious answer is to block, as others have also suggested."
No it’s not for reasons I have stated above. Why should you be able to block TVs and Trans but not gay men ?????????????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block single men. Easy.
Or just delete emails that come from men. Fairly easy.
And then use the experience to reflect on what it's like to be a gal here !
This.
And maybe message back saying thanks, but that you're straight"
You expect me to answer all my messages?..... |
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Just remember that if you don't like gay guys liking your pics, it's normally because of likes from them that men land in hottest photos lists. That actually pushes you up the recognition radar for meeting women.
Nobody should be pushy, whether gay or straight but if you look at what single women say, they sometimes recieve several messages within minutes from the same men. The sexual orientation might be relevant but ages and likes for sexual attraction can differ greatly. I'll like photos from men when they're in the gallery if I see something I like. It's a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should he have to??? He should have the option to block gay guys.!?? We have the option to block TVs and TS after all !!
Chill…. What’s with all the ???? and !!!!!
The OP was clearly unhappy with guys messaging.
The obvious answer is to block, as others have also suggested.
No it’s not for reasons I have stated above. Why should you be able to block TVs and Trans but not gay men ?????????????????? "
it would be a useful feature ... But for whatever reason fab allows to filter by "gender" (it hasn't sorted out TS and TV properly) but not sexuality.
Not that it would work... Most my guy messages are from straight guys ... Other experiences may differ ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it’s not for reasons I have stated above. Why should you be able to block TVs and Trans but not gay men ?????????????????? "
Lol. I have no idea I’m afraid. I don’t run Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is it with all the gay guys “liking” and inboxing straight guys on here? It’s relentless sometimes.
Do they think they can turn us or something, and just trying their luck?
I mean, they have the other site ‘Fab Guys’ for that, right? Always getting inundated with messages from gay men ffs haha!!
A lot of guys are "fab straight""
A lot of straight men love the cock. 2 straight men fucking is hot. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
Yes guys have the fabguys site, but many people don’t meet bi guys so they’re on here as straight. I’ve chatted to guys on here who say they are straight and only meet other straight guys, who are not on fabguys. Guys on here who message me usually have straight on their profile. I was chatting to aTS/TV/CD (using the fab terms) and when arranging to meet they realised I was on fabguys and said sorry but they only meet straight men. It’s not very clear on this site
At the same time I can appreciate a straight mans pictures. Doesn’t mean I’ll message him but liking the photo can be a sign of appreciation for a nice picture.
Best to just block single men. |
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"Block men from messaging you, or alternatively, don't worry about it. "
I was thinking this
That’s what filters are for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't block the cock! |
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Can someone answer this does blocking single men actually work if you're not a site supporter? as I do have single men blocked but somehow still get messages of single men baffles me why it let's me select to not let si gle men contact yet messages still come through |
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