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My ex used to like to be woken in the depths of night with my cock being inside her pussy. Admittedly it’s not always that easy especially the weird positions we get in to during our slumber. But when it happened it was darn good. Since then women I’ve been with aren’t that bothered about it. Which is fine because we all have our likes and dislikes, but does anybody enjoy this type of awakening at night? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have given my boyfriend consent to do this. I do really enjoy it but obviously there are times when my boyfriend understands that disturbing my sleep for sex wouldn't be a good move e.g when I am over tired, stressed etc
NBVN x |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
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I love the idea. Never happened.
I have a fantasy to be asleep and he sneaks into bed and wakes me up. Maybe more about his hands on me and then the cock.
I also like waking up I the morning to a hard cock behind me.
Perhaps the novelty is there as we don't live together.
Still very hot though  Ms N x |
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I discussed this with my ex but I'm a poor sleeper so not only do I tend to fall asleep after him and wake up before him but on the rare occasion I was still asleep when he woke up he felt too bad to wake me  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've sort of done this. Both of us were asleep and woke fucking. It was like, wtf is going on here and then just carried on. We both discussed this afterwards, honestly and we both admitted to being asleep. It's happened a few times and it's not something we plan.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This kind of play has gone both ways I’ve been woken by my wife giving me a BJ and I’ve woken her by playing with her and this has ended in full sex. It’s something we are both ok with and full consent been given |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I couldn't do/receive this sort of thing because I don't think it is possible to have active enthusiastic consent when someone is asleep.
But that is just me."
You could tell them, that's exactly what you want, before bedtime. Consent IS key here, as is communication.
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"I couldn't do/receive this sort of thing because I don't think it is possible to have active enthusiastic consent when someone is asleep.
But that is just me.
You could tell them, that's exactly what you want, before bedtime. Consent IS key here, as is communication.
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Yeah, way I see it you may not wake up in the same frame of mind, so that consent is shaky at best. Others may view it different, this is just how I carve my boundaries |
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It's a bit bloody divine. Just a lazy(apart from in one particular place), sensual, sordid mutual waking up.
The couple of times I've awoken to a mouth on me was even better.
Sigh. Those were the days.. |
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"I couldn't do/receive this sort of thing because I don't think it is possible to have active enthusiastic consent when someone is asleep.
But that is just me."
You are, of course, perfectly entitled to set your own consent boundaries, but most couples have some things to which they give long term (but of course changeable) consent. For example, on a cold night I wouldn't expect my SO to wake me up and ask for consent before snuggling up to me.
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"I have given my boyfriend consent to do this. I do really enjoy it but obviously there are times when my boyfriend understands that disturbing my sleep for sex wouldn't be a good move e.g when I am over tired, stressed etc
NBVN x"
It takes a brave man to enter a tired woman haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have given my boyfriend consent to do this. I do really enjoy it but obviously there are times when my boyfriend understands that disturbing my sleep for sex wouldn't be a good move e.g when I am over tired, stressed etc
NBVN x
It takes a brave man to enter a tired woman haha "
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"I couldn't do/receive this sort of thing because I don't think it is possible to have active enthusiastic consent when someone is asleep.
But that is just me.
You are, of course, perfectly entitled to set your own consent boundaries, but most couples have some things to which they give long term (but of course changeable) consent. For example, on a cold night I wouldn't expect my SO to wake me up and ask for consent before snuggling up to me.
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I get that, but I also do not think that snuggling is the same as penetration/other sexual activity.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone waking me from sleep would find me agreeable.
I'd agree! ??
Where did the question marks come from?  "
An unrecognised emoji, perhaps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get that, but I also do not think that snuggling is the same as penetration/other sexual activity.
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Becky has given me blanket consent/active encouragement to fuck the living daylights out of her whenever I fancy... especially to wake her up. We're all different, so what might work great for us, might not work for you, and that's cool.
I think those little preferences are all part and parcel of finding your person.
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"I get that, but I also do not think that snuggling is the same as penetration/other sexual activity.
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Rubbing your naked body against someone is sexual activity in the eyes of the law.
But in any case, it's not just sexual activity that requires consent. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd quite like it.
Obviously I'd have to trust the other person a lot. Discussed it before.
But it's a hot thought to be honest.
I love waking up a lover with a blowjob because they seem very responsive, feeling their cock grow in my mouth makes me wet.
That sleepy moment when they suddenly get really hard as they wake up fully and you can hear their very aroused grunt and suddenly the energy shifts? My cunt thrives on that.
I can understand why it's potentially problematic to some though. |
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"I get that, but I also do not think that snuggling is the same as penetration/other sexual activity.
Rubbing your naked body against someone is sexual activity in the eyes of the law.
But in any case, it's not just sexual activity that requires consent. "
True, we are obviously on different wavelengths, because when I read snuggling I didn't imagine any nudity whatsoever. I imagined something in the romantic sphere.
Like I said, each to their own as long as everyone involved is happy with it all! |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Consent is obviously important but I like to think if someone didn’t want it to continue then their partner would stop.
I had a partner I love a great deal who used to wake up for work before me, he’d always sneak under the covers and tease me with his tongue before we would continue into full on sleepy slow morning sex, it was wonderful and a lovely start to the day.
That was several years ago now and he was the last person I got to do that with. I don’t get sleep overs with anyone anymore. |
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We’ve woken up in the throes of passion many times! N woke me up earlier by grinding his hard cock against my arse, it’s a great way to be pulled from sleep as long as you’re in the right mood. We’ve been together so long now that we know when it is a good idea to leave the other one alone!
C x |
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This is one of my most desired fantasies.
I have almost accepted that it will probably never happen as I do not have the chance to spend a night away alone to have fun (and hubby has not touched me in 13+ years).
If I were to be in a relationship again, I would most definitely let my partner know this would be more than welcome. |
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over a year ago
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I have woken up a ex girlfriend a few time by slipping my cock between her lips while she had fallen asleep on the sofa.
It use to surprise her, but she would enjoy it and suck to completion. But one day her reaction was to bite it. That was the last time I risked that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't do/receive this sort of thing because I don't think it is possible to have active enthusiastic consent when someone is asleep.
But that is just me."
It's not just you. I don't agree with it either. |
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"Like I said, each to their own as long as everyone involved is happy with it all!"
I totally agree with that!
The only thing I had an issue with was your statement that active consent wasn't possible in this case. Someone can give long-term active consent, it doesn't have to be in the period immediately before the event.
They can also withdraw that permission at any time, and if the relationship has significantly changed it should be assumed that all long term consent has been removed.
The truth is that most couples in long term relationships handle this sort of thing with ease, and I don't think they should be demonised as pseudo-rapists for doing so! |
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