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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Look at your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Most here will check out the profile before reading the message, they've often decided before even opening up the message.
Use your profile to sell yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why don’t you just chat with the past friends that you say you are only here to chat with ?
Why would anyone reply to that profile ? But if you have past friends they must of engaged in conversation with you |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
I reply to all messages. But if u r asking my opinion why u don't u need to ask for an opinion, ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Profile, profile, profile |
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The mistake you are making is that you think that your message will be considered in and of itself, separately from you profile. In many cases this is not the case.
Whether you like it or not, a great many receivers of you messages will look at your profile first to see what type of person they have received a message from. If they like your avatar, good pictures and good profile text, they will probably read your message. They will look at how you present yourself generally to the community first and then see how you have presented yourself to them specifically next.
How do you think you would fare when they look at your profile to decide whether they want to read your message, OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is thread bare , no photos and consists of one sentence so would say you only have yourself to blame . Try updating your profile , oh and handy hint these sort of posts don’t do you any favours  |
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
There's nothing in your profile that would make me want to know more. No pictures on show, no info about you as a person. Detail makes the difference for me |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I don't know about everyone else but when I get a message I look at the profile before I open the message. If its a good one and I think we might get on I will reply either way, but if not its a delete.
Tbh I'd delete a message after looking at yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, go to a club,
go to a social,
take a couple of hours writing a good profile, whatever a good profile is (this could prove impossible as everyone has a different opinion of what a good profile is).
this isn't a sex site,
what do you expect,
have no expectations,
have face pics
very your pics
etc
I haven't covered all the bases that I have seen on similar threads such as this, I could throw in some abuse for good measure.
the only comments that I have taken on board is that single women and couples must receive so many messages that they would have to employ someone to look through and reply to them.
so I do not message anyone and just stick to the forums, that way I don't feel that im part of the problem so many on here comment on.
good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Now you have made comment you will have a lot less chance of finding success on here im afraid. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
I always read a profile before I decide whether to open a message. If the profile shows no effort whatsoever then I generally don't bother. Occasionally, usually if im bored, I'll open a few messages regardless of the profile but they have to really capture my interest to warrant a reply.
Most of my fab meets have been as a result of me seeing a profile I like and messaging first. |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Your profile ...well, it's not a profile! Put the energy that goes in those messages into creating a better profile. Better pictures (or maybe start with putting up some pictures) . Write more about yourself ...and last but not least be decent, respectful, well mannered and tall/dark/handsome  |
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Theres maybe 2 or 3% of the members that are single females.
You need to stand out and be the best you can be to get a response. And even then, the chance of that lady you have messaged being attracted to you is slim as well.
It really is a lottery.
Be you, be unique, be honest. You have to make your own luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we get a lazy message ie “hi” or “how’s u” then we tend not to reply, but if we get a structured message then we will reply even if it’s a polite no thank you. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Yep I answer any message that interests me.I look at profiles first if it doesn't interest me then I don't even open the message usually anymore.And it's not because I get loads of messages I have tight filters. |
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
We look at profiles first.
Even if I were looking, I would never reply to you.
Julie. |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Simple answer if they don't think you are compatible, then no.
Remember that single quys outnumber single woman something like 20-1.
On average a single woman will receive hundreds of messages a week, some a day |
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By *ihmMan
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Doesn't matter how much detail you put in to a message, if that detail isn't of interest to the recipient they are under no obligation to respond. Just because I send you a wonderfully detailed cookery book about baking doesn't mean you are obliged to start banging out olive loaves and Victoria sponges! Has to be something that interests the recipient, however good your profile is, however arty and well composed your pictures, we are all here for different things, you won't interest everyone or possibly anyone.
You are not obliged to be on fab, I mean that in as nice a way as possible, if it isn't a positive thing in your life, give it up, move on and do something that is. Don't moan and feel hard done by because you aren't getting any action, change something, if nothing works it probably isn't for you.
For many people, not just single men, being on fab is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome...... Think that definition is used as an indication of something else.
Also, punctuation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The perfect demonstration of how not to Fab as a single male.
Shadow profile, no public pics, and a one line bio topped off with a whine on the forums.
Bravo sir bravo. |
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Single men have loads of struggle here..but women get the worse loads of texts d...pics they get fed uo..i understand completely they are bombarded with messages daily...no wonder they dont reply...if they replied to everyone they would never leave fab...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No they dont. They moan about cock pics. They moan about one liners. But when they get neither of these they still moan. Opps thats me not getting any responces. Lol
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Just because I send you a wonderfully detailed cookery book about baking doesn't mean you are obliged to start banging out olive loaves and Victoria sponges!"
Not going to lie I'm a sucker for a decent recipe book |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
I wouldn't reply to you as there is no profile pic and no pics available to me on your profile. You are also a smoker which is a no go xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Rewrite your profile and may put some pics on public, not necessarily 20 pics of your dick from every angle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had trouble getting replies from everyone I message.
Fab is so easy to do.
The Bedford rascal is the clincher! Love it "
Like bees to a honeypot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just throw some cheesy banter out there, if I don't make them laugh I just have to try harder 
If they give a slight chuckle you might just get a response  |
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By *y gameMan
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
Two mistakes, expecting a meet, asking why you can't get one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend not to reply if there’s no pics and barely anything in the profile. Discreet meets also implies they are probably in a relationship where the partner does not know. |
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please
Look at your profile. "
Your profile is shit Paul. Needs work and effort, it’s a tough gig out there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get replys if I don't it's not personal, chatted to some really nice women on here pretty down to earth and straight forward, made some good friends too not all about sex good to have a laugh too I'd say keep going mate |
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By *y gameMan
over a year ago
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please
Look at your profile.
Your profile is shit Paul. Needs work and effort, it’s a tough gig out there! "
Part-time good Samaritans .  |
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please
Look at your profile.
Your profile is shit Paul. Needs work and effort, it’s a tough gig out there!
Part-time good Samaritans . "
Straight to point sometimes- unless he’s manipulating the chat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you message and it's clear you haven't read my profile I block and delete . If you message and your profile is basically blank ... I ignore or respond no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t reply because
1 you have no pictures,
2 you’re cheating and I don’t want the drama,
3 you’re a smoker I don’t want that breathing in my face but that’s just me, these are the reasons you wouldn’t make a match for me, therefore I wouldn’t reply. |
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"I have tried a detailed message with pics and women still never reply it’s mad no wonder why men can’t get meets any tips please "
You must be on a wind up, this attitude kills it for guys on here, we’re the plus 1 pal, just accept it, make some effort and don’t have expectations… |
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By *ihmMan
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Just because I send you a wonderfully detailed cookery book about baking doesn't mean you are obliged to start banging out olive loaves and Victoria sponges!
Not going to lie I'm a sucker for a decent recipe book"
I will pop one in the post pronto!  |
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I don’t always reply I admit. My first filter tends to be no profile pic or no public pics. Your profile wouldn’t pass my filter.
I’ve also just today had a follow up message from a man I didn’t reply to (less than 45 mins after his first message) calling me an ignorant fuck. Not a great look.
My profile isn’t even close to being one of the best out there and I still get close to 70 messages every day. I can’t reply to all of them, a lot of time as well, a reply leads to them thinking we’re now fully chatting and I can’t keep that many conversations going.
I have to be a bit brutal about who I reply to and who I don’t. But it’s worth remembering, women don’t owe anyone a reply. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Just because I send you a wonderfully detailed cookery book about baking doesn't mean you are obliged to start banging out olive loaves and Victoria sponges!
Not going to lie I'm a sucker for a decent recipe book
I will pop one in the post pronto! "
Awesome. I'll get the kitchen aid out  |
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