Doesn't bother me if a woman can accommodate or not, I won't be going to her place until we've met a few times and both feel comfortable with each other. Therefore hotel meets are the only option. |
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Not a chance would I ever meet anyone in a hotel. I did it once about 9 years ago. I have never felt so cheap meeting a guy down stairs then going up to his room. Never again. |
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Interesting, the majority of responses seem in favour of hotels and for very valid reasons. Is it being a little seedy in the mind of the individual. No one at the hotel would probably realise you're not actually partners. I guess you may have to keep the noise down or turn up the TV! |
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Spend allot of time working away and often in hotels
A favourite pastime is to sit and watch the interactions of others in the bar
Spot the first time meeters, see those that have escaped for a naughty night away, and sometimes spot those that are meeting for moresomes as well
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"I realise hotel meets aren't the first choice for a lot but are they a definite no no for most women if neither can accommodate for whatever reason? "
Actually when I have the budget for them they’re definitely my first choice op. Dinner and interesting conversation with an attractive and articulate man - then many hours of amazing sex, giggles, conversation and wine in a hotel room - with a few hours of sleep in between. Then sleepy morning sex, breakfast and snogs goodbye.
Pretty much the perfect weekend.  |
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Hotels are our first choice! We wouldn’t have anyone back to ours ever and don’t think we’d go to someone else’s home….although never say never, depends on the situation and connection I guess. Clubs are fine too. But hotels are always our preference. |
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Hotel meets only, unless it’s regular fun and have known the person a long time and class him has a friend otherwise hotel meets….My home isn’t a drive through for men to come and shoot their load, and don’t want my neighbours thinking it’s a knocking shop!  |
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I spend a lot of time away so I like hotel meets. I’m always happy to accommodate and as I’m there anyway, always cover the cost. Some of the meets I’ve had we meet in the bar, have a chat and go from there, where others have come straight up to the room. I think a lot depends on how well you’re getting on with somebody in the chat |
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We prefer clubs but we’re currently looking to arrange our first hotel meet, I have no intention of ever having people in to our home as that’s our personal space. A hotel is a safe mid ground.
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"I like cars bus shelters bushes beaches fields trees abandonned buildings houses tents wendy houses sheds garages hotels caravans train toilets "
Telephone boxes, boiler rooms, drive thru car wash, transit vans, |
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"Interesting, the majority of responses seem in favour of hotels and for very valid reasons. Is it being a little seedy in the mind of the individual. No one at the hotel would probably realise you're not actually partners. I guess you may have to keep the noise down or turn up the TV! "
If you book in as "Mr and Mrs Smith" Hotel staff will assume you're married. |
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Often find hotel meets are preferred as either married, kids are home, live with parents or just like the fact someone else be changing the sheets after. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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As my husband doesn't swing, if a regular partner progressed beyond club meets I would prefer a hotel.
I wouldn't feel comfortable going to theirs and I'd never kick my husband out of the house for something he's not interested or involved in. |
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"Often find hotel meets are preferred as either married, kids are home, live with parents or just like the fact someone else be changing the sheets after."
The sheet changing is a good enough reason alone  |
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Oh well, looks like that's me on the back burner for most people on this thread despite having houses coming out of my ears to play and party in. Maybe I should have developed my large pub near Cardiff airport, into the five star country inn with micro brewery that I've planning consents for instead of demolishing the place to put a supermarket on the site. Maybe I need to acquire another hotel to pull more often on Fab. |
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Ive done hotel meets but its my absolute last choice. Feels cheap and seedy. I didn't feel completely comfortable or relaxed the last few times i did it. Much prefer meeting "her place". |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I enjoyed hotel meets for the not having to throw the hoover around malarkey. But after awhile it can get a tad pricey and you have to faff around at reception with booking your car in for parking, which completely ruins the sexual allure one is trying to conjure up before tapping on a hotel room door. |
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over a year ago
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Honestly, it's neutral, has plenty of exits, easy parking and you don't even have to change the sheets.
Home is for home, not random people off the Internet. |
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"I would prefer a hotel, as long as it’s of a good standard with a nice bar so you can have a drink together first  "
Spoke facts, only facts and nothing but facts |
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