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"He was a dick "Lol was that his profile pic by any chance   | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance "It was | |||
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"I wouldn’t video call. Me being bi doesn’t guarantee an ffm " Oh and me not liking anal sex has been a deal breaker a couple of times. | |||
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"The beard became an issue "Yours or hers? | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was "But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here? | |||
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"I wouldn’t video call. Me being bi doesn’t guarantee an ffm Oh and me not liking anal sex has been a deal breaker a couple of times. " Mon Dieu, they must be crazy  | |||
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""Sorry you're too fat" "Sorry you're too old" "I don't fuck southerners" "I'm getting married" The southerner comment hurt the most lol" blimey, where did they live?  | |||
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"I wouldn’t video call. Me being bi doesn’t guarantee an ffm Oh and me not liking anal sex has been a deal breaker a couple of times. " Giving or taking :p | |||
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"The beard became an issue
Yours or hers? "Haha mine… I quite liked ‘hers’ | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was
But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here? "They are if they don't look like a mushroom | |||
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"I wouldn’t video call. Me being bi doesn’t guarantee an ffm Oh and me not liking anal sex has been a deal breaker a couple of times. Giving or taking :p" Taking | |||
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""Sorry you're too fat" "Sorry you're too old" "I don't fuck southerners" "I'm getting married" The southerner comment hurt the most lol blimey, where did they live? "Scotland | |||
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"Something about him eating his own vomit and would I like to watch? "  | |||
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"I've been rejected for being too old, being a Redhead, for not having big enough boobs etc...the list is long x" Evidently they were blind, insane or both | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
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But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here?
They are if they don't look like a mushroom "Spotty ? | |||
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""I don't fuck southerners" The southerner comment hurt the most lol" We're they North of the wall or just confused? | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was
But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here?
They are if they don't look like a mushroom
Spotty ? "It's not my favourite dessert | |||
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"Something about him eating his own vomit and would I like to watch? " 
Gross
Whatever next !
Actually scratch that it can and probably will get a lot worse
Think I’m just way to old
Never heard of most crap on hear
Got to admit though it is entertaining lol | |||
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"Don't think I've actually ever been told anything. People have ghosted after me telling them I'm signed off/have chronic illness (that's not really funny) " Sorry to hear you are poorly,me to ! | |||
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""I don't fuck southerners" The southerner comment hurt the most lol We're they North of the wall or just confused?" North of the wall. I offered to move house but it still wasnt good enough | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to " Ouch!
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was
But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here?
They are if they don't look like a mushroom
Spotty ?
It's not my favourite dessert "Custard? | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to " Some people disgust me x | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was
But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here?
They are if they don't look like a mushroom
Spotty ?
It's not my favourite dessert
Custard? "Prefer cream x | |||
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"I've been rejected for being too old, being a Redhead, for not having big enough boobs etc...the list is long x" They look plenty big enough!!!  | |||
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"Being ghosted after they find out I’m mentally ill…makes me feel like some sort of freak " Do you say "I'm mentally ill" or do you explain what's wrong? I'm classed as mentally ill bug I'm functioning and no one would know if I decided to meet them. | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to " Want an absolute cabbage she is! | |||
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"Being ghosted after they find out I’m mentally ill…makes me feel like some sort of freak Do you say "I'm mentally ill" or do you explain what's wrong? I'm classed as mentally ill bug I'm functioning and no one would know if I decided to meet them. " It depends tbh sometimes I just say I can’t talk because I’m doing through a depressive episode or I’m in really bad I’ll just say my mental illness is playing up…I’ve put it in my bio now so people know what to expect because I was just tired of being ghosted and treated like a freak | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to Some people disgust me x" It’s not the first time it’s happened to me. It’s really knocked my confidence at times x | |||
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"I've been rejected for being too old, being a Redhead, for not having big enough boobs etc...the list is long x" They wouldn't like me either then lol | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to " That's why you send a face pic first, avoids disappointment later on  | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to " Jeeeeezooos however prob does that slot anyway, part of their set up. | |||
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"I've been rejected for being too old, being a Redhead, for not having big enough boobs etc...the list is long x" Sorry but Red heads are super sexy for 1 and 2nd how are your boobs not big enough ! | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was
But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here?
They are if they don't look like a mushroom
Spotty ?
It's not my favourite dessert
Custard?
Prefer cream x"No way cream instead of custard? that’s it you’re not for me :p | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to " This has happened to me too…made me feel like shit. Just remember it’s their problem not yours. | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to This has happened to me too…made me feel like shit. Just remember it’s their problem not yours. " I know, sadly I’ve become use to this sequence of events. Being a nice guy sucks sometimes x | |||
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"I'm too fat for them. I've probably got AIDS because my veris were from non-white people and a TV. I don't accommodate. Not exactly rejections as they messaged first, but what they said when I said no thank you. " i hope you reported them | |||
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"Sorry you're not my type. Usually after sending them a face pic when we've exchanged a few messages and thought we got on well. Cuts deep man "It’s amazing how much relevance is placed on the neck upwards | |||
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"Sorry you're not my type. Usually after sending them a face pic when we've exchanged a few messages and thought we got on well. Cuts deep man "Yep, its not just fellas that get that line | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to That's why you send a face pic first, avoids disappointment later on "Disappointment on which side haha | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
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"Sorry you're not my type. Usually after sending them a face pic when we've exchanged a few messages and thought we got on well. Cuts deep man
It’s amazing how much relevance is placed on the neck upwards "That's where the attraction lies though, for a lot of us. | |||
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"Sorry you're not my type. Usually after sending them a face pic when we've exchanged a few messages and thought we got on well. Cuts deep man
It’s amazing how much relevance is placed on the neck upwards "I agree, especially when that response comes from some who will take on all and sundry in a club… | |||
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"Sorry you're not my type. Usually after sending them a face pic when we've exchanged a few messages and thought we got on well. Cuts deep man
It’s amazing how much relevance is placed on the neck upwards
That's where the attraction lies though, for a lot of us. "I get that, more important than anything for some x | |||
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"Sorry you're not my type. Usually after sending them a face pic when we've exchanged a few messages and thought we got on well. Cuts deep man
It’s amazing how much relevance is placed on the neck upwards
I agree, especially when that response comes from some who will take on all and sundry in a club…"Yep, completely true. I might get a George Clooney mask | |||
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"They one I had earlier this year on another site. I was 67 at that time. Chatted with a female for a few days. I asked in the first few messages if she had read my profile and my age. Her reply to that was yes and yes. Then had message saying she did not realise how old I was . Blocked . "It’s horrible | |||
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"Being ghosted after they find out I’m mentally ill…makes me feel like some sort of freak " We all get ghosted so we are all freaks. | |||
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was
But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here?
They are if they don't look like a mushroom
Spotty ?
It's not my favourite dessert
Custard?
Prefer cream x
No way cream instead of custard? that’s it you’re not for me :p "Thats it...gutted I'm leaving now | |||
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"A woman messaged me last week saying she’s sorry she’s probably not my type Not that I’m not her type She messaged me to let me know that she’s probably not my type. I’ve never spoken to this woman, nor looked at her profile I dunno who rejected who " Methinks the lady doth play with reverse-psychology… | |||
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"No one will message me after this thread as they will automatically think I’m ugly lol " You aren't ugly x | |||
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"No one will message me after this thread as they will automatically think I’m ugly lol " Its not all about looks buddy although it seems that way ! | |||
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"No one will message me after this thread as they will automatically think I’m ugly lol Its not all about looks buddy although it seems that way !" That's me screwed then...or not | |||
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"No one will message me after this thread as they will automatically think I’m ugly lol Its not all about looks buddy although it seems that way ! That's me screwed then...or not "like i said already just on the surface you have amazing attributes ! | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. " How many is too many??? | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. " Just ask them what they would do with their fav porn star,because they fuck a whole lot more than most ! | |||
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"No one will message me after this thread as they will automatically think I’m ugly lol You aren't ugly x" Lol have I sent you face pics? | |||
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"I’ve never been rejected as such but I’ve recently noticed that ghosting suddenly became a norm." That’s been a thing for as long as I remember… maybe it’s just me | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. " Is that a thing? | |||
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"I’ve never been rejected as such but I’ve recently noticed that ghosting suddenly became a norm. That’s been a thing for as long as I remember… maybe it’s just me "thats what you do or what happens to you ? | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. How many is too many???" 3 | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. How many is too many??? 3 "Is there a decimal point missing ? | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. " That’s why never have I ever had sex with anyone | |||
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"I’ve never been rejected as such but I’ve recently noticed that ghosting suddenly became a norm." Yeah, I had this once after a social. Fine with me because I didn’t fancy him either.
What I am facing ATM is guys who go on and on about meeting- I make time (very difficult atm, work is crazy and I have loooong drives on the M25) and they cancel last minute. Never had that before. I tend to be proud on my judge of character and selecting, but have to be stricter now! Haha | |||
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"No one will message me after this thread as they will automatically think I’m ugly lol You aren't ugly x Lol have I sent you face pics?" Yes x | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. Is that a thing? " It's been said to me twice in 6 months. | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. " That experience is one of your most attractive features.  | |||
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"I've been rejected for being too old, being a Redhead, for not having big enough boobs etc...the list is long x" They must have all been mad! | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. How many is too many??? 3
Is there a decimal point missing ?"Oops. Let me fix that: 3.0 | |||
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"Sorry you're not my type. Usually after sending them a face pic when we've exchanged a few messages and thought we got on well. Cuts deep man
It’s amazing how much relevance is placed on the neck upwards
That's where the attraction lies though, for a lot of us. "That's understandable and even I'm the same. It is still a bit disheartening though and can make you question yourself. | |||
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""I don't fuck southerners" The southerner comment hurt the most lol We're they North of the wall or just confused?" By southern, I'm guessing they meant English. | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. That experience is one of your most attractive features. "Hahahaha! | |||
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"I’ve never been rejected as such but I’ve recently noticed that ghosting suddenly became a norm." I think, in a way, the Fab cliche of "No reply means no interest" encourages this. When things get real after some positive communication people think ghosting is an acceptable way to back out. What is so hard about writing "Sorry, lost interest" and block? | |||
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"Usually my rejection comes from the fact I won't play on the 1st meet x" That’s crazy and actually helps you to realise what kinda person they are x | |||
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U. G. L. Y. They ain’t got no alibi! They Ugly | |||
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"The beard became an issue "We’ve been rejected because of my beard but they could clearly see it in our pics before they messaged. There reply was after a few messages was , sorry mrs don’t like beards ! O well I said that’s probably a good thing as beard wouldn’t suit her | |||
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"The beard became an issue
We’ve been rejected because of my beard but they could clearly see it in our pics before they messaged. There reply was after a few messages was , sorry mrs don’t like beards ! O well I said that’s probably a good thing as beard wouldn’t suit her "I've received an opening message from a very well verified couple I've never seen or spoken to before. It was a simple message that said Lose the beard and we might consider putting you on our to do list. Otherwise forget it. | |||
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"The beard became an issue
We’ve been rejected because of my beard but they could clearly see it in our pics before they messaged. There reply was after a few messages was , sorry mrs don’t like beards ! O well I said that’s probably a good thing as beard wouldn’t suit her
I've received an opening message from a very well verified couple I've never seen or spoken to before.
It was a simple message that said Lose the beard and we might consider putting you on our to do list. Otherwise forget it. "I wonder is that called premature rejectulation? | |||
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"I’ve never been rejected as such but I’ve recently noticed that ghosting suddenly became a norm. I think, in a way, the Fab cliche of "No reply means no interest" encourages this. When things get real after some positive communication people think ghosting is an acceptable way to back out. What is so hard about writing "Sorry, lost interest" and block? " Ghosting is harmful and and should never become an acceptable norm, no matter what platform. I am a grown ass woman I can deal with it pretty well but I can only imagine how damaging it can be for an insecure young person. | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to " I'm stunned by the rudeness of others sometimes. I've been ghosted before after lots of chat and an arrangement to meet so don't know what was wrong. Not too bothered really. Move on. | |||
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"The beard became an issue
We’ve been rejected because of my beard but they could clearly see it in our pics before they messaged. There reply was after a few messages was , sorry mrs don’t like beards ! O well I said that’s probably a good thing as beard wouldn’t suit her
I've received an opening message from a very well verified couple I've never seen or spoken to before.
It was a simple message that said Lose the beard and we might consider putting you on our to do list. Otherwise forget it. "U shoulda replied forgotten already as u were never on MY to do list anyway | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to I'm stunned by the rudeness of others sometimes. I've been ghosted before after lots of chat and an arrangement to meet so don't know what was wrong. Not too bothered really. Move on. " Move on defo, but every time it happens to me it just feels crap, even though I’m getting used to it I guess. Shouldn’t have to | |||
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"A woman messaged me last week saying she’s sorry she’s probably not my type Not that I’m not her type She messaged me to let me know that she’s probably not my type. I’ve never spoken to this woman, nor looked at her profile I dunno who rejected who " Hahaha hilarious! | |||
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"My fanny is too gaped and their penis wouldn't touch the sides." "My penis is too small and I don't want you to laugh at me" | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to I'm stunned by the rudeness of others sometimes. I've been ghosted before after lots of chat and an arrangement to meet so don't know what was wrong. Not too bothered really. Move on. Move on defo, but every time it happens to me it just feels crap, even though I’m getting used to it I guess. Shouldn’t have to" It's the feeling of it being unfinished, left hanging, drifting without a reason, that gets you with ghosting. Even "dont like beards" or "your too fat" or "eat shit and die you pervert" is preferable to just being turned off. I am sure quite a number of people reading this post will have ghosted someone at some time. Please understand it is better to stop it than leave it in the air. | |||
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"My fanny is too gaped and their penis wouldn't touch the sides." Ffs what the hell is wrong with people | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to I'm stunned by the rudeness of others sometimes. I've been ghosted before after lots of chat and an arrangement to meet so don't know what was wrong. Not too bothered really. Move on. Move on defo, but every time it happens to me it just feels crap, even though I’m getting used to it I guess. Shouldn’t have to It's the feeling of it being unfinished, left hanging, drifting without a reason, that gets you with ghosting. Even "dont like beards" or "your too fat" or "eat shit and die you pervert" is preferable to just being turned off. I am sure quite a number of people reading this post will have ghosted someone at some time. Please understand it is better to stop it than leave it in the air. " It's all relevant though. I'm guilty of deliberately ghosting. When the other person has an unhealthy obsession with what everyone else is doing and is completely convinced that every criticism on this site is aimed directly at them it's easy to get sucked into that flaky and toxic world. No amount of explanation works so rather than continue to enable them it's so much healthier to just walk away in silence. | |||
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"My fanny is too gaped and their penis wouldn't touch the sides." How the hell could he tell that unless you have removed some pics | |||
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"mine had to be the most bizarre one. as some people on here are on POF as well as myself. I got chatting to this lady on POF, we where getting on really well and had agreed to meet. then I found her of Fabs, I thought great we share the same interests, so I though why not message her on here and see what she would make of it. well let's just say she then blocked me on both sites. Strange? " I don't find that bizarre at all. I would block anyone contacting me on a different platform and would find it disturbing and creepy. | |||
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"I’ve had “oh I recognise you through work” which is a (reasonably) polite no. It’s cobblers though as I’m a professional back end of a pantomime horse
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"mine had to be the most bizarre one. as some people on here are on POF as well as myself. I got chatting to this lady on POF, we where getting on really well and had agreed to meet. then I found her of Fabs, I thought great we share the same interests, so I though why not message her on here and see what she would make of it. well let's just say she then blocked me on both sites. Strange? " Probably wanted to keep different sides of her persona separate. | |||
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"mine had to be the most bizarre one. as some people on here are on POF as well as myself. I got chatting to this lady on POF, we where getting on really well and had agreed to meet. then I found her of Fabs, I thought great we share the same interests, so I though why not message her on here and see what she would make of it. well let's just say she then blocked me on both sites. Strange? I don't find that bizarre at all. I would block anyone contacting me on a different platform and would find it disturbing and creepy. " don't know why you think that's creepy . ???? | |||
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"Rejected for having sex with too many people. That experience is one of your most attractive features.
Hahahaha! "Takes all sorts I guess. Pity I am out of your age range. That experience would have been very interesting.
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"He was a dick
Lol was that his profile pic by any chance
It was
But aren’t they the best kind of photo for here?
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"mine had to be the most bizarre one. as some people on here are on POF as well as myself. I got chatting to this lady on POF, we where getting on really well and had agreed to meet. then I found her of Fabs, I thought great we share the same interests, so I though why not message her on here and see what she would make of it. well let's just say she then blocked me on both sites. Strange? I don't find that bizarre at all. I would block anyone contacting me on a different platform and would find it disturbing and creepy. don't know why you think that's creepy . ????" She might have felt like you were stalking her. | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to I'm stunned by the rudeness of others sometimes. I've been ghosted before after lots of chat and an arrangement to meet so don't know what was wrong. Not too bothered really. Move on. Move on defo, but every time it happens to me it just feels crap, even though I’m getting used to it I guess. Shouldn’t have to It's the feeling of it being unfinished, left hanging, drifting without a reason, that gets you with ghosting. Even "dont like beards" or "your too fat" or "eat shit and die you pervert" is preferable to just being turned off. I am sure quite a number of people reading this post will have ghosted someone at some time. Please understand it is better to stop it than leave it in the air. It's all relevant though. I'm guilty of deliberately ghosting. When the other person has an unhealthy obsession with what everyone else is doing and is completely convinced that every criticism on this site is aimed directly at them it's easy to get sucked into that flaky and toxic world. No amount of explanation works so rather than continue to enable them it's so much healthier to just walk away in silence. " Maybe I’m too nice but I’d always be honest rather than just go quiet | |||
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"mine had to be the most bizarre one. as some people on here are on POF as well as myself. I got chatting to this lady on POF, we where getting on really well and had agreed to meet. then I found her of Fabs, I thought great we share the same interests, so I though why not message her on here and see what she would make of it. well let's just say she then blocked me on both sites. Strange? I don't find that bizarre at all. I would block anyone contacting me on a different platform and would find it disturbing and creepy. don't know why you think that's creepy . ????" That comes across as an invasion of privacy you don’t mention this site until it comes up in conversation. | |||
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"After exchanging hundreds of messages and having such a laugh, plus mutual naughtiness and flirting. We exchange pics and I got a reply saying “too ugly to fuck” and she blocked me as well. Felt like crap. I’d said about exchanging face pics early on but she didn’t want to I'm stunned by the rudeness of others sometimes. I've been ghosted before after lots of chat and an arrangement to meet so don't know what was wrong. Not too bothered really. Move on. Move on defo, but every time it happens to me it just feels crap, even though I’m getting used to it I guess. Shouldn’t have to It's the feeling of it being unfinished, left hanging, drifting without a reason, that gets you with ghosting. Even "dont like beards" or "your too fat" or "eat shit and die you pervert" is preferable to just being turned off. I am sure quite a number of people reading this post will have ghosted someone at some time. Please understand it is better to stop it than leave it in the air. It's all relevant though. I'm guilty of deliberately ghosting. When the other person has an unhealthy obsession with what everyone else is doing and is completely convinced that every criticism on this site is aimed directly at them it's easy to get sucked into that flaky and toxic world. No amount of explanation works so rather than continue to enable them it's so much healthier to just walk away in silence. Maybe I’m too nice but I’d always be honest rather than just go quiet" The problem is when your version of honest is different to theirs and they turn that obsession and need for validation on you. It becomes like feeding a troll. | |||
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"mine had to be the most bizarre one. as some people on here are on POF as well as myself. I got chatting to this lady on POF, we where getting on really well and had agreed to meet. then I found her of Fabs, I thought great we share the same interests, so I though why not message her on here and see what she would make of it. well let's just say she then blocked me on both sites. Strange? I don't find that bizarre at all. I would block anyone contacting me on a different platform and would find it disturbing and creepy. don't know why you think that's creepy . ???? She might have felt like you were stalking her." not at all, in fact she was the one doing all the chasing . it was only when I messaged her on Fabs she disappeared? very strange . I can only put it down to that she wanted to keep a naughty life quite from her dating. so in a way I'm glad. because that's just being dishonest. cake and eat it springs to mind . | |||
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"We were ghosted once by a lady we we had not just texted but phoned and video chatted with for over a month. Got no problem with someone changing their mind but to be blanked and blocked without saying why is a bit crappy x" More than a bit crappy | |||
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"The number 1 reason we get is we are fugly "Don't see it myself | |||
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"The number 1 reason we get is we are fugly
Don't see it myself "What does fugly mean? Lol | |||
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"mine had to be the most bizarre one. as some people on here are on POF as well as myself. I got chatting to this lady on POF, we where getting on really well and had agreed to meet. then I found her of Fabs, I thought great we share the same interests, so I though why not message her on here and see what she would make of it. well let's just say she then blocked me on both sites. Strange? I don't find that bizarre at all. I would block anyone contacting me on a different platform and would find it disturbing and creepy. don't know why you think that's creepy . ???? She might have felt like you were stalking her. not at all, in fact she was the one doing all the chasing . it was only when I messaged her on Fabs she disappeared? very strange . I can only put it down to that she wanted to keep a naughty life quite from her dating. so in a way I'm glad. because that's just being dishonest. cake and eat it springs to mind . " I haven't seen you on POF | |||
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"The number 1 reason we get is we are fugly
Don't see it myself
What does fugly mean? Lol"Fucking ugly | |||
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"The number 1 reason we get is we are fugly
Don't see it myself
What does fugly mean? Lol
Fucking ugly"Oh, I’ve only been called ugly so I guess I should be grateful | |||
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