"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can 
Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. not really buddy ,attraction and conection are pretty important  "
In reality I’m with you. Definitely connection which grows attraction in my book. |
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"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can
Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. not really buddy ,attraction and conection are pretty important
In reality I’m with you. Definitely connection which grows attraction in my book. "
^ditto^ |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"This is my fear! Men will sleep with anyone and say anything to you just to get sex  "
The any hole's a goal!
This is exactly my fear too... and one of the many many reasons I don't believe anyone when they say they're into me  |
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At my age they're more about care in the community than out of sympathy.
Joking aside, no I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to.
Hence why I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here. |
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"This is my fear! Men will sleep with anyone and say anything to you just to get sex
The any hole's a goal!
This is exactly my fear too... and one of the many many reasons I don't believe anyone when they say they're into me "
Me too!  |
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If you'd asked this years ago I'd have said a definite no.
Shit happened, my life changed and I wasn't in a great place. Any holes a goal, right?
Anywho, hideous experience. It's really not for me.
Sorry to disappoint  |
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I have too much self respect to do that plus Im already drowning in da poon tang as it is!! Connection is key without that - as one of
My learned associates mentioned above - have a wank - its sex with someone that cares and less drama |
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"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can
Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. "
It's all I've ever done.  |
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Can't answer that question as it requires an approach sadly lacking of late - I blame my age to old for some not old enough for others. Still I'm semi retiring next year so things may look up, no rush |
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"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can
Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. "
If I liked her boobs, I could live with them not being into me. Luke |
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God no! I'd feel totally crap if I knew they didn't fancy me. I slept with someone once years ago I wasn't really into and felt crap too. Either scenario results in someone feeling shit. Although I think there has been an instance where someone did expect me to give them a sympathy shag rather than respect my own boundaries because they cut me off after a good while being very close friends. That was sad. |
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One of my most disasterous shags was with a close friend with whom my closeness did not include physical attraction.
Had a bad time, she made it clear that she desperately needed a welfare fuck, we tried as while I was able to do 'other' things, the actual fuck that she wanted could not be managed by my independently willed cock....
She realised my lack of ardour towards here and it all just left her feeling worse.
I still feel bad about it. |
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"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can
Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. "
They could be into you as a friend for years and feel like giving it a try. It happens. |
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