FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > What most women want in the bedroom
What most women want in the bedroom
Jump to: Newest in thread
1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now "
I must not be a woman then  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now "
Just say you don’t know women and move on. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now "
1. Yeah, like, duh!
2. Not every woman wants to be dominated. I’ve been lucky enough to meet many who wanted to be totally in control.
3. Mentally, yes. Physically? See above.
4. Who really knows? My cock is pretty average and it’s been the subject of plenty of appreciation.
5. See 1.
Women want what they want and when they want it. Tender and gentle, rough and forceful, tied, untied, Domme, Sub. I’ve had all of those within one loving relationship.
In truth, it’s complicated! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now "
not me I just want someone to have fun with however that transpires is fine by me all that sounds exhausting for a wish list |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Let me just correct that for you:
“What *some* women want in the bedroom”
You’re welcome  "
Love how us men know women want lol
Message to me and all men: we have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Let’s use it in that ratio . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now
1. Yeah, like, duh!
2. Not every woman wants to be dominated. I’ve been lucky enough to meet many who wanted to be totally in control.
3. Mentally, yes. Physically? See above.
4. Who really knows? My cock is pretty average and it’s been the subject of plenty of appreciation.
5. See 1.
Women want what they want and when they want it. Tender and gentle, rough and forceful, tied, untied, Domme, Sub. I’ve had all of those within one loving relationship.
In truth, it’s complicated!"
He said most not all.
It’s quite a basic summary but does very ring true in my experience, most women don’t have overly complex sexual needs . Obviously each has to be done really well ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Let me just correct that for you:
“What *some* women want in the bedroom”
You’re welcome
Love how us men know women want lol
Message to me and all men: we have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Let’s use it in that ratio ."
And 10 fingers for typing on a forum. Your point is what? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Um. You know women aren't a hive mind, right? As you seem to consider yourself the expert on women...
I think the fact I’m not “most women” is why I rarely meet! "
Are you telling us that you dont want any of the mentioned things when it comes to your sexual experiences? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Um. You know women aren't a hive mind, right? As you seem to consider yourself the expert on women...
I think the fact I’m not “most women” is why I rarely meet!
Are you telling us that you dont want any of the mentioned things when it comes to your sexual experiences?"
A couple of them, no I don’t. For me it depends on the person what I want and what I’m happy to do. I don’t do lists. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think what OP should probably have written is:
"Different for every woman. Don't stereotype them.""
Or he could have written - "Women of fab - what do you want in bed?" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Dominance is just another word for bully 
Not sure I’d agree with that totally but I’m not interested in any man who chooses to call himself dominant. "
I’d love to see another man try and dominate my wife. They’d be picking their teeth up off the floor  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"I think what OP should probably have written is:
"Different for every woman. Don't stereotype them."
Or he could have written - "Women of fab - what do you want in bed?""
True, but then we would need to open multiple threads as each one hits the post limits. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them? "
I can only speak for myself. I find the presumptive nature of the post annoying. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think what OP should probably have written is:
"Different for every woman. Don't stereotype them."
Or he could have written - "Women of fab - what do you want in bed?"
True, but then we would need to open multiple threads as each one hits the post limits. "
Why is that problematic? I'd be happy to have a similar thread for men - I always like reading those kinds of threads. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them?
I can only speak for myself. I find the presumptive nature of the post annoying. "
That’s fair enough. I feel like a lot of the replies are aimed at the list being wrong. Which is confusing because in my experience it’s basically entirely right. So much so that 99% is lowballing it.
But then again I might be manifesting destiny by attracting those types of women that like that. I dunno |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them? "
No offence taken. I just get fed up with men assuming women like the same thing. It’s the assuming that gets me but it’s neither here nor there as I’d be unlikely to be compatible with them anyway. I just like to stick my oar in on threads  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them? "
Is that you? You could be selecting women based on your criteria and that would skew the results massively |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them? "
Without knowing how many women you have been with, your statement that 99% of women want what is in the list is entirely meaningless.
You probably selected women based on your desired and that matches the list.
If you ask a bigger sample group, you might get more statistically significant results. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Dominance is just another word for bully
Not sure I’d agree with that totally but I’m not interested in any man who chooses to call himself dominant.
I’d love to see another man try and dominate my wife. They’d be picking their teeth up off the floor "
Why would they try if its not something she wants? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them?
No offence taken. I just get fed up with men assuming women like the same thing. It’s the assuming that gets me but it’s neither here nor there as I’d be unlikely to be compatible with them anyway. I just like to stick my oar in on threads "
Agree.
All depends on deeper emotions,thoughts,where your state of mind body and soul is at the point intime. How you feel and how others make you feel.
And assumption is the mother of all evils.
Just some of my observations.
Yet still observing daily. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them?
No offence taken. I just get fed up with men assuming women like the same thing. It’s the assuming that gets me but it’s neither here nor there as I’d be unlikely to be compatible with them anyway. I just like to stick my oar in on threads "
Fair enough, as Correct as the list is (in my experience) it does seem an odd thread to just announce it on here with no other context. So I get that. Like, what’s the desired response here? Had OP even appeared after posting this? Or is it just a statement screamed into the void. Who knows |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them?
No offence taken. I just get fed up with men assuming women like the same thing. It’s the assuming that gets me but it’s neither here nor there as I’d be unlikely to be compatible with them anyway. I just like to stick my oar in on threads
Fair enough, as Correct as the list is (in my experience) it does seem an odd thread to just announce it on here with no other context. So I get that. Like, what’s the desired response here? Had OP even appeared after posting this? Or is it just a statement screamed into the void. Who knows "
True  . Some do like to throw a grenade then fuck off. Those are sometimes the most entertaining threads though |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them?
I can only speak for myself. I find the presumptive nature of the post annoying.
That’s fair enough. I feel like a lot of the replies are aimed at the list being wrong. Which is confusing because in my experience it’s basically entirely right. So much so that 99% is lowballing it.
But then again I might be manifesting destiny by attracting those types of women that like that. I dunno "
I'm sure we all mainly try to end up with people who we think will match us sexually. Profiles here give us some chance of doing that. But as soon as I saw it was a man summarising what he thinks (most) women want at the grand old age of 33 - yeah, annoying. I wouldn't dare do that about men even though I'm 20 years older and I've slept with a fair few men. It's just arrogant. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of disagreeing, some even taking offence to the list
I’d say 99% of the women I’ve been with, this list is entirely correct.
Is that confirmation bias? Is the list wrong? Right? Or do people just want to get annoyed at a list aimed at them?
Without knowing how many women you have been with, your statement that 99% of women want what is in the list is entirely meaningless.
You probably selected women based on your desired and that matches the list.
If you ask a bigger sample group, you might get more statistically significant results."
99% Is lowballing it too. Out of roughly 250 partners I can think of 1 where this list doesn’t fit. And out of a bigger sample size of women I’ve spoken to but not been with, but we’ve discussed this stuff, it’s still only a few where this list isn’t spot on. Plus I think the popularity of stuff like 50 shades can speak on this list being fairly spot on too
But your absolutely right, maybe I’m manifesting these types into my life and so my results are skewed |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now not me I just want someone to have fun with however that transpires is fine by me all that sounds exhausting for a wish list "
6. Stand up comedian? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I thought it was just Kitkat chunky & pot noodles?
Learn new things every day
See I don’t like either of those! Or cake
Ahhh, so you’re a waffle in bed type of lady "
I don’t like them either 
I’m a difficult one to please haha. This I have never denied |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Dominance is just another word for bully
Not sure I’d agree with that totally but I’m not interested in any man who chooses to call himself dominant.
I’d love to see another man try and dominate my wife. They’d be picking their teeth up off the floor "
I’d give a whirl more of sensual lover not a bed room bully |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I read this once and saw it as tongue in cheek. I've now read it for the 4th time and still struggling to see how it could be read any other way and anyone taking it seriously needs to give their head a wobble. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I read this once and saw it as tongue in cheek. I've now read it for the 4th time and still struggling to see how it could be read any other way and anyone taking it seriously needs to give their head a wobble. "
If he added
“6. Chocolate penis that cums money”
It would have been taken a little lighter I think
Which is weird because even I want a choco-knob that spews 5ers |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I read this once and saw it as tongue in cheek. I've now read it for the 4th time and still struggling to see how it could be read any other way and anyone taking it seriously needs to give their head a wobble. "
I was talking in general. It’s obvious this thread is tongue in cheek. It did bring up the fact that a lot of men do actually think this way though and that all women like the same thing |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Its the arrogance of the post that annoyed me. "
My bad
My intentions are not to be arrogant but more playful in jest.
With a hint of truth within it.
And... i didnt say 'All' women
A lot of people in this thread can see the positive in my original post and some people just to be controversial and say 'Your wrong no woman likes any of that stuff, they like what they like and its none of that'
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
1. Super king-size bed with Egyptian cotton sheets and a giant weighted blanket.
2. Walk in wardrobe
3. Ensuite with giant rainfall shower
4. Cozy reading corner
5. Secret hidden dungeon
6. Balcony with jacuzzi
That's what I want in my bedroom |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I read this once and saw it as tongue in cheek. I've now read it for the 4th time and still struggling to see how it could be read any other way and anyone taking it seriously needs to give their head a wobble. "
Can i get an ahmen |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I thought they just wanted clean sheets, 8 hours undisturbed sleep and a cup of tea or coffee in the morning while you’re cooking breakfast? "
I'd probably put this one at number 6 out of all the other suggestions in the thread  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now
I must not be a woman then "
Me neither. 
*scratches bollocks and sniffs fingers* |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"1. Foreplay - both mental and physical
2. Dominance - for us to take control mentally and physically
3. Presence - both mentally and physically
4. Average to big penis - mentally and physical lol
5. Compliments - mental n physical
(I'm happy to elaborate on any)
So there you have it
Just thought i'd do one for the boys
Go forth and have fun now
I must not be a woman then
Me neither.
*scratches bollocks and sniffs fingers*"
"Most" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
