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By *eep_going_x OP Couple over a year ago

Southend

Hey gorgeous people x

My last post on the forum was posted on too much and got removed x

Is there really a clique or elite or is this site fair x

I get some people are just more popular but some people don’t get the recognition deserved

Rant over x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh ffs

Yes. No. Maybe. 69 or 42!9f then and #theyknowwho.

Anyway. Anyone FAF

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even as someone that often gets replied to on here I think those that are upset that they’re ignored or never replied to are completely entitled to feel that way. I just try and be more inclusive. I message men on the threads about sending nice messages etc. Nobody HAS to do that. But I think it’s my way of saying I see those people. And it’s completely a) true and b) fair, for them to feel that way.

Anyway in the words of (the most toxic) Future- it’s a evil world we live in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are certainly forum cliques but they likely know eachother in real life too, but who cares? It is just a website. As for most Fabbed pics I think nothing unfair about the system, some have just built up followers on their own merits

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Hey gorgeous people x

My last post on the forum was posted on too much and got removed x

Is there really a clique or elite or is this site fair x

I get some people are just more popular but some people don’t get the recognition deserved

Rant over x "

Removed?

It's still there

Threads get to ~175 posts and automatically close. That's how the forum works, nothing to do with you.

So yeah, the sites judgemental

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put you in my clique op. Mr can watch though

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By *mily36CWoman over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Oh ffs

Yes. No. Maybe. 69 or 42!9f then and #theyknowwho.

Anyway. Anyone FAF

No.... but FAM?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

There are deffo cliques I noticed on first using forums! But I don't think they mean much! Best is just to join in and take it all with pinch of salt! And I don't look as it as getting ignored as such ! Sure not intentionally anyways! And there will allways b the more popular peeps anywhere work etc just how it is x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

Wherever people gather, they will form groups. It's natural and normal. Yes this board can have threads which are entirely dominated by cliques answering back and forth. But there are many much more inclusive posters. If someone answers you great but if they don't it says nothing about you! Post only on the more inclusive threads if it matters to you and swerve completely any posts that rate people.

Opinions and assholes.

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By *ryandseeMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

"There are deffo cliques I noticed on first using forums! But I don't think they mean much! Best is just to join in and take it all with pinch of salt! And I don't look as it as getting ignored as such ! Sure not intentionally anyways! And there will allways b the more popular peeps anywhere work etc just how it is x"

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By *JstarsoloWoman over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"Wherever people gather, they will form groups. It's natural and normal. Yes this board can have threads which are entirely dominated by cliques answering back and forth. But there are many much more inclusive posters. If someone answers you great but if they don't it says nothing about you! Post only on the more inclusive threads if it matters to you and swerve completely any posts that rate people.

Opinions and assholes."

Well said

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple over a year ago

peterborough

Recognition in what way?

People who read forums and post on them are more likely to notice other regular posters too and therefore will be more inclined to reply to someone they recognise about a subject they have an opinion on. Others won’t have the confidence to post and will just lurk and read. Those people won’t get noticed because it doesn’t tell us who’s read it, only who’s responded.

There are profiles that i regularly see in the forums which I otherwise wouldn’t, because the person who’s posted isn’t in my area or doesn’t come up in the searches we do. So it unearths people we wouldn’t ordinarily see.

There might be an absolutely stunning profile on here that you’ve seen because they are local to you or have come up in a search you’ve done and believe it ‘deserves recognition’ (what ever that really means) but if they aren’t posting in forums or making it into hot pics, a lot of people may miss it.

It’s not about popularity or any ‘clique’, it’s more about how people use this site differently.

My husband for example will look through hot pics. A lot of the profiles he mentions to me from hot pics are people that never post in forums so I haven’t seen their profile because I don’t look at hot pics. He doesn’t come on the forum, So doesn’t recognise some of the people I’ve seen on here and put on our hotlist.

I think this is a subject that’s massively over thought, and if people are coming here to be part of a popularity contest, then they are likely here for the wrong reasons.

I’m pretty sure at some point, you’ll see a thread on here and it’ll have no replies and you won’t respond because you have no opinion on it or just can’t be bothered. That’s life!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe there are groups of people who just interact because they know each other more and are familiar with their personalities so there's comfort in speaking more freely directly to them.

If I reply to a post, it's because the post itself intrigues me rather than who said it. When I post, I just put it out there into the Fabiverse without expectation of a reply. It's the best way to do it really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t think there is. I think people use that for a reason that they feel they’ve been ignored or being jumped on for saying something offensive.

I’ll join in with anyone if they say something that interests me and I’ve found people have been the same with me.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Is there a clique? No.

Is it fair? No and neither should it be

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By *ryandseeMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

Copied ftom my responce to a similar thread.

I post when I feel I have something to say, serious or a bit of fun. Good to see other opinions and also have a little banter as long as its not intentionally hurtful to anyone. Not interested in anyone causing arguments for the sake of it. Yes lots of people ignore an exactly same message and just respond to someone 'they know', so be it. If I create a thread and nobody posts, so be it. Who cares really, it's all just a bit of fun and passing the time a long as everyone is respectful to one another. I try to behave towards others as I like them behaving towards me but in the end if I don't like something I just move on. Life is too short. I worry about my real friends and family and that's enough

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes there are some cliques mostly people who have gotten to know each other.Yes there are some who believe in their own heads they are fab elite and think they have power over what happens on here.Thoae just make me laugh as there is no elite on here and they usually dissappear when they realise that

And yes there are people who get more fabs and recognition than others.Everyone uses fab their own way.

But who really gives a damn I know I couldn't give a rat's ass. Others can do whatever they want or chat to whomever they like just the same as I do.

There are people on here who will blame others and use every excuse under the sun the blame others as to why they have no luck on here,and usually the truth is a lot closer to home but they won't change anything they will just continue to blame everyone else.

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

I don't follow the masses i don't want to be followed by the masses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooo you mentioned the clique

It be on the banned list for you

Meaning they not talk to you everyone in it will icnore you

And all while trying to say they good nice people

When in reality they are showing the opiste to that abs are showing very toxic behaviour that would suggest they aren’t nice people at all

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By *onkeynutWoman over a year ago

somewhere

There are friendship groups that post on the forum, often it’s seen as cliquey but it’s just friends interacting with people they know. Much like in real life.

I don’t know why people make such a big deal of it to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are friendship groups that post on the forum, often it’s seen as cliquey but it’s just friends interacting with people they know. Much like in real life.

I don’t know why people make such a big deal of it to be honest.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes there are some cliques mostly people who have gotten to know each other.Yes there are some who believe in their own heads they are fab elite and think they have power over what happens on here.Thoae just make me laugh as there is no elite on here and they usually dissappear when they realise that

And yes there are people who get more fabs and recognition than others.Everyone uses fab their own way.

But who really gives a damn I know I couldn't give a rat's ass. Others can do whatever they want or chat to whomever they like just the same as I do.

If I could put it better than this I would but I can’t do I won’t,spot on!!!!!

Tony

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"There are friendship groups that post on the forum, often it’s seen as cliquey but it’s just friends interacting with people they know. Much like in real life.

I don’t know why people make such a big deal of it to be honest.

Exactly, I've been on the forums for about 2 years so I've got to know some people quite well

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

Why does anyone actually care about this?

Surely we’re all here for own reasons it’s not high school?!? I’m in competition with no one, I appreciate well shot photos and warm personalities that come over in the forums any negativity or nastiness that comes from a perception of an online personality I’ve zero time for. I’ll just do me and get on with it xx

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

There’s also private kik groups where other members are discussed in detail. Where they decide to bully certain users, attack users or outright ignore users. They will even group together and message people in other areas saying “don’t meet X because he’s (whatever)” in an attempt to ruin their fab experience. And where they even go as far as trying to gather info from people they don’t like by arranging fake meets, so they can attempt to out them / shame them in the real world

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By *eep_going_x OP Couple over a year ago

Southend

"There are certainly forum cliques but they likely know eachother in real life too, but who cares? It is just a website. As for most Fabbed pics I think nothing unfair about the system, some have just built up followers on their own merits

Very well articulated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Yes, there is indeed an insidious, shadowy cabal on here.

The FAB Illuminati are real I tell ye all!

I must away now with haste for they are already watching me and there is a dark car parked outside my house…..

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad? "

When I first joined a forum user messaged me with screenshots of the Kik group and warned me not to get on peoples bad side or they’ll attack you. Apparently a female friend got invited into one and sent him the screenshots to warn him.

I can’t verify it myself. But I wouldn’t put it past people.

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad? "

Holy crap!

I'm not sure how to take this.

I mean, I've not been ganged up on or had any fakes try to meet me.

No one likes me, no one dislikes me. I'll be over there in the corner, all alone.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

There are definitely people who want to be the most fabbed or mentioned on the hottest fabber list etc. And of course there are those who feel a meh I'd they aren't included. And that's ok, people's feelings are valid.

Sometimes when we say there's no clique I think it dismisses others feelings. We all know how intimidating it can feel walking into a pub where you don't know anyone, the forum is the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

I never used to believe this. But I do now.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman over a year ago

Next Door

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Are people that sad and evil?

I've not experienced anything like this in the 6 yrs that I've been using fab. I must be nieve to such things

I know there are groups of friends that chat on and off of here.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Accusations of cliques have been around for years.

New posters think they're being ignored, 'twas ever thus.

The reality is that there are regulars, and irregulars. Regulars have a history, whether entirely forum based or having been to the same events, and a natural badinage comes out. It doesn't mean that they ignore the irregulars, it just means they have a clearer idea where they stand with people they 'know'.

If irregulars post more, get involved, and don't bring the preconception that they're not welcome, then they'll be regulars before they even realise it...

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By *oo..Woman over a year ago

Boo's World

And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes most definitely, no different to real life as it's all the same people, here or there. Their behaviour is the same wherever they appear.

Those in them don't see it and will be first to deny they exist.

Who really cares though? If you need validation from people and you're not in any groups here then you're looking in the wrong place.

Just use fab how you want to use it and not how others dictate, whether Thane you need to do this or you need to do that etc etc.

What works for them may or may not work for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

I can’t verify it myself. But I wouldn’t put it past people. "

I guess cunts will be cunts. If these groups do exist I hope they all exclude me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are pockets of friendship groups. Are these cliques? No idea. Couldn't tell you what a clique is.

Is there an elite? I don't thinks so. There is probably a group who have been here a while, post a lot, and so are known.

But that's life.

There are also some (not always forumers) who apparently spend a lot of time getting fabs. That's a different beats altogether imo. There is only some overlap between top pics and fabs. And as far as I can see, those forumers who do get in the top pics don't do the tricks. They just have a hotlist following I'd guess.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple over a year ago

here & there

"And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

It’s our ball & you're not playing!

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Thats a proper conspiracy theory, good effort. Was it Sydney University you got this from?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe there are groups of people who just interact because they know each other more and are familiar with their personalities so there's comfort in speaking more freely directly to them.

Yes but you are a positive and wholesome and well-rounded person. Not all of us are this lucky

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm in the forums because I want to be me ..my own construction...I get the odd bitch at or pulled up...but I say fuk em ...

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By *oo..Woman over a year ago

Boo's World

"And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

It’s our ball & you're not playing! "

Wanna bet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are definitely people who want to be the most fabbed or mentioned on the hottest fabber list etc. And of course there are those who feel a meh I'd they aren't included. And that's ok, people's feelings are valid.

Sometimes when we say there's no clique I think it dismisses others feelings. We all know how intimidating it can feel walking into a pub where you don't know anyone, the forum is the same. "

But if you join in and chat to people, then you don't feel like an outsider after a while. And I haven't met people in real life. I've just chatted on here with enough people for long enough that now I banter with some on the forum. Took a few months for me. I still rarely if ever get mentioned in popularity threads. Which is fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can someone point to where the thread is for getting my dick wet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

This 100%. Been on and off here over 10 years and seen a lot of screen shots from these 'ladies' groups, yes ladies groups, set up apparently to support each other, have lunches socials etc. Initially great idea but doesn't take long before there's stuff being spread around about others in the name of 'protection'.

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By *oo..Woman over a year ago

Boo's World

"Can someone point to where the thread is for getting my dick wet?

Get to Aldi, it's in the special buy's aisle.

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By *he love catsCouple over a year ago

South Wales

In our experience as new posters, we have always felt welcome in the forum's. I wouldn't say there's cliques, it's just that people have become friends over the years of being on the forums and a lot have met in club's and social events, so its to be expected. Some threads flop and some do well that's life.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple over a year ago

here & there

"And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

It’s our ball & you're not playing!

Wanna bet

But MISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS she started it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It comes down to perspective.

With every forum, some bonds are made and the result of that can be seen as a clique or as friends conversing using a social media platform.

Banter with one another can take over many threads.

Some recognise these actions as a clique when a thread created about a particular subject is rubbished or taken over and diverted by the forum friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone point to where the thread is for getting my dick wet?

Get to Aldi, it's in the special buy's aisle.

Every Lidl helps.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

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By *oo..Woman over a year ago

Boo's World

"And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

It’s our ball & you're not playing!

Wanna bet

But MISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS she started it! "

Usually true as well

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Sometimes when we say there's no clique I think it dismisses others feelings. We all know how intimidating it can feel walking into a pub where you don't know anyone, the forum is the same.

I've done the same, but to be fair a few took me under their wing and helped me out as I was a bit unsure of it all initially. But that wasn't my point.

To say the forum doesn't feel cliquey when you are new is probably a bit wrong. Because I imagine many have felt it is at some point on here when we've felt a bit down. Plus I know it's probably been easier for me than a single male. I just don't believe we should invalidate others feelings but help them get involved more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

For some, the forum is a friendly place, but not for all.

It's also a topic that her people talking, and therefore may begin to get recognised in the forum.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Accusations of cliques have been around for years.

New posters think they're being ignored, 'twas ever thus.

If irregulars post more, get involved, and don't bring the preconception that they're not welcome, then they'll be regulars before they even realise it..."

Exactly this

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Less than 1% of the sites members use the forums.

Some that do just use the forums and don't actually meet, so spend more time engaging with others in the same situation, hence they 'know' each other. The more time you spend in here the more you'll be noticed. The more you interact the more you'll be noticed. The more threads you start and comments you make the more you'll be noticed.

The more you're noticed the more you'll be accused of being in some sort of clique. Tis the way of the internet.

If your main goal on here is to meet and have sex then the forums really aren't that important.

Of your main goal is to webcam then the forums really aren't important.

If your main goal is to post pics for attention and get as many 'fabs' as possible....yep...the forums really aren't important.

Just do you and let others do them. It makes for a much happier time on site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There’s cliques everywhere you go it’s part of life…but am I going to get upset because wee Norman has been sitting in the corner massaging his wotsit to someone else’s pic more than mine…then hell no lol

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

They all meet up once a month to make a huge human centipede I heard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes when we say there's no clique I think it dismisses others feelings. We all know how intimidating it can feel walking into a pub where you don't know anyone, the forum is the same. "

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

I can give you a wet white one

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

I guess you need to find the Grand Master Bator of Fab to grant you one

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

Are you assuming you are elite or do you already know because you are a member of these secret kik groups?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

They all meet up once a month to make a huge human centipede I heard

Blimey!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

"And again.......

Why are people so bothered on here by what others do or the attention they get?

Its like being back at school on here lately.

^^This sums it up!! Don’t overthink it!

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I keep myself to myself - can’t get into any bother then

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By *ryandseeMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

That's why the cake threads are here, to unite everybody. Well except where jaffa cakes are concerned

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

Are you assuming you are elite or do you already know because you are a member of these secret kik groups?

Nope I just a crown cause I'm special

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

Are you assuming you are elite or do you already know because you are a member of these secret kik groups?

Nope I just a crown cause I'm special

One sparkly crown with "special" on it is winging its way to you as we speak

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

Are you assuming you are elite or do you already know because you are a member of these secret kik groups?

Nope I just a crown cause I'm special

One sparkly crown with "special" on it is winging its way to you as we speak

Lol thank you

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

I can give you a wet white one

What you have glittery jizz!!!!

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

I guess you need to find the Grand Master Bator of Fab to grant you one

Off to search for him now

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Honestly the idea of a fab elite is frankly hilarious

. Do they have crowns and capes?

I want a glittery crown please

I can give you a wet white one

What you have glittery jizz!!!!"

Come find out

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm not concerned with cliques or any perceived fellowships, IF they exist. There is a camaraderie amongst the Forumites but it's harmless and friendly, and based upon common familiarities.

It would be nice to see more solidarity though....

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By *eep_going_x OP Couple over a year ago

Southend

"I'm not concerned with cliques or any perceived fellowships, IF they exist. There is a camaraderie amongst the Forumites but it's harmless and friendly, and based upon common familiarities.

It would be nice to see more solidarity though....

Thank you

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Oh ffs

Yes. No. Maybe. 69 or 42!9f then and #theyknowwho.

Anyway. Anyone FAF

Me me me!!!!

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

I get some people are just more popular but some people don’t get the recognition deserved

Rant over x "

Just another quick thought OP.

Do you comment on every thread posted in the forums? Do you reply to every comment on your threads? Do you answer every message you're sent?

Because if not, then surely you're failing to give recognition to those people?

I don't honestly think you or anyone else should have to do any of those things of course. It would be unrealistic and pointless.

Threads only run to 175 comments so if everyone replied on every thread they'd last mere seconds. If everyone replied to every message there wouldn't be enough hours in the day to do anything else for some. If everyone fabbed every picture posted by every profile then what would be the point?

Do some people deserve more recognition? Undoubtedly.

But recognition has to be earned to a certain extent. Nobody is entitled to anything on here, bar courtesy and respect. And even those two things can be lost easily enough.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

I get some people are just more popular but some people don’t get the recognition deserved

Rant over x

Just another quick thought OP.

Do you comment on every thread posted in the forums? Do you reply to every comment on your threads? Do you answer every message you're sent?

Because if not, then surely you're failing to give recognition to those people?

I don't honestly think you or anyone else should have to do any of those things of course. It would be unrealistic and pointless.

Do some people deserve more recognition? Undoubtedly.

But recognition has to be earned to a certain extent. Nobody is entitled to anything on here, bar courtesy and respect. And even those two things can be lost easily enough.

Didn't reply to my comment yesterday so I can answer this one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

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By *innocentMan over a year ago

Littlehampton

My gang has blankey forts ,twinkly lights ,snacks with extra hummus,and videos of dogs sneezing playing on repeat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Redistribute your popularity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please. "

I'm on Telegram. But I don't have a gang.

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

"My gang has blankey forts ,twinkly lights ,snacks with extra hummus,and videos of dogs sneezing playing on repeat. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

I'm on Telegram. But I don't have a gang.

I got you homie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please. "

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?"

Only foreskin shots. Nothing crazy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

I'm on Telegram. But I don't have a gang.

I got you homie

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?

Only foreskin shots. Nothing crazy. "

Do they have to be your own because this is a issue for me

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

I'm on Telegram. But I don't have a gang.

•

She's on telly, gran.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?

Only foreskin shots. Nothing crazy.

Do they have to be your own because this is a issue for me

Just use some ham.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?

Only foreskin shots. Nothing crazy.

Do they have to be your own because this is a issue for me

Just use some ham. "

Added to shopping

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?

Only foreskin shots. Nothing crazy. "

So we’re excluding the circumcised? Not cool Steve.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?

Only foreskin shots. Nothing crazy.

So we’re excluding the circumcised? Not cool Steve."

•

Under no circumstances circumvent the circumcised, it would be conspicuously circumspect.

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By *ryandseeMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

A few places still left to join the Fabcakekers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message me to join a gang. Don’t want to be called a clique. We’re a gang. WhatsApp or telegram please.

What sort of initiations do we have to do to join?

Only foreskin shots. Nothing crazy.

So we’re excluding the circumcised? Not cool Steve.

•

Under no circumstances circumvent the circumcised, it would be conspicuously circumspect."

If they can circumnavigate the world of fab they are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im just a man with a man's courage

You know im nothing but a man

And i can never fail

No one but the pure at heart

May find the Golden Grail

Oh-oh, oh-oh

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

OPs profile pic has been fabbed 500 times in 6 weeks.

Every pic I've ever put up has been been fabbed about 100 times between them, over 15 years.

And she thinks she's being "excluded" somehow.

(This is not "woe is me", this is just context)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly, I believe people overthink things too much. If there’s a clique or popularity contest going on or not, does it matter? Doesn’t to me in any case. I generally only chat to people who interest/engage me on or off the forum. What other people do is none of my business or concern.

I’ve posted threads in the past that have had little to no comments, other times I’ve read threads and made no comment. If a thread doesn’t interest you or someone has already made the point you’d make why would you comment? It’s life.

Anyway, got to run as I’m off to join Pickle’s gang

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are not particularly popular, but chip in when we see an interesting or fun thread. We particularly love the photo challenges!

But no one has ever been rude or nasty to us, we just don't always get replies or responses... C'est la vie!

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad? "

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

I'm also aware of some who have made a point of asking to join these groups or seek out and befriend people with aggressive profiles simply to avoid being targeted by either.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

I'm also aware of some who have made a point of asking to join these groups or seek out and befriend people with aggressive profiles simply to avoid being targeted by either."

It's very easy to say stay away from those you believe are in cliques if it upsets you but sometimes they aren't easy to avoid especially when they continuously use sock puppets to wind up those they are targeting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

I'm also aware of some who have made a point of asking to join these groups or seek out and befriend people with aggressive profiles simply to avoid being targeted by either."
it would be good if a woman can confirm this. Would add some additional credibility to the suggestion (and PM if you're worried about persecution).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad? "

Yes it does happen as I’ve been asked a few times about other people and what went on at social events. When I’ve given zero information I’ve been shunned

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

I'm also aware of some who have made a point of asking to join these groups or seek out and befriend people with aggressive profiles simply to avoid being targeted by either."

These groups are becoming like some kind of urban myth. Never once have I been invited to any kind of group or has it been suggested I join one. Nor do I know anyone who has ever talked of being actually in one.. rather than my mate said and I have been told… I would like some actual facts from someone who has seen it first hand.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

I'm also aware of some who have made a point of asking to join these groups or seek out and befriend people with aggressive profiles simply to avoid being targeted by either.it would be good if a woman can confirm this. Would add some additional credibility to the suggestion (and PM if you're worried about persecution). "

PM who and why?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

Personally I've only ever heard men talk about it being a thing. I'm not naive enough to believe that no nastiness/bitching goes on in private messages between individuals but the idea of organised groups scheming so that certain men can never get meets seems a bit far fetched to me.

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By *eep_going_x OP Couple over a year ago

Southend

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

Interesting babes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

PM who and why?

Women have confirmed this on the forums many many times. Women have spoken about former forum posters who have left after being outed on social media by these groups sharing their private information. "
I havent ever seen anything along these lines confirmed. And I've been a regular in my time.

I have heard stories of being outef. Not from Kik groups tho. Normally it's by men.

Possibly we notice what we look for. I will accept that.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

The frustrating part about most of these threads is that it's not only men who have been targeted and despite the fact that women have often spoken out about them or agreed that these things happen, no-one seems to remember those posts and suddenly it becomes a myth.

I could say that I've been sent screenshots of these group conversations where my name was mentioned and people asked if anyone had my personal details but would anyone really believe me?

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

" the idea of organised groups scheming so that certain men can never get meets seems a bit far fetched to me. "

the idea that some people have that much time, let alone vindictiveness, while still remaining popular enough to carry any kind of weight in who other people have sex with, is just incredible.

Literally. I can't credit it.

I'm sure people have been shown screenshot (which are undoctored) saying bad things about people, but isolated negativity is not proof of some sort of shadowy organisation manipulating the sex lives of others while cackling manically...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

I could say that I've been sent screenshots of these group conversations where my name was mentioned and people asked if anyone had my personal details but would anyone really believe me?

I could say that I've been contacted by well verified women I've never spoken to before advising me that certain things have been said but once again that would be pointless if it's seen as second or third hand info and not taken seriously. "
I understand your frustration. And iirc you also had some of this irl at a group social. So get it is real for you.

Does your post history go far enough back to find said threads ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Illuminati confirmed

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad? "

I'm sorry to say it does happen.

I was recently messaged by someone I had never interacted with asking why I was warning people about him.

I asked him what he was on about to be told that a friend of his has told him that "Red" had put him on a "one to avoid list". He made an assumption that this "Red" was me.

I assured him it wasn't me & he later messaged to confirm the name of the woman who'd supposedly said this.

Absolutely crazy behaviour.

It's shit like this that turns friends on here into "the clique" & and thus a VERY BAD THING.

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By *eep_going_x OP Couple over a year ago

Southend

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

I'm sorry to say it does happen.

I was recently messaged by someone I had never interacted with asking why I was warning people about him.

I asked him what he was on about to be told that a friend of his has told him that "Red" had put him on a "one to avoid list". He made an assumption that this "Red" was me.

I assured him it wasn't me & he later messaged to confirm the name of the woman who'd supposedly said this.

Absolutely crazy behaviour.

It's shit like this that turns friends on here into "the clique" & and thus a VERY BAD THING."

This really happens thanks for sharing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yall do get hung up on nonsense

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

I could say that I've been sent screenshots of these group conversations where my name was mentioned and people asked if anyone had my personal details but would anyone really believe me?

I could say that I've been contacted by well verified women I've never spoken to before advising me that certain things have been said but once again that would be pointless if it's seen as second or third hand info and not taken seriously. I understand your frustration. And iirc you also had some of this irl at a group social. So get it is real for you.

Does your post history go far enough back to find said threads ?

To be honest I laugh it off because I rarely meet, my circle is tiny and my interaction on the site is 95% forum related.

The frustration comes from the fact that there have been numerous threads over the years where women have spoken about having their safety compromised and how their details have been shared in chatgroups by men they trusted and the response has been universally supportive.

On the flip side if a man suggests that he has been targeted by similar groups it is always a myth or an urban legend.

As I said above, my experience is nothing in comparison with others and there are lots of women who have had their fab experience influenced or affected by people who either aren't able to handle competition or don't like being told they are wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

I'm sorry to say it does happen.

I was recently messaged by someone I had never interacted with asking why I was warning people about him.

I asked him what he was on about to be told that a friend of his has told him that "Red" had put him on a "one to avoid list". He made an assumption that this "Red" was me.

I assured him it wasn't me & he later messaged to confirm the name of the woman who'd supposedly said this.

Absolutely crazy behaviour.

It's shit like this that turns friends on here into "the clique" & and thus a VERY BAD THING."

It’s just really odd behaviour but I guess nothing should surprise me on here anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had forum women contact me on my other profile, 'warning me off' some people. Slanderous allegations.

I just ignored them as I don't care what they have to say and they clearly didn't know about this profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

"
does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

I'm sorry to say it does happen.

I was recently messaged by someone I had never interacted with asking why I was warning people about him.

I asked him what he was on about to be told that a friend of his has told him that "Red" had put him on a "one to avoid list". He made an assumption that this "Red" was me.

I assured him it wasn't me & he later messaged to confirm the name of the woman who'd supposedly said this.

Absolutely crazy behaviour.

It's shit like this that turns friends on here into "the clique" & and thus a VERY BAD THING.

This really happens thanks for sharing x

Not a problem. I just don't think this behaviour is in any way acceptable. And why I don't do group chats.

I'm not saying I don't have a good old bitch about certain folk when they piss me off, or exasperate me with their utter hypocrisy in forum posts - sometimes I even call them out for it publicly (if I can safely do it without a time out!).

But we all bitch, don't we? Thats human. What's not right is the gang mentality. If I don't like you it's not because my mate has told me not to, it's because I think you're a tosser

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !"

No I screen shot the post before admin pulled it and banned the person for talking out about what gose on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !"

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

No I screen shot the post before admin pulled it and banned the person for talking out about what gose on "
was the thread deleted too ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

No I screen shot the post before admin pulled it and banned the person for talking out about what gose on was the thread deleted too ? "
yes

Thread gone but hawk eyes was watching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning."

There was more than forum rules broken if the post is anything to go by some people need to be took up on data breach charges for reading pms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning.

There was more than forum rules broken if the post is anything to go by some people need to be took up on data breach charges for reading pms "
now I'm intrigued. I need to stay up later !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning.

There was more than forum rules broken if the post is anything to go by some people need to be took up on data breach charges for reading pms now I'm intrigued. I need to stay up later !!"

Let’s just say your pms aren’t safe from these groups

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning.

There was more than forum rules broken if the post is anything to go by some people need to be took up on data breach charges for reading pms now I'm intrigued. I need to stay up later !!

Let’s just say your pms aren’t safe from these groups "

Are you saying the site was hacked or people were taking screenshots of PM's and sharing them with others?

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning.

There was more than forum rules broken if the post is anything to go by some people need to be took up on data breach charges for reading pms now I'm intrigued. I need to stay up later !!

Let’s just say your pms aren’t safe from these groups

Are you saying the site was hacked or people were taking screenshots of PM's and sharing them with others?

Pxx"

No I am saying the post accused admin off going in reading people pms and then shareing them to a private group

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Yeah it happens. And don’t think it’s just men they target. Women are equally nasty to eachother as well as to men they don’t like

It’s funny to think there’s probably people in this thread commenting it doesn’t happen, while taking screenshots and posting it to the kik group

Hi kik!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning.

There was more than forum rules broken if the post is anything to go by some people need to be took up on data breach charges for reading pms now I'm intrigued. I need to stay up later !!

Let’s just say your pms aren’t safe from these groups

Are you saying the site was hacked or people were taking screenshots of PM's and sharing them with others?

Pxx

No I am saying the post accused admin off going in reading people pms and then shareing them to a private group "

Thanks for the heads up.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Does this really happen? I’ve seen it mentioned before but are people really that sad?

It very much does happen and unfortunately has a knock on effect.

Many people have been driven off the site for no reason apart from having the temerity to say no to a popular member of one of these groups or even just a difference of opinion on the forums.

I've spoken to lots of women who have been invited to join these groups and they have swiftly left again when they witnessed what was happening.

A member spilled it all out late night before being swiftly banned agein about what gose on I have full screen shots

I am not risking anything any way as I am on the they crap list any way

does that thread still exist ?

Who banned them ?

I don't fab in the middle of the night so maybe that's why I miss the threads !

It broke some forum rules so was removed in the very early morning.

There was more than forum rules broken if the post is anything to go by some people need to be took up on data breach charges for reading pms now I'm intrigued. I need to stay up later !!

Let’s just say your pms aren’t safe from these groups

Are you saying the site was hacked or people were taking screenshots of PM's and sharing them with others?

Pxx

No I am saying the post accused admin off going in reading people pms and then shareing them to a private group

Thanks for the heads up.

Pxx"

Your welcome

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman over a year ago

Kent

A guy I know, and have met, was targeted by one of these kik groups. Several women told him they wouldn't meet him as he must have genital warts after meeting "person X", and other horrifying falsehoods. He'd actually never met "person X" or said/behaved in any of the other ways they were accusing him of. It was shocking to see a bunch of women gang up on such a kind, well spoken and thoroughly decent guy who has had only a small handful of meets with good verifications. It certainly opened my eyes to the shite that is spread on kik groups. Wouldn't be surprised if my name was involved as I met him, but I don't really care, for every gossiping idiot there's a nice person to talk to instead.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums "

You don’t have to be mean or bad

You just have to have a different opponents from someone in the group and it’s mute from all off them

Funny thing is

That group isn’t going to be there if they bump in to you at a club

But that group will stop that person from getting to know someone awesome

Abs they going to need to sit back and watch as others get to know that person

All while that person would have been interested but because off the way you and that group treated the person they are not interested one bit

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By *irtydevil666Man over a year ago

bristol

All a bit like school.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All a bit like school....."

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums "

It’s not even bad or mean stuff. You might just have a different opinion to then. You might have rejected someone in that group. They might think your a bit of a white knight / simp on the forums

This is school yard bully stuff. Anyone, for any reason, can be a target

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

You don’t have to be mean or bad

You just have to have a different opponents from someone in the group and it’s mute from all off them

Funny thing is

That group isn’t going to be there if they bump in to you at a club

But that group will stop that person from getting to know someone awesome

Abs they going to need to sit back and watch as others get to know that person

All while that person would have been interested but because off the way you and that group treated the person they are not interested one bit

That's why I'm worried because I don't have to have really done anything for rumours to spread.

I'm often disagreeing with people but that's not uncommon in life to have different opinions and if people don't want to know because of something that's made up then I guess they aren't my type of person anyway

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

It’s not even bad or mean stuff. You might just have a different opinion to then. You might have rejected someone in that group. They might think your a bit of a white knight / simp on the forums

This is school yard bully stuff. Anyone, for any reason, can be a target "

Well I am picky, I can't help that though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

You don’t have to be mean or bad

You just have to have a different opponents from someone in the group and it’s mute from all off them

Funny thing is

That group isn’t going to be there if they bump in to you at a club

But that group will stop that person from getting to know someone awesome

Abs they going to need to sit back and watch as others get to know that person

All while that person would have been interested but because off the way you and that group treated the person they are not interested one bit

That's why I'm worried because I don't have to have really done anything for rumours to spread.

That’s the way I see it as well

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums "

Anyone I've ever spoken to privately on here can confirm my personality and no-one can point a finger and legitimately claim I've ever been anything but pleasant and approachable.

That counts for nothing where some people are concerned.

I don't even attempt to understand the rationale behind a lot of things that grown adults are capable of. I've witnessed many atrocities in my time and nothing on here surprises me in the slightest.

Some people are so focused on their own press that they don't care how they treat others. It's a means to an end.

If they say jump and you don't jump fast or high enough then others need to be told that you are useless at jumping.

If they say now and you say no then others have to be rounded up to put the nasty man in his place.

It really is as flippant as that to some.

I'd like to say they don't consider the consequences of their actions but that would be very naive.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

Anyone I've ever spoken to privately on here can confirm my personality and no-one can point a finger and legitimately claim I've ever been anything but pleasant and approachable.

That counts for nothing where some people are concerned.

I don't even attempt to understand the rationale behind a lot of things that grown adults are capable of. I've witnessed many atrocities in my time and nothing on here surprises me in the slightest.

Some people are so focused on their own press that they don't care how they treat others. It's a means to an end.

If they say jump and you don't jump fast or high enough then others need to be told that you are useless at jumping.

If they say now and you say no then others have to be rounded up to put the nasty man in his place.

It really is as flippant as that to some.

I'd like to say they don't consider the consequences of their actions but that would be very naive. "

To be honest nothing shocks me after over 3 years on here, I try to get on with as many people as possible and just have a laugh and enjoy meeting people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

Anyone I've ever spoken to privately on here can confirm my personality and no-one can point a finger and legitimately claim I've ever been anything but pleasant and approachable.

That counts for nothing where some people are concerned.

I don't even attempt to understand the rationale behind a lot of things that grown adults are capable of. I've witnessed many atrocities in my time and nothing on here surprises me in the slightest.

Some people are so focused on their own press that they don't care how they treat others. It's a means to an end.

If they say jump and you don't jump fast or high enough then others need to be told that you are useless at jumping.

If they say now and you say no then others have to be rounded up to put the nasty man in his place.

It really is as flippant as that to some.

I'd like to say they don't consider the consequences of their actions but that would be very naive. "

I feel like this time around I've adopted more of a devil may care attitude with the way people on here view me. I was happy with this but not gonna lie I'm now paranoid that someone somewhere may take issue with something I've said and doxx me

Luckily the women I've spoken to off-fab have been lovely and have never even hinted at such behaviour (but then again they are lovely on here too)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes i believe there are, theres afew of us that bounce off one and other but this, ive been here a total of 8 years only the last 3 been regular on the forums. People come and go, some personalities clash & some mate in perfect harmony, some people are out and out nasty. Ive had screen shots sent from 'private groups' that have been narky about me, when i was with 'daisy' she received hate for no reason whatso ever from a certain group... that are still on here and active in the forums. Just keep doing your thing and avoid those haters... because lets be honest they're more than likely threatened by your looks or popularity.

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Yes i believe there are, theres afew of us that bounce off one and other but this, ive been here a total of 8 years only the last 3 been regular on the forums. People come and go, some personalities clash & some mate in perfect harmony, some people are out and out nasty. Ive had screen shots sent from 'private groups' that have been narky about me, when i was with 'daisy' she received hate for no reason whatso ever from a certain group... that are still on here and active in the forums. Just keep doing your thing and avoid those haters... because lets be honest they're more than likely threatened by your looks or popularity.

That's just crap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's just crap

Its human nature to feel threatened by competition tinds, part and part of the internet.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums "

•

You're far too classy to be mentioned in any Kik Group. Kik is for the 'great unwashed'.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

•

You're far too classy to be mentioned in any Kik Group. Kik is for the 'great unwashed'.

Cheers buddy

I'm safe as I wash daily

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"[Shower Gel removed by poster at 24/05/22 15:36:06]"

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

That's just crap

Its human nature to feel threatened by competition tinds, part and part of the internet.

Oh I know, no doubt we've all been talked about sometime, or likewise blanked

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"[Shower Gel removed by poster at 24/05/22 15:36:06]"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm just surprised people give so much head space to Fab to create private groups to slag other members

As far as forum cliques go, anyone who has spent any amount of time on any kind of message boards will know that regular posters always seem to bounce off each other more. I grew up using message boards & chat rooms (AOL chat anyone) and it's nothing new about people feeling there are cliques.

To me this is just a good way to procrastinate!

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"There’s definitely cliques and friend groups which is cool

Blimey, I never knew

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

That’s just bonkers. The problem is because fab is so ‘virtual’ and it’s not allowed to be discussed, for those that aren’t part of these groups it’s hard to process and makes you wonder who the hell is!! Do I know them?? Are they people I like!? Creates an awful paranoia around something that’s essentially a bit of fun.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm starting to wonder if I've ever been mentioned in these groups

I'd like to think people would ask me in private about anything said if I was mentioned as I've not done anything bad to anyone or been mean on or off the forums

Anyone I've ever spoken to privately on here can confirm my personality and no-one can point a finger and legitimately claim I've ever been anything but pleasant and approachable.

That counts for nothing where some people are concerned.

I don't even attempt to understand the rationale behind a lot of things that grown adults are capable of. I've witnessed many atrocities in my time and nothing on here surprises me in the slightest.

Some people are so focused on their own press that they don't care how they treat others. It's a means to an end.

If they say jump and you don't jump fast or high enough then others need to be told that you are useless at jumping.

If they say now and you say no then others have to be rounded up to put the nasty man in his place.

It really is as flippant as that to some.

I'd like to say they don't consider the consequences of their actions but that would be very naive.

Luckily the women I've spoken to off-fab have been lovely and have never even hinted at such behaviour (but then again they are lovely on here too) "

I started a thread last year comparing fab to three local pub that gets mentioned all the time and the different characters you could meet in there.

I thought it was a funny if cynical thread about perceptions and how people see themselves as well as others.

People catching sight of their reflection in the mirror behind the bar but thinking it was someone else.

Others grabbing attention and compliments that weren't for them in the first place. Quite a few women commented on it to add things like greeting new arrivals like long lost friends before bitching about them as they were at the bar getting a round in.

It was interesting to see how many can actually see through the smoke and mirrors

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

Do you think there’s a clique?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

Do you think there’s a clique?"

I'm more the last line.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

"
i just want to helicopter my willy in peace

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

i just want to helicopter my willy in peace "

That's the don't give a fuck group.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

Do you think there’s a clique?

I'm more the last line. "

I see it thrown around a lot and wonder if people think I’m in the clique. I have no idea who is and who isn’t. Would people think you are because you’re a regular on the forums and regularly interact with the same people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

"
I think I'm in a clique then. Clique but not kikqe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

Do you think there’s a clique?

I'm more the last line.

I'm not sure you're popular enough to be in the clique.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

i just want to helicopter my willy in peace

That's the don't give a fuck group. "
thats right i take em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

Do you think there’s a clique?

I'm more the last line.

That’s fine .. it’s when the less popular people post and are totally ignored, but then 10 minutes later a popular person says pretty much exactly the same thing and everyone piles in to say what a wonderful, insightful and humorous comment they’ve made that the true nature of it becomes transparent.

Doesn’t happen all of the time. But it does *often*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

Do you think there’s a clique?

I'm more the last line.

I'm not sure you're popular enough to be in the clique.

You have broken my heart. If you need me I’ll be in the corner crying into my Ben & Jerry’s.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

Do you think there’s a clique?

I'm more the last line.

Doesn’t happen all of the time. But it does *often*

Must

Keep

Mouth

shut....

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman over a year ago

"If you're in a clique, you don't think there's any cliques.

If you're not in a clique, you think there's cliques.

If you're popular, this isn't a popularity contest and everyone is equal.

If you're not popular, fuck those popular ones.

Some want to be popular/cliquey.

Some couldn't give a fuck.

i just want to helicopter my willy in peace "

Can I watch?

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Is this thread closed yet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck the cliques, just send me boobs vag’ and cock to my box.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there going to be a part 2?

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