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I used to be so tolerant, but....
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We weren't even aware of people actually reading profiles on here nowadays and we do find a far better approach with 100% results is sending a picture of Mr4's cock and asking if they'd like some fun or have plans or are they ok ?? as we do find reading very tiresome and hard on what little grey matter we have left between us and as we do keep being told or it's implied in local speak " it be a sex site baint it !!" |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "
I stuck just in the middle of your text. Lots of don’t and repeating. No pics of Mr in profile.
Oh, this is not rate your profile thread, apologies.
I have no idea why some people struggle to read. Probably just lazy.
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By *nimal007Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
I'm not there yet I still don't let it rile me....but I guess it would depend on my mood. I think of it like this. I have used up one of their messages for the day so that's one less single female getting grief from them!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit I don't have the attention span for long profiles. I don't mind making the effort to get to know someone but I'd rather do that in a conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people aren't meeting it's really easy to untick the 'Looking for' boxes.
That takes their profile off the searches and doesn't waste people's time.  "
I wish this was true I get 10 to 20 messages from gay bi and straight guys. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Nope it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I keep tight filters so I barely get any messages and those who haven't read my profile get deleted.Having tight filters saves me looking through a lot of mail of people I have no interest in and stops those sending messages getting pissed off. It's a win win situation.
When I am meeting new people I actually go look for profiles and people who appeal to me as well and make first contact it's a lot easier than sitting back and expecting those I like to meet to message me. The worst that has ever happened is they didn't reply or we didn't click when chatting. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
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When I am meeting new people I actually go look for profiles and people who appeal to me as well and make first contact it's a lot easier than sitting back and expecting those I like to meet to message me. The worst that has ever happened is they didn't reply or we didn't click when chatting. "
That’s the best approach  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate it when men don't message me just because I'm 9 stone overweight  "
That's not why they don't message you, it's because unlike some of us they weren't born with big hands  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh tell me about it, despite my profile being clear, I can count on one hand the amount of people who have opened their message with a pun or a dad joke  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you reply to tell them to read your profile properly? That’s always makes me lol when people do that, it’s like self perpetuating rage with no purpose  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh tell me about it, despite my profile being clear, I can count on one hand the amount of people who have opened their message with a pun or a dad joke "
We get "hi" and "hey guys" and just that, lol I honestly don't know how to answer them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you reply to tell them to read your profile properly? That’s always makes me lol when people do that, it’s like self perpetuating rage with no purpose "
I have done a couple of times, then regret even replying ha ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "
I hate it that I have things in my profile like - I won’t meet married men - and they message anyway…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if they all boil your piss but we dislike them so we block and delete and move along - it's the only way to get rid of them. It is funny when you go to a club and meet loads of them and check their profiles to find you've blocked them. Their faces wrinkle up like little virgin anuses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "
I'm not being funny but are you writing a best seller? Because that is one long profile. I thought mine was long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "
It has always annoyed me. It says so much about the other person, it comes across as lazy or arrogant. |
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