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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See this fairly often but what does it mean to people?
My 100m time isn't what it once was, it might not have been that good in the first place but I have a decent job.
I can do a big Tesco shop in a very quick time though. Does that count?
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Someone that stands out to them.
To me, that exceptional something is energy (not to be confused with stamina - but vibe which often comes from life experience)
They're something could be a dancing dick or Danny DeVito impression.
All boils down to what, as individuals, we require from someone to give us the motivation to make an effort or pique the old interest. |
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If anyone describes themselves as exceptional I generally tend to continue past their profile.
Not wanting to be judgemental, but it seems a tad arrogant to assume that everyone is basing their assessment of what's 'exceptional' on the criteria set by the individual proclaiming themselves to be such. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anyone describes themselves as exceptional I generally tend to continue past their profile.
Not wanting to be judgemental, but it seems a tad arrogant to assume that everyone is basing their assessment of what's 'exceptional' on the criteria set by the individual proclaiming themselves to be such."
We all have quirks and flaws. I don't see how anyone can seriously describe themselves as exceptional.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If anyone describes themselves as exceptional I generally tend to continue past their profile.
Not wanting to be judgemental, but it seems a tad arrogant to assume that everyone is basing their assessment of what's 'exceptional' on the criteria set by the individual proclaiming themselves to be such."
Well exactly this, is it to filter out guys?
On a very, very good day I am average at best.
Either way, it makes me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say, and from my experience, a guy who doesn’t just talk about himself and who listens…. (Humble bragging to big myself up there, it’s not just about my massive cock you know… "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s trying to say someone outstanding in whatever criteria/ability the profile owner deems to be required.
It’s a very vague word which is often used by people who don’t exactly know what they are looking for others they would say that instead. Of course it can be used to disqualify or discourage contact from people |
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We have on our profile that we are looking for exceptional males to join us.
We aren’t looking for someone superhuman or someone with amazing athleticism or technique and we don’t think we are above anyone.
Just that 1000’s of men on here have decided that cock pics and one liners are going to get them sex - that seems to be normal on here. So we are looking for more than that, the exceptions.
We make an effort on our profile and pics…someone who does the same appeals to us.
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We have it on our profile. We're on a swingers site, we have sex with others for free. Shes a fuck slut and likes cock, lots of.
However, she won't just drop her knickers for anyone and everyone. She spends a lot of time effort and money preparing and looking good for meets. Stockings arn't cheap! Time for hair and make up ect. We exspect protentual playmates to put in the effort too. Turning up in dirty joggers you've been sat around in for a few days. Food stains , smelling if booze, wee and fags, is not gonna get you anywhere. Exsceptional means for us, making an effort. The whole package, how you talk to us both, how you arrive, on time. Looking good, smelling good and made the effort.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have on our profile that we are looking for exceptional males to join us.
We aren’t looking for someone superhuman or someone with amazing athleticism or technique and we don’t think we are above anyone.
Just that 1000’s of men on here have decided that cock pics and one liners are going to get them sex - that seems to be normal on here. So we are looking for more than that, the exceptions.
We make an effort on our profile and pics…someone who does the same appeals to us.
K"
For me the difference with your profile is that you have already qualified what would be exceptional to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have on our profile that we are looking for exceptional males to join us.
We aren’t looking for someone superhuman or someone with amazing athleticism or technique and we don’t think we are above anyone.
Just that 1000’s of men on here have decided that cock pics and one liners are going to get them sex - that seems to be normal on here. So we are looking for more than that, the exceptions.
We make an effort on our profile and pics…someone who does the same appeals to us.
K"
Good explanation  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have it on our profile. We're on a swingers site, we have sex with others for free. Shes a fuck slut and likes cock, lots of.
However, she won't just drop her knickers for anyone and everyone. She spends a lot of time effort and money preparing and looking good for meets. Stockings arn't cheap! Time for hair and make up ect. We exspect protentual playmates to put in the effort too. Turning up in dirty joggers you've been sat around in for a few days. Food stains , smelling if booze, wee and fags, is not gonna get you anywhere. Exsceptional means for us, making an effort. The whole package, how you talk to us both, how you arrive, on time. Looking good, smelling good and made the effort.
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See to me that is just decent courtesy and manners but good to see what different people mean by it. |
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It's a bit of a nothing statement really, but it just means someone who stands out to them. No one needs to set down their criteria - if you fit the bill to them then you are exceptional and they will be interested. It possiblly makes some men take a shake to themselves before they send a "Hey" message with a dick pic, so it's not a bad thing to write on a profile! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well been told am exceptional, isn't another like me thank god!
Mums say the best things don't they.
How did you guess??"
My mum says the same about me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a bit of a nothing statement really, but it just means someone who stands out to them. No one needs to set down their criteria - if you fit the bill to them then you are exceptional and they will be interested. It possiblly makes some men take a shake to themselves before they send a "Hey" message with a dick pic, so it's not a bad thing to write on a profile!"
Oh I don't think it is a bad thing as such, just see it so often that I wondered what it meant to people.
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"It's a bit of a nothing statement really, but it just means someone who stands out to them. No one needs to set down their criteria - if you fit the bill to them then you are exceptional and they will be interested. It possiblly makes some men take a shake to themselves before they send a "Hey" message with a dick pic, so it's not a bad thing to write on a profile!"
Exceptional does just mean they stand out to us.
We don’t have a list of do’s and dont’s on our profile - we like to keep it positive rather than moaning so if someone thinks that they match, great…but hopefully the ‘wanking dead’ types will think twice and not bother
K
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I'd probably be put off contacting someone who had it on their profile in terms of what they're looking for.
I assume most folks are looking for someone that stands out (to them)
So it's use seems unnecessary and a bit entitled ( to me) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See this fairly often but what does it mean to people?
My 100m time isn't what it once was, it might not have been that good in the first place but I have a decent job.
I can do a big Tesco shop in a very quick time though. Does that count?
I like to think these people arrange a mini games where the winner gets a date. "
Perhaps we should start asking for an exceptional female or couple only lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I saw it on a profile I'd pass it by
I'm not exceptional in any way and anyway it's all subjective .people can call themselves what they want,doesn't mean we have to agree."
Correct we are all exceptional as we are all different not one of us are the same |
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"If anyone describes themselves as exceptional I generally tend to continue past their profile.
Not wanting to be judgemental, but it seems a tad arrogant to assume that everyone is basing their assessment of what's 'exceptional' on the criteria set by the individual proclaiming themselves to be such."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anyone describes themselves as exceptional I generally tend to continue past their profile.
Not wanting to be judgemental, but it seems a tad arrogant to assume that everyone is basing their assessment of what's 'exceptional' on the criteria set by the individual proclaiming themselves to be such.
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Totally agree with this if they are that exceptional why are they on here in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have it on our profile. We're on a swingers site, we have sex with others for free. Shes a fuck slut and likes cock, lots of.
However, she won't just drop her knickers for anyone and everyone. She spends a lot of time effort and money preparing and looking good for meets. Stockings arn't cheap! Time for hair and make up ect. We exspect protentual playmates to put in the effort too. Turning up in dirty joggers you've been sat around in for a few days. Food stains , smelling if booze, wee and fags, is not gonna get you anywhere. Exsceptional means for us, making an effort. The whole package, how you talk to us both, how you arrive, on time. Looking good, smelling good and made the effort.
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The bar for 'exceptional' is pretty high here. 'Not smelling of booze, wee and fags' is quite ambitious. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have it on our profile. We're on a swingers site, we have sex with others for free. Shes a fuck slut and likes cock, lots of.
However, she won't just drop her knickers for anyone and everyone. She spends a lot of time effort and money preparing and looking good for meets. Stockings arn't cheap! Time for hair and make up ect. We exspect protentual playmates to put in the effort too. Turning up in dirty joggers you've been sat around in for a few days. Food stains , smelling if booze, wee and fags, is not gonna get you anywhere. Exsceptional means for us, making an effort. The whole package, how you talk to us both, how you arrive, on time. Looking good, smelling good and made the effort.
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If somebody is not interested in the vast majority of men, the ones they are interested in would be the exception, therefore exceptional. They are looking for the men they like and most men don't fit into that category as far as they are concerned. |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
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"See this fairly often but what does it mean to people?
My 100m time isn't what it once was, it might not have been that good in the first place but I have a decent job.
I can do a big Tesco shop in a very quick time though. Does that count?
I like to think these people arrange a mini games where the winner gets a date. "
Can you carry all the bags from the car in one go though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder if it's more a way to hopefully filter the amount of messages.
If a profile states'looking for Men', they're likely to be inundated with messages.
To suggest they're looking for exceptional Men may prevent so many messages, plus makes it easier to ignore or say No thank you.
I mean to turn this around, does it mean they're willing to meet Any Woman or Couple?. Not at all, they're still hoping for what they consider exceptional, though don't feel they need the term to protect themselves from the influx of messages |
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"With 25000 single gents on here it makes perfect sense that people seek someone exceptional."
Sorry - but bollocks. When I see someone asking for ‘exceptional’ I just assume they think an awful lot of themselves with little justification - and looking at the profiles it would appear I’m often correct. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have on our profile that we are looking for exceptional males to join us.
We aren’t looking for someone superhuman or someone with amazing athleticism or technique and we don’t think we are above anyone.
Just that 1000’s of men on here have decided that cock pics and one liners are going to get them sex - that seems to be normal on here. So we are looking for more than that, the exceptions.
We make an effort on our profile and pics…someone who does the same appeals to us.
K
Good explanation "
Agreed |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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If a profile states they are/are seeking ‘exceptional’ it puts me off. Rightly or wrongly, my perception is that they have an inflated ego.
What one person finds exceptional, the next person won’t - totally subjective, which I appreciate, but the term is off-putting to me. |
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"With 25000 single gents on here it makes perfect sense that people seek someone exceptional.
Sorry - but bollocks. When I see someone asking for ‘exceptional’ I just assume they think an awful lot of themselves with little justification - and looking at the profiles it would appear I’m often correct. "
I wasn't commenting on the people or the profiles
No matter who they choose they are picking them with the exception of all others
Anyone that is chosen is therefore exceptional |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a profile states they are/are seeking ‘exceptional’ it puts me off. Rightly or wrongly, my perception is that they have an inflated ego.
What one person finds exceptional, the next person won’t - totally subjective, which I appreciate, but the term is off-putting to me. "
I agree. The term conjures up an image in my head they're looking for an Adonis type which let's face it, most of us are definitely not. If they're implying they're looking for someone to be presentable, clean and tidy, respectful and courteous then to me that's just good basic personal hygiene, making an effort and having manners. Wouldn't you want to do that anyway? |
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"With 25000 single gents on here it makes perfect sense that people seek someone exceptional.
Sorry - but bollocks. When I see someone asking for ‘exceptional’ I just assume they think an awful lot of themselves with little justification - and looking at the profiles it would appear I’m often correct. "
We have it on our profile for seeking gents. Simply for the reason that a lot of guys (not all) send us dick pics and/or one liners and instead of turning our profile into a list of do’s/dont’s, jump through this hoop list, we ask for exceptional gents in the hope that the ‘wanking dead’ will pass us by.
We have met several guys who have fitted our criteria, which is, they have engaged our minds, they’ve conversed with us without waving a dick in our face and are instead acting like normal people would if we talked to them in the street. They aren’t classic Adonis types, with chiseled features - they are regular guys who C finds attractive and we get on with.
Unfortunately (for us and many others) these types of people are classed as exceptional on here, exceptions to the rule.
We don’t think highly of ourselves in any way, shape or form - we’ve met an a MLS event and chatted and I’m pretty certain you didn’t think I was above myself.
We make an effort on our profile and we just simply want to match with likeminded people.
We haven’t asked for exceptional women or couples, as to date, none of them have sent naked pics in their first messages or sent ‘fancy a fuck’ messages. If that changes then we’ll amend our wording.
Everyone has criteria in their profile in what they want, who they want to meet with, we are all looking for the exceptions - the ones that stand out to us
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"With 25000 single gents on here it makes perfect sense that people seek someone exceptional.
Sorry - but bollocks. When I see someone asking for ‘exceptional’ I just assume they think an awful lot of themselves with little justification - and looking at the profiles it would appear I’m often correct.
We have it on our profile for seeking gents. Simply for the reason that a lot of guys (not all) send us dick pics and/or one liners and instead of turning our profile into a list of do’s/dont’s, jump through this hoop list, we ask for exceptional gents in the hope that the ‘wanking dead’ will pass us by.
We have met several guys who have fitted our criteria, which is, they have engaged our minds, they’ve conversed with us without waving a dick in our face and are instead acting like normal people would if we talked to them in the street. They aren’t classic Adonis types, with chiseled features - they are regular guys who C finds attractive and we get on with.
Unfortunately (for us and many others) these types of people are classed as exceptional on here, exceptions to the rule.
We don’t think highly of ourselves in any way, shape or form - we’ve met an a MLS event and chatted and I’m pretty certain you didn’t think I was above myself.
We make an effort on our profile and we just simply want to match with likeminded people.
We haven’t asked for exceptional women or couples, as to date, none of them have sent naked pics in their first messages or sent ‘fancy a fuck’ messages. If that changes then we’ll amend our wording.
Everyone has criteria in their profile in what they want, who they want to meet with, we are all looking for the exceptions - the ones that stand out to us
K"
I absolutely get that - and by your definition meet only the ‘exceptions’ myself.
When I’ve seen it on profiles (I don’t look at many) it’s been along the lines of ‘looking for exceptional WE males aged 25-40 6ft plus, gym fit, 6 pack’ type of exceptional. I rarely note a mention of personality. Sometimes a colour is specified too.
I know women have been objectified for millennia - but it still bugs me when men are too.
As you’re mature like me - you may remember a song by Bananarama and Fun Boy Three in the early eighties - ‘It ain’t what you do it’s the way that you do it!’ ? The verse - ‘It ain’t what you say it’s the way that you say it’ is how I try to word my profile.
I ask for quite a lot but in a nice way - at least I hope I do. |
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