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What are some reasons you are still single
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I've been single 7 years, my expectations are way to high to change that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s easier than getting hurt again that would probably end me
Also I am a “4 letter bad word” and like to get around and let everyone test drive me   |
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Because it's the way of living that suits me best. I'm not at all suited to a relationship and I'm aware enough to know that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can come and go as I please, no-one has any expectations of me, I can fart as often and as loudly as I please AND I can leave the toilet seat up and not get any grief for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not an easy one to answer. Maybe previous experiences and assuming all are the same. I really don’t like the line “we are not all like that”, although most probably true. I am an adult and I made the wrong choices |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“ I am an adult and I made the wrong choices”
I think we’ve all been there. My last relationship should have gone no further that a one night stand, but as they say we live and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men
That is all."
Try dating women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men
That is all.
Try dating women "
Oh God no, they're even worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't be arsed with all the getting to know each other bollocks.
That, and also I don't want anyone in my house.
I like not being sleep deprived due to snoring and someone else taking up space in the bed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love. "
Does the guy you loved have a guide dog and a white stick? Rest assured it’s very much his loss  |
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Previous experiences have made me very cautious and i have been hurt really bad.
My walls to protect me are up really high.
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1: I'm a total nightmare
2: far too scared of getting hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love.
Does the guy you loved have a guide dog and a white stick? Rest assured it’s very much his loss "
Aww thank you, that’s kind.
He found me attractive enough to sleep with for 5 years but he doesn’t love me.
Whatever, I’m tired and done.
He’s a huge dickhead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Effort. |
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Because I good for fucking but not for relationships. |
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A million reasons, but infidelity...it hurts like fuck |
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"I can't be arsed with all the getting to know each other bollocks.
That, and also I don't want anyone in my house.
I like not being sleep deprived due to snoring and someone else taking up space in the bed.
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This |
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I enjoy my own company and like the space. It's took years to realise that. |
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It’s too much hard work finding anyone I fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor choices in the past  |
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Because I was blind and gullible |
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Last partner died been single since 2004 prefer to stay this way to old to accomadate another in my life permanently! Fwb is good x |
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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago
land of make believe |
Gorgeous men are the reason I am single  |
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The women I want a relationship with are those that are "hard work".
This inevitably leads to a break up years down the line when I realise I am better than how they are treating me. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
I don't want to join the line to give away half my stuff...and to much drama.
But I'm sure there are women out there that will tell me different reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one wants me  "
Same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because being single is great. |
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By *just.meMan
over a year ago
hartlepool |
Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence |
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
croydon |
Because Alexandra Dadario won’t marry me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence"
Aww man don't say things like that about yourself.
Even though you aren't those things, plenty of people look deeper than the persons exterior  |
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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
Self preservation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Self preservation."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not finding someone I want to be with.
I’d like to meet someone whose company I want to stay in, rather than wonder when I can politely excuse myself to go home and drink tea. |
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I got my fingers and heart seriously burnt so I just can't bring myself to commit again ..not for the foreseeable
I just want fun and friendship and nothing too heavy
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So many men, so few that deserve me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with "
This makes me sad. The right man will be proud to have you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a restraining order barring me from being within 100ft of any female. It’s a misunderstanding, honest… |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
I don't want to cause more disappointment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a restraining order barring me from being within 100ft of any female. It’s a misunderstanding, honest…"
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I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.
Baggage not being my words - my kids rock |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
London - till 25th |
I was widowed after 23yrs, just pre pandemic.
Not saying there won't be another ltr, but not sure if I could inflict myself on another person in the same way.
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"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.
Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "
I dated a widow, would do again. Some people will find any excuse though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell if I know! One thing is for sure, I've always been taken advantage of and not in a good way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was widowed after 23yrs, just pre pandemic.
Not saying there won't be another ltr, but not sure if I could inflict myself on another person in the same way.
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x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been single 7 years, my expectations are way to high to change that "
Really ? |
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Still happyvafter 4 years being single. Not in any rush to change that |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
London - till 25th |
"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.
Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "
You personal baggage is certainly appealing.
As for weans, they are never baggage. If they can't love you and your family, then you are better off without them. |
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Lack of time & family comes first, always |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cba to be honest |
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"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.
Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "
You jest I can see a queue forming
Wanting to be with you . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep picking the wrong boys for fucks sake!
Also I partially don’t believe in monogamy lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a face for radio, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cba to be honest "
Yep, same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was married for years and now its time to enjoy some headspace and sexual liberation!!
I love men though and my head cant control my heart. Ive fallen in love twice since  |
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"I can't be arsed with all the getting to know each other bollocks.
That, and also I don't want anyone in my house.
I like not being sleep deprived due to snoring and someone else taking up space in the bed.
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Most definitely this too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a happy single |
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I’ve been single 7 years this coming august…and I guess It’s due to a mix of becoming more selfish the older I get with an unwillingness to settle for being 2nd best or less then I think I deserve, with maybe a tad too fussy thrown in with a pinch of realism that maybe all the decent ones near me are all ready taken lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have moved up to the North East, so looking to meet a partner in crime.
Been let down in the past, but ever hopeful about meeting that person you click with and have great chemistry with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather be single than with the wrong person i won't make do,been there done that. I want my happy ever after not my,you will do for now |
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The front door is open but I don't want anyone forgetting where it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pick the wrong ones…. All good at the start but they soon change…… I enjoy the single life too much to be tied down now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Widowed was the main reason, not sure now ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appear to attract all the wrong men, including the mentally unstable, the married, lying about their identity, commitment phobic, the list goes on haha I literally have no luck with guys at all
I get to the stage where I think I’m the problem. Guys see me as a good time and then move to whoever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because men do stinky trumps. |
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Our fwb option is best for me. I've found I love living alone after the kids flew the nest. I have loads of friends, my dog and a good life. Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't found someone. And I am a bit in love with the last someone. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I have no time for a boyfriend really.
What with looking after my mum, my kids, my dogs, and the OAP cat on top of working, my free time is MY time and I just can’t be arsed with the faff and disappointment that dating brings. Plus that’s hardly making me a catch.
Would rather meet someone suddenly, doing something I/they enjoy than meeting them on a site where they put their best foot forward only for it to turn to disappointment when they are not who I thought them to be and I don’t live up to my profile blurb.
I have nothing to offer anybody except my heart and the occasional Saturday afternoon.
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I’m not good enough for the type of girls I fancy
The girls that fancy me aren’t good enough for me
Basically a mismatch of standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like being single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a few reasons , but mainly because I chose to be the master of my own destiny and it ticks along quite nicely with just me in it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im too demanding and an expensive hobby! I like to be spoiled too much. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
*looks in mirror.
Yup. That |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just works for me |
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I’m guessing am really ugly and fat cos no one seems want me
A few months ago a great person told me no one would like me and only way anyone would spend time or sleep with me would be if I paid.
So I’d like find someone but at moment feel so deflated |
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"I got my fingers and heart seriously burnt so I just can't bring myself to commit again ..not for the foreseeable
I just want fun and friendship and nothing too heavy
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So sad |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with "
oh know that feeling. "I make a good friend, not girlfriend" as one guy once said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite like being single . Having my bed to myself without snoring farting men . Doing what I want when I want , no footie on tv |
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I hate being single. Seven years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im too demanding and an expensive hobby! I like to be spoiled too much."
YES GIRL! I think totes legitimate |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
It’s quite sad reading the reasons above. Everyone of you is gorgeous and deserves to have happiness in your lives when you’re ready for it. Kids are not baggage. For those that are widowed, I hope you find happiness again.
Personally, I’ve been single for 16 years and have three adult kids at home. I was hurt badly emotionally and don’t what to go through it again. I’ve met some lovely people who wanted a ltr but I’m not ready for one. I like my space and my kids will always come first.
I like having fun on Fab and I’ve made some really good friends. Maybe one day Prince Charming will tick all the right boxes. |
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I like my life comforts to much |
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30 plus years single here and I've often theorised the reasons, still no idea.
I'd like to be significant in someone's life and vice versa.
One day... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate being single. Seven years. "
I’m only 14 months , that’s not long is it really . It’s new to me being free and not being controlled by someone |
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i fall in love to quickly then hurt for months when it goes wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.
That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same bro. I'm loving the bed to myself |
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I’m too clean cut & respectful, women prefer bad boys apparently! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m guessing am really ugly and fat cos no one seems want me
A few months ago a great person told me no one would like me and only way anyone would spend time or sleep with me would be if I paid.
So I’d like find someone but at moment feel so deflated "
I’m sorry you’ve had such an awful experience, people can be just so mean!! Having been in a similar position, my advice is start loving yourself again and the rest will follow naturally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Circumstances and choice! |
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"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love.
Does the guy you loved have a guide dog and a white stick? Rest assured it’s very much his loss
Aww thank you, that’s kind.
He found me attractive enough to sleep with for 5 years but he doesn’t love me.
Whatever, I’m tired and done.
He’s a huge dickhead."
He’s clearly an Everton fan |
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"I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.
That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way."
Exactly this |
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"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.
Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "
Any man (me included) would be lucky to know you chat and date and the baggage nothing wrong with that everyone has some stuff and kids always rock |
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"I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.
That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way."
Your tits are way to nice for just one man’s enjoyment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one wants me
Same "
And me |
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Marriage broke down, been divorced 10yrs, had few bfs in that time but I've found being single is better n simple, main reason for staying single now is been hurt too many times n i dont trust no one |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"I appear to attract all the wrong men, including the mentally unstable, the married, lying about their identity, commitment phobic, the list goes on haha I literally have no luck with guys at all
I get to the stage where I think I’m the problem. Guys see me as a good time and then move to whoever "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably, most likely, certainly, definitely.. im just too different
The one thing most ppl tell me, though meant as a compliment, is that im very mysterious, and while some may find that attractive, i feel that for the vast majority, im too mysterious for them to want to approach me. And being so different, i dont tick the right number of boxes, either i have the personality they like but not the looks, or i have the looks but not the personality theyre attracted to |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
There is nothing wrong with being single...
...it's not a disease??! |
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There is nothing wrong with being single...
...it's not a disease??! "
The feeling of wanting something so many people seem to find easily and not being able to get it can definitely make it feel like one |
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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with
oh know that feeling. "I make a good friend, not girlfriend" as one guy once said "
I’ve heard that line a lot |
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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
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There is nothing wrong with being single...
...it's not a disease??! "
I don’t believe anyone has said there’s anything wrong with it |
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"I got my fingers and heart seriously burnt so I just can't bring myself to commit again ..not for the foreseeable
I just want fun and friendship and nothing too heavy
So sad "
Don't feel sad for me ...if it was any other way you two wouldn't have met me ...and without sounding all mushy I'm forever grateful for that .....I'm just going to go off and cry now....lol |
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In the words of the pigeon detectives :
Everybody wants me, everybody wants me, everybody wants me now.
Everybody wants me, everybody wants me, everybody wants me now………….but I just want you ! |
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"I hate being single. Seven years.
I’m only 14 months , that’s not long is it really . It’s new to me being free and not being controlled by someone "
I'm a very social kind of guy. I'm OK on my own, but I end up talking the hind legs off a donkey (random strangers) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is nothing wrong with being single...
...it's not a disease??! "
Yeah, sometimes I want to ask 'how come you're not single yet'...when I'm asked this by coupled people |
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"I’m guessing am really ugly and fat cos no one seems want me
A few months ago a great person told me no one would like me and only way anyone would spend time or sleep with me would be if I paid.
So I’d like find someone but at moment feel so deflated
I’m sorry you’ve had such an awful experience, people can be just so mean!! Having been in a similar position, my advice is start loving yourself again and the rest will follow naturally. "
Thank you I am trying but hard when don’t match with anyone or even fab no meets or socials.
I do think need go club but my anxiety is high since single and worry to fat and hairy and ugly so worry will just feel out place and awkward |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Also I partially don’t believe in monogamy lol x "
I don't really either, it's a lot to ask one person x |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
Lincoln |
The guys i like end up starting a relationship with someone else, so its easier not to like anyone. Which is probably why I make a good friend as they always say to me |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
There is no one Ive met that I’d want a relationship with , maybe it’s me, I’ve met a lot of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife died and I have no intention of replacing her
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Who I am and what I want from life don't exist anymore. I'm trying to be content with it but it's hard.
Hopeless romantic hypersexual nympho that loves cooking, music, travelling and sports, yet loves traditional gender roles.. I was raised by my parents who taught me to be self sufficient and self reliant but also to know how to phone in an expert without shame.
I expect a unified approach to our lives together where we give 100% to each other. We are two complete people not trying to compete with society or with each other.
Oh and he's gotta want children to be brought up knowing their dad isn't babysitting them or stuck with them but loves them and can care for them just as mommy can.
Yeah doesn't exist anymore... |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.
That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way."
I’m an extrovert and love company , i like nothing more , I just want them to go home after a day or two |
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over a year ago
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Divorce hurt to much in 2013 , my choice being single since....less pain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love. "
I can relate |
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Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.
I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell! |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
I have bad choices in men. The man that I have strong feelings for now doesn't return them but the sex is pretty amazing so what the hell. Some people are just meant to be single I guess |
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"Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.
I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell! "
You're kidding, right? You're lovely x |
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By *just.meMan
over a year ago
hartlepool |
"Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence
Aww man don't say things like that about yourself.
Even though you aren't those things, plenty of people look deeper than the persons exterior "
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men are dicks |
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"Men are dicks "
Not all of us.....well, I hope not x |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
Just haven't found the one yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An accumulation of things, but I'm perfectly comfortable as I am at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My looks and my personality. |
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"My looks and my personality."
You're stunning x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes would think it's a life style, sometimes not. Being single or not can become normalized, I think lol |
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I’m open to a relationship of sorts at some point - but don’t think I’d ever want a 24/7 permanent live in relationship.
For now I’m very happy as I am - me, the kids, the dog, a wider family circle, some fantastic friends and a couple of fab guys who I hope will be good, regular(ish - they’re far away) friends.
When the kids leave home I think I’d like someone significant to spend the weekend (or may be every other weekend) with - who then politely fucks off back to his own place for a few days without being asked - then comes back again refreshed, recharged and happy to see me.
I guess that’d be my ideal - but I’m not sure there’s be any guys out there who want that kind of relationship. |
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What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life "
If you’re really old you’ll probably be wearing a nappy so it’ll be ok , worry about Putin or inflation instead. |
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Not looking, not interested, and can't be bothered. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Because I don’t believe one man can fulfil everything I desire - because I like solitude and time for myself, because I enjoy different aspects of different people and because I refuse to settle. Unless I met someone who utterly set my soul on fire and allowed me to be me without judgement or jealousy I can’t see my current situation changing nor would I want it too xx |
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"Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.
I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell!
You're kidding, right? You're lovely x"
It was very tongue in cheek |
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"Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.
I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell!
You're kidding, right? You're lovely x
It was very tongue in cheek "
....ha...OK.....not feeling stupid now, at all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life "
I’ll probably die alone and get eaten by my cats or something |
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"What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life
I’ll probably die alone and get eaten by my cats or something "
That's the spirit x |
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
Because I never imagined a life without my partner… and he died so suddenly I had no time to “prepare”. Even now (and it’s been 2 years) no one else comes close to him… and I know deep down I write people off too quickly, but it’s still very hard |
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"Because I never imagined a life without my partner… and he died so suddenly I had no time to “prepare”. Even now (and it’s been 2 years) no one else comes close to him… and I know deep down I write people off too quickly, but it’s still very hard "
I'm really sorry to hear that x |
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By *art123Man
over a year ago
Stoke |
Far too picky to attractiveness ratio |
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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
Because no body loves me enough!!
I was in a long term relationship until last September,completely in love,and unbeknownst to me,he was talking to his ex (who had ghosted him 8 months before we got together)…he cruelly dumped me two days after my birthday in September,made their relationship official in October,and got engaged on Christmas Day!!..left me completely heartbroken,so I came back on here to have completely meaningless sex and be the cold hearted bitch that I am! |
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I'm too much just for one person x |
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"I'm too much just for one person x"
Are you doing timeshare? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s definitely because no-one deserves me  |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
Bath |
I enjoy being single too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I've got worms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I poo in the bath |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lick my plate |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"Because no body loves me enough!!
I was in a long term relationship until last September,completely in love,and unbeknownst to me,he was talking to his ex (who had ghosted him 8 months before we got together)…he cruelly dumped me two days after my birthday in September,made their relationship official in October,and got engaged on Christmas Day!!..left me completely heartbroken,so I came back on here to have completely meaningless sex and be the cold hearted bitch that I am!"
Sounds like he is the heartless one, not you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lick my plate in posh restaurants |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like frogs more than humans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I poo in the bath"
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"Sometimes I poo in the bath"
An enviable quality x |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
9 years single life is precioussimple,less complicated not directed at every woman because are some very sincere.I just have a problem picking the wrong ones so gave up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once I ate a whole jar of lazy garlic and I smelt like garlic for a year. That was a bit of a dry patch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a pet rock. Some people think that's weird. |
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"Once I ate a whole jar of lazy garlic and I smelt like garlic for a year. That was a bit of a dry patch. "
I love garlic......Next x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make noises like an otter when I'm doing sexy stuff. |
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"I have a pet rock. Some people think that's weird. "
I bet exercise is a pain x |
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"I make noises like an otter when I'm doing sexy stuff. "
I'm aroused x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have 8 toe nails |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to eat big bags of cheesy puffs and I don't share |
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"I make noises like an otter when I'm doing sexy stuff. "
Damn that’s sexy haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to eat big bags of cheesy puffs and I don't share"
As long as you don't eat your toenails it's all good. |
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Singletons, like introverts, unite. Separately in our own homes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The main one is because I want to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work full time and part time on top of full-time. Neither jobs have any opportunities to encounter potential partners. Socially it's difficult to go out purely because all my friends are married and have their own thing going on - they don't need a third wheel and looks daft going to the pub on my own though I do go to gigs and cinema myself. As much as I enjoy my own company, I'd enjoy sharing my life with someone special. |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
Because I have the perfect face for radio.
Literally! |
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"Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence"
Plus my first GF I was with from 19-24 bought a house with got engaged etc cheated on me and got preggers by him just coz she couldn’t wait a year or so to have a kid!! Meant I Lost everything n was destroyed
Been single since as have trust issues,
and also now look after a disabled family member
Love Life couldn’t get more shit tbh
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