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Random winks cringe or ok
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it’s not like sending a friends request but most don’t check them
I know I don’t the way I see it is if they can’t pluck up and just send a good first message they aren’t for me
Not here to play footcy underneath the table
You know the they winked I winked send a message game
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The winks button is used in so many different ways.
We will wink people to show there’s interest and if they wink back, we’ll send a message.
It’s just to show there’s interest. Same for someone winking us.
We don’t really get people who wink us, we wink back and then nothing…that feels like there’s no point at all 
More often we’ll send a message first but sometimes when busy a cheeky wink is a good starter…
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mind a “wink” and also send them. If someone winks and they wink back then for me that’s when I send a message.
I use it as a way to look at someone’s profile I may have missed otherwise. I feel it also saves people typing messages that just get deleted.
Friend requests a definite no without talking and asking |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
"The winks button is used in so many different ways.
We will wink people to show there’s interest and if they wink back, we’ll send a message.
It’s just to show there’s interest. Same for someone winking us.
We don’t really get people who wink us, we wink back and then nothing…that feels like there’s no point at all
More often we’ll send a message first but sometimes when busy a cheeky wink is a good starter…
K"
This is what I do as well. I send a wink and if the other person winks back, I'll message them |
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"The winks button is used in so many different ways.
We will wink people to show there’s interest and if they wink back, we’ll send a message.
It’s just to show there’s interest. Same for someone winking us.
We don’t really get people who wink us, we wink back and then nothing…that feels like there’s no point at all
More often we’ll send a message first but sometimes when busy a cheeky wink is a good starter…
K
This is what I do as well. I send a wink and if the other person winks back, I'll message them"
Same, it’s a very easy way to gauge interest for us |
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i use a winknto show interest in someonenthat maybe doesnt have a lot ofninfo on their profile, they can read mine qnd if they wink or message, all good.
i also use it for someone i may have messaged before, especially if the message went unread, the issue i have is its hard to tell if a person isnt interested, or if tbey have mass deleted, as happens so often. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I think people clearly read too much into a wink haha. It's not the end of the world  "
I instantly delete them. Then I block and report the account. Then I delete my own account. Then I become a nun and live in a monastery for the rest of my life. It’s a real pain…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuckin’ winkers. Damn them to eternal hell. Anyone that dares to wink me will swiftly feel my wrath. I shall start a forum thread to vent my outrage at such despicable behaviour. How dare anybody wish to show their interest in such a simple way.  |
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"I think people clearly read too much into a wink haha. It's not the end of the world
I instantly delete them. Then I block and report the account. Then I delete my own account. Then I become a nun and live in a monastery for the rest of my life. It’s a real pain…."
You'd be a busy nun in a monastery with all those monks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Creepy to wink but not be messaging.
A wink is a hi to someone you already chat too
A random wink is just weird
A random friend request is a downright nooooooo  "
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
Think people get their knickers in a twist for no reason over winks, it's a form of contact, expressing interest. There's so much you can't even tell from messaging so what's the difference how contact is first made? It's a start.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They’re not cringe and we’re not offended by them but you won’t get a response from us with a wink. If you like the look of someone it’s always best to send a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am happy to message someone who winks at me, but I rarely wink at them since I know my winks will get lost in the masses that they undoubtedly recieved |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Is it ok to randomly wink someone or it has bad as sending a random friend request )which I would never do ) "
Better a wink than just 'Hi' or an unwanted Friend Request
Completely harmless imho
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind them being used or me using them, I find the threads about them are much more useful though. The way some people over react and have ludicrous notions of laziness etc are clearly ones to avoid spending any time on. It's a simple wink ffs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mind a wink, although I rarely check them.
I rarely wink anyone else, but i did it for the first time over two years ago, and we still see each other all the time |
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