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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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??? How are people on here just for fucks
Yes I would date someone from here
What’s the difference bween here and date sites and night clubs and such
Bween someone meeting 10 people from date sites
And have 10 one night stands
Or meeting 10 people on here
Or going out and have 10 one night stands from pubs and night clubs
Wish people wouldn’t be so judgmental
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I would date from fab. Would be great to meet someone who wanted the same things and could swing together. Im not looking for that, but if it happens it happens.
I don't see myself going back to the "normal" dating apps ever again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition
Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!
I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!
The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!!  |
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"Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition
Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!
I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!
The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!! "
My profile doesn't. Maybe I'm an outlier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition
Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!
I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!
The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!!
My profile doesn't. Maybe I'm an outlier. "
nope pretty sure mine dont see here for sex either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This ain't instashag 
Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment 
Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that "
Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be
I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol |
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"This ain't instashag
Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment
Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that
Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be
I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol "
Good for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This ain't instashag
Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment
Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that
Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be
I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol
Good for you!"
Was just say it can be no need to hate |
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"This ain't instashag
Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment
Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that
Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be
I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol
Good for you!
Was just say it can be no need to hate "
No, I meant good for you as in great. I think wires are crossed here  |
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"Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition
Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!
I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!
The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!!
My profile doesn't. Maybe I'm an outlier. nope pretty sure mine dont see here for sex either "
Neither does mine x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This ain't instashag
Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment
Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that
Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be
I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol
Good for you!
Was just say it can be no need to hate
No, I meant good for you as in great. I think wires are crossed here "
Think so I thought that was sarcastic good for you |
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"This ain't instashag
Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment
Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that
Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be
I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol
Good for you!
Was just say it can be no need to hate
No, I meant good for you as in great. I think wires are crossed here
Think so I thought that was sarcastic good for you "
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I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.
As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.
I think I will be single the rest of my life.  |
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"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.
As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.
I think I will be single the rest of my life. "
That, madam, would be a criminal waste x |
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"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.
As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.
I think I will be single the rest of my life.
That, madam, would be a criminal waste x"
I'm wanting a peaceful easy life,  |
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"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.
As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.
I think I will be single the rest of my life.
That, madam, would be a criminal waste x
I'm wanting a peaceful easy life, "
A waste of a tattooed boob x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.
As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.
I think I will be single the rest of my life.
That, madam, would be a criminal waste x
I'm wanting a peaceful easy life, "
Someone to bring value to life not chaos |
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"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.
Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x
Is there a time limit on that little pearl of wisdom?"
Couple of hours. Sure you get plenty of offers x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie?  x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x"
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.
Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x
Is there a time limit on that little pearl of wisdom?
Couple of hours. Sure you get plenty of offers x"
Do you know what a friend with benefits is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never say never. I don’t want to be on dates with someone who doesn’t understand this type of thing and I don’t mind if we have been on here if we both enjoy ourselves together. I think like anything else I take people how I find them and being open about ourselves would be something that I would look for |
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"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.
Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x
Is there a time limit on that little pearl of wisdom?
Couple of hours. Sure you get plenty of offers x
Do you know what a friend with benefits is? "
I hope I've gained some knowledge over the years Don't mistake my jokey manner for being a asshole x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes "
Why do you think that? |
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes "
With those legs, no wonder x |
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I'm not on here 'just for fucks' .
I'm on here for the connections and community. Fucks are a great bonus
I see no problem with people dating from here, or even taking it further. If you click you click, how you meet doesn't matter... explaining where you met to any future kids could be interesting though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know most people are on here just for a fuck but has anyone considered dating anyone off here or has anyone got more serious then just fun?"
It has to be right wherever it is found , if it ain't right ..it's wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.
As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.
I think I will be single the rest of my life.
That, madam, would be a criminal waste x
I'm wanting a peaceful easy life, "
Same here..zero headache or hassle..all about the peace and quiet for me these days..must be something to do with a ‘5’ in my age |
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I would love to.. I find my sex drive is too high for "traditional" sites and I find I'm to "normal" for this bed notch swing for any hole site.
It would be nice to meet a genuine SINGLE guy that knows what lady in the streets and freak in the sheets was really about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would love to.. I find my sex drive is too high for "traditional" sites and I find I'm to "normal" for this bed notch swing for any hole site.
It would be nice to meet a genuine SINGLE guy that knows what lady in the streets and freak in the sheets was really about."
THIS!!! |
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Open to it but not looking for it. I'm happy with life as it is. As I approach the big 50 (a few years yet) it's becoming more of a consideration of having something with a bit more substance.
Happy living on my own tho and not sure that will change unless it's a very enticing offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my ex on here
We clicked from our first meeting and were in a relationship within a few months
The fact that we met on here never bothered me but I think it played on his mind that I had been on here and he would randomly become insecure about how many men I had been with or being able to satisfy me and accuse me of cheating
I wouldn't repeat the experience, I'm 100% closed off now when I meet men on here or in real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not most people are on here because they have a high sex drive and don't mind having sex with strangers so i wouldn't expect them to change if we're in a relationship. "
Yet some do. When I'm in a relationship I am in it completely. If we then decide to allow others in, great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not most people are on here because they have a high sex drive and don't mind having sex with strangers so i wouldn't expect them to change if we're in a relationship. "
So you're implying that people on this site are incapable of being faithful? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the difference between here and all the other sex/hookup/dating sites?
Other than all the fucking weird shit, obviously. "
Well stop being into weird shit then.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd date someone off here, wouldn't be any different than meeting off another site other than I don't have to explain I'm a swinger. Like minded guy is definitely what I need  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the difference between here and all the other sex/hookup/dating sites?
Other than all the fucking weird shit, obviously.
Well stop being into weird shit then.
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I wouldn’t say you’re that weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would consider dating someone on here that had the same mindset and views as me. Although I'm happy with my current situation.
I couldn't think of anything worse than going back to vanilla dating sites.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Defiantly, I miss not only the sex and kink but a shite film takeaway and cuddle them great sex  "
With a single and good fwb you can have this.
I've had more than one fwb who I use to go for dinner with, hang out with etc just no commitment to a relationship. Saw each other as and when.
The arrangement is what you want it to be. |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the replies and very interesting tbh , it doesn't matter ..IF ..you find the person you " click " with it ..both mentally and physically ..it doesn't matter wether you meet that person here or not , here is as good as any place to find " the one " ..trick is to find that person..if you find them here or in the " real world " it doesn't matter.. finding them is the trick. |
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"Defiantly, I miss not only the sex and kink but a shite film takeaway and cuddle them great sex
With a single and good fwb you can have this.
I've had more than one fwb who I use to go for dinner with, hang out with etc just no commitment to a relationship. Saw each other as and when.
The arrangement is what you want it to be. "
This is what I have with a FWB. Apart from mind blowing sex we hang out as friends every so often. We are both still free and single to do as we please x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free. "
Hey, best of luck with this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you find someone you like and they like you. Does it matter at all where you meet? "
Hello ! I met my ex on a hookup site called Pure. He's one of the loveliest men I've ever known. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Defiantly, I miss not only the sex and kink but a shite film takeaway and cuddle them great sex
With a single and good fwb you can have this.
I've had more than one fwb who I use to go for dinner with, hang out with etc just no commitment to a relationship. Saw each other as and when.
The arrangement is what you want it to be.
This is what I have with a FWB. Apart from mind blowing sex we hang out as friends every so often. We are both still free and single to do as we please x"
Exactly. It's a perfect situation for me. Best of both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free. "
Will you meet her again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?"
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey. |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.
Hey, best of luck with this! "
Thank you! |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.
Will you meet her again?"
Just realised that sounds quite negative, but overall I'm feeling positive about the situation. We're chatting loads & both fancy each other/are each others types. Haven't planned anything properly but this week's looking good. |
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey. "
Oh, that's not good Bertie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.
Oh, that's not good Bertie x"
I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.
Will you meet her again?
Just realised that sounds quite negative, but overall I'm feeling positive about the situation. We're chatting loads & both fancy each other/are each others types. Haven't planned anything properly but this week's looking good. "
Oh brilliant!! Good luck.
If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.
Oh, that's not good Bertie x
I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting. "
You're not. |
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.
Oh, that's not good Bertie x
I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting. "
Some blokes talk the hind legs off a donkey (me), and would prefer to get to know someone first, before any sexy business. Just seems natural to me, but probably doesn't make me fit on a stingers site x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.
Oh, that's not good Bertie x
I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting. "
Definitely not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.
Oh, that's not good Bertie x
I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting.
Some blokes talk the hind legs off a donkey (me), and would prefer to get to know someone first, before any sexy business. Just seems natural to me, but probably doesn't make me fit on a stingers site x"
I'm not saying all men hunt women, but that behaviour is quite noticeable sometimes. Particularly when guys message off a forum post to get into my knickers. It feels very manipulative. |
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"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.
I thought you had designs on me Bertie? x
Don't want you to feel hunted
First time, in a long time x
You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes
Why do you think that?
Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.
Oh, that's not good Bertie x
I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting.
Some blokes talk the hind legs off a donkey (me), and would prefer to get to know someone first, before any sexy business. Just seems natural to me, but probably doesn't make me fit on a stingers site x
I'm not saying all men hunt women, but that behaviour is quite noticeable sometimes. Particularly when guys message off a forum post to get into my knickers. It feels very manipulative. "
Well, I hope I've never made anyone I message feel that way x |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.
Will you meet her again?
Just realised that sounds quite negative, but overall I'm feeling positive about the situation. We're chatting loads & both fancy each other/are each others types. Haven't planned anything properly but this week's looking good.
Oh brilliant!! Good luck.
If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together. "
I had thought that, there was a really interesting thread some time back about how you can't expect to get everything you need from one person. The main hurdle for me is that I'm relatively inexperienced even in monogamous relationships & prone to jealousy so I need to read up & tackle that early. (I've been taking notes from the ethical slut thread )
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"Probably not most people are on here because they have a high sex drive and don't mind having sex with strangers so i wouldn't expect them to change if we're in a relationship.
So you're implying that people on this site are incapable of being faithful?"
Being faithful isn't only having sex with 'your' partner. It's more to do with trust & honesty. If you're open & honest with each other about likes/dislikes, kinks/perversions, etc then life's fun & easier without the doubt & jealousy x |
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"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.
Will you meet her again?
Just realised that sounds quite negative, but overall I'm feeling positive about the situation. We're chatting loads & both fancy each other/are each others types. Haven't planned anything properly but this week's looking good.
Oh brilliant!! Good luck.
If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together.
I had thought that, there was a really interesting thread some time back about how you can't expect to get everything you need from one person. The main hurdle for me is that I'm relatively inexperienced even in monogamous relationships & prone to jealousy so I need to read up & tackle that early. (I've been taking notes from the ethical slut thread )
Thanks "
As long as you both remain open and talk it could work. I’m like you, prone to jealousy which is why I know poly or swinging in a relationship isn’t for me. |
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"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.
Will you meet her again?
Just realised that sounds quite negative, but overall I'm feeling positive about the situation. We're chatting loads & both fancy each other/are each others types. Haven't planned anything properly but this week's looking good.
Oh brilliant!! Good luck.
If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together.
I had thought that, there was a really interesting thread some time back about how you can't expect to get everything you need from one person. The main hurdle for me is that I'm relatively inexperienced even in monogamous relationships & prone to jealousy so I need to read up & tackle that early. (I've been taking notes from the ethical slut thread )
Thanks "
I can get jealous too but with the right person swinging is amazing!
Work on your relationship first before you jump into swinging.  |
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I'm open to dating someone from fab.
I mean, it's kind of like that anyway right, with the pre socials and stuff... and even with dating apps you discuss what you're looking for etc.
It's a tool to meet new and interesting people with. |
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"I'm open to the idea of dating. I can't see why dating can't happen especially if you both want to that is. "
THIS is precisely how I feel but absolutely no luck yet!
If it happens, then it happens but not holding my breath. |
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I've seen quite a few people from around my area on dating apps, stating they don't do cheats & that they don't do one night stands.. but yet they are on here getting pumped regularly off different guys every night!
I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest?? |
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"I've seen quite a few people from around my area on dating apps, stating they don't do cheats & that they don't do one night stands.. but yet they are on here getting pumped regularly off different guys every night!
I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest?? "
Yep. I don't have any problem with it. |
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"I've seen quite a few people from around my area on dating apps, stating they don't do cheats & that they don't do one night stands.. but yet they are on here getting pumped regularly off different guys every night!
I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest?? "
I don't tell guys I meet on dating sites that I'm on fab because I don't want to hear any nonsense comments about "getting pumped regularly off different guys every night! "
Maybe they put that they don't do one nights stands because they are on dating sites looking for something more substantive there while using fab as an outlet for the sex side of things.
People are allowed to want more than one thing at a time |
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"I've seen quite a few people from around my area on dating apps, stating they don't do cheats & that they don't do one night stands.. but yet they are on here getting pumped regularly off different guys every night!
I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest??
I don't tell guys I meet on dating sites that I'm on fab because I don't want to hear any nonsense comments about "getting pumped regularly off different guys every night! "
Maybe they put that they don't do one nights stands because they are on dating sites looking for something more substantive there while using fab as an outlet for the sex side of things.
People are allowed to want more than one thing at a time "
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"I've seen quite a few people from around my area on dating apps, stating they don't do cheats & that they don't do one night stands.. but yet they are on here getting pumped regularly off different guys every night!
I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest??
I don't tell guys I meet on dating sites that I'm on fab because I don't want to hear any nonsense comments about "getting pumped regularly off different guys every night! "
Maybe they put that they don't do one nights stands because they are on dating sites looking for something more substantive there while using fab as an outlet for the sex side of things.
People are allowed to want more than one thing at a time "
Absolutely |
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We were just horny and looking to hook up. Met on here, four year down and our wholes lives together ahead of us. Swinging is so much better when you can share it with the person who is your best everything. |
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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago
Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X |
I met my husband through a mutual freind and swinging...its great as its already out in the open and we discussed when we got together what we would do on the scene as a couple which took us down the stag and vixen route and we love it x |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.
Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.
Will you meet her again?
Just realised that sounds quite negative, but overall I'm feeling positive about the situation. We're chatting loads & both fancy each other/are each others types. Haven't planned anything properly but this week's looking good.
Oh brilliant!! Good luck.
If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together.
I had thought that, there was a really interesting thread some time back about how you can't expect to get everything you need from one person. The main hurdle for me is that I'm relatively inexperienced even in monogamous relationships & prone to jealousy so I need to read up & tackle that early. (I've been taking notes from the ethical slut thread )
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I can get jealous too but with the right person swinging is amazing!
Work on your relationship first before you jump into swinging. "
Thanks for the advice, and mixedraceand40 as well. I'm looking forward to exploring & learning. |
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