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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Haven’t seen much of Miss Yeux Bleu and Belle recently; hope all is well with them both.

Any other regulars who’ve not popped up in a while?

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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I was a regular who hasn’t popped up in a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

A hearty welcome back then, Babs!

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Yasmeen isn't around as much these days x

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"A hearty welcome back then, Babs! "

Thank you what have I missed?

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently. "

One of the reasons I'm not going to be as active. Can't make an innocent comment without it being twisted by some folk!

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"A hearty welcome back then, Babs!

Thank you what have I missed? "

Yay you’re back

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

One of the reasons I'm not going to be as active. Can't make an innocent comment without it being twisted by some folk! "

I know. Its a tough crowd atm.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"A hearty welcome back then, Babs!

Thank you what have I missed?

Yay you’re back "

SJ I’m here. I’ve missed you xx

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By *ryandseeMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently. "

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

One of the reasons I'm not going to be as active. Can't make an innocent comment without it being twisted by some folk!

I know. Its a tough crowd atm. "

Same ones doing it over and over again but hey ho...if it makes them feel good then cheers to them x

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield

That’s really not good. The forum is the thing I like best about this place.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yasmeen isn't on the forums, she's on the site though.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"A hearty welcome back then, Babs!

Thank you what have I missed?

Yay you’re back

SJ I’m here. I’ve missed you xx "

If you 2 are going to give boob cuddles can I watch?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Missing Appletree already

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"That’s really not good. The forum is the thing I like best about this place. "

There used to be some great people on here... Ivy was one x

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By *tephanjMan  over a year ago

Kettering

I'm grateful that I'm only a part time member of the forum, as I have seen some nasty comments on some topics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd like to make a personal plea for all of the following to come back out to play:

Estragon

Jamie Hants

NSA Chick

Caffeine Dusk

Dubious Oatcake

Berrichome

Estella

Kalopsia

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Missing Appletree already "

We had just become friends and started to chat: seemed a great lady.

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By *ryandseeMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

One of the reasons I'm not going to be as active. Can't make an innocent comment without it being twisted by some folk!

I know. Its a tough crowd atm.

Same ones doing it over and over again but hey ho...if it makes them feel good then cheers to them x"

And often the OP themselves but what surprises me is how people keep feeding their threads. Some obviously thrive on conflict (which is different to opinion, healthy debate etc )

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"A hearty welcome back then, Babs!

Thank you what have I missed?

Yay you’re back

SJ I’m here. I’ve missed you xx

If you 2 are going to give boob cuddles can I watch? "

Of course. She has great boobs

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd like to make a personal plea for all of the following to come back out to play:

Estragon

Jamie Hants

NSA Chick

Caffeine Dusk

Dubious Oatcake

Berrichome

Estella

Kalopsia

"

I liked Estragon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd like to make a personal plea for all of the following to come back out to play:

Estragon

Jamie Hants

NSA Chick

Caffeine Dusk

Dubious Oatcake

Berrichome

Estella

Kalopsia

"

Blimey, you’re right…..a few names there I’ve not seen for a while. NSA Chick has been absent for ages

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are back after a hiatus although as a couple now

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"A hearty welcome back then, Babs!

Thank you what have I missed?

Yay you’re back

SJ I’m here. I’ve missed you xx

If you 2 are going to give boob cuddles can I watch?

Of course. She has great boobs "

I'm hoping to find out in April. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Missing Appletree already "

Didn’t know they’d ‘gone gone’…..just checked my Friends list and yep….

Was it due to getting flak on here?

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple  over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I used to be quite a regular but I haven’t been around much lately in the forums or in conversations. Work has kinda took over for now but I am attending a few group socials this year

Beard

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"We are back after a hiatus although as a couple now "

Yippee.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Missing Appletree already

Didn’t know they’d ‘gone gone’…..just checked my Friends list and yep….

Was it due to getting flak on here?"

I don't believe so, no

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Missing Appletree already

Didn’t know they’d ‘gone gone’…..just checked my Friends list and yep….

Was it due to getting flak on here?"

Hopefully she'll be back, was liking her rope work x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Missing Appletree already "

And me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Missing Appletree already

We had just become friends and started to chat: seemed a great lady. "

She was lovely to chat to, gorgeous too

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

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By *ryandseeMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Missing Appletree already

Didn’t know they’d ‘gone gone’…..just checked my Friends list and yep….

Was it due to getting flak on here?

I don't believe so, no"

There was a thread earlier, not here now, that suggested a few left for some reason but no idea what for.

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE. "

You'll be here as long as there is the prospect of blue lingerie.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m not on as much. Too many people making oh so innocent comments to cause trouble, and then pretending they didn’t mean it.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

You'll be here as long as there is the prospect of blue lingerie. "

Oh yes.

And if it stops - I'll start a company to make it.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"I'd like to make a personal plea for all of the following to come back out to play:

Estragon

Jamie Hants

NSA Chick

Caffeine Dusk

Dubious Oatcake

Berrichome

Estella

Kalopsia

"

Ah nice plea! I miss Jamie's chaotic energy and peculiar squirreling.

Come back 'stella, your thinky threads are missed!

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE. "

The place definitely wouldn't be the same without you CG x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE. "

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

The place definitely wouldn't be the same without you CG x"

I know

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way "

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I’m not on as much. Too many people making oh so innocent comments to cause trouble, and then pretending they didn’t mean it.

"

Yes . This exactly

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you? "

Now that I've got to see

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Now that I've got to see "

Eye bleach at the ready!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you? "

In the kindest way possible good sir, I’d rather not anyway that’s more my thing

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

[Removed by poster at 15/02/22 12:36:26]

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Now that I've got to see "

You've seen me in leather.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Meanwhile - back on topic.......

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"I’m not on as much. Too many people making oh so innocent comments to cause trouble, and then pretending they didn’t mean it.

"

I’ve been hiding under a Covid rock so have no idea what’s been going on. Can’t be doing with troublemakers & arselickers though - the forums are meant to be fun

J x

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By *ittleRed18Woman  over a year ago

Aberdeen

I really miss Geeky Goodness Not sure what's happened but I miss his positive and witty comments in the forums. Just hope he's okay.

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"I really miss Geeky Goodness Not sure what's happened but I miss his positive and witty comments in the forums. Just hope he's okay. "

He was really nice and always inclusive to anyone who joined a thread he posted x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you? "

Did you see Yondu's dress up pic? Yes you do!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Meanwhile - back on topic......."

Damn...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently. "

The actual forums or the offsite groups?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Did you see Yondu's dress up pic? Yes you do!"

I had to take it down as I was gaining unwanted attention

Anyway back on topic…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m not on as much. Too many people making oh so innocent comments to cause trouble, and then pretending they didn’t mean it.

Yes . This exactly "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Did you see Yondu's dress up pic? Yes you do!

I had to take it down as I was gaining unwanted attention

Anyway back on topic… "

Well I fabbed it! Is that what you mean?

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman  over a year ago

London


"I was a regular who hasn’t popped up in a while "

Babsalicious

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"I was a regular who hasn’t popped up in a while

Babsalicious "

Lois

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Did you see Yondu's dress up pic? Yes you do!

I had to take it down as I was gaining unwanted attention

Anyway back on topic… "

It did suit you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Did you see Yondu's dress up pic? Yes you do!

I had to take it down as I was gaining unwanted attention

Anyway back on topic…

Well I fabbed it! Is that what you mean? "

don’t lie now it was never public

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Did you see Yondu's dress up pic? Yes you do!

I had to take it down as I was gaining unwanted attention

Anyway back on topic…

It did suit you "

It’s all in the pose

Back to topic

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Meanwhile - back on topic.......

Damn..."

You've seen ne dressed up to. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"DONT WORRY EVERYONE - YOU STILL HAVE MEEEEE.

I Can’t lie I often check to see if my potential wing man is still here

This is the way

Am I going to have to dress up for you?

Did you see Yondu's dress up pic? Yes you do!

I had to take it down as I was gaining unwanted attention

Anyway back on topic…

Well I fabbed it! Is that what you mean?

don’t lie now it was never public "

Did I not? Oh sorry my bad. I would have!

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By *ryandseeMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"

He was really nice and always inclusive to anyone who joined a thread he posted x"

There is definitely a tendency with sone people only replying to the same people even if the same post has been posted by someone else only moments earlier. Not everyone is always inclusive but hopefully it's mostly about familiarity rather than intentional exclusion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I miss petite woman’s arty pics, and Vanilla Masquerade isn’t here much

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Half my friends list are missing

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman  over a year ago

London


"Half my friends list are missing "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Half my friends list are missing

"

Hello stranger

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve been saying for a while now that the forums have become quite toxic.

A lot of it seems to be coming from fairly new profiles, however there are always the same long standing users who constantly hijack threads and derail them.

There are some threads I avoid completely when I see who has started them.

Too many trying to be top dog.

What’s even worse are those who back them up and join in when they are being vile to be part of the clique.

V

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Half my friends list are missing "

You're not on mine? Don't know why.

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have never posted much but we post a lot less now.

The forums have started to become samey and generic threads starting - favourite colour/food/forumite and as people have mentioned, it’s become a bit spikey now.

I’m not saying about it being samey to have a dig btw - we are part of the problem in not starting different threads

K

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Missing Appletree already "

No, wait. What!? Ahh no…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They’ll mostly inevitably be back at some point in the future. The majority do in some shape or form. And if they don’t I like to think it’s because they have their own bit of happinesss away from the bubble of this little cyber world

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"We have never posted much but we post a lot less now.

The forums have started to become samey and generic threads starting - favourite colour/food/forumite and as people have mentioned, it’s become a bit spikey now.

I’m not saying about it being samey to have a dig btw - we are part of the problem in not starting different threads

K"

No you're right and it doesn't read like a dig. We're all kind of part of the problem by not starting different threads. I know that I post a lot less than I once did and tend to stick to certain erm... easy topics because people are quite irritable right now and I don't have the energy to be misconstrued or fallacies.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"We have never posted much but we post a lot less now.

The forums have started to become samey and generic threads starting - favourite colour/food/forumite and as people have mentioned, it’s become a bit spikey now.

I’m not saying about it being samey to have a dig btw - we are part of the problem in not starting different threads

K

No you're right and it doesn't read like a dig. We're all kind of part of the problem by not starting different threads. I know that I post a lot less than I once did and tend to stick to certain erm... easy topics because people are quite irritable right now and I don't have the energy to be misconstrued or fallacies."

I did stop my 'Blue Monday' threads.

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By *nkforthekinkMan  over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Where’s our Welsh Anna?!?

Miss her bumhole comments

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Where’s our Welsh Anna?!?

Miss her bumhole comments "

I'm sure Annie/Grotbags will resurface at some point x

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

The only forum user I’ve ever really noticed/followed was yas and now she’s taken a step back the place feels empty

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7

I'm not a long time member, nor, I expect anybody's favourite forumite, but I have stepped back because of some peoples aggressive posting. I find the worst of it comes from a small group of women. This is not misogyny on my part, as there are some unpleasant males too, but I've seen this group of PHYSICALLY attractive women piling on to people on threads, and it's ugly.

I'm afraid that no matter how hot they look, this behaviour is a massive turn off. I imagine they get away with it because some men can't see past their looks, but I find it unpleasant viewing, and it makes me uncomfortable.

I have questioned whether I should stay here because of it.

I doubt I would be a cause for concern, if I went MIA, but I had to say this, in case I do feel compelled to leave in the future.

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"The only forum user I’ve ever really noticed/followed was yas and now she’s taken a step back the place feels empty "

It does...she was so random with her topics

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"We have never posted much but we post a lot less now.

The forums have started to become samey and generic threads starting - favourite colour/food/forumite and as people have mentioned, it’s become a bit spikey now.

I’m not saying about it being samey to have a dig btw - we are part of the problem in not starting different threads

K

No you're right and it doesn't read like a dig. We're all kind of part of the problem by not starting different threads. I know that I post a lot less than I once did and tend to stick to certain erm... easy topics because people are quite irritable right now and I don't have the energy to be misconstrued or fallacies."

This I don't have the energy for the arguements. I never minded a heated discussion as long as each side is civil. But I don't think I'm brave enough at the moment to do a very me type thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a long time member, nor, I expect anybody's favourite forumite, but I have stepped back because of some peoples aggressive posting. I find the worst of it comes from a small group of women. This is not misogyny on my part, as there are some unpleasant males too, but I've seen this group of PHYSICALLY attractive women piling on to people on threads, and it's ugly.

I'm afraid that no matter how hot they look, this behaviour is a massive turn off. I imagine they get away with it because some men can't see past their looks, but I find it unpleasant viewing, and it makes me uncomfortable.

I have questioned whether I should stay here because of it.

I doubt I would be a cause for concern, if I went MIA, but I had to say this, in case I do feel compelled to leave in the future."

I've been enjoying your comments

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm reading this thread and nodding at some of the comments.

But I'm also going to stick to the OP.

I miss JennieTV. Very much.

And Princess Peach isn't about enough for my liking.

I miss Martyn (Moreno0969) and CuriousKitty250.

I don't miss Appletree or Rachael's presence yet because it's not been long enough.

And I'm sure there are others I miss whose names escape me right now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think people come and go and sometimes come back. I have but mainly for the forums really. But I agree with others that the forums have been a bit ugly recently and quite 'samey' with the same topics coming up again and again.

While some have disappeared it's good to see some like Cheeky69 still about, even if I'm now too old for her!!

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Posh - CuriousKitty250 is back. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kitty

PP

Taff

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"I'm not a long time member, nor, I expect anybody's favourite forumite, but I have stepped back because of some peoples aggressive posting. I find the worst of it comes from a small group of women. This is not misogyny on my part, as there are some unpleasant males too, but I've seen this group of PHYSICALLY attractive women piling on to people on threads, and it's ugly.

I'm afraid that no matter how hot they look, this behaviour is a massive turn off. I imagine they get away with it because some men can't see past their looks, but I find it unpleasant viewing, and it makes me uncomfortable.

I have questioned whether I should stay here because of it.

I doubt I would be a cause for concern, if I went MIA, but I had to say this, in case I do feel compelled to leave in the future.

I've been enjoying your comments "

Thanks, Lana.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive been here 15 years and have been a very active forumite over those years.

I started taking little breaks then the last one was for about 9 months. Ive been back a couple of weeks and hardly recognize anyone. Ive posted very little as its really difficult to find something to post on as most of the threads are just shit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lady Luck as well miss her she’s still active but don’t come on forums often

Very nice lady x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I go on and off Fab, you might have noticed I'm currently in an 'on' phase since I have been chatty AF (sorry all!) !

In all the times I've been here though, I don't think I've ever had a fight with anyone. I do see people be assholes, but tend to just roll my eyes and try seek out the more fun folk who aren't looking for a rise.

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Loads of good'uns have departed

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By *host63Man  over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Belle has heth problems as far as I understand

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By *iddlesticksMan  over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I’m not on as much. Too many people making oh so innocent comments to cause trouble, and then pretending they didn’t mean it.

"

If you’re on about when I said that I think you have the most wonderous norks, then hands up, I absolutely meant it.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

How far do you want me to go back OP?

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By *entlemanFoxMan  over a year ago

North East / London

I'm back after a longish break.

So I hope we'll see some of the old favourites back as well.

I still haven't reconnected with all my old forum mates.

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Posh - CuriousKitty250 is back. X"

I did spot her the other day, just not as much foruming

Thanks CG

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By *edheadjMan  over a year ago

High Wycombe

Not seen Naughty Nymphomaniac in a while. Hope she's ok X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've never seen any real nastiness myself, I think it seems harder for newer people to get acknowledged, but that's the same as most internet forums.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've never seen any real nastiness myself, I think it seems harder for newer people to get acknowledged, but that's the same as most internet forums."

It must be your Surrey accent

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've never seen any real nastiness myself, I think it seems harder for newer people to get acknowledged, but that's the same as most internet forums.

It must be your Surrey accent "

I never thought of that. Good shout.

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By *nkforthekinkMan  over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Where’s our Welsh Anna?!?

Miss her bumhole comments

I'm sure Annie/Grotbags will resurface at some point x"

Anniewilkies fab legend! X

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Bring back The Duke say I!

Hail his name!

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Posh - CuriousKitty250 is back. X

I did spot her the other day, just not as much foruming

Thanks CG"

No worries, I'll go back to my corner

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven't seen LeoBlooms mentioned. Really miss him on the forums.

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

PMF was another good one x

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"No worries, I'll go back to my corner "

He shares a corner with Wonko ^

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I haven't seen LeoBlooms mentioned. Really miss him on the forums. "

Leo! Yes!

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

The actual forums or the offsite groups?

"

Ssssshhhh the first rule of offsite groups is there are no offsite groups!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I haven't seen LeoBlooms mentioned. Really miss him on the forums.

Leo! Yes!"

Hopefully he will come back in time. I think he and Estragon were two of the first people I chatted to. And I felt welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I miss the city Jeans and estragon double, both incredible witty in their own right !!! Bring the act back please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

The actual forums or the offsite groups?

Ssssshhhh the first rule of offsite groups is there are no offsite groups!"

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

I miss PP's morning threads and his fabathons.

I also miss Yasmeen and her lovely message threads.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I miss PP's morning threads and his fabathons.

I also miss Yasmeen and her lovely message threads."

pp still does the occasional morning thread.

Where's toshn when ya need him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Taff used to take over sometimes

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral


"I miss PP's morning threads and his fabathons.

I also miss Yasmeen and her lovely message threads.

pp still does the occasional morning thread.

Where's toshn when ya need him "

Both are still around but not posting often

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Used to do morning thread after pp taff but got a bit of greif so stopped

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I miss PP's morning threads and his fabathons.

I also miss Yasmeen and her lovely message threads.

pp still does the occasional morning thread.

Where's toshn when ya need him

Both are still around but not posting often "

I used to call them the Chuckle Brothers

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Used to do morning thread after pp taff but got a bit of greif so stopped "

Didn't you know threads are copyrighted...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No lol

Won’t do it anymore then

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Its the natural tide of fab some leave and some have been less than good...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I haven't seen LeoBlooms mentioned. Really miss him on the forums.

Leo! Yes!

Hopefully he will come back in time. I think he and Estragon were two of the first people I chatted to. And I felt welcomed. "

Leo would have technical issues in returning, if you get my drift...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West

PS: Am in contact with Leo off here.

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By *anchestercreampieloversCouple  over a year ago

manchester

We miss Juicyjessica, lovely bum on her xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently. "

Oh I haven't noticed any of that behavior. I'm probably oblivious and in my own little world. I do avoid drama like the plague mind.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

Oh I haven't noticed any of that behavior. I'm probably oblivious and in my own little world. I do avoid drama like the plague mind."

So long as you don't avoid me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I haven't seen LeoBlooms mentioned. Really miss him on the forums.

Leo! Yes!

Hopefully he will come back in time. I think he and Estragon were two of the first people I chatted to. And I felt welcomed.

Leo would have technical issues in returning, if you get my drift..."

Yes. But other people have had that difficulty and come back! I've said before that I miss his presence so I think he knows that.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

..


"PS: Am in contact with Leo off here."

Say hello to Leo for me please

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"PS: Am in contact with Leo off here.

Say hello to Leo for me please "

I shall do. Anyone else for messages to LeoBlooms?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are lots missing and most of their names escape me. I know them by stripy socks or lovely boobs or rippling chest There are a few in here I would faint if they left, it wouldnt be the same at all but luckily they seem fairly steady so I should be ok. Phew.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me, I post a lot less.

I miss the bromances, I like it when that happens!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently.

Oh I haven't noticed any of that behavior. I'm probably oblivious and in my own little world. I do avoid drama like the plague mind.

So long as you don't avoid me. "

never

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By *imon_hydeMan  over a year ago

Stockport


"The only forum user I’ve ever really noticed/followed was yas and now she’s taken a step back the place feels empty

It does...she was so random with her topics "

That randomness has been transposed to fabguys, she's a forum regular there these days

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

To be honest I'm not invested enough here in the lounge to notice if someone has left or isn't posting as often but across the forums as a whole there is actually no-one that I miss.

There are a few that I'm more than happy have left or had the forum option taken from them and I know from chatting to a few people through the lounge that not all is as it appears in here either and some lovely forumites are anything but in external chat groups.

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"PMF was another good one x"

One of my very first friends ??

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"PMF was another good one x

One of my very first friends ??"

I still chat with him x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d miss you all to much

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury

I miss Incandescent and Fabulousandbearded, both were really nice people.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair

I miss my dear esteemed friend - ErectJim.

He, of the Nocturnal, stalwart of neutrality and indifference and jocular wit.

Hopefully he will return.

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By *hunderace...Man  over a year ago

Dudley


"I miss my dear esteemed friend - ErectJim.

He, of the Nocturnal, stalwart of neutrality and indifference and jocular wit.

Hopefully he will return."

He was on last

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I miss Dai Hard

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Spider woman

Genghis

NSA chick

Caffeine Dusk

Dan_lexa

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I miss SusukiNo1- if anyone remembers her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Missing Appletree already "

No way! Have they gone??

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Many could be staying away because that forums have been quite hostile recently. "

Have they Chunky. Seems everytime someone says this .. I can't recall seeing it.

Not that I live here

I really think its much LESS hostile.

Not exactly riveting ..... but less hostile with less fabricated drama for dramas sake.

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By *B69Woman  over a year ago

Wiltshire

F & B always made me laugh and Kitty was lovely

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"We miss Juicyjessica, lovely bum on her xx"

She's still here. She literally started an arse thread yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aw I forgot F&B he was one sexy Frenchie

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"I go on and off Fab, you might have noticed I'm currently in an 'on' phase since I have been chatty AF (sorry all!) !

In all the times I've been here though, I don't think I've ever had a fight with anyone. I do see people be assholes, but tend to just roll my eyes and try seek out the more fun folk who aren't looking for a rise."

You and me, outside, NOW!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I go on and off Fab, you might have noticed I'm currently in an 'on' phase since I have been chatty AF (sorry all!) !

In all the times I've been here though, I don't think I've ever had a fight with anyone. I do see people be assholes, but tend to just roll my eyes and try seek out the more fun folk who aren't looking for a rise.

You and me, outside, NOW!!!"

Aw so cute! I'm not afraid of you

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Dash - my fellow B-Movie loving buddy. I miss him to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dan_lexa

Duchessofpornwall

Kitty likes to play

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"I go on and off Fab, you might have noticed I'm currently in an 'on' phase since I have been chatty AF (sorry all!) !

In all the times I've been here though, I don't think I've ever had a fight with anyone. I do see people be assholes, but tend to just roll my eyes and try seek out the more fun folk who aren't looking for a rise.

You and me, outside, NOW!!!

Aw so cute! I'm not afraid of you "

It's ok I just wanted a snog and to do you behind the bins anyway.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Just don’t talk to people they you won’t miss them!

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Just don’t talk to people they you won’t miss them!"

This is a sound strategy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I go on and off Fab, you might have noticed I'm currently in an 'on' phase since I have been chatty AF (sorry all!) !

In all the times I've been here though, I don't think I've ever had a fight with anyone. I do see people be assholes, but tend to just roll my eyes and try seek out the more fun folk who aren't looking for a rise.

You and me, outside, NOW!!!

Aw so cute! I'm not afraid of you

It's ok I just wanted a snog and to do you behind the bins anyway. "

Well in that case, I'm on my way...!

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By *hunderace...Man  over a year ago

Dudley


"I miss SusukiNo1- if anyone remembers her. "

I do too CG, she was the thrill from Rhyl

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman  over a year ago

London

As said above people come and go, and some cannot come back.

In terms of contributions, or lack of, to threads, I think a lot of it has to do with our lives getting back to some sense of normality after the last two years.

In the first lockdown there was a whole lot of positive support and fun. This has changed.

I do think some of us are just jaded with things that you look and just don't bother.

I was going to do a voice thread the other day for Valentine's where we could record limericks etc but didn't feel inclined in the end.

Anyway I am rambling. Another reason I have stopped posting much.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple  over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Nippy... he was a good laugh

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Dan_lexa

Duchessofpornwall

Kitty likes to play "

I still meet up with Lex for coffee

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"Missing Appletree already

No way! Have they gone?? "

Whit? I loved her posts!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one would miss me

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral


"As said above people come and go, and some cannot come back.

In terms of contributions, or lack of, to threads, I think a lot of it has to do with our lives getting back to some sense of normality after the last two years.

In the first lockdown there was a whole lot of positive support and fun. This has changed.

I do think some of us are just jaded with things that you look and just don't bother.

I was going to do a voice thread the other day for Valentine's where we could record limericks etc but didn't feel inclined in the end.

Anyway I am rambling. Another reason I have stopped posting much.

"

I do find myself typing responses and then deleting because I can't be bothered.

I've not noticed much aggro on here of late but I have noticed a sense of "meh" and I think you're right, the real life situation we're in has a lot to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

F&B

City Jeans

Dai Hard (Have spoken to him since and he is fine)

Incandescent

Shame that this place is meant to be fun....Not for at least 2 of the above...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"F&B

City Jeans

Dai Hard (Have spoken to him since and he is fine)

Incandescent

Shame that this place is meant to be fun....Not for at least 2 of the above..."

Incandescent Used to keep me in line

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"No one would miss me "

I think no one went UNLOS last night, so you are shit out of luck now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"F&B

City Jeans

Dai Hard (Have spoken to him since and he is fine)

Incandescent

Shame that this place is meant to be fun....Not for at least 2 of the above...

Incandescent Used to keep me in line "

Me too! Honestly, she was like my Sister from another Mr

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"F&B

City Jeans

Dai Hard (Have spoken to him since and he is fine)

Incandescent

Shame that this place is meant to be fun....Not for at least 2 of the above...

Incandescent Used to keep me in line

Me too! Honestly, she was like my Sister from another Mr "

I miss Incie a lot - sharp but caring. And inclusive. I'm very happy she's happy though. And posting this because she'll at this little public love in for her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"F&B

City Jeans

Dai Hard (Have spoken to him since and he is fine)

Incandescent

Shame that this place is meant to be fun....Not for at least 2 of the above...

Incandescent Used to keep me in line

Me too! Honestly, she was like my Sister from another Mr

I miss Incie a lot - sharp but caring. And inclusive. I'm very happy she's happy though. And posting this because she'll at this little public love in for her. "

yes she will

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"No one would miss me "

It would depend on how fast you were moving, and how well you can hide.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"F&B

City Jeans

Dai Hard (Have spoken to him since and he is fine)

Incandescent

Shame that this place is meant to be fun....Not for at least 2 of the above...

Incandescent Used to keep me in line

Me too! Honestly, she was like my Sister from another Mr

I miss Incie a lot - sharp but caring. And inclusive. I'm very happy she's happy though. And posting this because she'll at this little public love in for her. "

Lmao she will! But yeah, so glad she is happy.....Even if it means we're abandoned

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By *assing Fancies xCouple  over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We disappeared for about 3 month's before Xmas and no one even noticed we'd gone hide & seek champions right here

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"We disappeared for about 3 month's before Xmas and no one even noticed we'd gone hide & seek champions right here "

As silly as it sounds - I did.

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Princess Peach and her Auntie P's advice line.

And I can't recall who used to do it - the Sister ? confessional thread.

I haven't seen either of them in ages and miss their wit and dry humour.

Those threads were comedy genius!

C

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