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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Does anyone have chats that seem to go well, then just out of the blue they just stop?

I’ve had it on a few occasions now, seem to start getting somewhere then… bam conversations stop. Starting to think I’m doing something wrong.

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By *ussle SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

Quite often. Don’t worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Women are fickle!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It happens, I wouldn’t let it concern you. Unless you ask and get a reply as to why it’s stopped, you’ll drive yourself to distraction trying to figure it out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women are fickle!! "

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes it does happen sometimes with so many possible reasons as to why. I’m sure many others also experience it…

I can only suggest that if it is a regular occurrence maybe try and work out why, by reading through the last messages and seeing when they stop talking? It might give you an idea… are you moving things too soon etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's happens, don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes all the time but then I've chatted for months to others. Part and parcel I guess of being on a site with lots of people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I sometimes allow this to happen. I am basically just not very invested in Fab, even if I do like to treat people with courtesy

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes.

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Sometimes this happe-

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

Block...move on o/p. Happens to all of us.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man  over a year ago

Home

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sometimes this happe-"

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

Happens very frequently. I don't do heavy sex chat so I tend to assume they just get bored and find an easier wank

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I prefer a good direct end than a slow fizzle out , you can be a tiny bid sad and then forget them. The worst is the situation fizzle and then a month later they are back and it’s so confusing

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Gosh yes maybe 1 in 25 chats (more than a week chatting) lead to a meet the rest are natural faders, I tend to find most fade after 2 days once they realise I'm not "doing sexy talk"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, it’s a normal thing that happens on fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I prefer a good direct end than a slow fizzle out , you can be a tiny bid sad and then forget them. The worst is the situation fizzle and then a month later they are back and it’s so confusing "

Yes, that’s a headfuck.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Her name was lola

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Not to me but I know I do it for a myriad of reasons - I find the conversation particularly boring, the person is doing the bare minimum to try and keep me interested. I just lose interest. A poster above said fickle. I prefer to think of myself as easily distracted.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I prefer to think of myself as easily distracted. "

Look over there —-

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By *aptain Caveman41Man  over a year ago

Home


"Her name was lola"
was she a showgirl

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Her name was lola"

‘His name was Rico, he wore a diamond….’

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People have different perspectives of what a good conversation is, that's the problem.

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By *iss_FickleWoman  over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Women are fickle!! "

Well I can't argue with that lol... but men are too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get bored easily so I sometimes just drop out conversations. Not intentionally but I forget to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Often. You can be in the middle of an interesting conversation whe..........

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have to admit, I'm guilty of doing this. It might be that I feel it's like pulling teeth chatting, or they try and push me to meet quickly or get into sex chat. So I just go quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes it happens, but such as Fab

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By *edsmudgeMan  over a year ago

oxford


"Her name was lola

‘His name was Rico, he wore a diamond….’ "

There was blood and a single gun shot.

But just who shot who

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough


"Women are fickle!! "

I thought that was just OPEC. (Top Gear reference)

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the comments, I’ve happily accepted that this will happen and I know it’s difficult given the amount of males on fab, just some I had a good feeling with and now that all seems to have died on it’s arse.

Guess it’s onwards I go, if anyones bored and fancies a chat then my inbox is bare at the minute lol

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