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What is the first thing to come to mind when you mention marriage
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Equal |
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over a year ago
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No thanks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Christianity
Hence I'm never getting married |
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over a year ago
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Panic |
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over a year ago
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Happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cost of a wedding |
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Divorce! And I’m normally such a positive person haha  Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That I'm beginning to think it will never happen  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
I'd rather deep throat a cactus |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Tricky question to answer when you don't know who she is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soul mates  |
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"Cabbabage: I can explain!"
Can you can you really  |
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Been there, done it, didn't like it |
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"Cabbabage: I can explain!
Can you can you really "
Cabbabage?
We’re listening ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Allergic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why bother and what's all the fuss about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank god I didn't do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shackles….."
Shackles can be fun though 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's someone out there for everyone. Maybe again one day. Never say never. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shackles…..
Shackles can be fun though
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That rope work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something I'd like to do again only with someone who is my equal. I very much doubt he exists! |
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Wedding ring....The tiniest litte handcuff you will ever wear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Death
Despair
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A feeling of completeness x well there's always room for more in the bedroom but you get what we mean.... Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Divorce |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never again |
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Always the bridesmaid and never the bride
But I bet I have better sex than the bride on her wedding night |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Cabbabage: I can explain!
Can you can you really "
Yes.
1 I always sang Love and marriage: goes together like onion and cabbage.
2 Peter Gabriel (must have heard me lol) he remade the Solsbury Hill video, where the 'bride' is draped in green dres and leaves, looking pensive as she walks between the the conveyor belts and spinning vertical shafts of cabbage, whilst holding an all green bouquet. (the cabbages look more like giant sprouts on a stalk)
This is at the end of the video and yes I know about how Peter left Genesis and his cabbage patch/mid life crisis. Hence the song. |
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"Always the bridesmaid and never the bride
But I bet I have better sex than the bride on her wedding night "
You're on
LvM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 star, would not recommend. On a par with adulting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love.
Which is quite sweet given I'm divorced and perpetually single. |
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Why do I need a piece of paper ? |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"No duvet….."
A man' s feminine side, is the other 95% of that duvet. |
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"Why do I need a piece of paper ? "
Cos otherwise you'd have nowhere to write a shopping list *nods* |
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"Ring"
And control of the remote (of course). |
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2 cows and the money they milked from me... |
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"Always the bridesmaid and never the bride
But I bet I have better sex than the bride on her wedding night
You're on
LvM"
I’m talking the brides of the weddings I went to! I doubt I’ll beat you two after what I may or may not have seen today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell no |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
My dad walking me down the aisle. |
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In the words of the great Richard Pryor ….
‘Run ‘ !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never again "
This was my thoughts. |
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It's not for me
Happy living in sin
Miss |
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"Why do I need a piece of paper ?
Cos otherwise you'd have nowhere to write a shopping list *nods*"
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Soul mates "
We are still best friends, not regrets at all , but once is definitely enough ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve been together for a long time and probably will at some stage |
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I'm a widow and I'll probably never marry again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How lucky I am that I found my soulmate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One day, maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Companionship.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Run |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Run"
As fast as you can! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Therapy. |
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"That I'm beginning to think it will never happen "
Same. I flit between not caring and breakdown over it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For better or for worse until something more suitable comes along. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather shit in my hands and clap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Commitment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must choose better next time |
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Heartbreak. Losing him. Widowed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An amazing last 28 yrs |
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I'm a widower will never marry again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why waste all that money just for one day
I get that it's a womens dream to have that big day, but most guys dreams are to have that one car they love but will never get it,
I'm just tring to say I don't think getting married is a big thing anymore and you don't need to prove you love someone by doing it |
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"Why waste all that money just for one day
I get that it's a womens dream to have that big day, but most guys dreams are to have that one car they love but will never get it,
I'm just tring to say I don't think getting married is a big thing anymore and you don't need to prove you love someone by doing it "
Why do you consider celebrating a marriage a waste of money? |
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"Why waste all that money just for one day
I get that it's a womens dream to have that big day, but most guys dreams are to have that one car they love but will never get it,
I'm just tring to say I don't think getting married is a big thing anymore and you don't need to prove you love someone by doing it "
Getting married doesn't need to be expensive. We got married the year after we finished uni. We had little money but had a great wedding day. We did things ourselves e.g. made menu cards and table place names ourselves. I made necklaces for my bridesmaids and bought bridesmaid dresses from high street shops during the sale. Etc. |
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By *aountyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Don't have any preconceptions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regret |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ideally...always being there for each other.. |
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Wedding… then planning the thing… the cost of an wedding. Panic followed by a rum and then start all over again
Bx |
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"Why waste all that money just for one day
I get that it's a womens dream to have that big day, but most guys dreams are to have that one car they love but will never get it,
I'm just tring to say I don't think getting married is a big thing anymore and you don't need to prove you love someone by doing it "
This is such a sweeping generalisation. Not all men dream of having a dream car and not all women dream of having a big wedding. It isn’t ‘just one day’ it’s a celebration of the love that two people have found together. People have birthday parties and no one says that’s a waste of money. A wedding is like a birthday party for a relationship. It isn’t about proving your love to the other person, it’s a commitment and a celebration.
C x |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Ring"
There are three rings in this collection
Engagement
Wedding
and
Suffer ring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why waste all that money just for one day
I get that it's a womens dream to have that big day, but most guys dreams are to have that one car they love but will never get it,
I'm just tring to say I don't think getting married is a big thing anymore and you don't need to prove you love someone by doing it "
I think that's a vast generalisation. Not all women dream of it (I never have), not all men dream to have a fancy car and weddings don't have to cost a bomb. We spend money on what we think is important. For some people, that's a wedding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hurt x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My delightful ex wife whom I adore with all my heart. Shame we couldn't get along in the same house, but we're very good friends now so all well that ends well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Party! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Why waste all that money just for one day
I get that it's a womens dream to have that big day, but most guys dreams are to have that one car they love but will never get it,
I'm just tring to say I don't think getting married is a big thing anymore and you don't need to prove you love someone by doing it
Getting married doesn't need to be expensive. We got married the year after we finished uni. We had little money but had a great wedding day. We did things ourselves e.g. made menu cards and table place names ourselves. I made necklaces for my bridesmaids and bought bridesmaid dresses from high street shops during the sale. Etc. "
I did similar , everyone helped out doing or providing something, I was still at uni , our little kids were bridesmaids , and I think the whole thing cost less than £1000 and we got much more than that back in gifts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something other people have done with varying outcomes |
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Something I won’t be repeating |
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"Why waste all that money just for one day
I get that it's a womens dream to have that big day, but most guys dreams are to have that one car they love but will never get it,
I'm just tring to say I don't think getting married is a big thing anymore and you don't need to prove you love someone by doing it
Getting married doesn't need to be expensive. We got married the year after we finished uni. We had little money but had a great wedding day. We did things ourselves e.g. made menu cards and table place names ourselves. I made necklaces for my bridesmaids and bought bridesmaid dresses from high street shops during the sale. Etc.
I did similar , everyone helped out doing or providing something, I was still at uni , our little kids were bridesmaids , and I think the whole thing cost less than £1000 and we got much more than that back in gifts "
My sis in law made the cake, other people donated different bits and pieces etc. In laws gift was to pay for the photographer; other relatives paid for other aspects instead of buying gifts. We didn't ask for gifts at all, although we did receive gifts of money (unsolicited). Our washing machine conked out just after the wedding so we used the money towards a new washer! The washing machine is still going strong, 12+ years later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One or two of the Ladies on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing really, no point blaming marriage itself because some may suck at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unnecessary paperwork |
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over a year ago
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Any man would be lucky to have me as his wife |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Unnecessary paperwork"
You could always get her to do the bills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A whole lot of wasted money? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unnecessary paperwork
You could always get her to do the bills "
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The honeymoon period, and then a slow decline into hell! |
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Getting to pick out a Fabulous dress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Battenburg. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Love, friendship, fun, laughter and adventure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nice bath and a cold glass of wine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boredom |
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My father will never walk me down the isle
God rest his soul
And….
Exactly where do you find men to marry? Ones I meet are flake selfish liars and or emotionally unavailable. Is there a shop somewhere?
And how the hell are some of my friends on their 2nd/3rd marriages and I cannot find no 1?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Run |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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expensive divorce! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Support. Comfort. Warmth. Love. Someone to be beside me. |
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"Christianity
Hence I'm never getting married "
Actually, you will find religion wasn’t the creation. It was trade deals!
People would marry into position or to agree better terms, I’ll marry my daughter to your son if your village stops attacking our village…
And gay marriages happen many many years ago too…
Religion kinda mucked it all up and streamlined it all |
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"I'd rather shit in my hands and clap "
This made me chuckle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happiness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life.
Best thing that has ever happened to me.
My reason for living.
The thing that resulted in my two greatest achievements and my lasting contribution to humanity. |
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By *melfCouple
over a year ago
Stoneybridge |
Where's my passport? |
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"My father will never walk me down the isle
God rest his soul
And….
Exactly where do you find men to marry? Ones I meet are flake selfish liars and or emotionally unavailable. Is there a shop somewhere?
And how the hell are some of my friends on their 2nd/3rd marriages and I cannot find no 1?
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Perhaps they’re not looking for No1,
They’re just looking for anyone. |
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Running just as fast as I can! |
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"Running just as fast as I can! "
You’d be faster on your bicycle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Run !! |
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"Running just as fast as I can!
You’d be faster on your bicycle "
True! With that wind out there today behind me! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who gets the forty acres and the mule. |
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"Who gets the forty acres and the mule."
I'd let you have the mule  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never for me |
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Trying to make an effort only to be let down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It used to be "shit what have I done?" when I was in a previous relationship but now the topic fills me with excitement |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Love, openness, imperfectly perfect.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Divorce! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been there, done that, definately won’t be repeating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In theory, love and companionship. |
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My parents failed marriage and my desire to never have one. |
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Definitely not for me thanks but no thanks lol |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Firstly, idealisation
Then devaluation and criticism relentlessly
Finally, discardment and ghosting.
All political careers end in failure, as do the majority of marriages! |
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bleurghhhh no thanks! 
