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That one off-putting detail
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By *ickshawed OP Couple
over a year ago
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So you're getting on well with someone, all seems to be going well then they give you a personal detail that freezes your loins and destroys any feelings of lust you had.
For me, chatting to a nice guy and he tells me he has a license and owns guns. Perfectly reasonable as he lived in a rural farming area. But it just completely put me off any possible bedroom fun with him.
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Anything that they say that is (in my opinion) a little judgemental. We all have a right (within the realms of the law) to live how we wish, say what we wish, be who we wish. Anyone that comes across as derisory to someone else’s opinion or judgemental get a “no”.
Also anyone that puts nationality above humanity.
Also people that believe in luck. Can’t be doing with that.
Also people that look at me funny like.
I don’t understand how I am so unsuccessful round here.  |
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"Brexiters and tories "
Pretty much this. Had a meet that could potentially have turned into something more - but he was very pro Brexit and a true blue Tory.
Couldn’t have got past that no matter how great his cock felt. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything that they say that is (in my opinion) a little judgemental. We all have a right (within the realms of the law) to live how we wish, say what we wish, be who we wish. Anyone that comes across as derisory to someone else’s opinion or judgemental get a “no”.
Also anyone that puts nationality above humanity.
Also people that believe in luck. Can’t be doing with that.
Also people that look at me funny like.
I don’t understand how I am so unsuccessful round here. "
I wish I'd paid attention on my last social when the first thing he did was criticise what the waitress was wearing. That's judgmental and I don't like it either. |
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They go from normal chat to ‘only thinking with my cock’ left field chat straight away without any hesitation 
Woah we were discussing the weather and now your wanting to show me how to pound C’s pussy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They go from normal chat to ‘only thinking with my cock’ left field chat straight away without any hesitation
Woah we were discussing the weather and now your wanting to show me how to pound C’s pussy!
K"
Any sex chat before I've actually met them in person is really creepy. Message deleted, definitely won't be meeting. |
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Anyone lacking respect for others. Anyone slagging off other people. Pushy people. Shows that they will not respect you, will talk about you also behind your back given the oppotunity. "Pushy" shows arrogance which is not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sounds daft, but I’d find it offputting if they weren’t a good/involved parent. Bad parenting and being absent for one’s children is unattractive, and I can’t respect a guy for that. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Racism. General 'isms.
And if they spend their time constantly bitching about other people. It's really not a good way to be. Maybe for them but it doesn't have me dripping with lust for them. |
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"This sounds daft, but I’d find it offputting if they weren’t a good/involved parent. Bad parenting and being absent for one’s children is unattractive, and I can’t respect a guy for that."
Not daft at all...I don't think |
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"Racism. General 'isms.
And if they spend their time constantly bitching about other people. It's really not a good way to be. Maybe for them but it doesn't have me dripping with lust for them."
.yep...this would don't for me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This sounds daft, but I’d find it offputting if they weren’t a good/involved parent. Bad parenting and being absent for one’s children is unattractive, and I can’t respect a guy for that."
What if they had never had kids?
For any reason; infertlity (either them or their partner), career choice, lifestyle choice, just didn't happen...
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By *mithyukMan
over a year ago
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"Brexiters and tories
Pretty much this. Had a meet that could potentially have turned into something more - but he was very pro Brexit and a true blue Tory.
Couldn’t have got past that no matter how great his cock felt. X"
Think I'd change my ideology to make things work with you Peachy.. Hehe |
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I was out in a bar just before Christmas talking to a friend of mine, who is black.
We had a few drinks together and were chatting. He was heading home and after he left a guy who had been hanging around at the bar came over and insisted on buying me a drink… eventually I said ok and asked for the cheapest drink in the place… the bottled beer they always have on offer, the brand changes week on week.
The guy came back with the beer and sat down at the table with me and said “ I saw you talking to the Black guy, but that’s ok, I am ok with that”
I think he saw my jaw hit the floor and quickly moved the chat on.
To no avail, I was out of there!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This sounds daft, but I’d find it offputting if they weren’t a good/involved parent. Bad parenting and being absent for one’s children is unattractive, and I can’t respect a guy for that.
What if they had never had kids?
For any reason; infertlity (either them or their partner), career choice, lifestyle choice, just didn't happen...
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Well, that’s different. I was talking about men who don’t parent the children they do have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they start telling me about all their sexual conquests.
If we're just chatting and he asks what I'm wearing. Yawn!"
Oh God yeah, or when he asks if you’re into wearing heels. Yawnathon! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"When they start telling me about all their sexual conquests.
If we're just chatting and he asks what I'm wearing. Yawn!
Oh God yeah, or when he asks if you’re into wearing heels. Yawnathon! "
Its all so predictable. Bore the fuck off.
Or another one whe you're chatting and they start talking sex I'm like hang on a minute I might not actually fancy you in the flesh. Instant turn off. It's no wonder my virginity has grown back  |
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"I was out in a bar just before Christmas talking to a friend of mine, who is black.
We had a few drinks together and were chatting. He was heading home and after he left a guy who had been hanging around at the bar came over and insisted on buying me a drink… eventually I said ok and asked for the cheapest drink in the place… the bottled beer they always have on offer, the brand changes week on week.
The guy came back with the beer and sat down at the table with me and said “ I saw you talking to the Black guy, but that’s ok, I am ok with that”
I think he saw my jaw hit the floor and quickly moved the chat on.
To no avail, I was out of there!
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OMG - what was he thinking! (Or was he even thinking!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Referring to themselves as hot / being egotistical about their looks (different to confident with their looks). Looks are subjective, everyone has different taste so you are not hot to everyone. |
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