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Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? |
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over a year ago
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I think it would be better to stay on topic.
most people who hijack theads do it for personal gain and spoil it for the rest who want to have that conversation |
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? "
I've noticed this. We always used to have tangents and conversations within conversations. When did the rules change? I don't get invited to the meetings. |
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"I think it would be better to stay on topic.
most people who hijack theads do it for personal gain and spoil it for the rest who want to have that conversation"
What do you mean for personal gain though? |
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring?
I've noticed this. We always used to have tangents and conversations within conversations. When did the rules change? I don't get invited to the meetings."
Yeah we did. It was a laugh! |
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"I think it would be better to stay on topic.
most people who hijack theads do it for personal gain and spoil it for the rest who want to have that conversation
What do you mean for personal gain though?"
more often than not to flirt with someone they fancy
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over a year ago
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Personally - some are nice when the op replies to all. Like the nocturnal thread. But I get what you mean. Say a thread asking for opinions? If it was me I'd reply to a few and then let everyone else crack on and dip in when I feel I'm not treading on toes.
But then again, I can't help but flirt. Some people don't like taking it to private messages so I try to appreciate that  |
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"I think it would be better to stay on topic.
most people who hijack theads do it for personal gain and spoil it for the rest who want to have that conversation
What do you mean for personal gain though?
more often than not to flirt with someone they fancy
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But is that a bad thing? I’ve joined threads and given up as it’s become just two people flirting in the end but I don’t think it happens that often. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"I like the conversations within the conversations within the conversations, it's more fun."
I agree, so what if you flirt with someone in a thread, christ it’s not high school we aren’t here to be part of some secret gang - I’m openly flirtatious and if I feel like posting something I will, bugger it x |
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"I like the conversations within the conversations within the conversations, it's more fun.
I agree, so what if you flirt with someone in a thread, christ it’s not high school we aren’t here to be part of some secret gang - I’m openly flirtatious and if I feel like posting something I will, bugger it x"
Exactly!!  |
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"Personally - some are nice when the op replies to all. Like the nocturnal thread. But I get what you mean. Say a thread asking for opinions? If it was me I'd reply to a few and then let everyone else crack on and dip in when I feel I'm not treading on toes.
But then again, I can't help but flirt. Some people don't like taking it to private messages so I try to appreciate that "
Yeah doing threads is a difficult one too as you feel you should reply to everyone but then you don’t want it to be boring with lots of comments from yourself! Then someone will get upset as you didn’t acknowledge them! |
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My personal opinion is that there's a vast difference between broadening out a discussion and just making inane comments because a person either doesn't agree or understand the original post or and this happens quite a bit the op is a young single guy |
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I find that as a multiple starter of shit threads that it definitely helps when side conversations start.
I often feel I have to try and reply to everybody and then feel like I’m hogging the thread.
The more the merrier I say.  |
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"I like the conversations within the conversations within the conversations, it's more fun.
I agree, so what if you flirt with someone in a thread, christ it’s not high school we aren’t here to be part of some secret gang - I’m openly flirtatious and if I feel like posting something I will, bugger it x"
Yeah I agree. |
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People need to remember just because they started a thread it’s not ‘theirs’, folk get so protective about ‘their thread’. People can post what the hell they like as long as it’s within site rules. You know it’s been an enjoyable thread when post 175 resembles nothing like the original OP  |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? "
It may be a case of someone being too intimidated to address the OP publicly? Or feeling as though they are being ignored after attempting to contribute to a thread? I tend to just add my piece and crack on so it doesn't bother me one jot but as an easily butthurt teen I did go through these phases.
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"People need to remember just because they started a thread it’s not ‘theirs’, folk get so protective about ‘their thread’. People can post what the hell they like as long as it’s within site rules. You know it’s been an enjoyable thread when post 175 resembles nothing like the original OP "
Definitely.
PS this thread is mine so don’t start your nonsense here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My personal opinion is that there's a vast difference between broadening out a discussion and just making inane comments because a person either doesn't agree or understand the original post or and this happens quite a bit the op is a young single guy "
Hmmm, I could be guilty of the inane comment thing. Usually I'm just cracking a stupid joke. Is that bad etiquette? |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve been off fab for quite a while and don’t know many of the people in the forums so seeing how they interact with each other helps get a feel for who they are. I can see why new people think it’s a bit cliquey though. Personally I’m not bothered about a bit of back and forth in a thread, I just wish sometimes they’d delete the top part of the post as it gets longer and longer and it takes too long to scroll through the thread and you can miss unrelated posts in between the conversation. I think that also makes people feel ignored and overlooked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did a port on this yesterday. More of a humorous side but added the word frustrating for this reason. "
Oh. I did it so it would be hijacked.  . Some people got it and some people didn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? "
Tit tats ring a bell? Lol im teasing....you crack on and do what you wanna do....that goes for everyone x |
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring?
Tit tats ring a bell? Lol im teasing....you crack on and do what you wanna do....that goes for everyone x"
Haha yeah that’s one of the threads that made me think  |
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over a year ago
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I don't mind if people start flirting etc on threads I've started or any other threads unless it gets ridiculous. Doesn't happen often. I do try to answer every contribution on a thread I've started if it's a serious topic eg gaslighting. Otherwise I dip in and out and I'm happy to see where it goes! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I think it’s usually only fun for the ones involved in the conversation going off tangent to be honest.
A lot of OP’s on threads get a bit moody about it and just walk away from the thread, at a time where a lot of forum users bemoan the fact that threads are all samey. And yet someone (often new) starts a thread and then it’s overrun by mates chatting.
And it’s usually folk who are friends anyway, so why not take it to pm or off site messaging apps?.
I also tend to agree that it’s usually done for flirting reasons or to lamppost piss.
It’s why I rarely go back to threads after I post. Because what’s the point? I’m no Angel I have been known to flirt, but I’m talking the serious take overs. I sometimes inwardly cringe reading them.
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? "
I agree.
Hope That Helps...... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it’s usually only fun for the ones involved in the conversation going off tangent to be honest.
A lot of OP’s on threads get a bit moody about it and just walk away from the thread, at a time where a lot of forum users bemoan the fact that threads are all samey. And yet someone (often new) starts a thread and then it’s overrun by mates chatting.
And it’s usually folk who are friends anyway, so why not take it to pm or off site messaging apps?.
I also tend to agree that it’s usually done for flirting reasons or to lamppost piss.
It’s why I rarely go back to threads after I post. Because what’s the point? I’m no Angel I have been known to flirt, but I’m talking the serious take overs. I sometimes inwardly cringe reading them.
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Agreed. And I've seen recently a few threads where the takeover is done deliberately, to mock or derail the thread by bringing it to 175 faster because they don't agree with the poster.
I don't mind the odd bit of flirting, heck, I've even done it myself before. But posts, upon posts, upon posts (you get the idea) are a bit much.
On the other hand, it's Friday, I finish soon and I'm in a very good mood so fuck it. No point overthinking the forums, they are what they are. |
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No idea OP.
I do wonder why so many assume though that just because they start a thread they somehow are in charge of how people respond.
I think I may be a bit hormonal though as I'm more iritated than normal on here yesterday/today so should perhaps make more effort to censor my replies.
 
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"No idea OP.
I do wonder why so many assume though that just because they start a thread they somehow are in charge of how people respond.
I think I may be a bit hormonal though as I'm more iritated than normal on here yesterday/today so should perhaps make more effort to censor my replies.
Mr"
Haha me too. I’m giving too many fucks recently . It’s coz I’ve been on here a lot coz I can’t go out |
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I’ve definitely noticed a Brigade shut down a thread by spamming it with rubbish if they don’t like the narrative or the person that posted it
Each these is limited to 175 so if you and your cronies decide to spam 50 of them it’s not fair on the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I look a good deal of banter be that face to face or within other media - chatting in the forums is a slight minefield at times and the OP is right about "hijacking" - so frustrating
The art of communication is lost a little on here because of its purpose ie; Adult Sex Meeting site , so people (sadly mainly men) do not like to engage in conversations
Those who remember the old AFF and UK Chatters site will recall how conversation was encouraged
J ....steps off his soap box |
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It depends on the context of the thread. If it's light hearted then I reckon the side tracking and flirting is completely fine.
But if a guy starts a thread asking why women don't reply to him and 2 people start flirting then you're basically cucking the poor bastard at that point. |
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? "
Can’t actually say I’ve noticed |
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I've almost given up starting threads not because they go off on a tangent but because one or two people always without fail decide to take it over.
I'm not one for starting threads that require me to reply to everyone because regardless of the topic it's not supposed to be about me. It's an open forum and therefore all opinions are welcome.
It's annoying though when someone decides to reply to everyone as if they were the op and make the thread all about them and their experience, leaving no room for anyone else
Flirting is fine in my opinion but not when it literally fills an entire thread. That just cries out insecurity and a need for validation.
An example is a kiss fuck thread where the op responds to everyone which then turns it into a cockblocking thread. |
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? "
There seem to be far less posters than I remember from previous times here which maybe makes the cliques seem more obvious.
As for hijacking threads I can't be arsed with people that dictate what you can or can't chat about and given that most of what I write is ignored, well who cares? |
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"The innuendo and known conversations between some is quite nice for me tbh… I’d be a hypocrite if I said any different as I’ve done it myself.. although I’m not in “The” main clique yet "
I'm not in any clique. Maybe I smell? |
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring?
There seem to be far less posters than I remember from previous times here which maybe makes the cliques seem more obvious.
As for hijacking threads I can't be arsed with people that dictate what you can or can't chat about and given that most of what I write is ignored, well who cares? "
True. If somethings not acceptable the mods sort it not the forum police |
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"The innuendo and known conversations between some is quite nice for me tbh… I’d be a hypocrite if I said any different as I’ve done it myself.. although I’m not in “The” main clique yet
I'm not in any clique. Maybe I smell?"
Don’t think I am. I don’t lick arse. I’ve a few friends on here. Maybe that qualifies. Who knows! |
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"I like the conversations within the conversations within the conversations, it's more fun.
I agree, so what if you flirt with someone in a thread, christ it’s not high school we aren’t here to be part of some secret gang - I’m openly flirtatious and if I feel like posting something I will, bugger it x
Exactly!! "
I agree and I also admire your bottom |
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"I think it’s usually only fun for the ones involved in the conversation going off tangent to be honest.
A lot of OP’s on threads get a bit moody about it and just walk away from the thread, at a time where a lot of forum users bemoan the fact that threads are all samey. And yet someone (often new) starts a thread and then it’s overrun by mates chatting.
And it’s usually folk who are friends anyway, so why not take it to pm or off site messaging apps?.
I also tend to agree that it’s usually done for flirting reasons or to lamppost piss.
It’s why I rarely go back to threads after I post. Because what’s the point? I’m no Angel I have been known to flirt, but I’m talking the serious take overs. I sometimes inwardly cringe reading them.
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Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy |
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy "
You had me at Chinese takeaway  |
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I kind of agree, it can be a little irksome when an interesting thread becomes dominated by a handful of people blowing smoke up each others arses. But, I'm not bothered enough by anything on here that I can't just scroll on past and ignore it (perhaps after an eye roll and an inward "oh, it's them again, quelle surprise!") |
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"I've almost given up starting threads not because they go off on a tangent but because one or two people always without fail decide to take it over.
I'm not one for starting threads that require me to reply to everyone because regardless of the topic it's not supposed to be about me. It's an open forum and therefore all opinions are welcome.
It's annoying though when someone decides to reply to everyone as if they were the op and make the thread all about them and their experience, leaving no room for anyone else
Flirting is fine in my opinion but not when it literally fills an entire thread. That just cries out insecurity and a need for validation.
An example is a kiss fuck thread where the op responds to everyone which then turns it into a cockblocking thread. "
Pint |
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy
You had me at Chinese takeaway "
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy "
Haha. Nah I was just thinking out loud. I agree though. I think im just getting a bit fed up of posts telling people what they should and shouldn’t do and how they should and shouldn’t behave. I have to stop myself sometimes saying who the fuck are you?!
I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow. Everyone knows I’m usually a fucking delight to
have around |
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"Can you all hijack the fuck out of this now. I’m bored with it . Too serious for me
Show me ya tightey Whiteys instead
Yay we can hijack Noras thread ...
Anal anyone "
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy
Haha. Nah I was just thinking out loud. I agree though. I think im just getting a bit fed up of posts telling people what they should and shouldn’t do and how they should and shouldn’t behave. I have to stop myself sometimes saying who the fuck are you?!
I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow. Everyone knows I’m usually a fucking delight to
have around "
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"I've almost given up starting threads not because they go off on a tangent but because one or two people always without fail decide to take it over.
I'm not one for starting threads that require me to reply to everyone because regardless of the topic it's not supposed to be about me. It's an open forum and therefore all opinions are welcome.
It's annoying though when someone decides to reply to everyone as if they were the op and make the thread all about them and their experience, leaving no room for anyone else
Flirting is fine in my opinion but not when it literally fills an entire thread. That just cries out insecurity and a need for validation.
An example is a kiss fuck thread where the op responds to everyone which then turns it into a cockblocking thread.
Pint "
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"Can you all hijack the fuck out of this now. I’m bored with it . Too serious for me
Show me ya tightey Whiteys instead
Yay we can hijack Noras thread ...
Anal anyone "
Thought you'd never ask. If you could keep it steady though, I need my after work cuppa
I don't start threads often but when I do they generally are flirty, fun threads. I actually love it when people start to flirt with each other! I get a warm, fuzzy feeling and wonder whether it will go to dms! My brain doesn't stick to one subject for longer than 30 seconds so the more off subject the thread goes the more I enjoy it!  |
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy
Haha. Nah I was just thinking out loud. I agree though. I think im just getting a bit fed up of posts telling people what they should and shouldn’t do and how they should and shouldn’t behave. I have to stop myself sometimes saying who the fuck are you?!
I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow. Everyone knows I’m usually a fucking delight to
have around
Do you need me to come round and stick another hormone patch on your bum cheek for you Nora? "
. You know what I’m thinking i might need some of that hormone malarkey. I am becoming a bit of a grumpy bitch. |
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy
Haha. Nah I was just thinking out loud. I agree though. I think im just getting a bit fed up of posts telling people what they should and shouldn’t do and how they should and shouldn’t behave. I have to stop myself sometimes saying who the fuck are you?!
I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow. Everyone knows I’m usually a fucking delight to
have around
Do you need me to come round and stick another hormone patch on your bum cheek for you Nora?
. You know what I’m thinking i might need some of that hormone malarkey. I am becoming a bit of a grumpy bitch. "
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy
Haha. Nah I was just thinking out loud. I agree though. I think im just getting a bit fed up of posts telling people what they should and shouldn’t do and how they should and shouldn’t behave. I have to stop myself sometimes saying who the fuck are you?!
I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow. Everyone knows I’m usually a fucking delight to
have around
Do you need me to come round and stick another hormone patch on your bum cheek for you Nora?
. You know what I’m thinking i might need some of that hormone malarkey. I am becoming a bit of a grumpy bitch.
I agree "
I think I need a seeing to. |
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"Not a massive dilemma but lately there have been posts about hijacking threads, cliques etc. Now today I have found myself not answering everyone who have perhaps commented on my comments when I usually would have done, as it may look like a conversation/hijack. Usually shit doesn’t bother me and I just crack on and I’m annoyed with myself that I’ve done this today. If everyone does this and just stuck to the op would it not just be boring? "
Is it hijacking, or just the natural flow of conversation. Doesn't stop anyone replying to the OP's original point, so I wouldn't sweat it! (And frankly can be a bit dull if the opening question is yes/no and just end up with a thread of one word replies!). My tuppence anyway. Now, who remembers The Get Along Gang... |
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy
Haha. Nah I was just thinking out loud. I agree though. I think im just getting a bit fed up of posts telling people what they should and shouldn’t do and how they should and shouldn’t behave. I have to stop myself sometimes saying who the fuck are you?!
I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow. Everyone knows I’m usually a fucking delight to
have around
Do you need me to come round and stick another hormone patch on your bum cheek for you Nora?
. You know what I’m thinking i might need some of that hormone malarkey. I am becoming a bit of a grumpy bitch.
I agree
I think I need a seeing to. "
SOMEONE PLEASE FIX NORA .....
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"The innuendo and known conversations between some is quite nice for me tbh… I’d be a hypocrite if I said any different as I’ve done it myself.. although I’m not in “The” main clique yet
I'm not in any clique. Maybe I smell?"
Your in mine and no you don't smell |
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I think it's hard for there to be 175 comments on a thread without it diverting a little now and then as it's just natural flow of conversation and would be boring if it didn't. Half the time it's something that's already been spoken about hundreds of times before anyway so needs spicing up |
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"Reading this I think some people take these forums way, way, way too seriously . "
No.
I find these forums to be a point of conversation. I put my obscure point of view out there, I listen and learn from the replies. Sometimes I argue with the replies.
However, whether we like it or not, the old fashioned forums of fab do have a good point or two. |
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"I think it's hard for there to be 175 comments on a thread without it diverting a little now and then as it's just natural flow of conversation and would be boring if it didn't. Half the time it's something that's already been spoken about hundreds of times before anyway so needs spicing up "
True! My thread about monogamy has drifted off into a place I didn't possibly anticipate it could. |
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"I think it's hard for there to be 175 comments on a thread without it diverting a little now and then as it's just natural flow of conversation and would be boring if it didn't. Half the time it's something that's already been spoken about hundreds of times before anyway so needs spicing up
True! My thread about monogamy has drifted off into a place I didn't possibly anticipate it could. "
I'm intrigued so will have a look |
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"I think it's hard for there to be 175 comments on a thread without it diverting a little now and then as it's just natural flow of conversation and would be boring if it didn't. Half the time it's something that's already been spoken about hundreds of times before anyway so needs spicing up
True! My thread about monogamy has drifted off into a place I didn't possibly anticipate it could.
I'm intrigued so will have a look "
And now I have stolen you from Nora's thread mwah haha! |
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"I think it's hard for there to be 175 comments on a thread without it diverting a little now and then as it's just natural flow of conversation and would be boring if it didn't. Half the time it's something that's already been spoken about hundreds of times before anyway so needs spicing up
True! My thread about monogamy has drifted off into a place I didn't possibly anticipate it could.
I'm intrigued so will have a look
And now I have stolen you from Nora's thread mwah haha! "
It’s fine I have him tied up. He loves it |
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"I think it's hard for there to be 175 comments on a thread without it diverting a little now and then as it's just natural flow of conversation and would be boring if it didn't. Half the time it's something that's already been spoken about hundreds of times before anyway so needs spicing up
True! My thread about monogamy has drifted off into a place I didn't possibly anticipate it could.
I'm intrigued so will have a look
And now I have stolen you from Nora's thread mwah haha!
It’s fine I have him tied up. He loves it "
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"Nora you're becoming too serious lately for my liking and me and you need to be having words.....in my bed!
But, on a serious note, since when did all the fun leave half the forum posts on here lately.
Some people are being so bitter, rude,Nit picking and horrible to people
I seriously believe they live so far up their own arses these days they no longer know where the exit is.....
All conversations will naturally go off course whether they are on a fab forum or in the real world, it's normal it happens.
Everyone should be able to say something that they are thinking.
As for cliques on here they will soon dissolve like normal once they have all shagged each other, again thats only natural.
And do I care what people think of me or this post, like shit do I.
I care more about what I should have from the Chinese takeaway later for diner
And as for flirting it should happen more often as it makes people happy
Haha. Nah I was just thinking out loud. I agree though. I think im just getting a bit fed up of posts telling people what they should and shouldn’t do and how they should and shouldn’t behave. I have to stop myself sometimes saying who the fuck are you?!
I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow. Everyone knows I’m usually a fucking delight to
have around
Do you need me to come round and stick another hormone patch on your bum cheek for you Nora?
. You know what I’m thinking i might need some of that hormone malarkey. I am becoming a bit of a grumpy bitch.
I agree
I think I need a seeing to.
SOMEONE PLEASE FIX NORA .....
There that may work.... ha ha x "
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