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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They're just trying to subtly steer the conversation towards sex so that they can blow their load and get on with their day 
LvM"
I thought this but why not ask something a bit more…sexy?
Can’t see them furiously wanking to me saying “not for ages, can’t be arsed” hahaha |
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"They're just trying to subtly steer the conversation towards sex so that they can blow their load and get on with their day
LvM
I thought this but why not ask something a bit more…sexy?
Can’t see them furiously wanking to me saying “not for ages, can’t be arsed” hahaha "
Judging by some of the profiles knocking about I think you'd be surprised 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They're just trying to subtly steer the conversation towards sex so that they can blow their load and get on with their day
LvM
I thought this but why not ask something a bit more…sexy?
Can’t see them furiously wanking to me saying “not for ages, can’t be arsed” hahaha
Judging by some of the profiles knocking about I think you'd be surprised
LvM"
True haha what am I thinking  |
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself "
Don't worry, I'm sure there'll be a thread asking everyone soon enough
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself "
When did you both last have sex???
Couldn’t resist |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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1. Steer the talk to sex
2. To see how active you are in terms of gauging how much spade work is required to get into your knickers
3. To see how active you are as someone who has it more often will be perceived to be more adventurous which can be a positive/turn-on
4. To see how active you are as some might be turned off if you are doing it too often with many people
That's all I've got at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself "
That's 3 of us, I feel a little better knowing I'm not alone now. |
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself
When did you both last have sex???
Couldn’t resist "
Ah thanks for asking....it's been ages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
I met a guy once who wanted to check I hadn’t met someone else the same day…. As it turned him off…. I said, so how come you’re on a swingers site?! I’m not sure why the sun going down and coming back up again makes any difference really! He said yesterday would’ve been fine! he’s no longer on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
Gowan so, tell us when you last had sex - we want to know, really we do  "
That's just a pity ask. It doesn't count |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
Personally... I'm more concerned about when I'll next have sex 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing!
I met a guy once who wanted to check I hadn’t met someone else the same day…. As it turned him off…. I said, so how come you’re on a swingers site?! I’m not sure why the sun going down and coming back up again makes any difference really! He said yesterday would’ve been fine! he’s no longer on fab "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself
When did you both last have sex???
Couldn’t resist
Ah thanks for asking....it's been ages "
Aaah right….so does this mean if I message FAF…..you’re going to say yes haha |
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself
When did you both last have sex???
Couldn’t resist
Ah thanks for asking....it's been ages
Aaah right….so does this mean if I message FAF…..you’re going to say yes haha"
You bet....I'll jump on you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve literally never been asked this. Maybe the photos on my profile show that I’m always fucking so they don’t need to ask Ahahaha "
Hahaha probably
I look dead inside and unloved  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself
When did you both last have sex???
Couldn’t resist
Ah thanks for asking....it's been ages
Aaah right….so does this mean if I message FAF…..you’re going to say yes haha
You bet....I'll jump on you! "
I knew it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though…."
That was even longer ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve literally never been asked this. Maybe the photos on my profile show that I’m always fucking so they don’t need to ask Ahahaha
Hahaha probably
I look dead inside and unloved "
You do look busy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though….
That was even longer ago "
Priorities liverpoolgirl  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve literally never been asked this. Maybe the photos on my profile show that I’m always fucking so they don’t need to ask Ahahaha
Hahaha probably
I look dead inside and unloved
You do look busy "
I’m just chilling at the beach, no sex for me - too sandy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though….
That was even longer ago
Priorities liverpoolgirl "
I have just had an oil change so I’m a semi responsible car owner  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve literally never been asked this. Maybe the photos on my profile show that I’m always fucking so they don’t need to ask Ahahaha
Hahaha probably
I look dead inside and unloved
You do look busy
I’m just chilling at the beach, no sex for me - too sandy "
Oh yeah…and sand gets everywhere without even getting naked on the beach |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though….
That was even longer ago
Priorities liverpoolgirl
I have just had an oil change so I’m a semi responsible car owner "
I bet it was long over-due though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it something on your profile.. That triggers them..god knows . I don't understand why some people get certain messages and others don't..."
I’m fairly sure that it’s my responses…..
For example -
“Hey can we meet?”
“I’m not looking to meet at the moment”
“You have verifications, don’t you want to meet anymore?”
“No, can’t be arsed. Just use the forums now”
“Do you have a partner?”
“No, I’m single”
“So when did you last have sex?/do you still have sex?”
And so it goes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though….
That was even longer ago
Priorities liverpoolgirl
I have just had an oil change so I’m a semi responsible car owner
I bet it was long over-due though "
It was bone dry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though….
That was even longer ago
Priorities liverpoolgirl
I have just had an oil change so I’m a semi responsible car owner
I bet it was long over-due though
It was bone dry! "
I’m shaking my head right now!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though….
That was even longer ago
Priorities liverpoolgirl
I have just had an oil change so I’m a semi responsible car owner
I bet it was long over-due though
It was bone dry!
I’m shaking my head right now!! "
It’s full to the brim now and purring like a pussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See, I’m more of a practical type; ‘When did you last check the pressure in your car tyres?’ is a far more pressing matter I believe.
I don’t get many replies on here funnily enough though….
That was even longer ago
Priorities liverpoolgirl
I have just had an oil change so I’m a semi responsible car owner
I bet it was long over-due though
It was bone dry!
I’m shaking my head right now!!
It’s full to the brim now and purring like a pussy "
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
Yep… are you getting much fun? When was the last time you had fun ? Are you getting much from here? Why honestly does it matter to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing!
Yep… are you getting much fun? When was the last time you had fun ? Are you getting much from here? Why honestly does it matter to you"
Exactly! What do they get out of it? Weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone has ever asked me that, I'm a little offended now.
I've not been asked either!
Feeling miffed myself "
Would you like me to inbox your and ask you so you don’t feel left out |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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So say you respond what do they do with this information?
I’ll tell you; they come back with bet I’d give you a better pounding or did he do you bareback or what position were you in…you can almost imagine them there with the wang in hand trying to crack one out over it…gives me the boak!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So say you respond what do they do with this information?
I’ll tell you; they come back with bet I’d give you a better pounding or did he do you bareback or what position were you in…you can almost imagine them there with the wang in hand trying to crack one out over it…gives me the boak!
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Wouldn’t you just put on some porn rather than trying to coax the odd naughty word out of a reluctant stranger? That’s got to be a tough wank in my opinion. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"So say you respond what do they do with this information?
I’ll tell you; they come back with bet I’d give you a better pounding or did he do you bareback or what position were you in…you can almost imagine them there with the wang in hand trying to crack one out over it…gives me the boak!
Wouldn’t you just put on some porn rather than trying to coax the odd naughty word out of a reluctant stranger? That’s got to be a tough wank in my opinion. "
I completely agree! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1. Steer the talk to sex
2. To see how active you are in terms of gauging how much spade work is required to get into your knickers
3. To see how active you are as someone who has it more often will be perceived to be more adventurous which can be a positive/turn-on
4. To see how active you are as some might be turned off if you are doing it too often with many people
That's all I've got at the moment. "
No2. Had me snort-laugh … spade work
- but yeh I think that’s probably a lot of why they ask that
Anything’s better than wuu2? though right? x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1. Steer the talk to sex
2. To see how active you are in terms of gauging how much spade work is required to get into your knickers
3. To see how active you are as someone who has it more often will be perceived to be more adventurous which can be a positive/turn-on
4. To see how active you are as some might be turned off if you are doing it too often with many people
That's all I've got at the moment.
No2. Had me snort-laugh … spade work
- but yeh I think that’s probably a lot of why they ask that
Anything’s better than wuu2? though right? x"
Marginally better  |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
If they are, it is quite likely that it’s just to get you talking about it and they will then want to know the details.
Also, if the answer is last March then they’re going to think fuck, I have no chance here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing!
If they are, it is quite likely that it’s just to get you talking about it and they will then want to know the details.
Also, if the answer is last March then they’re going to think fuck, I have no chance here "
It already says on my bio that I’m here for the forums so they are already driving into a dead end |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Their deranged mind has already had visions of you replying with your address so they can come and "sort you out"
The internet is just full of weirdos it's getting beyond a joke |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Their deranged mind has already had visions of you replying with your address so they can come and "sort you out"
The internet is just full of weirdos it's getting beyond a joke"
The scary thing is, I’m sure that you’re right |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
‘Tis called beaver fever.
Once the beaver fever hits, it shortcuts cognitive thought straight into the primordial structure of the limbic system.
Well for some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been asked this one
At to be honest I would be offended if they did I am not there’s I am free to see anyone I like when I like if they didn’t like that they should movie on |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
Why the interest? Are you just trying to trick us into dirty talk? Your no better than you should be! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
It’s definitely not something I’d say sounds like there maybe pulling for conversation cause they might not have much interesting chat !
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing!
If they are, it is quite likely that it’s just to get you talking about it and they will then want to know the details.
Also, if the answer is last March then they’re going to think fuck, I have no chance here
It already says on my bio that I’m here for the forums so they are already driving into a dead end "
Yeah, but you look stunning, and some posters won’t get past the pics.
Being female and having a pulse is probably sufficient for some guys to try their luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry to be blunt but couldn’t care less when you last had sex! "
I’m not asking if anyone cares when I last had sex! I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they think they’ve been asked! |
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"Sorry to be blunt but couldn’t care less when you last had sex!
I’m not asking if anyone cares when I last had sex! I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they think they’ve been asked! "
Sorry didn’t mean you personally I meant in general |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez "
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat .. |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
I agree its of no relevance when you did or didn’t, especially during chat, don’t reply and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some believe it takes a woman four days after sex for her appetite to regrow. Men on the other hand, are ready again once their penis has regrown. The problem for men is they are like a large calibre, bolt action rifle and women are like a pin cushion. The rifle, to give its best has to cool down, be cleaned and recharged. The pin cushion ideally oozes lubricant and if it doesn't, lets you know something isn't working right!
The problem for the marksman! There are plenty of paper targets to shoot at, but live quarry worth the effort is hard to find and the pin cushions lubricant, can prove corrosive if hygiene levels have not been maintained. So men if you don't clean your rifle, you will ruin the pin cushion! No more gang bangs! For Rooster, the thought of a lovely petite, airtight pin cushion provides him with the largest calibre rifle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat .."
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway "
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"#notallmen
I suspect this is them wanting to feel “special”. "
I think you’re right. Some think that if you’re “off” sex, they can be the knight in shining armour to turn you back “on” to it. Maybe? |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
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"#notallmen
I suspect this is them wanting to feel “special”.
I think you’re right. Some think that if you’re “off” sex, they can be the knight in shining armour to turn you back “on” to it. Maybe? "
I guess there’s an ego trip that someone who looks like you do would be interested in that way.
They need to know you’re applying some quality control |
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over a year ago
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it.."
I assume that it’s not something that couples would be asked as most assume that couples have regular sex with each other.
People like me, single with no fwb - they are asking if I’m having sex as I don’t have anyone to have it with I suppose. |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it.."
On here it’s maybe a 2 out of 10
I’ve been asked some madness !
Rather forget that last hour |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it..
I assume that it’s not something that couples would be asked as most assume that couples have regular sex with each other.
People like me, single with no fwb - they are asking if I’m having sex as I don’t have anyone to have it with I suppose."
It's wank fodder, no more than that I suspect..
Akin to sending dick pictures with something ineligible attached.. |
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"#notallmen
I suspect this is them wanting to feel “special”.
I think you’re right. Some think that if you’re “off” sex, they can be the knight in shining armour to turn you back “on” to it. Maybe? "
Unlikely. More likely that if you have shagged different people very day this week then they might feel they have a better chance than if you say 2015.
Also, they are trying to immediately get the conversation around to sex. |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it..
I assume that it’s not something that couples would be asked as most assume that couples have regular sex with each other.
People like me, single with no fwb - they are asking if I’m having sex as I don’t have anyone to have it with I suppose.
It's wank fodder, no more than that I suspect..
Akin to sending dick pictures with something ineligible attached.."
I think most strange scenarios on here can be attributed to wank fodder
I’d rather just turn on some porn but hey ho |
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"#notallmen
I suspect this is them wanting to feel “special”.
I think you’re right. Some think that if you’re “off” sex, they can be the knight in shining armour to turn you back “on” to it. Maybe?
Unlikely. More likely that if you have shagged different people very day this week then they might feel they have a better chance than if you say 2015.
Also, they are trying to immediately get the conversation around to sex. "
Or the opposite - haven’t had it for a long time so gagging or had lots already this week and satisfied?? |
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"#notallmen
I suspect this is them wanting to feel “special”.
I think you’re right. Some think that if you’re “off” sex, they can be the knight in shining armour to turn you back “on” to it. Maybe?
Unlikely. More likely that if you have shagged different people very day this week then they might feel they have a better chance than if you say 2015.
Also, they are trying to immediately get the conversation around to sex.
Or the opposite - haven’t had it for a long time so gagging or had lots already this week and satisfied??"
I doubt it. But you clearly think I’m wrong, which is fine. Maybe ask the next bloke who pesters you and see what he says. |
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I used to work with a guy whose opening line on a night out was to ask a girl if she fancied a shag. A lot of short conversations, a lot of slaps in the face and being told to fuck off, and eventually (some nights), someone would say yes.
They sort of behaviour is much easier to do online, without the risk of even being slapped or embarrassed |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it..
I assume that it’s not something that couples would be asked as most assume that couples have regular sex with each other.
People like me, single with no fwb - they are asking if I’m having sex as I don’t have anyone to have it with I suppose.
It's wank fodder, no more than that I suspect..
Akin to sending dick pictures with something ineligible attached..
I think most strange scenarios on here can be attributed to wank fodder
I’d rather just turn on some porn but hey ho"
They've probably done that, won't pay out for a chat service so see a woman's pictures on here and take a punt ..
Sadly some guys have the view that if a woman single or otherwise is on here they are gagging all day, missing the 'hot sex' that they will provide..
Hey ho.. |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it..
I assume that it’s not something that couples would be asked as most assume that couples have regular sex with each other.
People like me, single with no fwb - they are asking if I’m having sex as I don’t have anyone to have it with I suppose.
It's wank fodder, no more than that I suspect..
Akin to sending dick pictures with something ineligible attached..
I think most strange scenarios on here can be attributed to wank fodder
I’d rather just turn on some porn but hey ho
They've probably done that, won't pay out for a chat service so see a woman's pictures on here and take a punt ..
Sadly some guys have the view that if a woman single or otherwise is on here they are gagging all day, missing the 'hot sex' that they will provide..
Hey ho.."
Agreed. Rather odd that someone would want to discuss sex on a swingers site |
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Na them people definitely belong on here !
Just when I bring up sex I’m usually not interested in the last time she’s fucked some dude that’s just my point |
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"I’m not really looking for a load of men to tell me that they couldn’t give a fuck when I last had sex (good! It’s none of your bloody business!), I’m asking if others have experienced this and why they thought it happened.
Jeez
Oh..
Sorry when you asked ' Why are men...'
I'll get me coat ..
They didn’t mean you specifically !
Basically what man asks that question it’s fucking odd cause we don’t care ! The majority anyway
Really..
Yes it is odd isn't it..
I assume that it’s not something that couples would be asked as most assume that couples have regular sex with each other.
People like me, single with no fwb - they are asking if I’m having sex as I don’t have anyone to have it with I suppose.
It's wank fodder, no more than that I suspect..
Akin to sending dick pictures with something ineligible attached..
I think most strange scenarios on here can be attributed to wank fodder
I’d rather just turn on some porn but hey ho
They've probably done that, won't pay out for a chat service so see a woman's pictures on here and take a punt ..
Sadly some guys have the view that if a woman single or otherwise is on here they are gagging all day, missing the 'hot sex' that they will provide..
Hey ho..
Agreed. Rather odd that someone would want to discuss sex on a swingers site "
No one said that sex shouldn’t be discussed on here, it’s just an odd question to ask in my opinion. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
I am a man and have no idea.
- I don’t care
- I have never asked that question |
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"It could be the cleanup guys, trying to know if they should scoot over quickly  "
Haha possibly, they’d have to be ready in the car and awaiting location |
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"That's weird. I've never been asked that apart from in a medical appointment .
And what did you say to your dentist? "
I actually read an article that said your dentist can tell if you've recently given a blowjob |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
Defo not intrested in when you last had sex or how many times a week you have it,
I've more things on my mind like that sexy body you own |
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over a year ago
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"I love rubbing one out to the knowledge of when a person last had sex!"
Tough wank
Someone asked me yesterday and I pointed him to this thread hahaha |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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I always struggle with posts like this...my first reaction is "men don't do that, I don't do that, surely most men don't do that" ... but judging by the comments many guys do ...maybe it's a kink, fuck knows, I can't relate to guys like that. |
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"That's weird. I've never been asked that apart from in a medical appointment .
And what did you say to your dentist?
I actually read an article that said your dentist can tell if you've recently given a blowjob "
Well, shit |
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over a year ago
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"Someone asked me yesterday and I pointed him to this thread hahaha
Did he reply?
Did he explain why he asked you a creepy question"
He did, he read it haha
He was lovely about it actually |
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"That's weird. I've never been asked that apart from in a medical appointment .
And what did you say to your dentist?
I actually read an article that said your dentist can tell if you've recently given a blowjob
Well, shit "
No. Cum. |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing! "
... because they get off on talking about it. Usually questions like that are just the prelude to increasingly graphic questions. It's like the guys who say "hi, how are you today?" then follow a few more banal questions with stuff like "what are you wearing?"..."Do you have knickers on?"... "What's the biggest cock you've had?" etc etc etc.
It's wank material. |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing!
... because they get off on talking about it. Usually questions like that are just the prelude to increasingly graphic questions. It's like the guys who say "hi, how are you today?" then follow a few more banal questions with stuff like "what are you wearing?"..."Do you have knickers on?"... "What's the biggest cock you've had?" etc etc etc.
It's wank material."
Spot on |
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"….with when you last had sex?
“Do you have regular sex?”
“When last the last time you had sex?”
Do they think that if it was a long time ago that I’ll be gagging and more likely to say yes? Are they just trying to instigate dirty talk? What’s it all about?
I literally couldn’t give a fuck when someone last had sex, why do they care?
I’m asked this every day, it’s a thing!
I met a guy once who wanted to check I hadn’t met someone else the same day…. As it turned him off…. I said, so how come you’re on a swingers site?! I’m not sure why the sun going down and coming back up again makes any difference really! He said yesterday would’ve been fine! he’s no longer on fab "
One of my friends messaged to arrange a meet, and she said “I can do Tuesday or Wednesday this week, but Tuesday I’m seeing a guy in the morning, or if you wait for Wednesday I’m available all day” I told her I can do either day, but I know what a buzz she would get from having two guys in one day, so let’s make it Tuesday” She loved me for saying that, and we ended up doing both days |
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