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"Why doesn't he love me mum? " Oh my God xx | |||
"No secret to how much it hurt “I don’t know why he’s with you?” xx" Smash their face in! | |||
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"No secret to how much it hurt “I don’t know why he’s with you?” xx Smash their face in!" Over it now, but at the time it really knocked me, now I just say it’s because I’m great, haha xx | |||
"No secret to how much it hurt “I don’t know why he’s with you?” xx Smash their face in! Over it now, but at the time it really knocked me, now I just say it’s because I’m great, haha xx" Absolutely! x | |||
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"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ " *mustn’t | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ *mustn’t" That’s awful to hear x | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ *mustn’t" Wow! What an arse! | |||
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"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ " WTF?! That is SO rude x | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ *mustn’t Wow! What an arse!" Yup! I forgot I was meant to wear black for three years and stay indoors with the curtains closed  | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ WTF?! That is SO rude x"Had to bite my tongue and walk away from her | |||
"Why can't you be good enough "anyone who says this - isn’t good enough for you | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ WTF?! That is SO rude x
Had to bite my tongue and walk away from her "Well done you for being so restrained | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ " Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
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"Why doesn't he love me mum? " Oh my god | |||
"Ex husband to me: Why can’t you be more like the girl you were at 21? I’d stay with you then. I was like ‘close your door on the way out!’ "Good on you! | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ *mustn’t Wow! What an arse! Yup! I forgot I was meant to wear black for three years and stay indoors with the curtains closed "And the mirrors covered!! xx | |||
"Ex husband to me: Why can’t you be more like the girl you were at 21? I’d stay with you then. I was like ‘close your door on the way out!’ "*the* door. FFS | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
"Exactly. Thank you lovely, I’m ok, it was a good few years back  | |||
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"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ " Omg what an absolute cunt | |||
"No secret to how much it hurt “I don’t know why he’s with you?” xx" That’s awful! | |||
"What are you up to this weekend..anything fun? Totally innocent question, unfortunately from someone who should have had an idea that this weekend will be the 1st anniversary of the auld Dad passing away.. not a co-worker or aquaintance... a friend of over 15 years.." So sorry for your loss, any anniversary is hard, particularly the first milestone ones. I can only hope that they were simply a bit absent minded as to the date, and didn’t mean it in an insensitive way xx | |||
"Why doesn't he love me mum? " This would be mine too | |||
Floored me | |||
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"Are you sure your only size 20, you look much fatter then that." What the hell!!!! So bloody rude! | |||
"“Would you like fries with that?” Every. Fucking. Time! " Not forgetting: do you want to go large? | |||
"What are you up to this weekend..anything fun? Totally innocent question, unfortunately from someone who should have had an idea that this weekend will be the 1st anniversary of the auld Dad passing away.. not a co-worker or aquaintance... a friend of over 15 years.. So sorry for your loss, any anniversary is hard, particularly the first milestone ones. I can only hope that they were simply a bit absent minded as to the date, and didn’t mean it in an insensitive way xx" Absolutely taking it that way... it just stung a little more as they knew how much of Dad's girl I was and still am... I'm still speaking to them, still my friend... it was nowt more than a lapse in a day | |||
"After we lost the childrens dad, my five year old daughter asked me if daddy had taken his phone with him and could we still text him
Floored me "Absolutely heartbreaking. | |||
"After we lost the childrens dad, my five year old daughter asked me if daddy had taken his phone with him and could we still text him
Floored me "(Thud), as heart sinks to the floor.... | |||
"After we lost the childrens dad, my five year old daughter asked me if daddy had taken his phone with him and could we still text him
Floored me "Awwwww my heart, sending loads and loads of love. Teared up a bit reading that. | |||
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"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
Exactly. Thank you lovely, I’m ok, it was a good few years back "Glad you’re ok. It’s strange how the things people say stay with you though. I remember when I had a house fire, my daughter was being monitored after being resuscitated, and my ex husband admitted to a ward. I went to tell the nurse manager I couldn’t be in that night. I’d gone home to it from a night shift. Was still in my uniform and kind of in nurse mode, so knowing they were safe I felt I had to tell my boss, as it was the 30th Dec and they’d need to sort cover. His response was “when do you think you’ll be back?” Gotta love the caring profession But I was in shock so simply apologised for the inconvenience and said as soon as possible x
Viv xx | |||
"After we lost the childrens dad, my five year old daughter asked me if daddy had taken his phone with him and could we still text him
Floored me "Heart breaking xx | |||
"After we lost the childrens dad, my five year old daughter asked me if daddy had taken his phone with him and could we still text him
Floored me "Lost for words | |||
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"What are you up to this weekend..anything fun? Totally innocent question, unfortunately from someone who should have had an idea that this weekend will be the 1st anniversary of the auld Dad passing away.. not a co-worker or aquaintance... a friend of over 15 years.. So sorry for your loss, any anniversary is hard, particularly the first milestone ones. I can only hope that they were simply a bit absent minded as to the date, and didn’t mean it in an insensitive way xx Absolutely taking it that way... it just stung a little more as they knew how much of Dad's girl I was and still am... I'm still speaking to them, still my friend... it was nowt more than a lapse in a day "That’s good, and it’s bound to have stung, but glad all still ok with your friendship xx | |||
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"Why didn’t you leave sooner ? My youngest son when discussing the years of abuse we suffered at the hands of my ex husband x "Awwww hope you’re both much happier now | |||
"Why didn’t you leave sooner ? My youngest son when discussing the years of abuse we suffered at the hands of my ex husband x
Awwww hope you’re both much happier now "Yes we are x | |||
"Why didn’t you leave sooner ? My youngest son when discussing the years of abuse we suffered at the hands of my ex husband x
Awwww hope you’re both much happier now
Yes we are x " | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
Exactly. Thank you lovely, I’m ok, it was a good few years back
Glad you’re ok. It’s strange how the things people say stay with you though.
I remember when I had a house fire, my daughter was being monitored after being resuscitated, and my ex husband admitted to a ward. I went to tell the nurse manager I couldn’t be in that night. I’d gone home to it from a night shift. Was still in my uniform and kind of in nurse mode, so knowing they were safe I felt I had to tell my boss, as it was the 30th Dec and they’d need to sort cover. His response was “when do you think you’ll be back?” Gotta love the caring profession But I was in shock so simply apologised for the inconvenience and said as soon as possible x
Viv xx"Wow such a lack of compassion! Honestly amazes me. That must’ve been horrendous to go through | |||
"Why didn’t you leave sooner ? My youngest son when discussing the years of abuse we suffered at the hands of my ex husband x
Awwww hope you’re both much happier now
Yes we are x " | |||
"Why didn’t you leave sooner ? My youngest son when discussing the years of abuse we suffered at the hands of my ex husband x "I asked my mum the same thing, but she didn’t leave until I was 16. Found myself repeating the cycle. My oldest is disabled, and he never hurt the children, but when my youngest was three, I realised she would notice, so got out. I know why I stayed, fear, and we all have our reasons, but you got out, and I’m so glad, and hope you’re all now happy and that the strength you’ve shown your children will be what guides them through life xx Viv | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
Exactly. Thank you lovely, I’m ok, it was a good few years back
Glad you’re ok. It’s strange how the things people say stay with you though.
I remember when I had a house fire, my daughter was being monitored after being resuscitated, and my ex husband admitted to a ward. I went to tell the nurse manager I couldn’t be in that night. I’d gone home to it from a night shift. Was still in my uniform and kind of in nurse mode, so knowing they were safe I felt I had to tell my boss, as it was the 30th Dec and they’d need to sort cover. His response was “when do you think you’ll be back?” Gotta love the caring profession But I was in shock so simply apologised for the inconvenience and said as soon as possible x
Viv xx
Wow such a lack of compassion!
Honestly amazes me. That must’ve been horrendous to go through "Tbf he was very sympathetic when I told him that my pets had died, when I went back to work. Was off for a month, had to take my holidays and had two weeks for stress, as my daughter had infected burns and I developed pneumonia, from the damp where we were temporarily housed. Signed back to work on a Monday, the sister gave me shit as they’d thought my sick note ran out on the Sunday, as I was putting unfair pressure on my colleagues, expecting them to cover my shift. The joys of nursing, haha xx | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
Exactly. Thank you lovely, I’m ok, it was a good few years back
Glad you’re ok. It’s strange how the things people say stay with you though.
I remember when I had a house fire, my daughter was being monitored after being resuscitated, and my ex husband admitted to a ward. I went to tell the nurse manager I couldn’t be in that night. I’d gone home to it from a night shift. Was still in my uniform and kind of in nurse mode, so knowing they were safe I felt I had to tell my boss, as it was the 30th Dec and they’d need to sort cover. His response was “when do you think you’ll be back?” Gotta love the caring profession But I was in shock so simply apologised for the inconvenience and said as soon as possible x
Viv xx
Wow such a lack of compassion!
Honestly amazes me. That must’ve been horrendous to go through
Tbf he was very sympathetic when I told him that my pets had died, when I went back to work. Was off for a month, had to take my holidays and had two weeks for stress, as my daughter had infected burns and I developed pneumonia, from the damp where we were temporarily housed. Signed back to work on a Monday, the sister gave me shit as they’d thought my sick note ran out on the Sunday, as I was putting unfair pressure on my colleagues, expecting them to cover my shift. The joys of nursing, haha xx"Unfair pressure on your colleagues? How about unfair pressure on you! It beggars belief honestly x | |||
"Ex husband to me: Why can’t you be more like the girl you were at 21? I’d stay with you then. I was like ‘close your door on the way out!’ "But surely the goal of life is to stay the same as one's 21 year-old self forever? | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
Exactly. Thank you lovely, I’m ok, it was a good few years back
Glad you’re ok. It’s strange how the things people say stay with you though.
I remember when I had a house fire, my daughter was being monitored after being resuscitated, and my ex husband admitted to a ward. I went to tell the nurse manager I couldn’t be in that night. I’d gone home to it from a night shift. Was still in my uniform and kind of in nurse mode, so knowing they were safe I felt I had to tell my boss, as it was the 30th Dec and they’d need to sort cover. His response was “when do you think you’ll be back?” Gotta love the caring profession But I was in shock so simply apologised for the inconvenience and said as soon as possible x
Viv xx
Wow such a lack of compassion!
Honestly amazes me. That must’ve been horrendous to go through
Tbf he was very sympathetic when I told him that my pets had died, when I went back to work. Was off for a month, had to take my holidays and had two weeks for stress, as my daughter had infected burns and I developed pneumonia, from the damp where we were temporarily housed. Signed back to work on a Monday, the sister gave me shit as they’d thought my sick note ran out on the Sunday, as I was putting unfair pressure on my colleagues, expecting them to cover my shift. The joys of nursing, haha xx
Unfair pressure on your colleagues? How about unfair pressure on you! It beggars x belief honestly x "Some bosses see others as numbers, not people. But it says more about the people who are unintentionally, or intentionally, mean, than you xx | |||
"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ Obviously because people who lose someone they love has to stop living too. They can’t try to have a semblance of a normal life, they’re definitely not smiling whilst inside they’re crying, and absolutely should be judged in such a horrid and insensitive way
In all seriousness, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the insensitive behaviour of someone towards you x
Viv x
Exactly. Thank you lovely, I’m ok, it was a good few years back
Glad you’re ok. It’s strange how the things people say stay with you though.
I remember when I had a house fire, my daughter was being monitored after being resuscitated, and my ex husband admitted to a ward. I went to tell the nurse manager I couldn’t be in that night. I’d gone home to it from a night shift. Was still in my uniform and kind of in nurse mode, so knowing they were safe I felt I had to tell my boss, as it was the 30th Dec and they’d need to sort cover. His response was “when do you think you’ll be back?” Gotta love the caring profession But I was in shock so simply apologised for the inconvenience and said as soon as possible x
Viv xx
Wow such a lack of compassion!
Honestly amazes me. That must’ve been horrendous to go through
Tbf he was very sympathetic when I told him that my pets had died, when I went back to work. Was off for a month, had to take my holidays and had two weeks for stress, as my daughter had infected burns and I developed pneumonia, from the damp where we were temporarily housed. Signed back to work on a Monday, the sister gave me shit as they’d thought my sick note ran out on the Sunday, as I was putting unfair pressure on my colleagues, expecting them to cover my shift. The joys of nursing, haha xx
Unfair pressure on your colleagues? How about unfair pressure on you! It beggars x belief honestly x
Some bosses see others as numbers, not people. But it says more about the people who are unintentionally, or intentionally, mean, than you xx"You’re spot on, it definitely does | |||
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"Why doesn't he love me mum? " We’ve recently had this but why doesn’t she love me mum
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"Because I was on a night out a couple of months after my husband had died - ‘oh you must’ve have loved him much then?’ " Pardon the language, but fucking hell. Shitty on every possible level. | |||
"After we lost the childrens dad, my five year old daughter asked me if daddy had taken his phone with him and could we still text him
Floored me " | |||
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"Can we have your permission to turn the life support machines off?" That’s a heartbreaking one
Getting asked about DNR and the last rites | |||
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"After we lost the childrens dad, my five year old daughter asked me if daddy had taken his phone with him and could we still text him
Floored me "Jesus….I can’t imagine having to try to answer that | |||
