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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing "Me neither. I find it rather hideous. | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing " that's how kinks work they either flip all your switches or they don't  | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous."I found it a total turn off right up until I said it to someone. Never thought I'd like it but...damn. | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous."I love my dad an all he's a good man but that's it hahaha | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
that's how kinks work they either flip all your switches or they don't "Yea I do get that I really do... its like when me and the other half meet guys they tend to be younger and a few have asked to call me mam or mum or miss I just can't do it... but life would be boring if we were all the sake  | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous."It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do. | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do. "
It's not for me (I tried it but couldn't stop myself giggling every time), but each to their own, no judgement. | |||
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"Yes Grandma "Yeah! You like that Granny? | |||
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"Yes Grandma
Yeah! You like that Granny? "No ! Put it away ! | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
I found it a total turn off right up until I said it to someone. Never thought I'd like it but...damn. "Yay! | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do. "Yes, Hippy. | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do.
Yes, Hippy."His watch is wrong | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
I found it a total turn off right up until I said it to someone. Never thought I'd like it but...damn. "Me too! I thought it was a turn off when someone TOLD me to call him daddy but with a different man it just felt right to call him daddy, he wasn't expecting it and it made him harder and earned me a spanking  | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing "^/- I do. | |||
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"We love it. Is there really any difference between calling someone daddy and calling someone baby or babe?" Absolutely. You call someone Daddy in the right way, and you've got them under your control. Its all about how you say baby or babe. Anyway you say daddy sounds hot. In my experience anyway. | |||
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"I prefer Sir, especially when he is actually a teacher...and a rather hot sexy filthy teacher "'Cause two out of three ain't bad. | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing "Have a read if you wish to for some more understanding. One thing I always say that helps Is that Age Play and Daddy/Little relationships are completely different dynamics | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do. "Thanks for saying this it’s a tad disrespectful to people into that dynamic! | |||
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"I prefer Sir, especially when he is actually a teacher...and a rather hot sexy filthy teacher "Well yes. That's very good to. Especially if there is a little age gap. | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do.
Thanks for saying this it’s a tad disrespectful to people into that dynamic! "Absolutely, but for the most part it’s a lack of understanding. It’s not like I’m thinking he’s my actual Dad is it. It’s a totally different dynamic isn’t it. | |||
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"We love it No harms being done its just added spice every so often " Couldn't agree more. I had a girl who said it to me the other day. Made everything a little naughtier. We both loved it. | |||
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It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do.
Thanks for saying this it’s a tad disrespectful to people into that dynamic! "I don't find someone finding something hideous disrespectful to those that enjoy that something. This 'disrespect' thing is just another way of cancelling someone's contribution. If you eat pizza , which I find hideous, I have not disrespected you ..... and don't tell me SEX KINKS are more important to people than food cos i'll just laugh. There will be sword fights in here one day I swear..... Have at ye Sir for I am offended and disrespected ! | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do.
Thanks for saying this it’s a tad disrespectful to people into that dynamic!
I don't find someone finding something hideous disrespectful to those that enjoy that something. This 'disrespect' thing is just another way of cancelling someone's contribution.
If you eat pizza , which I find hideous, I have not disrespected you ..... and don't tell me SEX KINKS are more important to people than food cos i'll just laugh.
There will be sword fights in here one day I swear..... Have at ye Sir for I am offended and disrespected !"I think it’s more the (at times) out and out condemnation of Ddlg that people find disrespectful. It’s is of course ok to not like things | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous."Agreed. It's not for me | |||
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"There a massive difference between someone who likes being called Daddy and someone pretending to be someone’s Daddy. And again, a massive difference between someone pretending to be someone’s daddy and actually…you know the rest. The way people like it or dislike it is fine with me. I don’t like somethings, but I understand roleplay/kinks and being a responsible consenting open minded adult.
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? " Succinctly put and completey agree | |||
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"There a massive difference between someone who likes being called Daddy and someone pretending to be someone’s Daddy. And again, a massive difference between someone pretending to be someone’s daddy and actually…you know the rest. The way people like it or dislike it is fine with me. I don’t like somethings, but I understand roleplay/kinks and being a responsible consenting open minded adult.
"Yeah we know that and some still find it a turn off | |||
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? " It’s not disrespectful to say no lol no one is saying that! But calling something hideous that you clearly don’t understand is also rude, just say it’s not for you and move on. Seeing so many misconceptions in this comment! You seem to be conflating DDlg with age play and they are not the same thing. My prev DD was the same age as me! | |||
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? It’s not disrespectful to say no lol no one is saying that! But calling something hideous that you clearly don’t understand is also rude, just say it’s not for you and move on. Seeing so many misconceptions in this comment! You seem to be conflating DDlg with age play and they are not the same thing. My prev DD was the same age as me! " Mine is two years younger
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? It’s not disrespectful to say no lol no one is saying that! But calling something hideous that you clearly don’t understand is also rude, just say it’s not for you and move on. Seeing so many misconceptions in this comment! You seem to be conflating DDlg with age play and they are not the same thing. My prev DD was the same age as me! Mine is two years younger
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? It’s not disrespectful to say no lol no one is saying that! But calling something hideous that you clearly don’t understand is also rude, just say it’s not for you and move on. Seeing so many misconceptions in this comment! You seem to be conflating DDlg with age play and they are not the same thing. My prev DD was the same age as me! Mine is two years younger
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? " I’m not sure why you call it creepy? It has nothing to do with age it’s a dynamic. | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do. " | |||
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"There a massive difference between someone who likes being called Daddy and someone pretending to be someone’s Daddy. And again, a massive difference between someone pretending to be someone’s daddy and actually…you know the rest. The way people like it or dislike it is fine with me. I don’t like somethings, but I understand roleplay/kinks and being a responsible consenting open minded adult.
Yeah we know that and some still find it a turn off"And your in your rights. But others doing it turn you off? That’s Odd. Now if you said it would turn you off if you did it or tried it I could understand that. | |||
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
*dribble "I'd love that talk but without the words baby girl and Daddy. I would be genuinely interested to have an in-depth discussion about this dynamic. It is intriguing. | |||
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
*dribble
I'd love that talk but without the words baby girl and Daddy. I would be genuinely interested to have an in-depth discussion about this dynamic. It is intriguing."You know you can ask me | |||
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? I’m not sure why you call it creepy? It has nothing to do with age it’s a dynamic. " It may well be a dynamic but as it's something I've no interest in I've never researched it or attempted to understand it. My own experience has been through much younger women approaching me and using the term daddy. As the father of 3 daughters I find it creepy. | |||
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
*dribble
I'd love that talk but without the words baby girl and Daddy. I would be genuinely interested to have an in-depth discussion about this dynamic. It is intriguing."Many have this kind of dynamic without those specific words! For me, as a powerful career focused woman I love the dynamic because I feel cared for, looked after and respected. It’s tender and loving and I can just stop thinking and be looked after both sexually and emotionally! | |||
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? It’s not disrespectful to say no lol no one is saying that! But calling something hideous that you clearly don’t understand is also rude, just say it’s not for you and move on. Seeing so many misconceptions in this comment! You seem to be conflating DDlg with age play and they are not the same thing. My prev DD was the same age as me! Mine is two years younger
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
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I'd love that talk but without the words baby girl and Daddy. I would be genuinely interested to have an in-depth discussion about this dynamic. It is intriguing.
Many have this kind of dynamic without those specific words! For me, as a powerful career focused woman I love the dynamic because I feel cared for, looked after and respected. It’s tender and loving and I can just stop thinking and be looked after both sexually and emotionally! "This is me also. I don't actually use the word daddy. But it's the dynamic I associate with the most. People always get hung up over one word that is used to describe a kink. So my kink is creepy, because I liked having my choices taken from me for a break from my over anxious brain. I like having some simple rules and what to expect if I break them because they give me comfort. I like having a man who will nuture me and understand that I'm more hard word work than the average. This is all terribly creepy clearly | |||
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"It’s an aspect of a submissive/Dom dynamic it’s nothing to do with age- age play is something different entirely A father is someone we see as a powerful presence, with whom we associate trust - just as we could see a sexual partner as these things He guides, protects, teaches and adores his lover - I see nothing wrong with this dynamic, and from my experience I learned a lot from it x" Mine too. I’ve been nurtured, guided and supporting with a firm but gentle hand, it’s been an amazing journey so far, hugely rewarding and beautiful  | |||
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"It’s an aspect of a submissive/Dom dynamic it’s nothing to do with age- age play is something different entirely A father is someone we see as a powerful presence, with whom we associate trust - just as we could see a sexual partner as these things He guides, protects, teaches and adores his lover - I see nothing wrong with this dynamic, and from my experience I learned a lot from it x Mine too. I’ve been nurtured, guided and supporting with a firm but gentle hand, it’s been an amazing journey so far, hugely rewarding and beautiful "It really is a journey, never been more open with someone as I have in this dynamic it’s very liberating xx | |||
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? I’m not sure why you call it creepy? It has nothing to do with age it’s a dynamic. It may well be a dynamic but as it's something I've no interest in I've never researched it or attempted to understand it. My own experience has been through much younger women approaching me and using the term daddy. As the father of 3 daughters I find it creepy. " A long time ago I used to find it a bit 'creepy' but discovering an interest in bdsm lead to me researching and reading and meeting different people in the lifestyle. It becomes very apparent that each dynamic is completely individual to them. Age play I'm still trying to understand. I try to be open to what it can achieve and though I don't age play generally, it is mostly the caring, nurturing dynamic that appeals. Sex is a no go in age play, that's my personal limit. If I'm stressed, tired, sick of adulting, then being bathed, wrapped up in blankets and having my hair brushed whilst Daddy whispers calming words in my ear is as good for me as meditating! I let go of being an adult and allow myself to focus on the care being received | |||
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"It’s an aspect of a submissive/Dom dynamic it’s nothing to do with age- age play is something different entirely A father is someone we see as a powerful presence, with whom we associate trust - just as we could see a sexual partner as these things He guides, protects, teaches and adores his lover - I see nothing wrong with this dynamic, and from my experience I learned a lot from it x Mine too. I’ve been nurtured, guided and supporting with a firm but gentle hand, it’s been an amazing journey so far, hugely rewarding and beautiful
It really is a journey, never been more open with someone as I have in this dynamic it’s very liberating xx "It allows for so much vulnerability, I feel totally safe and loved, like I never have. He knows me better than anyone ever has, in the whole world | |||
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"Not something I've even the slightest interest in which is why my age filters are set the way they are. Do I find it hideous? No but I do find it creepy and uncomfortable. Does that mean I'm disrespectful towards those who are into it? Not at all. Why should it be seen as disrespectful if it's something I've no interest in and wouldn't feel comfortable with? I've been approached by young women who bypassed my filters by contacting me through a couples profile and I didn't see it as disrespectful when I said no. That's like saying it's someone's loss if they don't chat with me. Is it really if we have nothing in common and I'm not what they were looking for in the first place? I’m not sure why you call it creepy? It has nothing to do with age it’s a dynamic. It may well be a dynamic but as it's something I've no interest in I've never researched it or attempted to understand it. My own experience has been through much younger women approaching me and using the term daddy. As the father of 3 daughters I find it creepy. A long time ago I used to find it a bit 'creepy' but discovering an interest in bdsm lead to me researching and reading and meeting different people in the lifestyle. It becomes very apparent that each dynamic is completely individual to them. Age play I'm still trying to understand. I try to be open to what it can achieve and though I don't age play generally, it is mostly the caring, nurturing dynamic that appeals. Sex is a no go in age play, that's my personal limit. If I'm stressed, tired, sick of adulting, then being bathed, wrapped up in blankets and having my hair brushed whilst Daddy whispers calming words in my ear is as good for me as meditating! I let go of being an adult and allow myself to focus on the care being received "Beautifully put. | |||
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"There a massive difference between someone who likes being called Daddy and someone pretending to be someone’s Daddy. And again, a massive difference between someone pretending to be someone’s daddy and actually…you know the rest. The way people like it or dislike it is fine with me. I don’t like somethings, but I understand roleplay/kinks and being a responsible consenting open minded adult.
Yeah we know that and some still find it a turn off
And your in your rights. But others doing it turn you off? That’s Odd.
Now if you said it would turn you off if you did it or tried it I could understand that.
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"There a massive difference between someone who likes being called Daddy and someone pretending to be someone’s Daddy. And again, a massive difference between someone pretending to be someone’s daddy and actually…you know the rest. The way people like it or dislike it is fine with me. I don’t like somethings, but I understand roleplay/kinks and being a responsible consenting open minded adult.
Yeah we know that and some still find it a turn off
And your in your rights. But others doing it turn you off? That’s Odd.
Now if you said it would turn you off if you did it or tried it I could understand that.
Why odd? I find it a turn off. You don't. Nothing odd about it"I never once said I find others doing it a turn off did I? Each to their own....I find it a turn off.... | |||
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"When I read/hear someone else say that, apart from the ache deep in me that it causes, I'm intrigued to know what the preceding words from Daddy were
It's what and how you're saying yes to...
DD. Baby girl, bring your beautiful self to my lap.
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to have to hurt you for that, you understand right?
BG. Yes Daddy
DD. Baby girl, I'm going to eat your cute little pussy until I've had my fill, then fuck you until you can't walk. And while your still shaking and flushed we are going for dinner in a classy restaurant, are you ready angel?
BG. Yes Daddy
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. Mine developed from a D/s dynamic. I said it wasn’t for me, he accepted it, but as he knows me better than I know myself at times, he allowed me to come to it myself. I completely understand why people say it isn’t for them, but a flexible mindset allows for more growth. " Beautiful pics x | |||
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"There a massive difference between someone who likes being called Daddy and someone pretending to be someone’s Daddy. And again, a massive difference between someone pretending to be someone’s daddy and actually…you know the rest. The way people like it or dislike it is fine with me. I don’t like somethings, but I understand roleplay/kinks and being a responsible consenting open minded adult.
Yeah we know that and some still find it a turn off
And your in your rights. But others doing it turn you off? That’s Odd.
Now if you said it would turn you off if you did it or tried it I could understand that.
Why odd? I find it a turn off. You don't. Nothing odd about it
I never once said I find others doing it a turn off did I? Each to their own....I find it a turn off...."So at what point do you find your ‘turned off by it? | |||
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. Mine developed from a D/s dynamic. I said it wasn’t for me, he accepted it, but as he knows me better than I know myself at times, he allowed me to come to it myself. I completely understand why people say it isn’t for them, but a flexible mindset allows for more growth. Beautiful pics x" Thank you | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question "and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is.. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
Maybe word it like an opinion not a dictat, it was very dismissive of everything you read but seemingly chose not to understand
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"I never understood it, and I’m still not interested, but I understand it more than in did 30 mins ago. " That's cool, anything you'd like to ask. Happy to answer if you have | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels" It's entirely dependant on the individuals kinks. I swing more to this dynamic as I love the role. It's great for all of us to be different. X | |||
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I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is.. "As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting. It’s about respecting other peoples differences. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
Maybe word it like an opinion not a dictat, it was very dismissive of everything you read but seemingly chose not to understand
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. " each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences."Exactly! Kink shaming isn’t cool! | |||
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"Nothing I have said should be taken as disrespectful because I've made it very clear that it's not my kink regardless of whether age is a factor or not. The only reason I commented on the thread was because of the title and like everyone else I can only comment from my own experience. On other threads straight men are being asked to justify their preference and are told that they should relax and not get uptight about being called fab straight. I've seen numerous comments telling people they should be more open minded and experiment with their sexuality. I've had messages telling me to play bi. Like everything else in this world why should I pretend to be interested in something or take the time to learn about something I've absolutely no interest in just to please others? " No! Don't change who you are or what makes you feel good and comfortable! Never pretend! It's not your bag and that's totally cool! I have a lot more respect for someone who is honest about having no interest in a subject/lifestyle. I don't like Bridget Jones. No-one can ever persuade me to watch it! I don't care that everyone loves it, I'm not them and I won't entertain the idea! Okay maybe not the best analogy but hopefully makes sense
I have a lot of vanilla friends, some are interested in how it all works and ask questions, some are like 'don't tell me, it's fecking weird, I don't want to understand...' and that's fine! I respect their views as they respect mine.
At the end of the day it's MY kink and shouldn't make any difference or affect those around me!
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences."absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours | |||
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"I prefer Sir, especially when he is actually a teacher...and a rather hot sexy filthy teacher "He just has the perfect job for that! | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences.
Exactly! Kink shaming isn’t cool!"call it what you may.. it's my opinion, which I'm entitled too.. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok " But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? | |||
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. " Nope - and it was something i strongly objected too, believing it was someone pretending to be your dad and you were his actual daughter - like wtf. Then i started to get more exposure to BDSM, i did lots of reading ... And I met my current DD. I knew i was getting into a D/s ddynamic, but i had no understanding then of how deep it would go and how we would wind around each others lives. The first time he asked me to call him Daddy, i laughed and said its not for me... In the heat of the moment he asked me just to say the word.. So i did and there was some kind of mind blowing explosion that occurred - he got even harder and hornier and i had my brain fried.. And that wss it, i was completely 100% committed. Now i call him Daddy all the time, even in public. I adore him.. He is like my own personal cheerleader, coach, counsellor.. Undoubtedly he helped me to get a promotion - he filled me with confidence and literally made me shine on the day I can talk to him about anything - he never tries to fix my issues, but gives me different tools to fix it myself. He hears me We have a lot of fun together, he will always be my Daddy... he is the kindest, filthiest most perverted person i know.. I adore him - i think it shows to other people
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences.
Exactly! Kink shaming isn’t cool!"Well said! | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
Maybe word it like an opinion not a dictat, it was very dismissive of everything you read but seemingly chose not to understand
sorry, I don't follow the sheep, I say things how I see them..
One of those- gotcha "definitely one of them, have a fantastic day | |||
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. Nope - and it was something i strongly objected too, believing it was someone pretending to be your dad and you were his actual daughter - like wtf. Then i started to get more exposure to BDSM, i did lots of reading ... And I met my current DD. I knew i was getting into a D/s ddynamic, but i had no understanding then of how deep it would go and how we would wind around each others lives. The first time he asked me to call him Daddy, i laughed and said its not for me... In the heat of the moment he asked me just to say the word.. So i did and there was some kind of mind blowing explosion that occurred - he got even harder and hornier and i had my brain fried.. And that wss it, i was completely 100% committed. Now i call him Daddy all the time, even in public. I adore him.. He is like my own personal cheerleader, coach, counsellor.. Undoubtedly he helped me to get a promotion - he filled me with confidence and literally made me shine on the day I can talk to him about anything - he never tries to fix my issues, but gives me different tools to fix it myself. He hears me We have a lot of fun together, he will always be my Daddy... he is the kindest, filthiest most perverted person i know.. I adore him - i think it shows to other people
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? " if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it | |||
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. Nope - and it was something i strongly objected too, believing it was someone pretending to be your dad and you were his actual daughter - like wtf. Then i started to get more exposure to BDSM, i did lots of reading ... And I met my current DD. I knew i was getting into a D/s ddynamic, but i had no understanding then of how deep it would go and how we would wind around each others lives. The first time he asked me to call him Daddy, i laughed and said its not for me... In the heat of the moment he asked me just to say the word.. So i did and there was some kind of mind blowing explosion that occurred - he got even harder and hornier and i had my brain fried.. And that wss it, i was completely 100% committed. Now i call him Daddy all the time, even in public. I adore him.. He is like my own personal cheerleader, coach, counsellor.. Undoubtedly he helped me to get a promotion - he filled me with confidence and literally made me shine on the day I can talk to him about anything - he never tries to fix my issues, but gives me different tools to fix it myself. He hears me We have a lot of fun together, he will always be my Daddy... he is the kindest, filthiest most perverted person i know.. I adore him - i think it shows to other people
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. " m Totally didn’t go looking for it, I spent a lot of time with this particular Fwb, he introduced me to kink in general, he has taught me so much, helped me to understand the benefits of submission. He would never force me into anything he is experienced, level headed and has slowly opened my mind. He respects and understands me in a way no one else has before, when I am with him I feel safe yet free xx | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours"Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it" This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time "because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this "And…. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this "Because it's polite and non-judgemental. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing"like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
Maybe word it like an opinion not a dictat, it was very dismissive of everything you read but seemingly chose not to understand
sorry, I don't follow the sheep, I say things how I see them.. "No, you're not a sheep, just seemingly follow all the others who enjoy saying, 'I say things how it is.' Does it make you feel superior? There's a difference between 'saying it as it is' and being plain rude! Your comments are just unnecessary... | |||
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. " Mine started from a d/s relationship and he fell into being my little very quickly, but he couldn't sustain it so I gradually removed myself from the dynamic and we have fallen back into a d/s relationship. Its something that comes naturally to me as I have a caretaker persona but the right person has alluded me so far. I will never seek this dynamic as it will find me when things are right | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid "Is anyone doing that? Not that I’ve seen. This is a thread of raw honesty, and people being open with their preferences. You carry on doing you though | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid "You're saying a great deal more about yourself than anyone else. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this
And…."so because I don't agree with four people on here, it's kink shaming lol.. no it's being honest and having my opinion,green arrow tells me lots, I could say you've kink shamed too.. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid
You're saying a great deal more about yourself than anyone else. "and what ? I'm not here to blow smoke up anyone's arlss though .you lot don't like it when someone doesn't agree lol | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this
And…. so because I don't agree with four people on here, it's kink shaming lol.. no it's being honest and having my opinion,green arrow tells me lots, I could say you've kink shamed too.. "No it's kink shaming because you've actively judged other peoples kink. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this "Whilst you may not be alone in your thinking, you do not have to be disrespectful to those who think differently. There’s room for different opinions - simply thinking your voice is louder doesn’t mean it’s right and others are wrong - you can go against a crowd but you can do it with maturity and devoid of shaming | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid
You're saying a great deal more about yourself than anyone else. and what ? I'm not here to blow smoke up anyone's arlss though .you lot don't like it when someone doesn't agree lol"On the contrary, I love a good debate, and to have my opinions challenging, because you can learn from it. That isn’t what’s happening here | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
Maybe word it like an opinion not a dictat, it was very dismissive of everything you read but seemingly chose not to understand
sorry, I don't follow the sheep, I say things how I see them..
No, you're not a sheep, just seemingly follow all the others who enjoy saying, 'I say things how it is.' Does it make you feel superior?
There's a difference between 'saying it as it is' and being plain rude! Your comments are just unnecessary...
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid
You're saying a great deal more about yourself than anyone else. and what ? I'm not here to blow smoke up anyone's arlss though .you lot don't like it when someone doesn't agree lol"You rather seem to think there’s some correlation between being respectful and being a sheep. But you dig your heels in and start stalking those who you disagree with and then start hinting that you’re right because someone messaged you. Classic stuff. I’m out. | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this
And…. so because I don't agree with four people on here, it's kink shaming lol.. no it's being honest and having my opinion,green arrow tells me lots, I could say you've kink shamed too..
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this
And…. so because I don't agree with four people on here, it's kink shaming lol.. no it's being honest and having my opinion,green arrow tells me lots, I could say you've kink shamed too.. "Erm exactly what have I done? I asked you a couple of questions. And I most definitely haven't kink shamed you. | |||
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Seriously, I apologise if my choice of word caused offence. I wouldn’t ever wish to do that intentionally.
Yeah, it’s not for me. I’m pretty vanilla which I think can also be seen as an insult on here at times.
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid
You're saying a great deal more about yourself than anyone else. and what ? I'm not here to blow smoke up anyone's arlss though .you lot don't like it when someone doesn't agree lol
You rather seem to think there’s some correlation between being respectful and being a sheep. But you dig your heels in and start stalking those who you disagree with and then start hinting that you’re right because someone messaged you. Classic stuff. I’m out."stalking lol. Strong word forums aren't all about agreeing, it's about opinions, different ones, it would be boring if we all thought the same | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
I didn’t say you couldn’t? I asked you a question and I replied..I wouldn't comment on something without reading through.. each to their own, no matter how fucked up it is..
As I said earlier, people are entitled to dislike something without being insulting.
It’s about respecting other peoples differences. absolutely, however because someone doesn't share the same opinion as you does it make it disrespecful, no it makes it different to yours
Don’t want to bang on about this, but you didn’t just not share the same opinion you told everyone it was creepy. Big difference. Just prefixing that with ‘it’s not for me, I find it creepy’ would be so much better than a straight black and white it IS creepy, fact. Social nuance is important especially when disagreeing like I said before, I don't follow the "in crowd" to get likes or laid
You're saying a great deal more about yourself than anyone else. and what ? I'm not here to blow smoke up anyone's arlss though .you lot don't like it when someone doesn't agree lol
You rather seem to think there’s some correlation between being respectful and being a sheep. But you dig your heels in and start stalking those who you disagree with and then start hinting that you’re right because someone messaged you. Classic stuff. I’m out." | |||
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Why is it creepy is it the use of the word Daddy? I don't personally use that word but if you had to put me in a box this this the dynamic I fit into the most. each to their own.. just seems very messed up . I also have a friend that enjoys this but I'll never think it's ok But why don't you think it's ok? What am I going that is so wrong? if it works for you, fantastic, I find it creepy..that is basically it This would be fine as your first post let’s go back in time because it suits you? I'm not alone in my thinking here, my mail tells me this
And…. so because I don't agree with four people on here, it's kink shaming lol.. no it's being honest and having my opinion,green arrow tells me lots, I could say you've kink shamed too..
Erm exactly what have I done? I asked you a couple of questions. And I most definitely haven't kink shamed you.
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"Guys, i don't know why you are arguing... Its a kink.. Not everyone understands it, or likes it when they understand it. I think people are entitled to say they don't like something - and sometimes they express it in a way that you don't like ... But i don't thing arguing about the wording will change someone's perspective or really add anthing at all. This thread helps people to see it in a different light which is brilliant.. If they are open to it I don't think we need to choose sides and go to war? Can't we just agree to disagree You can't control other people, but you can control your own reaction " Agree entirely. I'm out. | |||
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"Guys, i don't know why you are arguing... Its a kink.. Not everyone understands it, or likes it when they understand it. I think people are entitled to say they don't like something - and sometimes they express it in a way that you don't like ... But i don't thing arguing about the wording will change someone's perspective or really add anthing at all. This thread helps people to see it in a different light which is brilliant.. If they are open to it I don't think we need to choose sides and go to war? Can't we just agree to disagree You can't control other people, but you can control your own reaction " You’re absolutely right
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"Guys, i don't know why you are arguing... Its a kink.. Not everyone understands it, or likes it when they understand it. I think people are entitled to say they don't like something - and sometimes they express it in a way that you don't like ... But i don't thing arguing about the wording will change someone's perspective or really add anthing at all. This thread helps people to see it in a different light which is brilliant.. If they are open to it I don't think we need to choose sides and go to war? Can't we just agree to disagree You can't control other people, but you can control your own reaction " couldn't have put it better myself | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do.
Thanks for saying this it’s a tad disrespectful to people into that dynamic!
I don't find someone finding something hideous disrespectful to those that enjoy that something. This 'disrespect' thing is just another way of cancelling someone's contribution.
If you eat pizza , which I find hideous, I have not disrespected you ..... and don't tell me SEX KINKS are more important to people than food cos i'll just laugh.
There will be sword fights in here one day I swear..... Have at ye Sir for I am offended and disrespected !"
"I'm offended" "I feel disrespected"...gie ma heid peace ffs.
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"To be fair, I said ‘I find it rather hideous’ rather than ‘it is hideous’
Seriously, I apologise if my choice of word caused offence. I wouldn’t ever wish to do that intentionally.
Yeah, it’s not for me. I’m pretty vanilla which I think can also be seen as an insult on here at times.
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"Guys, i don't know why you are arguing... Its a kink.. Not everyone understands it, or likes it when they understand it. I think people are entitled to say they don't like something - and sometimes they express it in a way that you don't like ... But i don't thing arguing about the wording will change someone's perspective or really add anthing at all. This thread helps people to see it in a different light which is brilliant.. If they are open to it I don't think we need to choose sides and go to war? Can't we just agree to disagree You can't control other people, but you can control your own reaction " Beautifully put. If it’s not for you just move on whether you agree or not. A lot of disrespectful words on here towards it… You can agree / disagree have your own opinion but be mindful when choosing how you express it | |||
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"I just don't get the whole daddy thing
Me neither. I find it rather hideous.
It’s ok to not like it, but it’s also ok to respect that some of us do.
Thanks for saying this it’s a tad disrespectful to people into that dynamic!
I don't find someone finding something hideous disrespectful to those that enjoy that something. This 'disrespect' thing is just another way of cancelling someone's contribution.
If you eat pizza , which I find hideous, I have not disrespected you ..... and don't tell me SEX KINKS are more important to people than food cos i'll just laugh.
There will be sword fights in here one day I swear..... Have at ye Sir for I am offended and disrespected !
"I'm offended" "I feel disrespected"...gie ma heid peace ffs.
Anyway, I prefer to call him an old codger when we're shagging, that's my spin on the daddy kink."I love your sense of humour | |||
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"Guys, i don't know why you are arguing... Its a kink.. Not everyone understands it, or likes it when they understand it. I think people are entitled to say they don't like something - and sometimes they express it in a way that you don't like ... But i don't thing arguing about the wording will change someone's perspective or really add anthing at all. This thread helps people to see it in a different light which is brilliant.. If they are open to it I don't think we need to choose sides and go to war? Can't we just agree to disagree You can't control other people, but you can control your own reaction Beautifully put. If it’s not for you just move on whether you agree or not. A lot of disrespectful words on here towards it… You can agree / disagree have your own opinion but be mindful when choosing how you express it "regardless how about someone expresses it, you won't please everyone.. like I say if my mail is anything to go by just now I'm definitely not alone | |||
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" I'd prefer that the 'daddy lovers' focussed on extolling it's virtues and concentrated less on arguing with others for expressing opinions. Defensiveness shows cracks. If you love it just love it...... Personally .... the word gives me the creeps NOT the act..... NOT the dynamic ...... NOT the people that take part but the use of a family label gives me the shudders.... ( i've yet to reflect to any great length as to why ) Similarly people that use the word 'shaming' too frequently as a pejorative to close down others give me the colly wobbles. I don't like Eastenders but I will mix with those that do. " Well put . Replace daddy with Sir and its perfectly fine with me. Sir will nurture you. Protect you etc. I'm pretty sure he'll do a lot more also. Why he needs to be called daddy i don't understand. | |||
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" Well put . Replace daddy with Sir and its perfectly fine with me. Sir will nurture you. Protect you etc. I'm pretty sure he'll do a lot more also. Why he needs to be called daddy i don't understand. " 'cos it makes him hard and knees go wobbly innit  | |||
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. Nope - and it was something i strongly objected too, believing it was someone pretending to be your dad and you were his actual daughter - like wtf. Then i started to get more exposure to BDSM, i did lots of reading ... And I met my current DD. I knew i was getting into a D/s ddynamic, but i had no understanding then of how deep it would go and how we would wind around each others lives. The first time he asked me to call him Daddy, i laughed and said its not for me... In the heat of the moment he asked me just to say the word.. So i did and there was some kind of mind blowing explosion that occurred - he got even harder and hornier and i had my brain fried.. And that wss it, i was completely 100% committed. Now i call him Daddy all the time, even in public. I adore him.. He is like my own personal cheerleader, coach, counsellor.. Undoubtedly he helped me to get a promotion - he filled me with confidence and literally made me shine on the day I can talk to him about anything - he never tries to fix my issues, but gives me different tools to fix it myself. He hears me We have a lot of fun together, he will always be my Daddy... he is the kindest, filthiest most perverted person i know.. I adore him - i think it shows to other people
He is 22 days older than me for perspective "I don't call B daddy, aspects you've just explained our relationship is the same with regard to the level of respect and guidance he shows me, he calls me his Good Girl and that is our dynamic, in a sense he is mine I just don't say it to him x Tg x | |||
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. Nope - and it was something i strongly objected too, believing it was someone pretending to be your dad and you were his actual daughter - like wtf. Then i started to get more exposure to BDSM, i did lots of reading ... And I met my current DD. I knew i was getting into a D/s ddynamic, but i had no understanding then of how deep it would go and how we would wind around each others lives. The first time he asked me to call him Daddy, i laughed and said its not for me... In the heat of the moment he asked me just to say the word.. So i did and there was some kind of mind blowing explosion that occurred - he got even harder and hornier and i had my brain fried.. And that wss it, i was completely 100% committed. Now i call him Daddy all the time, even in public. I adore him.. He is like my own personal cheerleader, coach, counsellor.. Undoubtedly he helped me to get a promotion - he filled me with confidence and literally made me shine on the day I can talk to him about anything - he never tries to fix my issues, but gives me different tools to fix it myself. He hears me We have a lot of fun together, he will always be my Daddy... he is the kindest, filthiest most perverted person i know.. I adore him - i think it shows to other people
He is 22 days older than me for perspective
I don't call B daddy, aspects you've just explained our relationship is the same with regard to the level of respect and guidance he shows me, he calls me his Good Girl and that is our dynamic, in a sense he is mine I just don't say it to him x
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"Question to those who are into this on this thread. Did you go looking for this dynamic? Or is it something that developed over time? I didn't seek it, it developed over time from a D/s type relationship. I do understand why it can seem strange to others outside the dynamic, especially when people fixate on one word. I get why it isn't for you. There's loads that isn't for me. Each to their own what I do in the privacy of my own home isn't harming anyone. Nope - and it was something i strongly objected too, believing it was someone pretending to be your dad and you were his actual daughter - like wtf. Then i started to get more exposure to BDSM, i did lots of reading ... And I met my current DD. I knew i was getting into a D/s ddynamic, but i had no understanding then of how deep it would go and how we would wind around each others lives. The first time he asked me to call him Daddy, i laughed and said its not for me... In the heat of the moment he asked me just to say the word.. So i did and there was some kind of mind blowing explosion that occurred - he got even harder and hornier and i had my brain fried.. And that wss it, i was completely 100% committed. Now i call him Daddy all the time, even in public. I adore him.. He is like my own personal cheerleader, coach, counsellor.. Undoubtedly he helped me to get a promotion - he filled me with confidence and literally made me shine on the day I can talk to him about anything - he never tries to fix my issues, but gives me different tools to fix it myself. He hears me We have a lot of fun together, he will always be my Daddy... he is the kindest, filthiest most perverted person i know.. I adore him - i think it shows to other people
He is 22 days older than me for perspective
I don't call B daddy, aspects you've just explained our relationship is the same with regard to the level of respect and guidance he shows me, he calls me his Good Girl and that is our dynamic, in a sense he is mine I just don't say it to him x
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"There a massive difference between someone who likes being called Daddy and someone pretending to be someone’s Daddy. And again, a massive difference between someone pretending to be someone’s daddy and actually…you know the rest. The way people like it or dislike it is fine with me. I don’t like somethings, but I understand roleplay/kinks and being a responsible consenting open minded adult.
Yeah we know that and some still find it a turn off
And your in your rights. But others doing it turn you off? That’s Odd.
Now if you said it would turn you off if you did it or tried it I could understand that.
Why odd? I find it a turn off. You don't. Nothing odd about it
I never once said I find others doing it a turn off did I? Each to their own....I find it a turn off....
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"It's creepy and seems so wrong on many levels Have you read the thread? read every comment, and I'll add I'm entitled to my OWN opinion
Maybe word it like an opinion not a dictat, it was very dismissive of everything you read but seemingly chose not to understand
sorry, I don't follow the sheep, I say things how I see them..
No, you're not a sheep, just seemingly follow all the others who enjoy saying, 'I say things how it is.' Does it make you feel superior?
There's a difference between 'saying it as it is' and being plain rude! Your comments are just unnecessary...
your opinion it won't affect or have any impact on my day, have a great day "Glad to hear it
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