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What do you want people to feel around you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Please do not say hard/wet!  
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!  Answers on the postcard...
Energised and inspired.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please do not say hard/wet!
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally! Answers on the postcard...
Energised and inspired. "
Like I’d underpromised but overdelivered.
Also… like they probably need a tetanus shot. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Please do not say hard/wet!
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally! Answers on the postcard...
Energised and inspired.
Like I’d underpromised but overdelivered.
Also… like they probably need a tetanus shot."
Oh you wild thing. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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I adore chatting to new people, I want them to feel like I take interest in them as a person not just there physical appearance - sure it’s nice to compliment here or there but I like hearing about there life’s, passions etc
I’d hope people who do meet me feel relaxed, have a good laugh and go away smiling
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Feeling like curling up on the sofa in a blanket and having a power nap"
Can I just say.. I always feel around you like we can conquer the world so bit opposite.. but this is great.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.
I don't really think too much about it, first time I think I have. How others view you will always be with their own perceptions/biases/life experiences so you can't control too much of it bar not being a knob. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.
I don't really think too much about it, first time I think I have. How others view you will always be with their own perceptions/biases/life experiences so you can't control too much of it bar not being a knob. "
I am glad I inspired you to think of it first time
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.
I don't really think too much about it, first time I think I have. How others view you will always be with their own perceptions/biases/life experiences so you can't control too much of it bar not being a knob. "
Yeah… like when someone remembers your name next time you speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really happy and would like to do it again, like something amazing has just gone and happened and chemistry has occurred where you both come out of that occurrence connected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah… like when someone remembers your name next time you speak.
What kind of dickjockey wouldn't remember your name? You probably need to make more of an impression ShovelHands."
I couldn’t imagine the scenario ever happening to me personally Susan. |
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That depends on the person and the type of interaction, a professional meeting would be vastly different to a friend. Also any preconceived ideas they may have about me and their own personal bias and previous experiences may alter their view. Heck, even what mood they're in at that particular time could affect it. I guess what I'm trying to say is there's not much I can do to alter someone's perception of me unless I'm going to be a complete fake, all I can do is act as I deem appropriately in any given situation and people will judge me as they see fit. |
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"Please do not say hard/wet!
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally! Answers on the postcard...
Energised and inspired. "
Well it depends - if it’s a guy I’ve just had a meet with - they’re generally exhausted and grateful to get out alive!
When chatting/socialising - I guess I like new acquaintances to think they’ve just met someone they could be friends with. I’m fairly uncomplicated. |
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"Feeling like curling up on the sofa in a blanket and having a power nap
Can I just say.. I always feel around you like we can conquer the world so bit opposite.. but this is great. "
My going out energy is completely opposite to my sexual tantric energy xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one has put itchy and I'm not sure if I'm disappointed or impressed.
I'd like to people to feel that I enjoyed their company and conversation and with them looking forward to seeing me again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just knowing , that they have just met a genuine guy , and also a smile , hoping my cheeky humour was enough to brighten their day ...oh and also satisfied  |
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I try to leave a place better than I found it, however chaotic it was in the beginning. I would like people to leave my company feeling good about themselves and if I contributed to it, all the better.
Him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like people to go away happy, relaxed and content knowing that the person they have just met portrays herself well in the forum, via messages and via pictures.
I'd hate for people to feel "catfished" in that I don't come across the same as online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like people to feel like I have paid them attention.
Doesn't matter if it's a high level work meeting or a homeless person on the streets that I am talking too as long as I can make them feel listened to, both interactions are the same and of equal value.
I also like to make people feel like they want to suck my cock. Doesn't matter if it's a work meeting or a homeless person on the streets. A BJ is a BJ!
Made myself laugh! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Please do not say hard/wet!
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally! Answers on the postcard...
Energised and inspired. "
Great question, OP and maybe one we should consider when meeting people (in any scenario. not just FAB)
I hope during the meeting people feel relaxed, genuinely listened to and perhaps a bit energised in my company.
When they walk away, I would hope they feel that they did not waste their time, irrespective of what happens afterwards e.g. another meeting or whether or not they will ever meet me again.  |
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"Please do not say hard/wet!
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally! Answers on the postcard...
Energised and inspired. "
Relaxed, reinvigorated, entertained, satisfied and happy |
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"That they’ve just put a top shelf memory in the wank bank
K
Nothing more?"
Apologies…I’m blaming my jeg-lagged brain 
If it’s a FAB meet, I’d want them to feel excited, smiling inside and warm. That they’ve just made a connection that’s going to last…
Plus have a top shelf memory for the wank bank… 
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like them to be happy that they met me, that it was something positive and maybe that I had some quality that wasn’t common (that might be a stretch though! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Broken and wobbly
Surely that's the aftermath! "
Well OP asked how we would want someone to feel coming away from the meet
If its during, going by the title instead - shaking with euphoria |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Broken and wobbly
Surely that's the aftermath!
Well OP asked how we would want someone to feel coming away from the meet
If its during, going by the title instead - shaking with euphoria "
Yes they did I misread the opening thread however you have made it perfectly understandable in a nice and sexy way x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.
I don't really think too much about it, first time I think I have. How others view you will always be with their own perceptions/biases/life experiences so you can't control too much of it bar not being a knob. "
This ^^^
Plus it depends on the situation. Could be happy, content, contrite, horny, frustrated, satisfied - all sorts of things.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Broken and wobbly
Surely that's the aftermath!
Well OP asked how we would want someone to feel coming away from the meet
If its during, going by the title instead - shaking with euphoria
Yes they did I misread the opening thread however you have made it perfectly understandable in a nice and sexy way x"
You can intepret as you wish x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Please do not say hard/wet!
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally! Answers on the postcard...
Energised and inspired.
Great question, OP and maybe one we should consider when meeting people (in any scenario. not just FAB)
I hope during the meeting people feel relaxed, genuinely listened to and perhaps a bit energised in my company.
When they walk away, I would hope they feel that they did not waste their time, irrespective of what happens afterwards e.g. another meeting or whether or not they will ever meet me again. "
Thank you. I didnt mean just fab meet. In general.
These are very rare occurrences when I feel I wasted my time. Every moments adds to collection of them somehow. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That depends on the person and the type of interaction, a professional meeting would be vastly different to a friend. Also any preconceived ideas they may have about me and their own personal bias and previous experiences may alter their view. Heck, even what mood they're in at that particular time could affect it. I guess what I'm trying to say is there's not much I can do to alter someone's perception of me unless I'm going to be a complete fake, all I can do is act as I deem appropriately in any given situation and people will judge me as they see fit. "
I suppose I wasn't specific enough. I didnt consider much those other factors. Do you mean that no matter how we want to come across people might see and digest us in a way different to what we intended? I intended for us to make a blissful wish.. what would be the ideal memory of the encounter with someone on a personal level. |
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