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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here? "
A good looking guy
A tall guy
A guy with a big cock (the thicker the better)
Not pushy, and yea a fit body doesn't hurt either |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here? "
Plenty of helpful advice on other forum threads which possibly could answer remember not everyone is compatible in looks but might be in taste so figure out what you're looking for and hopefully find someone compatible
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Snow…dam it 
I this the christmas list thread again. I want a kelly kettle  Not from here though
I don’t want snow from here "
It would be that wet splodgy snow that gums up the trains  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a dictionary, open at a random page, choose a random word, someone will be looking for if not that exact thing, then at least something else. Try it. Works every time. |
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"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here?
A good looking guy
A tall guy
A guy with a big cock (the thicker the better)
Not pushy, and yea a fit body doesn't hurt either "
I disagree with number three on your list. Not the women that I’ve met on here. Not in the slightest bit interested in size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheesecake 
Now you’re talking Hubby
I’m bringing you a raspberry one later wifey - please strip naked with a spoon at the ready….  "
I’m already stripped off   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting? |
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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
Quality quantity.
There's nothing empowering about receiving 50+ messages a day ranging from 'hey how u wt u up 2' to 'wanna get slammed' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?
Quality quantity.
There's nothing empowering about receiving 50+ messages a day ranging from 'hey how u wt u up 2' to 'wanna get slammed'"
Fair point. I wonder if anyone has ever actually succeeded with that line… I was trying to ask that since joining here and being exposed to much more choice than I assume people would of had in their ‘real life’ , does it lead to them raising their standards.
The same as some of the nastier threads posted on here. ‘Who wants to X me right now?’ I don’t think I’ve ever seen a lady reply positively. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here? "
From what I've read on here, girls (women) don't even know what they want. What possible chance has anyone else got of cracking the code? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
No it's not an ego boost for me anyhow,flattering or empowering . I'm just a normal 48 year old woman.I learnt early to keep my filters tight so I don't get many messages. I can see through the fake compliments on here the people I've met are people who don't do that smoke blowing or at least haven't done it to me anyhow.
In answer to the ops question of what do I want off here well to find people I can get on with and have a bit of craic with and hopefully great sex. And I've been lucky in both respects so far on here. |
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One day I’ll want this and then tomorrow I might not want it anymore. Next week I might want it again though but I could change my mind, I definitely don’t want that but I I could be persuaded with the right person, although I might not. Today I don’t want anything but I may change my mind in half hour. I don’t like cock pics but if I’m in the mood I do. I think I want something now ….. but then again I’m not sure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
It really isn’t. Being treated like a convenient wet hole is not flattering in the slightest |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South |
"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here? "
No idea what I want. I think I want one thing and then talk myself out of it. Just all too much bother really.
I’ve stopped looking for now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here? "
Girls just wanna have fun!
Me? Id prefer a cuppa, a garibaldi and to be in charge of the telly zapper for once! |
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
Nope.
Don't need fellas blowing smoke up my arse to know I'm fucking awesome. I'm an alright kinda cunt.
What the masses of interest and messages etc has done over the years I've been here is show me that to a huge, and I mean HUGE amount of fellas, I'm a wet hole. That's it. A means to an end. Somewhere for them to blow their beans, or someone they want to boost their own ego. How do I know this? Because what I want doesn't matter to many.
Imagine how that feels. It ain't empowering in the slightest, it's disappointing and a wee bit soul crushing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?
Nope.
Don't need fellas blowing smoke up my arse to know I'm fucking awesome. I'm an alright kinda cunt.
What the masses of interest and messages etc has done over the years I've been here is show me that to a huge, and I mean HUGE amount of fellas, I'm a wet hole. That's it. A means to an end. Somewhere for them to blow their beans, or someone they want to boost their own ego. How do I know this? Because what I want doesn't matter to many.
Imagine how that feels. It ain't empowering in the slightest, it's disappointing and a wee bit soul crushing "
Yep. It’s quite depressing really  |
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
No. I wouldn’t play with anyone on here that I wouldn’t in the “real world” as such.
Hasn’t affected my standards at all however I would say it definitely has affected the standards of lots of men in my inbox.
I know for a fact men who have turned me down after dates and tinder beg me on here cos they wanna get laid. Xx |
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
The attention I get is from men who ignore my profile and message me as if I were a disposable sex worker. |
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?
Nope.
Don't need fellas blowing smoke up my arse to know I'm fucking awesome. I'm an alright kinda cunt.
What the masses of interest and messages etc has done over the years I've been here is show me that to a huge, and I mean HUGE amount of fellas, I'm a wet hole. That's it. A means to an end. Somewhere for them to blow their beans, or someone they want to boost their own ego. How do I know this? Because what I want doesn't matter to many.
Imagine how that feels. It ain't empowering in the slightest, it's disappointing and a wee bit soul crushing "
Well put |
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?
The attention I get is from men who ignore my profile and message me as if I were a disposable sex worker."
...and free. |
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?
Nope.
Don't need fellas blowing smoke up my arse to know I'm fucking awesome. I'm an alright kinda cunt.
What the masses of interest and messages etc has done over the years I've been here is show me that to a huge, and I mean HUGE amount of fellas, I'm a wet hole. That's it. A means to an end. Somewhere for them to blow their beans, or someone they want to boost their own ego. How do I know this? Because what I want doesn't matter to many.
Imagine how that feels. It ain't empowering in the slightest, it's disappointing and a wee bit soul crushing "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here?
We want to be called women and know the person, not the cock."
THIS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?
Nope.
Don't need fellas blowing smoke up my arse to know I'm fucking awesome. I'm an alright kinda cunt.
What the masses of interest and messages etc has done over the years I've been here is show me that to a huge, and I mean HUGE amount of fellas, I'm a wet hole. That's it. A means to an end. Somewhere for them to blow their beans, or someone they want to boost their own ego. How do I know this? Because what I want doesn't matter to many.
Imagine how that feels. It ain't empowering in the slightest, it's disappointing and a wee bit soul crushing
- looks for heart emoji -"
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
Nope. To be honest with you, I could probably find casual sex with someone who actually acknowledges I'm a person easier on dating sites than on here. I don't really meet anyone through this website alone that much as a result. I use it more to keep up with my friends and people I've met at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be called a slut/tart/etc and a new ironing board cover
That or to be listened to and treated like an individual rather than sweeping statements…
Also I’d imagine, given the nature of this site, some form of sexual contact… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havw no idea what I want 
Just tell me i'm not totally minging and flirt with me abit, it keeps me happy. Or offer to keep my hubby happy and you're on to a winner |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here?
A good looking guy
A tall guy
A guy with a big cock (the thicker the better)
Not pushy, and yea a fit body doesn't hurt either "
I notice you left out A man who loves giving oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havw no idea what I want
Just tell me i'm not totally minging and flirt with me abit, it keeps me happy. Or offer to keep my hubby happy and you're on to a winner "
Errr, you’re not totally minging…
Actually you’re far from it, but ya know just following instructions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here for 5 months now. And genuinely now curious what do girls actually want on here?
A good looking guy
A tall guy
A guy with a big cock (the thicker the better)
Not pushy, and yea a fit body doesn't hurt either
I disagree with number three on your list. Not the women that I’ve met on here. Not in the slightest bit interested in size. "
Correct. In fact, quite the opposite. I avoid huge cocks. I’d prefer an average one please.  |
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"You would have to ask every woman on the site because we are all different and we all want different things.
Yes, we don't all like the same  cake ... just make sure you know which cake you're getting us, don't assume  "
Can you clarify what is and isn’t acceptable by your standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Making a note of all the lovers for future reference 
I’ll just pretend you never piped up
Yes, don’t think about that delicious lemon drizzle cake
I’m signing off now because of you "
Mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havw no idea what I want
Just tell me i'm not totally minging and flirt with me abit, it keeps me happy. Or offer to keep my hubby happy and you're on to a winner "
Don’t you want your hubby? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havw no idea what I want
Just tell me i'm not totally minging and flirt with me abit, it keeps me happy. Or offer to keep my hubby happy and you're on to a winner
Don’t you want your hubby?"
Ofcourse but he would enjoy someone else more. |
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Not wanting to bag another 24 hour ban I can't comment, and it would just be laced with sarcasm, and based purely on my experiences and of no use to you. I did come across a similar post the other day and I was aghast at one guy who had the brass neck to suggest it was a bullshit question, and that the guy had simply come across the forum way after joining and realised by posting something he would get responses and interaction....something he wasn't achieving from messaging from his profile. An assumption based on
no evidence other than believing no human being would subject themselves to months of rejection they would just find another platform that works for them. In his defence he did say he would apologise if that OP was subjecting themselves to rejection as some sort of sadomasochism type kink but unlikely that was the case.
With all these responses which range from really useful to sneaky self-congratulatory ones, the next 5 months it be like shooting fish in a barrel. |
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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago
Halifax |
God knows what women want. Like, I’m short, scrawny, bald, and got a small wiener. Yet all the women ignore me. It makes no sense!
I swear, It’s almost as if they want the total opposite to what I described… |
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?"
My standards wouldn't change if there's a million men on here or a thousand, why would I want to have sex with someone I wasn't honestly attracted to? I would rather go without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A question for the ladies please
Do you think signing up somewhere where the hetrosexual ratio is so much in your favour has lead to you having a different attitude towards your own standards? I imagine most if not all women on this site are in much higher demand than most of the men. It’s got to be flattering, empowering, and ego boosting?
My standards wouldn't change if there's a million men on here or a thousand, why would I want to have sex with someone I wasn't honestly attracted to? I would rather go without."
A honest salute for you..
I love that attitude |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"You would have to ask every woman on the site because we are all different and we all want different things.
Yes, we don't all like the same cake ... just make sure you know which cake you're getting us, don't assume
Can you clarify what is and isn’t acceptable by your standards "
Deep thick ...frosting ...top and middle
...others might just go for drizzle |
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"You would have to ask every woman on the site because we are all different and we all want different things.
Yes, we don't all like the same cake ... just make sure you know which cake you're getting us, don't assume
Can you clarify what is and isn’t acceptable by your standards
Deep thick ...frosting ...top and middle
...others might just go for drizzle "
So anything thick, creamy and moist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You would have to ask every woman on the site because we are all different and we all want different things.
Yes, we don't all like the same cake ... just make sure you know which cake you're getting us, don't assume
Can you clarify what is and isn’t acceptable by your standards
Deep thick ...frosting ...top and middle
...others might just go for drizzle "
Especially lemon mwah haha |
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"You would have to ask every woman on the site because we are all different and we all want different things.
Yes, we don't all like the same cake ... just make sure you know which cake you're getting us, don't assume
Can you clarify what is and isn’t acceptable by your standards
Deep thick ...frosting ...top and middle
...others might just go for drizzle
Especially lemon mwah haha"
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