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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you love knowing you upset people? Does it make you feel more powerful than them?
I think it's pathetic if you feel like that."
It was not in any way meant to upset anyone.
I dont get any kick out of it |
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people"
People tend to read what they want to read not necessarily what was written or what was meant.
Also text speak, lack of grammar, poor punctuation, lazy writing doesn't help the readers comprehension. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
People tend to read what they want to read not necessarily what was written or what was meant.
Also text speak, lack of grammar, poor punctuation, lazy writing doesn't help the readers comprehension."
^ this... theres all sorts that ppl in the forum will talk about that someone can pick apart and label it as being offensive, so whos in the wrong?
As for P.C. how many times has it been stated that its often the ppl without such struggles who get offended the most? Ive known ppl with dissociative disorder and ive been able to half a laugh with them and joke about it. Was i being wrong joking about it with them? Were they themselves being wrong for joking about it in the first place cos others may struggle with it?
What happened to humour in general these days? Cant say anything without someone getting offended and suddenly everyone banding together out of some sense of egoistic self righteousness and demonising the ppl who simply wanted to say or do something humorous.
What annoys me the most is when ppl get so offended by something and try to pander to those who "struggle", you do realise that doing so can in fact make those ppl feel even more uncomfortable?
Ive had depression and anxiety since i was a teenager, ive been on suicide watch and tried to take my own life as well, id rather joke about and put a humorous spin onto it than feel like i need to pandered to and sheltered by others, and many other ppl, whatever challenges they face also feel the same way too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
Apparently my profile is offensive it’s meant to be tongue in cheek "
Only offensive thing I seen was the use of you're instead of your. I'll accept the use of autocorrect and no-one else wanting to point it out for the fact it's they're  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you have a good conversation with someone but you say they are not really for you (very politely).
Then they call you 4 letter words, are totally abusive and block you.
Lucky escape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve heard it’s not polite to wish someone/ people a happy Christmas, but instead wish them happy holidays. Wouldn’t want to upset anyone with the “C” word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you have a good conversation with someone but you say they are not really for you (very politely).
Then they call you 4 letter words, are totally abusive and block you.
Lucky escape."
Definitely you should use my reply back to the 4 letter word
Yes I am a 4 letter wold and pround off it hi at least us 4 letter words have all the fun but man it must be a bad day when not even the 4 letter word would jump in to bed with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
Apparently my profile is offensive it’s meant to be tongue in cheek "
Having instantly looked at your profile to research this, I have found it to be a perfectly nice one with 3 pics of mesmerizing breasts - what's not to like there?? It gets you point across and isn't a mile long. Keep up the good work. |
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I am frankly offended by this post and subsequently feel the overwhelming compunction to now express my ostensible mental anguish in as histrionic and self righteous a manner as possible which will overtly display to my legion of noetically insalubrious social media followers that I am a person of exceptionally high moral virtue   |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Some jokes just aren’t funny, some may only be funny to certain people.
However it does seem “we” have become more polarised of late, with less tolerance and willingness to converse or debate and instead just labelling all those with a different opinion than ourselves as wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
Apparently my profile is offensive it’s meant to be tongue in cheek "
I was immensely offended by it    |
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"I am frankly offended by this post and subsequently feel the overwhelming compunction to now express my ostensible mental anguish in as histrionic and self righteous a manner as possible which will overtly display to my legion of noetically insalubrious social media followers that I am a person of exceptionally high moral virtue
I think you missed a comma somewhere ...
  Errr…..commas offend me to; clearly the implied pause is overtly representative of some form of social injustice somewhere out there….maybe "
Please accept my sincere apologies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some jokes just aren’t funny, some may only be funny to certain people.
However it does seem “we” have become more polarised of late, with less tolerance and willingness to converse or debate and instead just labelling all those with a different opinion than ourselves as wrong."
Depends if it is a joke or simply a poor sense of humour. And many lack a sense of humour in general and therefore wont understand the context or purpose and rather than admit to having a poor sense of humour, would rather demonise others as being insensitive.
As ive said previously in this thread, ive tried taking my life in the past. Is the insanely high rate of suicide among young men a laughing matter? Of course not. But would i myself, someone who does feel strongly about the mental health in young men, feel i should be offended and demonise someone, who makes a joke or says something with the purpose of being humorous, related to suicide among young men? No i wouldnt.
Too many ppl these days are as tighter than an anal virgins asshole and really need to loosen up.
And its funny as well when the initial joke that was made was related dissociative disorder, has anyone considered the fact that the OP may suffer with this?  |
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
People tend to read what they want to read not necessarily what was written or what was meant.
Also text speak, lack of grammar, poor punctuation, lazy writing doesn't help the readers comprehension."
More like people actually look for something that could somehow make someone’s thread/comment offensive so they can jump on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape. "
No one has the right not to be offended. |
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
No one has the right not to be offended."
Good. They can crack on. Must be a pretty dull life spending it offended and offended by proxy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
No one has the right not to be offended."
Doesn't give them a right either. |
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape. "
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady  |
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady "
. Can’t remember ever being offended but I’m happy for you to be offended on my behalf gorgeous  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady "
Your never offensive xxx
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
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You should see some of his private pics!  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
You should see some of his private pics! "
What are they
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
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Thank you gorgeous xxx
I would certainly never deliberately set out to offend anyone  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
Thank you gorgeous xxx
I would certainly never deliberately set out to offend anyone "
You don't your vibe is one of love and humour both which I love xxx |
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
You should see some of his private pics! "
You mean the one with me spreading my buttocks with an action man figure copulating with Barbie, both firmly wedged up my anus? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
No one has the right not to be offended.
Doesn't give them a right either."
I don’t understand your comment? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
No one has the right not to be offended.
Doesn't give them a right either.
I don’t understand your comment?"
He is saying gives no one the right to knowingly offend someone
I mean why bother offending anyone??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
No one has the right not to be offended.
Doesn't give them a right either.
I don’t understand your comment?
He is saying gives no one the right to knowingly offend someone
I mean why bother offending anyone???"
As said weird |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
No one has the right not to be offended.
Doesn't give them a right either.
I don’t understand your comment?
He is saying gives no one the right to knowingly offend someone
I mean why bother offending anyone???
As said weird "
xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
Thank you gorgeous xxx
I would certainly never deliberately set out to offend anyone "
This is the point though to not deliberately offend anyone but not everyone thinks that way unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
Thank you gorgeous xxx
I would certainly never deliberately set out to offend anyone
This is the point though to not deliberately offend anyone but not everyone thinks that way unfortunately "
Why bother??? Unless bored?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
Thank you gorgeous xxx
I would certainly never deliberately set out to offend anyone
This is the point though to not deliberately offend anyone but not everyone thinks that way unfortunately "
I save my offending for the "say something offensive" threads. My last Saville comment lost me a few potential forum friends - gulp... |
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"...dissociative disorder, has anyone considered the fact that the OP may suffer with this? "
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I'm very sorry to hear that the OP might have this condition.
I suspect that most of us would have no inkling whatsoever about anyone's medical condition. How/Why would we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
No one has the right not to be offended.
Doesn't give them a right either.
I don’t understand your comment?
He is saying gives no one the right to knowingly offend someone
I mean why bother offending anyone???"
People take offence or are offended by a multitude of subjects, topics or utterances.
Giving an opinion or stating a position may cause offence often quite unintentionally. However if offence is the intention of the originator it still is not a right not to be offended.
An example is my view on the existence of a god or subscription to an religion will undoubtedly cause offence to some. Equally someone who publicly advertises their god or promotes their religion causes me offence. They have the right (within the law) to express their views despite it being offensive to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...dissociative disorder, has anyone considered the fact that the OP may suffer with this?
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I'm very sorry to hear that the OP might have this condition.
I suspect that most of us would have no inkling whatsoever about anyone's medical condition. How/Why would we? "
No i didnt mean that i know the OP does have this as i dont know myself. What i meant was ppl who are saying hes being insensitive arent considering the fact that he may suffer with it also, hence my previous comments regarding whos in the right and whos in the wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don’t love it but I rarely come on here anymore because of it. You can’t say anything without someone getting offended. I used to come on here for a laugh and an escape.
Forsooth, I am offended on behalf of your offence beautiful lady
Your never offensive xxx
Thank you gorgeous xxx
I would certainly never deliberately set out to offend anyone
This is the point though to not deliberately offend anyone but not everyone thinks that way unfortunately "
Hold on im struggling to understand your position here. The OP made the joke without the intention to offend anyone but someone got offended by it anyway. However you were practically one of the first to jump in on this thread saying it shows a lack of empathy and compassion.
So what.. it doesnt matter if the OP didnt intend to offend anyone regardless cos hes still being offensive and lacks empathy for others?
I feel like both comments youve made contradict each other given the intended point of view from each one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone loves a joke until it upsets them, then it’s not a joke.
Hypocrites"
I wouldn't say they're hypocrites. Everyone has a different idea of what they find funny which is why there are so many types of humour and comedy genres. It's about how you react to a joke that upsets you in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Humour is subjective, as is offence. I don't think anyone posts anything with the intent to offend, but it will happen - sorry if it does, but when it does people have often either not articulated the joke well or misread the intent of it.
This is the Lounge and jokes will continue to be made and not everyone will like them. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
It wasn't a joke then.
Ask yourself why upsetting people is something you love."
I guess it’s like having a tiny bit of power over someone ? so a deep rooted insecurity imo. Banter is different but it can become like that, when it’s sustained and personal even with friends if you listen and watch carefully you can spot it |
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"That’s the thing with the written word, people can pick holes in it with its lack of tone or sincerity - it’s the ones who almost look for an argument or a drama I can’t be arsed with x"
I'm finding this more and more, Dancer. Hence spending less time on the fora. I just can't be arsed with folk being offended at what was obviously said in a jokey manner.
I'm glad some sensible folk are posting supportive messages for the OP, who hasn't got a bad bone in his body x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
It wasn't a joke then.
Ask yourself why upsetting people is something you love."
Tell that to every comedian whos tickets sold out, who have told jokes and humorous stories, which offended some ppl...
... do you not see the problem with what you just said? |
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"Everyone loves a joke until it upsets them, then it’s not a joke.
Hypocrites
Crikey, I'm actually agreeing with you! THAT offends me "
I really want a taste of your Christmas pudding! (hopefully no one will take mortal offence at my overtly lascivious and highly vulgar comment) |
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"Everyone loves a joke until it upsets them, then it’s not a joke.
Hypocrites
Crikey, I'm actually agreeing with you! THAT offends me
I really want a taste of your Christmas pudding! (hopefully no one will take mortal offence at my overtly lascivious and highly vulgar comment) "
I'm frankly offended that it took you so long to ask...
Help yourself, so long as I get to see Barbie & Ken up yer bum |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
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"when you post something as a joke and it upsets people
People tend to read what they want to read not necessarily what was written or what was meant.
Also text speak, lack of grammar, poor punctuation, lazy writing doesn't help the readers comprehension.
More like people actually look for something that could somehow make someone’s thread/comment offensive so they can jump on them. "
Ah, the WOKE amongst us are strong. Some cannot wait to pounce on a poor unsuspecting poster with their enlightened views of the world and tell them where they have gone wrong.... It is almost as if they get off on it |
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"Everyone loves a joke until it upsets them, then it’s not a joke.
Hypocrites
I wouldn't say they're hypocrites. Everyone has a different idea of what they find funny which is why there are so many types of humour and comedy genres. It's about how you react to a joke that upsets you in my opinion."
I thought it was compulsory to like the same things |
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