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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What assumptions do people on fab have about you but isn't true?
Mine is people think that I get a lot of replies and meets but I don't. Ones I've chatted with are surprised about that but am not haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea what assumptions people have about me, but they're are welcome to them, I'm sure if they wanted clarification they would message.... alas seems not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a very good question. I'd like to know what assumptions are made about me."
I assumed you had a expensive iron because that shirt is crease free just putting it out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is that men think I want to be treated in a demeaning manner because I put on my profile that ideally I would like a dominant man, it really is not the true essence of dominance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a very good question. I'd like to know what assumptions are made about me.
I assumed you had a expensive iron because that shirt is crease free just putting it out there "
It's a slightly stretchy cotton that responds well to steaming rather than being ironed. Crease free every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a very good question. I'd like to know what assumptions are made about me.
I assumed you had a expensive iron because that shirt is crease free just putting it out there
It's a slightly stretchy cotton that responds well to steaming rather than being ironed. Crease free every time. "
I should of assumed you was smarter then forking out for these pricey irons more fool me for assuming |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Don’t really know, I just know we haven’t had a bad meet ever, either D/s or B/d or just fun play in clubs.
The only reason we meet in clubs with nothing prearranged is that nothing is assumed and you can gauge congruence of others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been told that some people thought I was a meanie and a bit of a Regina George of the situation . Which is far from the truth and I’m glad I managed to win them people over x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea, but seems like the assumption (from the messages I get) is that I'm available any time for anyone..."
So are you free ten to 7 I travel so all is good il turn up  |
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By *nya888Woman
over a year ago
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"No idea, but seems like the assumption (from the messages I get) is that I'm available any time for anyone...
So are you free ten to 7 I travel so all is good il turn up "
Of course, you know where |
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I always make the assumption that when getting a message the person sending it hasn't bothered to read our profile as 99% of received messages clearly show that they haven't plus they all seem to think that it's the fem online when a lot of the time it's the male. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea, but seems like the assumption (from the messages I get) is that I'm available any time for anyone...
So are you free ten to 7 I travel so all is good il turn up
Of course, you know where "
Well I have to take my pet fish to the dentist so can't make it now but il assume you are free tomorrow at 7.15am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel you OP, ppl ive spoken to assume i get a lots of attention but on the contrary i feel like a ghost most of the time. The odd couple ppl who do take notice are the ones who are in for a treat so they get to enjoy me to the fullest |
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"What assumptions do people on fab have about you but isn't true?
Mine is people think that I get a lot of replies and meets but I don't. Ones I've chatted with are surprised about that but am not haha."
That I'm a Domme, based on some of the messages I get.
Some men are easily distracted and forget to read the text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How the hell do I know what people presume about me?
However, one person believes I would have sex with anyone… I can state that this is untrue… it’s ‘everyone’ I would have sex with everyone.  "
That you’re taller than you are x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not sure what assumptions couples or ladies have of me but some guys the usual types on for a year with no verifications think that I have some sort of secret to meeting folks
I don't I just put the effort in simple really |
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I don’t think I’m a regular enough forumite for people to consider me much these days tbh. I think many in the past assumed that I’m a ‘heavy player’ and quite a tough cookie. I’m actually the softest shite I know though.
I’m a lot less concerned with people’s assumptions about me now than I was years ago. I like me - I’m fine with it if others don’t.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only one I’m aware of : I’m really Jamie Theakston.
Oh and one lady I met said I was a lot taller than she assumed, despite my height (which is nothing particularly exceptional) being on my profile from day 1.
Other than that not a Scooby, let them think what they want to think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't actually care what people assume or think about me. But I guess most think I'm all talk.. I enjoy teasing you all. What can I say. It's just the lucky ones that get to experience it 
And also that I'm outgoing.. I'm really not. Give me a night with a cuppa and cosies in anyday! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only one I’m aware of : I’m really Jamie Theakston.
Oh and one lady I met said I was a lot taller than she assumed, despite my height (which is nothing particularly exceptional) being on my profile from day 1.
Other than that not a Scooby, let them think what they want to think! "
Mind you my height NOW does say 4’8” so it might be a surprise if you met me today  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People assume I’m a cuck and Mrs wants a bull. They couldn’t be more wrong 
Ah yes, those messages.  "
Although I like taking a step back and watching for a minute I am very much a dominant male. Mrs loves that about me and wouldn’t be interested in humiliating me. If someone we met even tried that we’d stop immediately and the night would be over |
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"People assume I’m a cuck and Mrs wants a bull. They couldn’t be more wrong
Ah yes, those messages.
Although I like taking a step back and watching for a minute I am very much a dominant male. Mrs loves that about me and wouldn’t be interested in humiliating me. If someone we met even tried that we’d stop immediately and the night would be over "
Same for us! |
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"The only one I’m aware of : I’m really Jamie Theakston.
Oh and one lady I met said I was a lot taller than she assumed, despite my height (which is nothing particularly exceptional) being on my profile from day 1.
Other than that not a Scooby, let them think what they want to think!
Mind you my height NOW does say 4’8” so it might be a surprise if you met me today "
Damn thought I’d finally found someone shorter just to see what it feels like being taller than someone ….. scrub that message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People assume I’m a cuck and Mrs wants a bull. They couldn’t be more wrong
Ah yes, those messages.
Although I like taking a step back and watching for a minute I am very much a dominant male. Mrs loves that about me and wouldn’t be interested in humiliating me. If someone we met even tried that we’d stop immediately and the night would be over
Same for us!"
It’s frustrating. We’ve got Stag/Vixen as our header on our profile. If someone doesn’t understand that then they probably shouldn’t be on here |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Many moons ago, at social in a club far far away, a couple told me I was much shorter than they thought I'd be (height is on the profile) and I was less headmistressy than they imagined I'd be.
I don't know what other assumptions exist about me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only one I’m aware of : I’m really Jamie Theakston.
Oh and one lady I met said I was a lot taller than she assumed, despite my height (which is nothing particularly exceptional) being on my profile from day 1.
Other than that not a Scooby, let them think what they want to think!
Mind you my height NOW does say 4’8” so it might be a surprise if you met me today
Damn thought I’d finally found someone shorter just to see what it feels like being taller than someone ….. scrub that message "
 you could always just send a message *anyway* .. I’m lonely x |
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"Many moons ago, at social in a club far far away, a couple told me I was much shorter than they thought I'd be (height is on the profile) and I was less headmistressy than they imagined I'd be.
I don't know what other assumptions exist about me."
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Well, I've left you my email, Justin Case. (sic)  |
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"People assume I’m a cuck and Mrs wants a bull. They couldn’t be more wrong
Ah yes, those messages.
Although I like taking a step back and watching for a minute I am very much a dominant male. Mrs loves that about me and wouldn’t be interested in humiliating me. If someone we met even tried that we’d stop immediately and the night would be over
Same for us!
It’s frustrating. We’ve got Stag/Vixen as our header on our profile. If someone doesn’t understand that then they probably shouldn’t be on here "
We've not kept our profile especially updated recently but I don't think anything about it screams cuckold?! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Many moons ago, at social in a club far far away, a couple told me I was much shorter than they thought I'd be (height is on the profile) and I was less headmistressy than they imagined I'd be.
I don't know what other assumptions exist about me.
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Well, I've left you my email, Justin Case. (sic) "
Bloody ghosting time waster.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many moons ago, at social in a club far far away, a couple told me I was much shorter than they thought I'd be (height is on the profile) and I was less headmistressy than they imagined I'd be.
I don't know what other assumptions exist about me.
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Jaydees? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People assume I’m a cuck and Mrs wants a bull. They couldn’t be more wrong
Ah yes, those messages.
Although I like taking a step back and watching for a minute I am very much a dominant male. Mrs loves that about me and wouldn’t be interested in humiliating me. If someone we met even tried that we’d stop immediately and the night would be over
Same for us!
It’s frustrating. We’ve got Stag/Vixen as our header on our profile. If someone doesn’t understand that then they probably shouldn’t be on here
We've not kept our profile especially updated recently but I don't think anything about it screams cuckold?! "
Obviously dynamics change from couple to couple and labels aren’t always helpful but we use stag and vixen to give a basic description and people still don’t get it. We’re here for fun not to educate people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The same as you OP. Loads of women complain that they receive hundreds of messages a week so people assume I'm the same.
Couldn't be further from the truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How the hell do I know what people presume about me?
However, one person believes I would have sex with anyone… I can state that this is untrue… it’s ‘everyone’ I would have sex with everyone.
That you’re taller than you are x "
Haha. This is true, how tall do people think 5’8 is, it’s 5feet 8 inches, it’s on my page.  |
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"Many moons ago, at social in a club far far away, a couple told me I was much shorter than they thought I'd be (height is on the profile) and I was less headmistressy than they imagined I'd be.
I don't know what other assumptions exist about me.
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Maybe Headmistress of St Trinians?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just assume that people are intimidated by my sheer wit, physique and all round heavenly attributes, and stay in their lanes when considering approaching or reply to me...
Or that I'm just another single guy. |
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That I have a strong Brummie accent.
I don't work in Birmingham and they ask me how come I don't have the accent.
I'm sure you'll here some words that contain the accent but I'm not like alllllryght maaaate, how yam ya Bab. |
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"What assumptions do people on fab have about you but isn't true?
Mine is people think that I get a lot of replies and meets but I don't. Ones I've chatted with are surprised about that but am not haha."
were males we never get replies or get a second look lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone messaged me and said that I must have a "harem of women on here", which i guess is a complimentary assumption.
The reality is I don't & usually I only get the odd message, occasionally.
I can't message a lot of the folks I'd like to on here myself as I've found the cut off age on many profiles is 45 (Im 46).
..Assumptions in the real world are people think I'm in my 20s or half the age i am. If I'm out with my mum, people mistake me for her grandson, which i guess is complimentary again, but sucks for her.. |
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"Someone messaged me and said that I must have a "harem of women on here", which i guess is a complimentary assumption.
The reality is I don't & usually I only get the odd message, occasionally.
I can't message a lot of the folks I'd like to on here myself as I've found the cut off age on many profiles is 45 (Im 46).
..Assumptions in the real world are people think I'm in my 20s or half the age i am. If I'm out with my mum, people mistake me for her grandson, which i guess is complimentary again, but sucks for her.."
My son has been admonished in restaurants for "letting his girlfriend" pay the bill. Errrrrr I'm his mother |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone messaged me and said that I must have a "harem of women on here", which i guess is a complimentary assumption.
The reality is I don't & usually I only get the odd message, occasionally.
I can't message a lot of the folks I'd like to on here myself as I've found the cut off age on many profiles is 45 (Im 46).
..Assumptions in the real world are people think I'm in my 20s or half the age i am. If I'm out with my mum, people mistake me for her grandson, which i guess is complimentary again, but sucks for her..
My son has been admonished in restaurants for "letting his girlfriend" pay the bill. Errrrrr I'm his mother "
I guess that's sort of like a compliment in a way..if they think you're the same age range as your son |
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