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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you better off playing with people local or people from some distance away to ensure you don't bump into them when your out?? "
Closest (hang on, only) person we've met for sex was only 20 miles away. Close enough for regular if we want that but far enough I won't run into him whilst doing the food shop. Doubt I'd meet anyone in the same town. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t care. If I have a connection with someone distance is overcome-able.
I would happily travel or meet half way for the right person with the right chemistry. |
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"Are you better off playing with people local or people from some distance away to ensure you don't bump into them when your out??
Closest (hang on, only) person we've met for sex was only 20 miles away. Close enough for regular if we want that but far enough I won't run into him whilst doing the food shop. Doubt I'd meet anyone in the same town. "
Tbh this is what we are thinking xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on how discreet (if at all) it has to be. Then it's down to the individuals to decide how well they can actually handle it. If neither can or have any doubts then the simple answer is don't proceed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My local area feels too nosey, there’s no secrets round and everyone knows everyone’s business. I’d rather keep it a bit further away personally.
So how far do you normally travel?"
I’ve travel far & wide for work. Usually 20 miles plus? |
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"My local area feels too nosey, there’s no secrets round and everyone knows everyone’s business. I’d rather keep it a bit further away personally.
So how far do you normally travel?
I’ve travel far & wide for work. Usually 20 miles plus? "
Guess we need to look at but further then x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways
I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from "
You really don't understand this from a swingers perspective. A couple living in a small village do you? Sometimes it is just easier to be discreet... and if that means meeting away from home so be it. It's not about having a problem with whoever you're meeting. That has fuck all to do with it. |
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"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways
I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from
You really don't understand this from a swingers perspective. A couple living in a small village do you? Sometimes it is just easier to be discreet... and if that means meeting away from home so be it. It's not about having a problem with whoever you're meeting. That has fuck all to do with it. "
Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways
I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from
You really don't understand this from a swingers perspective. A couple living in a small village do you? Sometimes it is just easier to be discreet... and if that means meeting away from home so be it. It's not about having a problem with whoever you're meeting. That has fuck all to do with it.
Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer "
I'm not taking it personally at all. I just think you are seeing it from a very blinkered perspective from your comment. That's all. |
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"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways
I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from
You really don't understand this from a swingers perspective. A couple living in a small village do you? Sometimes it is just easier to be discreet... and if that means meeting away from home so be it. It's not about having a problem with whoever you're meeting. That has fuck all to do with it.
Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer
I'm not taking it personally at all. I just think you are seeing it from a very blinkered perspective from your comment. That's all. "
I’m seeing it from my perspective. No one else’s. Because it’s an open question to post your own views, feelings or perspective
So chill out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer further away. can I ask is there a reason why? X"
I get bored easy so wouldn't want to be seeing anyone that often! Plus if I met someone I really liked and they lived close, it would be too easy to see them regular and it get a bit relationship like. Which I don't want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways
I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from
You really don't understand this from a swingers perspective. A couple living in a small village do you? Sometimes it is just easier to be discreet... and if that means meeting away from home so be it. It's not about having a problem with whoever you're meeting. That has fuck all to do with it.
Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer
I'm not taking it personally at all. I just think you are seeing it from a very blinkered perspective from your comment. That's all.
I’m seeing it from my perspective. No one else’s. Because it’s an open question to post your own views, feelings or perspective
So chill out "
I'm perfectly chilled. Thanks for caring. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a bit of adventure to travelling to someone unless you want to donit regulary then it becomes a pain. Best plan is dont make it regular then you dont get bored of the road. Or pick someone local  |
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"There's a bit of adventure to travelling to someone unless you want to donit regulary then it becomes a pain. Best plan is dont make it regular then you dont get bored of the road. Or pick someone local "
Yes I think they need to be fairly local if going to be regular |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a bit of adventure to travelling to someone unless you want to donit regulary then it becomes a pain. Best plan is dont make it regular then you dont get bored of the road. Or pick someone local
Yes I think they need to be fairly local if going to be regular"
I’d like weekly ideally. I can’t do that unless they’re local. |
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"There's a bit of adventure to travelling to someone unless you want to donit regulary then it becomes a pain. Best plan is dont make it regular then you dont get bored of the road. Or pick someone local
Yes I think they need to be fairly local if going to be regular
I’d like weekly ideally. I can’t do that unless they’re local. "
Exactly, I use to travel quite far to see someone every week but now I try to keep regular closer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance? "
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance?
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one "
Absolutely I wouldn’t |
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance?
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one
Absolutely I wouldn’t "
Perks of being single ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance?
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one
Absolutely I wouldn’t
Perks of being single ladies "
*or married hotwives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance?
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one
Absolutely I wouldn’t
Perks of being single ladies
*or married hotwives "
Or those who are ENM/Poly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance?
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one
Absolutely I wouldn’t
Perks of being single ladies
*or married hotwives
Or those who are ENM/Poly "
We seem to have covered most bases there! |
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance?
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one
Absolutely I wouldn’t
Perks of being single ladies
*or married hotwives "
That also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Within 7.5 inches or they would just get the tip and no more
Don't care about distance really though aslong as we can have a bit of a laugh and enjoy ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not the distance...
Its the connection
But if you never see each other because of the distance?
That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one
Absolutely I wouldn’t
Perks of being single ladies
*or married hotwives
Or those who are ENM/Poly
We seem to have covered most bases there! "
Why isn’t there a celebration emoji?! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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If there is a connection, distance is just something to get over.
This year I've regularly travelled over a 700 mile round trip every couple weeks, and have been lucky enough to have someone do 500 miles each way for me.
When you live in the arse end of nowhere, and rate friendship with the person you're meeting as just as important (if not more so) than the sex, quite like driving and have the time, you're ok with 200 miles being the closest person....
Although if Piscean Dream would just get that damn boat I'd be happier  |
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"If there is a connection, distance is just something to get over.
This year I've regularly travelled over a 700 mile round trip every couple weeks, and have been lucky enough to have someone do 500 miles each way for me.
When you live in the arse end of nowhere, and rate friendship with the person you're meeting as just as important (if not more so) than the sex, quite like driving and have the time, you're ok with 200 miles being the closest person....
Although if Piscean Dream would just get that damn boat I'd be happier "
I'll definitely pay you a visit when I can |
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Localish is my preference, I quite like to keep the friends I make and I find that if it’s over a hour drive it quickly dwindle …,
This said , the person/connection overrides my geographical preferences |
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