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God it’s so bloody cringe worthy.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. |
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. "
Free Ben & Jerrys?? Ok you’ve tempted me!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would’ve bought my own breakfast. It’s only £4.50 for a big boy, 2 sausage, 2 egg, 2 bacon, fried potatoes, fried bread, toast, beans, mushrooms and a cuppa tea. |
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over a year ago
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"I would’ve bought my own breakfast. It’s only £4.50 for a big boy, 2 sausage, 2 egg, 2 bacon, fried potatoes, fried bread, toast, beans, mushrooms and a cuppa tea. "
Where is this? You probably get a croissant in my neighbourhood for that price  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At £4.50 for that breakfast it should be busy. You're probably doing the best promotion for this cafe. "
He’s the best guy in this cafe as well the eggs are always perfect and white whites and he does my yolks not too hard but not too runny. Also the mushrooms are cooked fresh there and then. Not pre cooked and kept warm so they’re like slugs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head? "
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you? |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"At £4.50 for that breakfast it should be busy. You're probably doing the best promotion for this cafe.
He’s the best guy in this cafe as well the eggs are always perfect and white whites and he does my yolks not too hard but not too runny. Also the mushrooms are cooked fresh there and then. Not pre cooked and kept warm so they’re like slugs. "
We have decent breakfasts here but we're looking at £6.50 upwards for similar. And don't get me started on hipster places. Eggs benedict for anywhere between £8-12. No tea included! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would’ve bought my own breakfast. It’s only £4.50 for a big boy, 2 sausage, 2 egg, 2 bacon, fried potatoes, fried bread, toast, beans, mushrooms and a cuppa tea. "
So breakfast on you, I’ll check my schedule for the rest of the week |
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"I would’ve bought my own breakfast. It’s only £4.50 for a big boy, 2 sausage, 2 egg, 2 bacon, fried potatoes, fried bread, toast, beans, mushrooms and a cuppa tea. "
That’s bloody good value that. I fancy a breakfast now. Bet they have stopped serving though now |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you? "
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am"
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book*  |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
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"At £4.50 for that breakfast it should be busy. You're probably doing the best promotion for this cafe.
He’s the best guy in this cafe as well the eggs are always perfect and white whites and he does my yolks not too hard but not too runny. Also the mushrooms are cooked fresh there and then. Not pre cooked and kept warm so they’re like slugs.
We have decent breakfasts here but we're looking at £6.50 upwards for similar. And don't get me started on hipster places. Eggs benedict for anywhere between £8-12. No tea included! "
Same here on prices, half of that breakfast is £6.50 and wouldn't get fried bread or potatoes either. Slice of sourdough toast, £1.20! They must be getting a £30 profit on every loaf.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free? "
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book* "
Hey now c’mon. We got Ron Evans. Best pies and pasties around. They open at 6:30am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book* "
Be warned we don’t off much else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book*
Hey now c’mon. We got Ron Evans. Best pies and pasties around. They open at 6:30am. "
All we have is our credability of amazing pies, don’t try and steal that |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there. "
Yikes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book*
Hey now c’mon. We got Ron Evans. Best pies and pasties around. They open at 6:30am.
All we have is our credability of amazing pies, don’t try and steal that "
Yeah we got amazing pies, loads of beaches, about 75 castles plus I live here so |
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book*
Hey now c’mon. We got Ron Evans. Best pies and pasties around. They open at 6:30am.
All we have is our credability of amazing pies, don’t try and steal that
Yeah we got amazing pies, loads of beaches, about 75 castles plus I live here so "
you can’t count 8 stones in a row as a castle because it was one before the English got at it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Yikes "
Yeah when you’re a parent that works full time and runs a home, your mind never really switches off. You’re always thinking of what needs to be done, how it’s gonna get done, how it’s gonna get paid. So if I wanna come on here and just chew the fat, nothing serious and fuck around, I will. There doesn’t have to be a deeper meaning to anything. YOU need to stop thinking of me. It actually makes my feet feel tired the amount of running around I do in your head. |
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. "
Your profile states your not looking to meet or chat to any new people. So my advice would be to block everyone from mailing you.
Problem sorted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book*
Hey now c’mon. We got Ron Evans. Best pies and pasties around. They open at 6:30am.
All we have is our credability of amazing pies, don’t try and steal that
Yeah we got amazing pies, loads of beaches, about 75 castles plus I live here so "
Wigan has its own mint balls, shove your castles up your arse haha |
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"It’s gone 12 bugger it. I’m gonna have pie and chips from chippy.
There’s no time restrictions for a pie in Wigan the pie shops open from 7.30am
*makes a note in her “places to move to” book*
Hey now c’mon. We got Ron Evans. Best pies and pasties around. They open at 6:30am.
All we have is our credability of amazing pies, don’t try and steal that "
There's little else to love in Wigan! Fecking one way system  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recon you should have a word with the cafe owner. Drop a status like that every few weeks and get 50% of the above average profits for the day. Just have to arrange to meet them all there then watch as 65 horny blokes try to nab a table.
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Yikes
Yeah when you’re a parent that works full time and runs a home, your mind never really switches off. You’re always thinking of what needs to be done, how it’s gonna get done, how it’s gonna get paid. So if I wanna come on here and just chew the fat, nothing serious and fuck around, I will. There doesn’t have to be a deeper meaning to anything. YOU need to stop thinking of me. It actually makes my feet feel tired the amount of running around I do in your head. "
Am I rent free up there too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alright I might just visit Wigan then and not relocate. I was forgetting myself for a minute there! "
Head to Galloways. Pie peas and gravy for £2.50, large sausage roll a Chaux bun and a can of dandelion and burdock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recon you should have a word with the cafe owner. Drop a status like that every few weeks and get 50% of the above average profits for the day. Just have to arrange to meet them all there then watch as 65 horny blokes try to nab a table.
Mr"
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Alright I might just visit Wigan then and not relocate. I was forgetting myself for a minute there!
Head to Galloways. Pie peas and gravy for £2.50, large sausage roll a Chaux bun and a can of dandelion and burdock. "
What?! £2.50? You sure? It is £3.50 for a pie here. Just the pie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good point this OP. Can defo understand how it comes across - i guess from a guys POV they are maybe teying to stand out and not realise how desperate it comes across?!
A lot probably think just responding and saying yeah, ok up for it isn’t enough to get the attention of an attractive lady!
You do raise an excellent point though - just chill out guys! |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Maybe best to see who is around locally and send them a message to see if they want to join you for breakfast instead of throwing it out there, makes it easier on yourself then  |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I'm totally stealing this!
Might as well, it’s not like it wasn’t stolen anyway"
Didn’t know we could steal well known phrases
Next time someone says good morning to me I’m gonna really give it to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I'm totally stealing this!
Might as well, it’s not like it wasn’t stolen anyway
Didn’t know we could steal well known phrases
Next time someone says good morning to me I’m gonna really give it to them "
Its not very often you make me laugh , but... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe.
Your profile states your not looking to meet or chat to any new people. So my advice would be to block everyone from mailing you.
Problem sorted "
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"When you post a question, people will respond.. not sure what else you expected.. "
My thoughts exactly, just ask someone privately.
Complains about the attention but yet does something that will guarantee it |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. "
Heres a suggestion.
You could search for a person you think would fancy a breakfast and ping a message, see if they were available and wanted a brekkie,
Save any headaches of the resultant incoming messages from desperate folk.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was born in wigan.
When people ask me where was i born, they're so disappointed when i tell them that fact.
(They look at me like I've just urinated on their shoes..) |
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"I was born in wigan.
When people ask me where was i born, they're so disappointed when i tell them that fact.
(They look at me like I've just urinated on their shoes..)"
Could be worse, could be Slough. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe.
Heres a suggestion.
You could search for a person you think would fancy a breakfast and ping a message, see if they were available and wanted a brekkie,
Save any headaches of the resultant incoming messages from desperate folk. "
But then we wouldn't have this thread. |
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"When you post a question, people will respond.. not sure what else you expected..
My thoughts exactly, just ask someone privately.
Complains about the attention but yet does something that will guarantee it "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there. "
Did you sort out getting a kitten? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been here sooo long as well like 11 years I’ve gone dick blind. I forget sometimes that it’s a sexual site and I use it like my socials that has more of a community feel with regards to the forums.
Knowing there’s 1000’s of people across many many different trades, in the summer round here people were struggling to get their lawns cut, were having to book so far in advance and I wasn’t prepared to get a strimmer on my front lawns, the amount of neighbours cat shits in there. I did a status anyone local able to cut grass, cash waiting and the amount of men yeah I’ll do it blow job, sex, like are you seriously thinking I’d fuck for a grass cut. Lasted about 4 minutes the status. But then I had to have a word with myself and remind myself where I am and this place isn’t a social happy vanilla place. It has seedy undertones. It’s not meant for finding friends or trades people. It’s for swinging and hookups. |
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. "
on your profile you don't meet people from fab you don't talk to new people you knew what you were doing you knew you would get a huge response then you slag the guys off massive attention seeking move |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?"
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
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"I’ve been here sooo long as well like 11 years I’ve gone dick blind. I forget sometimes that it’s a sexual site and I use it like my socials that has more of a community feel with regards to the forums.
Knowing there’s 1000’s of people across many many different trades, in the summer round here people were struggling to get their lawns cut, were having to book so far in advance and I wasn’t prepared to get a strimmer on my front lawns, the amount of neighbours cat shits in there. I did a status anyone local able to cut grass, cash waiting and the amount of men yeah I’ll do it blow job, sex, like are you seriously thinking I’d fuck for a grass cut. Lasted about 4 minutes the status. But then I had to have a word with myself and remind myself where I am and this place isn’t a social happy vanilla place. It has seedy undertones. It’s not meant for finding friends or trades people. It’s for swinging and hookups. "
Im sure Im not the only one but Ive made some very good friends on here. Male and female who Ive never had sex with and never will.
Go for drinks or food, talk about life in general. Its not all about sex for some on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could you run an experiment for us Annie?
Put up a status saying someone's dog has just pooed in your garden and ask if any male would come and pick it up for you.
Almost guarantee you would get flooded with responses from volunteers on that too |
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"I’ve been here sooo long as well like 11 years I’ve gone dick blind. I forget sometimes that it’s a sexual site and I use it like my socials that has more of a community feel with regards to the forums.
Knowing there’s 1000’s of people across many many different trades, in the summer round here people were struggling to get their lawns cut, were having to book so far in advance and I wasn’t prepared to get a strimmer on my front lawns, the amount of neighbours cat shits in there. I did a status anyone local able to cut grass, cash waiting and the amount of men yeah I’ll do it blow job, sex, like are you seriously thinking I’d fuck for a grass cut. Lasted about 4 minutes the status. But then I had to have a word with myself and remind myself where I am and this place isn’t a social happy vanilla place. It has seedy undertones. It’s not meant for finding friends or trades people. It’s for swinging and hookups. "
I would disagree with this have found all manor of helpful people here from plumbers to docs x |
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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. "
Hmmm weird that…did you put that same message on (another) social media site? It’s just a bit odd that you’d be surprised at the result on here…a swingers site with an over abundance of single men all clamouring for sexual gratification, even after describing your disdain guys in the comments are all salivating to get positive attention…was there no one else you could’ve asked? |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
"
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention. |
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over a year ago
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Haha I know what you mean. Careful putting the location! I once put my location for a drink (not the exact bar, but the street) and someone I don’t know turned up and messaged “I’m here”. They looked like a weirdo too. Luckily I wasn’t dressed so they didn’t recognise me |
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We made arrangements for a meet went to the restaurant 8 miles away confirmed with them from Stockport lot, who called them self terry and June confirmed meet and never turned up B…… said they was just getting out of car moments later deleted all B…….. hope they get come upance ! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I'm totally stealing this!
Might as well, it’s not like it wasn’t stolen anyway
Didn’t know we could steal well known phrases
Next time someone says good morning to me I’m gonna really give it to them "
Good Morning. |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I'm totally stealing this!
Might as well, it’s not like it wasn’t stolen anyway
Didn’t know we could steal well known phrases
Next time someone says good morning to me I’m gonna really give it to them
Good Morning. "
Insatiable. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I'm totally stealing this!
Might as well, it’s not like it wasn’t stolen anyway
Didn’t know we could steal well known phrases
Next time someone says good morning to me I’m gonna really give it to them
Good Morning.
Insatiable."
Sexy x |
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe.
Hmmm weird that…did you put that same message on (another) social media site? It’s just a bit odd that you’d be surprised at the result on here…a swingers site with an over abundance of single men all clamouring for sexual gratification, even after describing your disdain guys in the comments are all salivating to get positive attention…was there no one else you could’ve asked?"
exactly well said |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I put up similar status coffee requests occasionally. I only open my filters for about 20 mins and then I pick from those messages. Most are just time wasters and not free for the stipulated coffee time I specified, but desperate to get a message in through my filters. As you say, Some will message repeatedly which makes them easy to dismiss |
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"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?"
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland "
Wait on way xx |
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"I put up similar status coffee requests occasionally. I only open my filters for about 20 mins and then I pick from those messages. Most are just time wasters and not free for the stipulated coffee time I specified, but desperate to get a message in through my filters. As you say, Some will message repeatedly which makes them easy to dismiss "
Free for coffee! I like coffee
Tbf though from speaking to some of the ladies the volume of messages you get is ridiculous. |
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"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland
Wait on way xx"
Wooooooo!!! I’ll save you a cider gorgeous xxx |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland
Wait on way xx
Wooooooo!!! I’ll save you a cider gorgeous xxx "
I don't drink
But are your balls full x
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"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland "
How many times do I need to say it? Yes it's a willy but it's no wonderland!  |
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"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland
Wait on way xx
Wooooooo!!! I’ll save you a cider gorgeous xxx
I don't drink
But are your balls full x
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They’re brimming over here…. |
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"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland
How many times do I need to say it? Yes it's a willy but it's no wonderland! "
Willy’s Woeful land? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland
Wait on way xx
Wooooooo!!! I’ll save you a cider gorgeous xxx
I don't drink
But are your balls full x
They’re brimming over here…. "
Well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there. "
There’s a Christmas ribbon forum? I need this in my life |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
There’s a Christmas ribbon forum? I need this in my life "
I was thinking the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
There’s a Christmas ribbon forum? I need this in my life "
Ahh honestly I am shitting myself with excitement. I can’t wait to put my tree up! It’s going up this weekend. I’ll have to put pics up! |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention."
Bit of a crap Xmas pressie for her daughter. An empty box with the promise of a cat after Xmas ? Where’s the fun in that ?! I’d just go pick it up late on Xmas eve after the kids asleep. We are also currently mulling over whether to add a pair of cats to our home. Rag dolls do look cute |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention.
Bit of a crap Xmas pressie for her daughter. An empty box with the promise of a cat after Xmas ? Where’s the fun in that ?! I’d just go pick it up late on Xmas eve after the kids asleep. We are also currently mulling over whether to add a pair of cats to our home. Rag dolls do look cute "
Also there’s the fact that my Xmas leave officially starts at 4:30am on the 22nd December when I finish my last shift till 5th of January. Figured it’s more important to get it when I’m off work and can be home every day. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention.
Bit of a crap Xmas pressie for her daughter. An empty box with the promise of a cat after Xmas ? Where’s the fun in that ?! I’d just go pick it up late on Xmas eve after the kids asleep. We are also currently mulling over whether to add a pair of cats to our home. Rag dolls do look cute "
Here's the thing. Pets aren't just for Christmas. This is a living creature with it's own independent emotions and wellbeing. But yeah, need to make Xmas fun and stuff. |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention.
Bit of a crap Xmas pressie for her daughter. An empty box with the promise of a cat after Xmas ? Where’s the fun in that ?! I’d just go pick it up late on Xmas eve after the kids asleep. We are also currently mulling over whether to add a pair of cats to our home. Rag dolls do look cute "
Tell her the cat once belonged to Schrodinger |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention.
Bit of a crap Xmas pressie for her daughter. An empty box with the promise of a cat after Xmas ? Where’s the fun in that ?! I’d just go pick it up late on Xmas eve after the kids asleep. We are also currently mulling over whether to add a pair of cats to our home. Rag dolls do look cute
Here's the thing. Pets aren't just for Christmas. This is a living creature with it's own independent emotions and wellbeing. But yeah, need to make Xmas fun and stuff. "
People love rolling out that “aren’t just for Xmas” line don’t they. The point of that message is don’t buy a cat and then decide u don’t want to keep it long term. Which isn’t the case at all so it’s totally irrelevant. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention.
Bit of a crap Xmas pressie for her daughter. An empty box with the promise of a cat after Xmas ? Where’s the fun in that ?! I’d just go pick it up late on Xmas eve after the kids asleep. We are also currently mulling over whether to add a pair of cats to our home. Rag dolls do look cute
Here's the thing. Pets aren't just for Christmas. This is a living creature with it's own independent emotions and wellbeing. But yeah, need to make Xmas fun and stuff.
People love rolling out that “aren’t just for Xmas” line don’t they. The point of that message is don’t buy a cat and then decide u don’t want to keep it long term. Which isn’t the case at all so it’s totally irrelevant. "
Whether you keep it or not, choosing to buy a kitten to appease someone on Christmas day at the expense of a kitten's wellbeing however is still prioritising the experience of Christmas. Personally I find this stuff selfish even though neighbours, exes and family choose to do it. |
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"Why do you let all these people live rent free in your head?
I don’t. I offload it all here. It’s like journaling but interactive so I can read how the things I think and feel aren’t isolated to myself and are actual normal reactions felt by other people. Is that okay with you?
It’s fine, I just call it as I see it. Who else is up there rent free?
Umm my window cleaner, the guy that’s coming to put my outside lights up, the people on the Christmas ribbon forum that do tree tutorials, the meat man, kitten breeders. There’s fucking loads of people in there.
Did you sort out getting a kitten?
It’s a rag doll cross I’m going for, half the price and hoping will be more hardy and less susceptible to the health issues that pure breeds have. There’s 2 different litters that will be ready to leave by 19th of December, flea’d wormed and chipped
The breeders have said they can hold on to the kitten and keep it with its mum till Xmas eve. It’s just trying to sort the logistics for keeping it secret from my daughter for Xmas day. My sister said she would keep it and bring it Xmas day morning before my daughter gets up but will that be confusing for the kitten if it gets taken from his mum then goes to my sister then comes here. It will be confused as hell. I need to do more reading on it and thinking.
My 2p leave the kitten with its mother until after Christmas, its a crazy time for us with disruptions visitors going out, never mind a pet moving home leaving its mother, it needs a settled environment and lots of attention.
Bit of a crap Xmas pressie for her daughter. An empty box with the promise of a cat after Xmas ? Where’s the fun in that ?! I’d just go pick it up late on Xmas eve after the kids asleep. We are also currently mulling over whether to add a pair of cats to our home. Rag dolls do look cute
Here's the thing. Pets aren't just for Christmas. This is a living creature with it's own independent emotions and wellbeing. But yeah, need to make Xmas fun and stuff.
People love rolling out that “aren’t just for Xmas” line don’t they. The point of that message is don’t buy a cat and then decide u don’t want to keep it long term. Which isn’t the case at all so it’s totally irrelevant.
Whether you keep it or not, choosing to buy a kitten to appease someone on Christmas day at the expense of a kitten's wellbeing however is still prioritising the experience of Christmas. Personally I find this stuff selfish even though neighbours, exes and family choose to do it. "
Why is giving your child a cat on Xmas day any different to any other day of the year ? And how is it at the expense of its well being ? Utter tosh |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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Would a parent be inclined to rush to provide a kitten for Christmas were it not Christmas? I'd think you'd be more inclined to let the kitten acclimatise etc and provide a less stressful transition. But if junior wants a kitten on Xmas day, who am I to argue. |
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Re: the Christmas Day kitten. Can you acknowledge the part where I said my Xmas leave starts on the 22nd of December. It’s the only time of the year where I have 14 consecutive days off. Any other time of the year I wouldn’t be able to stay home with a new kitten for a solid two weeks. It’s the best time to get it settled. |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
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"Re: the Christmas Day kitten. Can you acknowledge the part where I said my Xmas leave starts on the 22nd of December. It’s the only time of the year where I have 14 consecutive days off. Any other time of the year I wouldn’t be able to stay home with a new kitten for a solid two weeks. It’s the best time to get it settled. "
Xmas day pussy...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would a parent be inclined to rush to provide a kitten for Christmas were it not Christmas? I'd think you'd be more inclined to let the kitten acclimatise etc and provide a less stressful transition. But if junior wants a kitten on Xmas day, who am I to argue. "
Amazing how people twist something to suit an agenda. None of what u have said was stated by the OP discussing buying a cat. In fact if u read what she’s posted more than once it sounds to me the perfect time to bed a new pet into a new home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get so confused on here sometimes. Like I question if I’ve crossed that far over that I don’t even realise if I’m being horrible or if it’s other people that have an issue. The jibes I get and the barbed little diggy comments, I dunno if I deserve them or not. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"I get so confused on here sometimes. Like I question if I’ve crossed that far over that I don’t even realise if I’m being horrible or if it’s other people that have an issue. The jibes I get and the barbed little diggy comments, I dunno if I deserve them or not. "
My Christmas kitten argument is not a direct argument pointed at you or your situation rather it was a reaction to subsequent posts. Comment on status, tongue in cheek intention. Although I do have a headache now. Self inflicted? Karma? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get so confused on here sometimes. Like I question if I’ve crossed that far over that I don’t even realise if I’m being horrible or if it’s other people that have an issue. The jibes I get and the barbed little diggy comments, I dunno if I deserve them or not. "
Just ignore them and carry on doing your thing hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With regards to the kitten, it’s the dream present! Your daughter will love it. But I don’t think any breeder worth their salt will give away a litter at Christmas time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. "
Do They know the breakfast there is pants anyway !
Your alright but I wouldn’t travel for a bacon butty from that place !
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland "
You had me at cheap cider ;-p |
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"When you post a question, people will respond.. not sure what else you expected..
My thoughts exactly, just ask someone privately.
Complains about the attention but yet does something that will guarantee it "
This |
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"I’m going to put up a similar message; I’m presently behind the bins of my local Asda….
Doing what?
I’m drinking cheap cider with my pants down…..and shouting at random passers by to watch Willy’s Wonderland
You had me at cheap cider ;-p"
I’m presently on my fifteenth can of White Star here (only the best stuff for me) and my legs are starting to go a bit funny - come on down and join me |
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"When you post a question, people will respond.. not sure what else you expected..
My thoughts exactly, just ask someone privately.
Complains about the attention but yet does something that will guarantee it
This "
I’m afraid I agree too  |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe. "
Some people never learn, myself unfortunately would not accept an offer like this |
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe.
Some people never learn, myself unfortunately would not accept an offer like this "
If someone is willing to pay for my grub I’d most definitely accept!!
even get cheese cake to take the piss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cringy post... look at me."
If I wanted to do a look at me thread I would actually say look at me, look at my profile, look at my pics, send me all the messages. I want nothing from no one, just thoughts and opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can’t say nothing on a status update. Just thought about having a breakfast cafe companion. Put on my status anyone fancy coming for a breakfast in the ferry (cafe close to my area) and they’re like swarms, double, triple messages even quadruple messages from some yes, where are you, I’ll be there. Like fucking chill out. If someone had been like hmm yeah ok I’m up for that, just casual like I would’ve been like hmm yeah ok I’ll meet you there. Its the sheer desperation (I don’t like using negative descriptive words for people) but it is just that. It comes across in a desperate way like nooo you’ve put me off the whole idea now. Fucking hell it was like a shop giving out free tubs of Ben&Jerries. Pissed me off cos I really would’ve gone for a breakfast with someone.
Stupid spur of the moment idea, not properly thought through was just thinking of the breakfast and now it’s turned my stomach with the overload of cringe.
Do They know the breakfast there is pants anyway !
Your alright but I wouldn’t travel for a bacon butty from that place !
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Why you dressed like the stig? Actually did they have top gear in your country? |
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"Cringy post... look at me.
If I wanted to do a look at me thread I would actually say look at me, look at my profile, look at my pics, send me all the messages. I want nothing from no one, just thoughts and opinions. "
yeah OK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like seagulls round chips.
To be honest pretty much any status update or photo brings in a few desperate messages. It comes with the territory of being here at times.
I get put off people over so little! |
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