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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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for this shit haha
have fun everyone dont take shit too seriously try and have joy in your lifes rather than misery you only get one go at it 
ive tried to fit in and have bants but the last few days shows this aint for me right now like a square trying to fit in a circle haha look after yourselfs keep smiling and take care of each other
love and out x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What happened ?
He was a bit of a rough diamond but heart seemed in the right place.
(From what I recall anyhows. I don't tend to pay attention to who says what) |
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I for one will miss his posts in here. He definitely brought some humour to the forums and he wouldn't just follow the crowd just to fit in, like so many others do. He was individual and spoke his mind, although be it sarcastic, but that's refreshing to see. His words were often taken out of context by some forum users and they totally bypassed his sense of humour. Such a shame.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here 
Agreed, it’s a tough place to fit in, trouble is the private chat groups can take you down as quick as a flash "
What's the private chat groups? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And another one leaves due to the cliquey crap! When will people stop and realise it only does harm by not having a diverse mix of people and posts/replies??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And another one leaves due to the cliquey crap! When will people stop and realise it only does harm by not having a diverse mix of people and posts/replies??? "
Nearly did same today..I'll sleep on it though |
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"And another one leaves due to the cliquey crap! When will people stop and realise it only does harm by not having a diverse mix of people and posts/replies??? "
Was it the cliquey crap or was it his 'I am me, I say what I want, I don't give a fuck' type attitude.
I didn't mind it, I knew what he was doing but he certainly didn't try to 'fit in' and he obviously did care what people thought of him.
Life certainly is too short and I hope when he comes back he is more true to himself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly think the best way to enjoy Forum is to take nothing seriously. It's all just strangers on the internet except those people you know offline. Compliments and criticism are both best taken with a big packet of salt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry hes gone but People did engage with his threads, he was just controversial and didn't like it when he got called out. I think some people are using this thread as an excuse to claim he was somehow the victim of a clique when I'm sorry but that was not the case. I like some of his friends and not others but I suspect he has deliberately started this thread to cause controversy because thats what he enjoyed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly think the best way to enjoy Forum is to take nothing seriously. It's all just strangers on the internet except those people you know offline. Compliments and criticism are both best taken with a big packet of salt. "
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm sorry hes gone but People did engage with his threads, he was just controversial and didn't like it when he got called out. I think some people are using this thread as an excuse to claim he was somehow the victim of a clique when I'm sorry but that was not the case. I like some of his friends and not others but I suspect he has deliberately started this thread to cause controversy because thats what he enjoyed. "
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"I honestly think the best way to enjoy Forum is to take nothing seriously. It's all just strangers on the internet except those people you know offline. Compliments and criticism are both best taken with a big packet of salt. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly think the best way to enjoy Forum is to take nothing seriously. It's all just strangers on the internet except those people you know offline. Compliments and criticism are both best taken with a big packet of salt. "
What this non entity said |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I honestly think the best way to enjoy Forum is to take nothing seriously. It's all just strangers on the internet except those people you know offline. Compliments and criticism are both best taken with a big packet of salt.
What this non entity said "
Your twin
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"I honestly think the best way to enjoy Forum is to take nothing seriously. It's all just strangers on the internet except those people you know offline. Compliments and criticism are both best taken with a big packet of salt. "
Totally agree with you there Leo. I travel my own road here so none of it touches me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly think the best way to enjoy Forum is to take nothing seriously. It's all just strangers on the internet except those people you know offline. Compliments and criticism are both best taken with a big packet of salt.
What this non entity said "
Love you x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here
Agreed, it’s a tough place to fit in, trouble is the private chat groups can take you down as quick as a flash "
There's private chat groups?! Oh.  |
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here
Agreed, it’s a tough place to fit in, trouble is the private chat groups can take you down as quick as a flash
There's private chat groups?! Oh. "
I thought this as well ha
Good luck Kev wherever life takes you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here
Agreed, it’s a tough place to fit in, trouble is the private chat groups can take you down as quick as a flash
There's private chat groups?! Oh. "
Yes of course people talk off the site but I dont believe there's some big conspiracy in private chat groups to get some people to leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly some of the most wholesome replies…. This is the type of shit that still keeps me trying on here even when I feel like I’m on the outside looking in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here
Agreed, it’s a tough place to fit in, trouble is the private chat groups can take you down as quick as a flash "
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here
Agreed, it’s a tough place to fit in, trouble is the private chat groups can take you down as quick as a flash
There's private chat groups?! Oh.
Yes of course people talk off the site but I dont believe there's some big conspiracy in private chat groups to get some people to leave. "
No conspiracy on getting people to leave, it’s more about who will be made to feel welcome and who won’t, let’s just say some are influenced |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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OP, I hope when you return you feel more comfortable to be who you really are.
I know you're probably reading this - not one person on here is universally liked and fits in all the time. Hopefully when you return you feel like you do a bit more. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here "
Then you have people here who are unwanted and don't leave - 
The forums have always had a habit of forcing people to leave if they don't conform to a certain forum persona, or mould.
Just the way it is and always will be |
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"Who the F**k is he? Never heard of him.
Why do people feel that they have to announce that their leaving ???
Why do people feel the need to have a mini rant about ‘I’m leaving’ posts? "
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Who the F**k is he? Never heard of him.
Why do people feel that they have to announce that their leaving ???"
Because people are simple trying to make a point, so that people may realise, yeah the forums can be shit towards people who are not in the "in crowd".
Most see it as yeah who gives a shit anyway, blokes see it as one less single guy
See all the comments about sorry to see you go, but made with little or no sincerity.
Maybe its time for a change - same as leaving interviews. Let people know the reason they are leaving but knowing full well nothing will change anyways
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"Who the F**k is he? Never heard of him.
Why do people feel that they have to announce that their leaving ???
Why do people feel the need to have a mini rant about ‘I’m leaving’ posts?
Why do people have to dunk ? It just leads to a soggy mess!"
You are using the wrong biscuit Granny.
Nobody likes the soggy biscuit. |
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here
Then you have people here who are unwanted and don't leave -
The forums have always had a habit of forcing people to leave if they don't conform to a certain forum persona, or mould.
Just the way it is and always will be "
That would be me keep getting abuse but fuck it not leaving till my £5 runs out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Oh I hate it when someone leaves when they feel unwanted here
Then you have people here who are unwanted and don't leave -
The forums have always had a habit of forcing people to leave if they don't conform to a certain forum persona, or mould.
Just the way it is and always will be
That would be me keep getting abuse but fuck it not leaving till my £5 runs out"
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"Who the F**k is he? Never heard of him.
Why do people feel that they have to announce that their leaving ???
Why do people feel the need to have a mini rant about ‘I’m leaving’ posts?
Why do people have to dunk ? It just leads to a soggy mess!
You are using the wrong biscuit Granny.
Nobody likes the soggy biscuit. "
It’s an art, honed over many, many years of dunking. The skill is in the quick flick of the wrist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought sites like this were for square pegs because we don't want to fit in . If we did we would all be on other vanilla areas of social media not here looking for other non fitting shapes of all different sizes and colours x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought sites like this were for square pegs because we don't want to fit in . If we did we would all be on other vanilla areas of social media not here looking for other non fitting shapes of all different sizes and colours x"
Good point. A meeting of Misfits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for this shit haha
have fun everyone dont take shit too seriously try and have joy in your lifes rather than misery you only get one go at it
ive tried to fit in and have bants but the last few days shows this aint for me right now like a square trying to fit in a circle haha look after yourselfs keep smiling and take care of each other
love and out x
millwall kev"
Did anyone catch who the OP was ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
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But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has happened a few times lately where somebody has put up or leaving post and quickly left, then everybody has jumped on it and started saying it's because of the clique or because fab isn't inclusive.
Fab and the forum 's dont have to be inclusive am I find it the ferry interesting's that some of the posters that often Give advice when people start thread saying why won't certain groups of people meet me say "it's preference nothing personal" But then say people aren't inclusive on the forum, people on the forums can have their own opinion and Not everybody will like every single person or agree with them but it seems to me if you dont and then start a flouncing thread everyone will suddenly say how amazing you are and its everyone elses fault. |
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Had this conversation yesterday about FAB and like real life people have insecurities… FAB can often have a negative impact on thread due to the need and desire for instant gratification… I the nature of all social media to get likes (Fabs) etc…. You don’t need a thick skin to be here but it does help… me? Oh I’m 6 foot of fucking sunshine and joy and aside from the very select few I enjoy speaking with opinions will come and go about me … I’m comfortable being a knob head  |
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"This has happened a few times lately where somebody has put up or leaving post and quickly left, then everybody has jumped on it and started saying it's because of the clique or because fab isn't inclusive.
Fab and the forum 's dont have to be inclusive am I find it the ferry interesting's that some of the posters that often Give advice when people start thread saying why won't certain groups of people meet me say "it's preference nothing personal" But then say people aren't inclusive on the forum, people on the forums can have their own opinion and Not everybody will like every single person or agree with them but it seems to me if you dont and then start a flouncing thread everyone will suddenly say how amazing you are and its everyone elses fault. "
What can you say, folk are fickle. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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The simple truth about forum cliques is don't talk about forum cliques and deny there are forum cliques.
There are self appointed forum elites and royalty and their supporters. Popularity breads contempt for others and feeling of superiority, history has shown this, high school and forums. It is the nature Napoleon was a prime example, look throughout history.
The simple truth is there are those that treat others badly because the think they can. People only see what tbe want to see, they rationalise it down to they left because ...
It is the forum way
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
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"Who the F**k is he? Never heard of him.
Why do people feel that they have to announce that their leaving ???
Why do people feel the need to have a mini rant about ‘I’m leaving’ posts?
Why do people have to dunk ? It just leads to a soggy mess!
You are using the wrong biscuit Granny.
Nobody likes the soggy biscuit.
It’s an art, honed over many, many years of dunking. The skill is in the quick flick of the wrist."
But, tempting as it is, never try it with a Bourbon biscuit.
Just don't.
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I've seen all the clique comments before both here and in the Irish forums. I've even been accused of being a member which would be pretty difficult as I've never spoken to or engaged with any of the others who were apparently cliquers.
I've also seen a lot of the supportive threads where we are told to be kind because we don't know what others are going through or that we should call out people for their forum behaviour.
In regard to the first part I find it difficult to understand how the people who use the be kind crutch are very often the same ones who are creating the forum drama in the first place and they use it as a diversionary tool.
I've commented on threads about supporting others to ask how genuine they are and if at times many people just pay lip service?
Amazingly I then received numerous messages from women I had never spoken to before thanking me for speaking out as they all had negative experiences with the person starting the thread and they couldn't believe he or she had the nerve to post such a thread.
In regard to calling people out I've found it to be a pointless exercise because it usually falls on deaf ears and I end up pissing in the wind especially when the offender is a "popular" forumite and people are content to turn a blind eye to their indiscretions.
As far as the external chat groups who may or may not put pressure on people to leave are concerned there is a high level of naivety involved if you don't accept that this happens.
I've seen it happen often and I've spoken to many people who either fell victim to one of these groups or who left a group because they had witnessed it.
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"Who the F**k is he? Never heard of him.
Why do people feel that they have to announce that their leaving ???"
I’m definitely more inclined to ask who the fuck you are!? Why comment just to drag someone..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread. "
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The simple truth about forum cliques is don't talk about forum cliques and deny there are forum cliques.
There are self appointed forum elites and royalty and their supporters. Popularity breads contempt for others and feeling of superiority, history has shown this, high school and forums. It is the nature Napoleon was a prime example, look throughout history.
The simple truth is there are those that treat others badly because the think they can. People only see what tbe want to see, they rationalise it down to they left because ...
It is the forum way
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I’ve been on the forum for over two years, and I genuinely don’t know who would be considered forum royalty or elite?
The forum has a huge mix of personalities, and that’s what makes it fun (mostly). |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
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A thick skin is the best thing to have on here.
It can be true, if your face doesn't fit, you don't get anywhere.
Best advice, be yourself, don't take things on the forums too seriously, take what is said with a pinch of salt, have zero expectations |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me "
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The simple truth about forum cliques is don't talk about forum cliques and deny there are forum cliques.
There are self appointed forum elites and royalty and their supporters. Popularity breads contempt for others and feeling of superiority, history has shown this, high school and forums. It is the nature Napoleon was a prime example, look throughout history.
The simple truth is there are those that treat others badly because the think they can. People only see what tbe want to see, they rationalise it down to they left because ...
It is the forum way
I’ve been on the forum for over two years, and I genuinely don’t know who would be considered forum royalty or elite?
The forum has a huge mix of personalities, and that’s what makes it fun (mostly)."
Totally agree with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And another one leaves due to the cliquey crap! When will people stop and realise it only does harm by not having a diverse mix of people and posts/replies???
Was it the cliquey crap or was it his 'I am me, I say what I want, I don't give a fuck' type attitude.
I didn't mind it, I knew what he was doing but he certainly didn't try to 'fit in' and he obviously did care what people thought of him.
Life certainly is too short and I hope when he comes back he is more true to himself. "
What do you mean exactly by fitting in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
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Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree "
And here lies the problem, how was I meant to know it was a joke because we have never spoken.
That was not an insult and people take things far too personally on here and then throw the toys out the pram when they give banter but can't take it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree
And here lies the problem, how was I meant to know it was a joke because we have never spoken.
That was not an insult and people take things far too personally on here and then throw the toys out the pram when they give banter but can't take it.
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I'm a builder and believe me I can take and give banter when required
Let's just shake hands and move on OK |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree
And here lies the problem, how was I meant to know it was a joke because we have never spoken.
That was not an insult and people take things far too personally on here and then throw the toys out the pram when they give banter but can't take it.
I'm a builder and believe me I can take and give banter when required
Let's just shake hands and move on OK "
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree
And here lies the problem, how was I meant to know it was a joke because we have never spoken.
That was not an insult and people take things far too personally on here and then throw the toys out the pram when they give banter but can't take it.
I'm a builder and believe me I can take and give banter when required
Let's just shake hands and move on OK "
Banter is only banter when all involved are in on it.
You're allowed to defend your commwnt but she isn't. She may well have a point here. |
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree
And here lies the problem, how was I meant to know it was a joke because we have never spoken.
That was not an insult and people take things far too personally on here and then throw the toys out the pram when they give banter but can't take it.
I'm a builder and believe me I can take and give banter when required
Let's just shake hands and move on OK
Banter is only banter when all involved are in on it.
You're allowed to defend your commwnt but she isn't. She may well have a point here. "
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree
And here lies the problem, how was I meant to know it was a joke because we have never spoken.
That was not an insult and people take things far too personally on here and then throw the toys out the pram when they give banter but can't take it.
I'm a builder and believe me I can take and give banter when required
Let's just shake hands and move on OK
Banter is only banter when all involved are in on it.
You're allowed to defend your commwnt but she isn't. She may well have a point here.
Yawn "
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"It’s funny Kev, those on the forum that claim to be so inclusive make people who are of strong mind and their own opinions feel the complete opposite.
There were people that appreciated your comments, but we don’t feel the need to start threads about how appreciative we are.
Good luck out there.
But does that not work both ways?
If you are going to start a controversial thread then surely you expect not everybody's going to agree with you, the last thing you should then do is start insulting them and then threw a tantrum because you don't feel like everybody likes because thats what this seems to be. I think the OP knew exactly what he was doing when he started this thread.
Well you called me misogynistic so that's an insult and from someone that doesn't know me
Yes I did because I've never spoken to you before and you felt the need to say "calm down love" because I deared to disagree with you on a thread about how men talk to women!
And I didn't call you misogynistic I said it was a misogynistic comment!
Well mine was meant as a joke and yours was an insult so we will agree to disagree
And here lies the problem, how was I meant to know it was a joke because we have never spoken.
That was not an insult and people take things far too personally on here and then throw the toys out the pram when they give banter but can't take it.
I'm a builder and believe me I can take and give banter when required
Let's just shake hands and move on OK
Banter is only banter when all involved are in on it.
You're allowed to defend your commwnt but she isn't. She may well have a point here.
Yawn
Indeed. Very boring aren't you. "
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