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"I have questions, but when i ask them, i get told this is not a gameshow I'm not answering them. 
Then they are not worth bothering with.
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Correct! For the bonus points name the capital of Cambodia |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I would love to meet up, but I'm skint so can't travel.
(Or similar).  "
Actually after the self employed got screwed by the Government and missing out on the furlough scheme and other benefits, this might be a bit harsh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have questions, but when i ask them, i get told this is not a gameshow I'm not answering them.
Then they are not worth bothering with.
Correct! For the bonus points name the capital of Cambodia "
I only know the name of the largest Thai island - don't know this one.
Fuck it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have questions, but when i ask them, i get told this is not a gameshow I'm not answering them.
Then they are not worth bothering with.
Correct! For the bonus points name the capital of Cambodia "
That would be Phnom Penh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have questions, but when i ask them, i get told this is not a gameshow I'm not answering them.
Then they are not worth bothering with.
Correct! For the bonus points name the capital of Cambodia
I only know the name of the largest Thai island - don't know this one.
Fuck it. "
I did! |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I would love to meet up, but I'm skint so can't travel.
(Or similar).
Is it your birthday? 
It normally follows by them asking for money.
Location : Nigeria
Username: Prince...."
The conversations never get to first name terms. Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When a female account messages and says, hi there hot stuff, I am totally a woman, I would just like to clarify that first, nothing suspicious here, any way mate, I mean hot stuff, any chance of showing another, I mean showing a woman (me) your cock ?!
Yours sincerely
Red Flag
(Totally not Craig, definitely a woman)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey… do you fancy meeting … no strings… blow and go
Notttt quite what I’m thinking, but thanks all the same 
It was a first message and yes i thought red flag  "
Ignore me, brain clearly not fully functioning this evening |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Questions, no not really. But if there's anything that hints at fetishizing me. Or if someone tells me they are going to do *insert very rough sexual description*. Or if they tell me they are sapiosexual and then go on to tell me about how amazing my breasts are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they share phone number in a first or second message. Too rushed.
Saying that, also:
Dragging things way too slow, avoiding committing to meet. Time wasting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Text speak … u ok, Wuu2 and sending their number straight off is red flags to me
Do genuine women ever do this??? "
That’s why it’s red flags for me it’s doubtful |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bracknell (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Anything that sounds like it’s written halfway through a wank.
Really short messages offering to meet now.
Anyone who offers his wife from a single male profile "
...erm, how do you gauge that it's mid w@nk??! |
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"Anything that sounds like it’s written halfway through a wank.
Really short messages offering to meet now.
Anyone who offers his wife from a single male profile
...erm, how do you gauge that it's mid w@nk??! "
It looks kind of like: ‘Hiiii hoo www arrrree yoou. ??’ |
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"Anything that sounds like it’s written halfway through a wank.
Really short messages offering to meet now.
Anyone who offers his wife from a single male profile
...erm, how do you gauge that it's mid w@nk??! "
It’s kind of written in a hurry with no punctuation and fairly graphic. Probably by a bloke pretending to be a woman, but if we got rid of them, the male to female ratio would look even worse |
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"Do you want to breed me?"
If they can't travel or accom
Any lady who's profile clearly wound not be interested me e.g. out side age range, smoker or 420 friendly...
No new pics, no veris
And messages begging to know my secret...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have at least 5 things I do or say to gauge what people are about. Most fail to pass the 5.
Care to share? "
Nope, that would totally defeat the object. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are things you look for?
Do you have questions to suss people out? "
What are the things I look for? A response. If I don't get one, its a definite red flag for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Do you want to breed me?"
If they can't travel or accom
Any lady who's profile clearly wound not be interested me e.g. out side age range, smoker or 420 friendly...
No new pics, no veris
And messages begging to know my secret... "
"Do you want to breed me?" Are you kidding?! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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""Do you want to breed me?"
If they can't travel or accom
Any lady who's profile clearly wound not be interested me e.g. out side age range, smoker or 420 friendly...
No new pics, no veris
And messages begging to know my secret... "
Sounds like a keeper |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have at least 5 things I do or say to gauge what people are about. Most fail to pass the 5.
Care to share?
Nope, that would totally defeat the object. "
I don’t mean on the thread |
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"I would love to meet up, but I'm skint so can't travel.
(Or similar). "
Or homeless and living in car or sofa surfing... how the hell do they wash and keep clothes ect clean?
Others: I'm attached, they don't know I'm on here but looking for fun discreet meets...
= I cba with the arguments and shadyness, just like to meet a down to earth regular guy... Big ask on here  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"What are things you look for?
Do you have questions to suss people out? "
My gut feeling has always been right and that's all I'm able to say since the forums are open to be viewed by anyone |
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I had someone who said he'd expect to be the only person I slept with...
When someone says they want to Dom me, they obviously haven't read the profile.
It's the ones that don't take what you're looking for into consideration and are only looking to please themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Do you want to breed me?" Are you kidding?!
not kidding, I've had it a couple of times, but I think it may be youth slang for sex! "
It's a kink. Usually a male kink, thus my surprise! |
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"I have questions, but when i ask them, i get told this is not a gameshow I'm not answering them. "
Or "it's just sex, why do you wanna know?"
Erm, because I'm discerning about who I let in my vageeeeeen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe not a message red flag but when it’s a “couple” profile and it’s all just based around the male, status updates all about him being free to meet, pictures of just the male etc |
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"Maybe not a message red flag but when it’s a “couple” profile and it’s all just based around the male, status updates all about him being free to meet, pictures of just the male etc "
This, a couple where it just happens the male is available to meet alone almost all the time
The word discreet being used, it's usually a signal for something else
Other than the above, a general lack of conversation. If they're struggling to make conversation over a few messages, it's not exactly going to set my pulse racing, no matter how good their photos may be |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I have questions, but when i ask them, i get told this is not a gameshow I'm not answering them.
Then they are not worth bothering with.
Correct! For the bonus points name the capital of Cambodia "
It's something like penom peng Fuck knows how you spell it. |
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