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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wanna know what are females looking for on here?.. cause polite words don't do the trick
Do you consider "Just want to eat ass and pussy" polite words?  "
I think this was plan B. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I wanna know what are females looking for on here?.. cause polite words don't do the trick
Do you consider "Just want to eat ass and pussy" polite words?
I think this was plan B. "
He didn't even say 'please' or 'thank you'.
Tut tut |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate to break it to you, but we aren’t a collective, we’re all individuals
So you're not the borg then?  "
Resistance is futile!
I was going to go with the Borg, but I wa showing my age |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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that's what I was feeling, trust me I have been polite to all these ladies, then I took a different approach and ask directly like i want to know what I'm doing wrong |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I hate to break it to you, but we aren’t a collective, we’re all individuals
So you're not the borg then?
Resistance is futile!
I was going to go with the Borg, but I wa showing my age "
You can assimilate me anytime.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope, but okay but i read every profile to the letter and they ask to have communication skills and not go direct to lets just fuck"
So you are trying ‘communication skills’ because that is what is being asked for? But it’s not something you want yourself?
When people are disingenuous it shows quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope, but okay but i read every profile to the letter and they ask to have communication skills and not go direct to lets just fuck"
Op - use reply + quote.
Do you mean they want to get to know you, but you want to get straight to fucking? |
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"i will like to know cause none of them is even reply back to any messages, i feel like this harder than tinder"
Are you just messaging black women? If I was interested, reading your profile would put me off as I’m white. Also your status would too. |
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"i will like to know cause none of them is even reply back to any messages, i feel like this harder than tinder"
Harder than tinder? I get more meets in a month in tinder/hinge than years on here
If you can’t make the apps work you’ll never make this work |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I'm looking for a respectful man who wants to socialise along with the sex.
No one seems to want the social part, or if they do it's to go to swingers clubs as a couple for 3 somes with other women (or possibly to get in cheaper).
If I wanted hook up sex I would join a swipe right app.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"i will like to know cause none of them is even reply back to any messages, i feel like this harder than tinder"
You're probably better off sticking to those kinds of sites if you are looking for hit me up sex.
You're a little young but there are young swingers on here.
I think there's a thread or group for under 30s on here. Try searching for it. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I have been respectful guy, but they never reply back"
Without knowing who you are messaging we can only say you're not what they are looking for.
If you have patience you may find what you want.
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OP,
You have only been here 3 weeks. Personally I look for FB or FWB for regular meets and fun times.
Everyone looks for different things, read profiles.
I would also suggest attending a swingers club, or a local social meet, If you were up for that. These are great for meeting like minded people and you may get verified from there just from chatting to people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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see I'm young guy with a sorta baby face whom as mature personality, I have dated woman were older than me, but it more of a cyber thing.. but how will people know all this if they don't even bother messaging back |
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Expect nothing, engage on forums and chat continue to be respectful and if nothing happens don't take offense folks are looking for all sorts. Many say visit clubs that to me is a problem as I don't like crowds I'm much more an intimate dinner kinda guy, but that's my problem no one else's. |
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Honestly if what you're after is sex, tinder probably is better for the average male.
If you're looking for kinky sexy fun with couples specifically, this site is better.
Different tools for different jobs. |
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"I have been respectful guy, but they never reply back"
Respectful is only 1 piece of a 1000 piece jigsaw
Like I said, if you can’t make tinder work, you’ll never make fabs work. Tindef is fabs on easy mode |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"see I'm young guy with a sorta baby face whom as mature personality, I have dated woman were older than me, but it more of a cyber thing.. but how will people know all this if they don't even bother messaging back "
Op - please use reply and quote. It’s on the right
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"see I'm young guy with a sorta baby face whom as mature personality, I have dated woman were older than me, but it more of a cyber thing.. but how will people know all this if they don't even bother messaging back
Op - please use reply and quote. It’s on the right
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i see this now.. oops  |
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You’ve only been a member for three weeks. Lots of guys have been members for a year or more and got nothing.
There are a lot more men than women here and the women get inundated. They can’t answer everyone and if a quick look at your profile doesn’t tick their boxes then they won’t respond.
Try getting more involved on forums and go to social events to get to know people and explore the social side. If you just want sex then there are other options to meet your needs, like Tinder or an Escort.
Oh, and referring to women as “females” doesn’t come across brilliantly either. Maybe it’s just me, but using “female” instead of “woman” just feels impersonal. |
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"I'm looking for a respectful man who wants to socialise along with the sex.
No one seems to want the social part, or if they do it's to go to swingers clubs as a couple for 3 somes with other women (or possibly to get in cheaper).
If I wanted hook up sex I would join a swipe right app.
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Thats what I want but there is no one local id love a club buddy to socialise with i have been many times to a club so its not for a hand holding event. Friends with benefits laughs and fun thrown in and I would meet in there too. Sadly I dont think many are looking like you.
The search is still on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly if what you're after is sex, tinder probably is better for the average male.
If you're looking for kinky sexy fun with couples specifically, this site is better.
Different tools for different jobs. "
I'm not just looking for hook up, I'm a very kinky guy myself, so I'm looking for kinky |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"I have been respectful guy, but they never reply back
Respectful is only 1 piece of a 1000 piece jigsaw
Like I said, if you can’t make tinder work, you’ll never make fabs work. Tindef is fabs on easy mode "
Tinder for lightweights |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can send a picture but I have no *Gold* to attach to message I personally overlook any profile that ask for a certain word to show I have read profile.I don't see the point "
yeah but isn't that what females do as well, I have seen loads do that |
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"I have been respectful guy, but they never reply back
Respectful is only 1 piece of a 1000 piece jigsaw
Like I said, if you can’t make tinder work, you’ll never make fabs work. Tindef is fabs on easy mode
Tinder for lightweights "
Tinder is just diet fabs
Fab lite |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’ve only been a member for three weeks. Lots of guys have been members for a year or more and got nothing.
There are a lot more men than women here and the women get inundated. They can’t answer everyone and if a quick look at your profile doesn’t tick their boxes then they won’t respond.
Try getting more involved on forums and go to social events to get to know people and explore the social side. If you just want sex then there are other options to meet your needs, like Tinder or an Escort.
Oh, and referring to women as “females” doesn’t come across brilliantly either. Maybe it’s just me, but using “female” instead of “woman” just feels impersonal. "
i hear you but when you ask the women if you would like to get to know them on social, it is still a blank ignore or delete |
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"Honestly if what you're after is sex, tinder probably is better for the average male.
If you're looking for kinky sexy fun with couples specifically, this site is better.
Different tools for different jobs.
I'm not just looking for hook up, I'm a very kinky guy myself, so I'm looking for kinky "
I appreciate in your bio you list you're up for more but your "looking for" says women only |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly if what you're after is sex, tinder probably is better for the average male.
If you're looking for kinky sexy fun with couples specifically, this site is better.
Different tools for different jobs.
I'm not just looking for hook up, I'm a very kinky guy myself, so I'm looking for kinky
I appreciate in your bio you list you're up for more but your "looking for" says women only "
well not just women, just discovered i'm into transwomen( idk if it is a kink) |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"I have been respectful guy, but they never reply back
Respectful is only 1 piece of a 1000 piece jigsaw
Like I said, if you can’t make tinder work, you’ll never make fabs work. Tindef is fabs on easy mode
Tinder for lightweights
Tinder is just diet fabs
Fab lite "
Fab zero |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im not going to give profile advice as im not sure it has been asked for...
but wider thoughts
the positive of fab is people are sex positive an open about what they are looking for. You can be a bit more selective in who you messge and can do ore of a sell why you are a good match. but only if you try and find the right people. tinder is easier to get matches, but harder to see if you allign sexually
but fab takes time to get the matches depite it feeling like theer are a lot more women out there. it can feel liek an all you can feel like an all you can eat buffet (excuse the pun) but really it's more like a high end delicatesnat and you can only hve oe or two small bites... byt they are amazig bite! however, it is best if you show yourself as having a specic, and refiend taste, and not just on the search for anything.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im not going to give profile advice as im not sure it has been asked for...
but wider thoughts
the positive of fab is people are sex positive an open about what they are looking for. You can be a bit more selective in who you messge and can do ore of a sell why you are a good match. but only if you try and find the right people. tinder is easier to get matches, but harder to see if you allign sexually
but fab takes time to get the matches depite it feeling like theer are a lot more women out there. it can feel liek an all you can feel like an all you can eat buffet (excuse the pun) but really it's more like a high end delicatesnat and you can only hve oe or two small bites... byt they are amazig bite! however, it is best if you show yourself as having a specic, and refiend taste, and not just on the search for anything.
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thank you for the knowledge, I think I understand what you mean |
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"You’ve only been a member for three weeks. Lots of guys have been members for a year or more and got nothing.
There are a lot more men than women here and the women get inundated. They can’t answer everyone and if a quick look at your profile doesn’t tick their boxes then they won’t respond.
Try getting more involved on forums and go to social events to get to know people and explore the social side. If you just want sex then there are other options to meet your needs, like Tinder or an Escort.
Oh, and referring to women as “females” doesn’t come across brilliantly either. Maybe it’s just me, but using “female” instead of “woman” just feels impersonal.
i hear you but when you ask the women if you would like to get to know them on social, it is still a blank ignore or delete "
Then chances are you aren’t what that person is looking for. No reply = not interested, so you can move on to someone else. |
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"I have been respectful guy, but they never reply back
Respectful is only 1 piece of a 1000 piece jigsaw
Like I said, if you can’t make tinder work, you’ll never make fabs work. Tindef is fabs on easy mode
Tinder for lightweights
Tinder is just diet fabs
Fab lite
Fab zero "
I can't believe it's not fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’ve only been a member for three weeks. Lots of guys have been members for a year or more and got nothing.
There are a lot more men than women here and the women get inundated. They can’t answer everyone and if a quick look at your profile doesn’t tick their boxes then they won’t respond.
Try getting more involved on forums and go to social events to get to know people and explore the social side. If you just want sex then there are other options to meet your needs, like Tinder or an Escort.
Oh, and referring to women as “females” doesn’t come across brilliantly either. Maybe it’s just me, but using “female” instead of “woman” just feels impersonal.
i hear you but when you ask the women if you would like to get to know them on social, it is still a blank ignore or delete
Then chances are you aren’t what that person is looking for. No reply = not interested, so you can move on to someone else."
fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or just send your photo to Mr Mystique as he appreciates them so much 
I wondered if women in your area have seen all of your statuses since you joined - if they're all like the current one, I'd be ignoring you too. It's the whole picture - status, profile, photos, headline. They all work together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, you've been here 3 weeks. This isn't tinder and it isn't Instashag. Just because you joined doesn't mean you'll find what you're looking for straight away. Be patient.
As for what women are looking for, everyone is different and generally we are looking for different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's what I was feeling, trust me I have been polite to all these ladies, then I took a different approach and ask directly like i want to know what I'm doing wrong"
I'll be honest. You look very young. Younger than 25. You also say you are 5'4" that's 2 inches shorter than the average woman, and believe me, the vast majority of women are not into short guys. Especially when they have the pick of the bunch!! Sorry if that sounds harsh.
Also you have too many cock pics on your profile. Your profile is not very well written and a bit crude.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you using the correct word as the message header?
yep, i changed my header soo much"
Your profile looks good. Some women won't want to see cock pics but some will.
Maybe try socials. |
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"i will like to know cause none of them is even reply back to any messages, i feel like this harder than tinder"
Of course it's harder than tinder, there's like 1000s less women on here, were you expecting it to be easier? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"that's what I was feeling, trust me I have been polite to all these ladies, then I took a different approach and ask directly like i want to know what I'm doing wrong
I'll be honest. You look very young. Younger than 25. You also say you are 5'4" that's 2 inches shorter than the average woman, and believe me, the vast majority of women are not into short guys. Especially when they have the pick of the bunch!! Sorry if that sounds harsh.
Also you have too many cock pics on your profile. Your profile is not very well written and a bit crude.... "
Thank you for the advise, yes I get that all the time, i have young face when I tell people I'm 25, they don't believe it and i can't lie about my height it is who I'm and thank you for the advise on the profile |
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