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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m sure this has probably been a subject on here many times but let’s visit it again as my list gets longer every day
First up
Couples profiles that only shows pictures of the woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women who mass delete guy's messages, totally by accident, yeah right.
Getting no responses, obligatory not my type response.
Will only meet people i've met in real life response.
Been ghosted by people i've spoken to before for a long time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Entitlement
Time wasters
Body Shamers
Bullies
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People moaning about how shit the site is and threatening to leave.
Crack on leave why make a fuss? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time wasters
Cat fishes
Closed minded people |
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Non bio readers before a "are you interested" message
Cam chat is very 1995 and could use a massive update
And all the sexy people being so far away   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the amazing women I know I would get on so well with, living so far away  |
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I love fab it’s great for me but I do hate:
1.Some fantasist guy pretending to be a couple
2. The male half of a couple talking about you fucking his wife and she’s not even aware of the conversation.
3 Fantasists |
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Single profiles with pics of other people in.
“I’m up for anything”
Heavy cummer.
Dom, dominant, daddy anywhere on profile or username.
All instant deletes for me. |
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Don’t actually hate any of it but there are plenty of eye rolling moments/issues… |
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The bitchiness and behind the scenes backstabbing apart from that it's great  |
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The site itself is fine and dandy….but there are a few questionable folks…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who can’t actually read our profile! Before they message us! Blocked list getting longer by the minute.
Come on guys please read and do as we ask. |
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By *yron69Man
over a year ago
Fareham |
Odd age limits - 27, 36, 43 etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile statements like:
'So bored, anyone about?'
I wonder what today brings'
And so on. You mail them and get ignored. Profile advertisers for an ego boost, or blokes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That there isn't eggplant and peach emojis! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(eggplant) (peach) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't hate anything because it's the internets so take it all with a pinch of salt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to check. |
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"The bitchiness and behind the scenes backstabbing apart from that it's great "
Had she gone?
Yeah hate her don't you that sparkle always...
Oh hello sparkle how are you, just saying how wonderful you are.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being able to post photos on your profile of equipment/toys without you being in the photo. |
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By *educerMan
over a year ago
Brentwood |
fake profiles
men pretending to be women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site itself is fine and dandy….but there are a few questionable folks…."
Do you think they're here just to do interviews. |
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"The bitchiness and behind the scenes backstabbing apart from that it's great
Had she gone?
Yeah hate her don't you that sparkle always...
Oh hello sparkle how are you, just saying how wonderful you are. "
been there...water off a ducks back lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People whinging about fab.
Single guys complaining about not getting replies
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
[Removed by poster at 15/07/21 19:33:47] |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Hate is a strong word but I would really like to see someone's location when I'm reading their message without having to go back to the message envelope or click their profile. |
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People complaining that they get just "hey, how are you?" messages when their profile is completely blank or sparse |
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The lack of Dante reciting face-sitters. |
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Timewasters and fantasists.
Men who don't read profiles.
People who insist it's a "sex site".
Incels who complain about nobody wanting to meet them and usually blame the women for it.
Everyone I fancy living miles away.
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
Market Harborough / Kettering |
Too many people with loads of verifications but all by webcam! They are not genuine they are dreamers and fantasist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t hate anything, not sure why anyone gets so worked up about the site if people don’t want to chat to you then ohhh well, if people don’t want to meet you then ohhh well, if people are too far away then travel to them or don’t … see it’s quite easy to stay calm  "
This is about right.
As ever sandy you are a lighthouse breaking through the fog |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The People |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who just reply, sorry dont meet asians |
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"I don’t hate anything, not sure why anyone gets so worked up about the site if people don’t want to chat to you then ohhh well, if people don’t want to meet you then ohhh well, if people are too far away then travel to them or don’t … see it’s quite easy to stay calm
This is about right.
As ever sandy you are a lighthouse breaking through the fog "
You know me Patrick, not phased by it all, not into the drama of it all, just me plodding along |
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Couples assuming all women are bi,
Pushy people
Conversations where its like pulling teeth,
When the disclaimer is longer than the profile text.
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t hate anything, not sure why anyone gets so worked up about the site if people don’t want to chat to you then ohhh well, if people don’t want to meet you then ohhh well, if people are too far away then travel to them or don’t … see it’s quite easy to stay calm
This is about right.
As ever sandy you are a lighthouse breaking through the fog
You know me Patrick, not phased by it all, not into the drama of it all, just me plodding along "
Your a brilliant lady |
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Being auto grouoed into one category because of bad experiences I understand it but it a shame when it happens |
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"I’m sure this has probably been a subject on here many times but let’s visit it again as my list gets longer every day
First up
Couples profiles that only shows pictures of the woman! "
100% correct my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The couples where "only hubby can talk atm" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sure this has probably been a subject on here many times but let’s visit it again as my list gets longer every day
First up
Couples profiles that only shows pictures of the woman! "
I don’t get why this is such an issue to people? Surly you can do what you want with your own profile? And post pictures of what you want?
Mine is a couples profile, we only have pics of me on there for a few reasons, mainly as by husband don’t play, just likes to watch and who really wants to see pics of him if his not playing anyway and if they do then they only need to ask! Don’t get the issue
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"I don’t hate anything, not sure why anyone gets so worked up about the site if people don’t want to chat to you then ohhh well, if people don’t want to meet you then ohhh well, if people are too far away then travel to them or don’t … see it’s quite easy to stay calm
This is about right.
As ever sandy you are a lighthouse breaking through the fog
You know me Patrick, not phased by it all, not into the drama of it all, just me plodding along
Your a brilliant lady "
 Patrick, you’re a great friend |
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Dribble and repetitive forum posts.
(excluding this one) |
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When people say face pic but don’t have one them selves (  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that don’t read your profile
Liars “my age is wrong, I’m actually *insert age that fits criteria”
Every woman is not bi
No, I don’t want to meet now
I don’t care if you’re in the area
Yes, my profile is real and those photos are me
Why are you on here if you don’t meet?
He’s 15 ugly dick shots, we’ve never spoken
How are you x1000 per day
Action shots of some girls hoop - I’m straight, no thanks
I could go on haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Timewasters and fantasists.
Men who don't read profiles.
People who insist it's a "sex site".
Incels who complain about nobody wanting to meet them and usually blame the women for it.
Everyone I fancy living miles away.
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I don't you just haven't realised that you fancy me yet. |
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Messages from men who ask how we are or how’s Fab treating us and also attach cock pics from a profile of yet more cock pics! We talk about these points in our profile so it’s obvious they can’t be bothered to read it. It just makes us wonder what they couldn’t be bothered with in the bedroom. |
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Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t hate anything. |
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Oh and the amount of lampposts you have to dodge |
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"The couples where "only hubby can talk atm" lol"
Yeah well I have her chained up in the cellar right now so it's difficult for her to talk |
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
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People who speak in acronyms 
What is FOMO?! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Drama
People who beg for fabs in there status updates
Entitled fucks
Negativity about people’s preferences/kinks/bodies - just no need
X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!"
Fear of missing out. |
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!"
fear of missing out? |
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!
Fear of missing out. "
Ah ok. I hardly know any of them! Too old |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People with accounts on here without their partner's knowledge.
-I personally find that really depressing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!
Fear of missing out.
Ah ok. I hardly know any of them! Too old "
I'm younger and cooler than you so I will translate for you. |
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!
Fear of missing out.
Ah ok. I hardly know any of them! Too old
I'm younger and cooler than you so I will translate for you. "
Thank you. I’m lost without DanBerks. He was urban dictionary for the first 2 years . I gave him some laughs! Dan what’s DVP? Dan what’s FAF? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fake profiles and people who think because your on fab means we automatically want to sleep with them ASAP no conversation, just the "free tonight?" messages. |
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I wouldn’t say hate but those profiles on the updates page where they are constantly deleting and then uploading the same pics get on my tits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!
Fear of missing out.
Ah ok. I hardly know any of them! Too old
I'm younger and cooler than you so I will translate for you.
Thank you. I’m lost without DanBerks. He was urban dictionary for the first 2 years . I gave him some laughs! Dan what’s DVP? Dan what’s FAF? "
I can be Dan
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!
Fear of missing out.
Ah ok. I hardly know any of them! Too old "
i didnt know what that was either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t hate anything on here, cause that’s just wasted energy, there’s things I dislike but they’re easily avoidable. |
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My only real issue with this website is how it gives the illusion that it is used by genuine people like me and others I know (for some reason, the interface and the forums give me that impression) but it does not quite live up to this illusion... I might just be projecting
Overall though, I am too grounded in reality to give too much signifance to it. Internet is an ideal space for fantasy and anonimity so it is hardly a surprise to encounter that. |
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
People who speak in acronyms
What is FOMO?!
Fear of missing out.
Ah ok. I hardly know any of them! Too old
i didnt know what that was either "
My kids know most of them these days but darent ask them about any I see here |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"Oh and the amount of lampposts you have to dodge "
And the steams of piss |
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People who can't upload/send a face pic.
It's really not that hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
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Agreed. I would also add;
Hypocrites
Attention seekers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t hate anything as such, just roll our eyes…in fact we don’t even do that anymore we just block to avoid meeting them in future after cleaning their act up for appearances sake….Anything in a status to do with drugs, we’ve even seen pics with lines of (presumably) cocaine lined up on worktops with the rolled up note….next to naked people….. and people who question a polite rejection after ignoring something in our profile or not even reading it at all . |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"Oh and the amount of lampposts you have to dodge
And the steams of piss
. I find it more entertaining than annoying "
Oh me too tbh, especially when it's blatantly obvious why |
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"Timewasters and fantasists.
Men who don't read profiles.
People who insist it's a "sex site".
Incels who complain about nobody wanting to meet them and usually blame the women for it.
Everyone I fancy living miles away.
I don't you just haven't realised that you fancy me yet. "
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"I’m sure this has probably been a subject on here many times but let’s visit it again as my list gets longer every day
First up
Couples profiles that only shows pictures of the woman! "
Single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The toilets. |
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"Oh and the amount of lampposts you have to dodge
And the steams of piss "
Thank god for masks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact you dont seem to be able to put it down. |
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"The toilets."
It's not the toilets you smell, it's the lampposts |
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When people are obviously unhappy here or have an axe to grind so they just keep posting negativity to bring everyone else down.
((And the lack of lord of the rings reciting face-sitters)) |
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Don't hate anything here.......if I did I wouldn't come on.
I can't get my head around accounts with no profile photo or no public photos saying they won't reply to any messages without a face pic attached!!! |
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Deciding whether to write a lovely personalised message to a couple knowing that the chances are it will be ignored.
Wondering why people don't want to be just friends even if nothing comes of it.
Writing a nice message to a couple and then wondering whether they are even a couple at all.
Reading couples profiles that read like you should feel privileged to meet them. Yes, I'm sure you have loads of messages from men but at 61 I'm still good at giving pleasure and pretty dammed experienced so it might just be a privilege for you too!!!  |
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"When people are obviously unhappy here or have an axe to grind so they just keep posting negativity to bring everyone else down.
((And the lack of lord of the rings reciting face-sitters)) "
I sense a theme |
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"He knows who he is "
you forgot the hashtag! |
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To hate anything would imply that I gave a shit about it...and nothing on this site is significant enough to me to do that!
There are many things which make me eye roll, but they're easily avoided |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Can we have the "things you love about Fab" thread now? |
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"When people are obviously unhappy here or have an axe to grind so they just keep posting negativity to bring everyone else down.
((And the lack of lord of the rings reciting face-sitters))
I sense a theme "
I thought I had joined Face Sitters.com. Imagine my disappointment…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of silhouette profiles on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys who knock ten years off their age, then lie to your face when you ask.
Guys thinking this site is dial-a-shag.
Guys who agree to a social meet, then say 'well fun might happen'. Erm, nope.
Continous messaging after you've ignored the first 15.
Guys who say they love my profile. I ask them what they like, as purposely have nothing in it.
Oh and 'copy and paste' jobs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How long have you got? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That there's so many delicious men and not enough time to meet them all |
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By *bostCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
Folk who think it is ok to send abusive emails for no reason at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That fucking legal disclaimer bull bags that people put at the bottom of their profile.
Incomplete/vague profiles
No public photos
No profile picture
Messages from those that haven't even read your profile
Insisting we are a cuck couple when we're not
Those that talk about me in a message like I don't read them. It's mainly me on this account lol |
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The constant state of anticipation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples that make you jump through hoops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men that jump through hoops. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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People with multiple profiles pretending they have no existence of the other * cough cough *
(Nothing really does to be honest) |
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Dolphins that jump through hoops...oh no wait I like them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hair straighteners. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Nothing really, well nothing that I dislike enough to want to leave. It’s mostly my mood that affects my Fab experience. |
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"To hate anything would imply that I gave a shit about it...and nothing on this site is significant enough to me to do that!
There are many things which make me eye roll, but they're easily avoided "
Good comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single profiles with pics of other people in.
“I’m up for anything”
Heavy cummer.
Dom, dominant, daddy anywhere on profile or username.
All instant deletes for me. "
What is it with the heavy cummer boasts?
A wee supposed to be all like, o that's fabulous I'm fed up with all these light cummers, how much does your spunk weigh, I'm after a 7.5kg can you manage that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sure this has probably been a subject on here many times but let’s visit it again as my list gets longer every day
First up
Couples profiles that only shows pictures of the woman! "
That is a bugbear of ours too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To hate anything would imply that I gave a shit about it...and nothing on this site is significant enough to me to do that!
There are many things which make me eye roll, but they're easily avoided
Good comment "
True that! |
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"People with multiple profiles pretending they have no existence of the other * cough cough *
(Nothing really does to be honest)"
Ohhhhh yesssss….. those ….. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
"Entitlement
Time wasters
Body Shamers
Bullies
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This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single profiles with pics of other people in.
“I’m up for anything”
Heavy cummer.
Dom, dominant, daddy anywhere on profile or username.
All instant deletes for me. "
All of these also. |
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"Single profiles with pics of other people in.
“I’m up for anything”
Heavy cummer.
Dom, dominant, daddy anywhere on profile or username.
All instant deletes for me.
What is it with the heavy cummer boasts?
A wee supposed to be all like, o that's fabulous I'm fed up with all these light cummers, how much does your spunk weigh, I'm after a 7.5kg can you manage that? "
I know I’ve never understood that one! Who cares? Or do people care? I don’t know, maybe they do |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Cat fish.
Guys that can’t read bio’s or refuse to.
Ghosted after making plans.
People who messages you and expect stereotype behaviour.
Gets abused or have my sexuality questions when I say no.
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"He knows who he is
you forgot the hashtag!"
Sooo not down with the kids enough for hashtags!!!
#loser |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Timewasters and fantasists.
Men who don't read profiles.
People who insist it's a "sex site".
Incels who complain about nobody wanting to meet them and usually blame the women for it.
Everyone I fancy living miles away.
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....Moooove closer....as the song says |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single profiles with pics of other people in.
“I’m up for anything”
Heavy cummer.
Dom, dominant, daddy anywhere on profile or username.
All instant deletes for me.
What is it with the heavy cummer boasts?
A wee supposed to be all like, o that's fabulous I'm fed up with all these light cummers, how much does your spunk weigh, I'm after a 7.5kg can you manage that?
I know I’ve never understood that one! Who cares? Or do people care? I don’t know, maybe they do "
Maybe the tribute fans ? I don't know, I just think more mess! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t hate anything on here, cause that’s just wasted energy, there’s things I dislike but they’re easily avoidable. "
This
For me, it’s probably people who reply and quote their own comments. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
Ratios 300:1 men to women, that's got to be a low estimate. Do the mods know what the true stats are? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair I don't hate anything |
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"Single profiles with pics of other people in.
“I’m up for anything”
Heavy cummer.
Dom, dominant, daddy anywhere on profile or username.
All instant deletes for me.
What is it with the heavy cummer boasts?
A wee supposed to be all like, o that's fabulous I'm fed up with all these light cummers, how much does your spunk weigh, I'm after a 7.5kg can you manage that?
I know I’ve never understood that one! Who cares? Or do people care? I don’t know, maybe they do
Maybe the tribute fans ? I don't know, I just think more mess!"
Haha yep! |
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"Smoke blowers.
FOMO sufferers
Whingers who put more energy into complaining about the messages they receive rather than using the available filters.
Fake friends.
Agreed. I would also add;
Hypocrites
Attention seekers
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Most of us are seeking attention to some degree but I tend to avoid the foot stomping, dummy spitting ones.
The FOMO sufferers are just a different level of attention seeker.
They don't want attention, they don't want nasty people messaging them, they don't want to be associated with certain "types" but they just can't help engaging with those same "types" on the forums and see every comment as being aimed at them regardless of how shallow they may be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair I don't hate anything "
I even like replying and quoting my own comments, keeps my stream of consciousness linear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People with no sense of humour .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ratios 300:1 men to women, that's got to be a low estimate. Do the mods know what the true stats are?"
Time the women separate the wheat from the chaff it’s about level. |
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Hate is quite a strong word. But for me and I don’t tend to mention this often because, well you know, you get labelled as having a “thing” and no one wants that label but you know, the one thing that could be improved (see a positive slant) is the number of well read face-sitters |
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Seeing a status you would like to talk to someone about only to find you can't message them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate is quite a strong word. But for me and I don’t tend to mention this often because, well you know, you get labelled as having a “thing” and no one wants that label but you know, the one thing that could be improved (see a positive slant) is the number of well read face-sitters "
Whats well read face sitters? |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
Posts that should be aimed at an individual but poster uses a generalization term to express their frustration eg 'seen few ladies post 'men are trash' instead of 'insert name' is trash or my meet was trash.
Is a bloke posted 'women are trash' all hell would break loose! So please when having a 'hissy fit' try not to use generalizations terms that tarnish a whole group of people, thanks |
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"Hate is quite a strong word. But for me and I don’t tend to mention this often because, well you know, you get labelled as having a “thing” and no one wants that label but you know, the one thing that could be improved (see a positive slant) is the number of well read face-sitters
Whats well read face sitters?"
Well. I’m glad you asked. For me a well read face sitter is someone that enjoys reading a good book aloud whilst sitting on my face. It is NOT a “thing” |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I got my hope crushed a few time so kinda don’t take fab as seriously but keep an open mind incase a genuine person comes along |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Timewasters and fantasists.
Men who don't read profiles.
People who insist it's a "sex site".
Incels who complain about nobody wanting to meet them and usually blame the women for it.
Everyone I fancy living miles away.
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All of these and:
The downright mysogynistic behaviour/opinions you can come across.
Kink shaming
Not being able to talk about lots of BDSM elements without the thread disappearing. |
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"Posts that should be aimed at an individual but poster uses a generalization term to express their frustration eg 'seen few ladies post 'men are trash' instead of 'insert name' is trash or my meet was trash.
Is a bloke posted 'women are trash' all hell would break loose! So please when having a 'hissy fit' try not to use generalizations terms that tarnish a whole group of people, thanks "
Unfortunately you can't name names! |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"I got my hope crushed a few time so kinda don’t take fab as seriously but keep an open mind incase a genuine person comes along "
Do that, I've had my for share of bumps on the road but I've found some amazing people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate is quite a strong word. But for me and I don’t tend to mention this often because, well you know, you get labelled as having a “thing” and no one wants that label but you know, the one thing that could be improved (see a positive slant) is the number of well read face-sitters
Whats well read face sitters?
Well. I’m glad you asked. For me a well read face sitter is someone that enjoys reading a good book aloud whilst sitting on my face. It is NOT a “thing” "
I wasn't far off this thought! |
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"Hate is quite a strong word. But for me and I don’t tend to mention this often because, well you know, you get labelled as having a “thing” and no one wants that label but you know, the one thing that could be improved (see a positive slant) is the number of well read face-sitters
Whats well read face sitters?
Well. I’m glad you asked. For me a well read face sitter is someone that enjoys reading a good book aloud whilst sitting on my face. It is NOT a “thing”
I wasn't far off this thought!"
To say I am a simple man is to miss the opportunity to call me one dimensional |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Posts that should be aimed at an individual but poster uses a generalization term to express their frustration eg 'seen few ladies post 'men are trash' instead of 'insert name' is trash or my meet was trash.
Is a bloke posted 'women are trash' all hell would break loose! So please when having a 'hissy fit' try not to use generalizations terms that tarnish a whole group of people, thanks "
So throwing shade then,well you aren't allowed to call out directly are you? |
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"Hate is quite a strong word. But for me and I don’t tend to mention this often because, well you know, you get labelled as having a “thing” and no one wants that label but you know, the one thing that could be improved (see a positive slant) is the number of well read face-sitters
Whats well read face sitters?
Well. I’m glad you asked. For me a well read face sitter is someone that enjoys reading a good book aloud whilst sitting on my face. It is NOT a “thing” "
I say, tall order this! When I am sitting on someone's face I do not intend to also give oral service to that person |
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"Hate is quite a strong word. But for me and I don’t tend to mention this often because, well you know, you get labelled as having a “thing” and no one wants that label but you know, the one thing that could be improved (see a positive slant) is the number of well read face-sitters
Whats well read face sitters?
Well. I’m glad you asked. For me a well read face sitter is someone that enjoys reading a good book aloud whilst sitting on my face. It is NOT a “thing”
I say, tall order this! When I am sitting on someone's face I do not intend to also give oral service to that person "
Then the search continues…. Without dreams, the inevitability of the mundane would see us all ‘neath the soil. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just don't care enough to hate anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't care enough to hate anything "
This. I was thinking hard about what I could hate but genuinely couldn't give a toss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t say I ‘hate’ this but I wish fab would make more of itself, like create an app or allowing greater functionality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t do hate.. more like deal with it. More important things in life?
Never take too seriously any site that you can’t control or created yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It gives a platform to Covid conspiracy dicks... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The bullshit
Repetitive subjects in the forums
Injected lips
The vanity
The experts & know it alls
Is there room for more??? |
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"How's you?" If you want a reply, we would like a little more effort than that. "How is you?" is a good start, even if the message makes the same amount of sense as its abbreviated cousin.
"No green people! Just our preference, no offense intended." Fine then, we are proud martians who will block you on sight for feeling the need to publicly advertise your racial aversions. Just our preference, no offense intended
"You WILL BE at least 15 inches!" That's a shame. I (Mr) have been told I'm quite skilled in wielding my one inch monster. He isn't nicknamed Rambo for no reason. Sometimes (rarely) he grows to an inch and a half. Surely that's sufficient!
"Discretion is paramount." No can do, we enjoy nothing more than showing off pictures of our Fab meets during workplace lunches. Rupert from Accounts will be royally pissed if he doesn't get to see the filthy fun we had with you over the weekend.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a great message on a dating site today
Him ... xxxx
Me ... YYYY
him... zzzz
Me ... exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like how fab don't make me coffee and breakfast in the morning, oh that sounds bliss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Receiving abusive messages because we have said no thank you to someone, given he hadn’t even looked at our profile and what we are looking for lol
And today we received an homophobic abusive message from some random guy who didn’t like one of our pics
Pleased to say we have had a lot of lovely friends chatting on here! It’s impossible to sleep with everyone who messages it would take us years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sudden surge of idiots who seem to believe because restrictions have lifted that life is,
just like that,
normal again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who don't read my bio, aren't what I'm looking for and could quickly see this if they did read it, then messaging me and getting shitty with me when I don't reply.
Oh and people who kink shame exhibitionists. We're people too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being able to use my phone's emoji keyboard on here and being limited to the brackets smileys.
Other than that it serves it's purpose well I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that can't read, catfishes, rudeness..other than that good to go haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's nothing about Fab that I hate.
I rarely hate anyone or anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike the website, it does seem to be stuck in the early 2000’s as far as design is concerned. A little focused UX work would go a long way, especially with the mobile version |
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Get very dated need of overhaul. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
The lack of men with noisy grunty when they cum wank vids in their public videos.
I had to resort to using my imagination
All the men on here wanted to make it a negotiation. No. Just show me you milking your cock and groaning when you cum, without me having to frig myself off on cam for it.
Not too much to ask is it? |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
Milford Haven |
"The lack of men with noisy grunty when they cum wank vids in their public videos.
I had to resort to using my imagination
All the men on here wanted to make it a negotiation. No. Just show me you milking your cock and groaning when you cum, without me having to frig myself off on cam for it.
Not too much to ask is it? "
Cum cum cum will sub titles do it for you |
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"Women who mass delete guy's messages, totally by accident, yeah right.
Getting no responses, obligatory not my type response.
Will only meet people i've met in real life response.
Been ghosted by people i've spoken to before for a long time."
To be fair, some women get absolutely swamped by messages. I'm by no means one of the popular women on here and between Friday and Saturday I received over 1100 messages due to a few pictures I'd uploaded. How is someone meant to reply to all of them? I had no choice but to wipe my inbox, losing out on quite a few I'd be interested in because I either didn't see them or the inbox list isn't long enough to display them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fantasists and time wasters |
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People who say let’s meet for a coffee, only then to go offline for a month. I get it quite a lot. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People. Not just on Fab, I just don't like people
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The same people on top pictures all the time, or more so one in particular who's always there who really isn't all that to look at. Not naming names. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When people say they judge people on their spelling or grammar either on profiles or forums. I’m dyslexic and having a dad as a very accomplished English teacher made my school years really hard and I always felt ashamed when at school, especially when it was picked up by teachers and I felt like I’d let or shamed my family. Funny thing is, years later, through teaching myself, coding, Latin, literature, some physics and maths and some other things religious, cultural, historical ( big fan of ancient civilisations) I started to borrow more and more books from my dad. We started to connect and talk about them and even Latin to old English, old English to standard English today. Even the Gilgamesh, possible first ever story book from Mesopotamia times. We even went into the discovery of numeracy, even though he hates maths. The point being is grammar an spelling are the least important, many a famous writer could spell or write grammatical correct. The English language is not about a number of technical structures, there is something far more beautiful about it and how powerful it can be. So when I see people treating something that I use to hate but have grown to love into nothing more then technical achievements, butchering what it’s really about and using it to exclude some as if they’re inferior saddens me. Reminds me of dead poet society when asked to read the first page on how to rate the quality of a poem. It’s more than that and shaming people is never kwl. Sorry for waffling on, just had to be said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site itself is fine and dandy….but there are a few questionable folks…."
Totally agree.
There are a lot of people who don't seem to be familiar with site rules or FAQ's.
People moaning about non-replies when site owners have already covered it.
Entitled people.
People whose expectations of the site are unrealistic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one talks"
I do , sometimes to much for my own good but ask for anything and just happy to get to know people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site itself is fine and dandy….but there are a few questionable folks….
Totally agree.
There are a lot of people who don't seem to be familiar with site rules or FAQ's.
People moaning about non-replies when site owners have already covered it.
Entitled people.
People whose expectations of the site are unrealistic"
Yeah I think it’s a site that you have to be realistic about, stick with it for a while and not get caught up with no-replies etc and just try and make some friends. Doesn’t have to be more than that. Me I chatted with a sound guy. Neither one of us after the other but we’ve arrange doing a straight mmf together and that just from chatting and making friends. Think people forget it all just for a bit of fun really |
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"Odd age limits - 27, 36, 43 etc "
This always makes me wonder what really specific thing happened to lead to it. |
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