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Ladies, do randoms message to ask your bra size?
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Just had yet another one of those from someone I've never spoken to before, not the first stranger to go straight in requesting to know my bra size.
Is this common? Does it only happen to big boobed ladies? And fellas, if this is how you approach women - why? |
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over a year ago
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I'm going to guess it's more of a big boobed occurrence. Perhaps their way of trying to intensify their imagination RE motorboating/being smothered.
I used to guess boob sizes as a party trick but I've never asked it as an ice breaker or otherwise.
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I sometimes think men are a little obsessed by sizes of things, our boobs or the size of the sky remotes, lynx cans next to their penis, etc.
I did get asked for my bra size occasionally & used to have it on my profile to save them asking |
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"Bra size is the least of my worries with some of the questions I get  "
Well yes I also get asked far worse but would still like to know if this is "a thing". I suppose at least they asked rather than saying "Can I ask you a question?"... |
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over a year ago
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Yep...along with a bunch of other 'personal' questions...always clear who has and hasnt read my profile.
I do wonder why they do it? Is it because they are 'collecting' girls with different size boobs, are they looking for a specific size, is it because they have min / max size?  |
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"Bra size is the least of my worries with some of the questions I get
Me too, had a much worse one this morning  "
I kind of want to know what you get in your inbox but don't. I'm guessing it would probably put me off my breakfast. |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
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"safe to say you wouldn't be asked by me as I have no idea what all the different sizes are. I stick with small, Medium or large "
I go with cup, closed fingers handful, wide fingers handful, two hands and scaffolding required. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Use your message filters to stop these sort of messages.
You wouldn't leave your car or house unlocked.
To be honest you complain a lot about this, often I see you starting a thread about how men approach you and your not pro-active about this.
To me it looks like you love the drama and start these threads for attention.
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"safe to say you wouldn't be asked by me as I have no idea what all the different sizes are. I stick with small, Medium or large
I go with cup, closed fingers handful, wide fingers handful, two hands and scaffolding required."
you've given it way to much thought I'd say |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"I sometimes think men are a little obsessed by sizes of things, our boobs or the size of the sky remotes, lynx cans next to their penis, etc.
I did get asked for my bra size occasionally & used to have it on my profile to save them asking "
So guys use the sky remote for measuring their cocks. What would be the universal measuring tool for boobs? |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
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"safe to say you wouldn't be asked by me as I have no idea what all the different sizes are. I stick with small, Medium or large
I go with cup, closed fingers handful, wide fingers handful, two hands and scaffolding required.
you've given it way to much thought I'd say"
Not sure you can think too much about boobs? |
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"safe to say you wouldn't be asked by me as I have no idea what all the different sizes are. I stick with small, Medium or large
I go with cup, closed fingers handful, wide fingers handful, two hands and scaffolding required.
you've given it way to much thought I'd say
Not sure you can think too much about boobs?"
more of a bum and leg man myself |
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"Use your message filters to stop these sort of messages.
You wouldn't leave your car or house unlocked.
To be honest you complain a lot about this, often I see you starting a thread about how men approach you and your not pro-active about this.
To me it looks like you love the drama and start these threads for attention.
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Ah, you again. What do you know of my filters? Is there one to stop dumbass questions? Is it my fault that men sens stupid messages because you think I'm akin to a piece of property, ie an car?
The only one starting drama here is you. As per. On a woman's post, as per. Derailing it to centre it to your agenda, as per. |
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"Use your message filters to stop these sort of messages.
You wouldn't leave your car or house unlocked.
To be honest you complain a lot about this, often I see you starting a thread about how men approach you and your not pro-active about this.
To me it looks like you love the drama and start these threads for attention.
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Aren't all threads started for attention? As in: 'can I have your attention please.. I have a question'
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Oh yes.
That’s quite tame compared to some other requests I’ve received  it looks like some others here have had the same messages!
It’s not the odd requests that’s the issue as we all have things we are in to and they can sometimes be entertaining. How dull would this place be if we all liked the same things.
For me ( and I am sure many other single females here) it’s the fact it’s a straight to the point message, they haven’t read my profile, made no effort in conversation or actually shown an interest in me.
So to just send a random what size are you message I think is quite rude.
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"I sometimes think men are a little obsessed by sizes of things, our boobs or the size of the sky remotes, lynx cans next to their penis, etc.
I did get asked for my bra size occasionally & used to have it on my profile to save them asking
So guys use the sky remote for measuring their cocks. What would be the universal measuring tool for boobs?"
Saucepans maybe, from those one mug little milk ones upto the huge stockpot saucepans  |
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"Oh yes.
That’s quite tame compared to some other requests I’ve received it looks like some others here have had the same messages!
It’s not the odd requests that’s the issue as we all have things we are in to and they can sometimes be entertaining. How dull would this place be if we all liked the same things.
For me ( and I am sure many other single females here) it’s the fact it’s a straight to the point message, they haven’t read my profile, made no effort in conversation or actually shown an interest in me.
So to just send a random what size are you message I think is quite rude.
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Yep. Barely even a cursory hello. I understand curiosity and thunk it's OK to wonder and even ask when rapport has been built up but going straight in like that is a little rude in my book. But apparently my fault for not clicking on the filter option to stop such messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Use your message filters to stop these sort of messages.
You wouldn't leave your car or house unlocked.
To be honest you complain a lot about this, often I see you starting a thread about how men approach you and your not pro-active about this.
To me it looks like you love the drama and start these threads for attention.
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There are no filters to stop stupid/rude/ nasty questions from coming through to anyone on Fab. Same as there isn't one to block stupid people...... |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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I don't get asked that.. Mustn't be impressive enough.
I often get worship messages asking to worship my pussy, feet etc. Sissy slut cleaner sl*ves etc. I'm often tempted by the latter, I could use some help at home.
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"Use your message filters to stop these sort of messages.
You wouldn't leave your car or house unlocked.
To be honest you complain a lot about this, often I see you starting a thread about how men approach you and your not pro-active about this.
To me it looks like you love the drama and start these threads for attention.
There are no filters to stop stupid/rude/ nasty questions from coming through to anyone on Fab. Same as there isn't one to block stupid people......"
Indeed. But no matter how men behave, it's always women's fault, isn't it. We can take time to write a profile setting out what we're about, choose age limits and set filters around that and other preferences. If men meet rhrm they are free tonkessahe, that doesn't guarantee that they won't be rude, lazy or have read the profile. Yoi can't filter that out, short of blocking all men.
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Just had yet another one of those from someone I've never spoken to before, not the first stranger to go straight in requesting to know my bra size.
Is this common? Does it only happen to big boobed ladies? And fellas, if this is how you approach women - why?"
Yup I have had that a fair amount over all the years I've been on here....
The one that really foxes me though is someone asking if they can wank over my pics!?
If I say no would that actually stop them??? If I read their message hours or days later is it too late to say yay or nay!?  |
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"Just had yet another one of those from someone I've never spoken to before, not the first stranger to go straight in requesting to know my bra size.
Is this common? Does it only happen to big boobed ladies? And fellas, if this is how you approach women - why?
Yup I have had that a fair amount over all the years I've been on here....
The one that really foxes me though is someone asking if they can wank over my pics!?
If I say no would that actually stop them??? If I read their message hours or days later is it too late to say yay or nay!? "
I think the asking is really just to let you know that they're going to do it and hopefully pique your interest to watch/receive a tribute. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Use your message filters to stop these sort of messages.
You wouldn't leave your car or house unlocked.
To be honest you complain a lot about this, often I see you starting a thread about how men approach you and your not pro-active about this.
To me it looks like you love the drama and start these threads for attention.
There are no filters to stop stupid/rude/ nasty questions from coming through to anyone on Fab. Same as there isn't one to block stupid people......
Indeed. But no matter how men behave, it's always women's fault, isn't it. We can take time to write a profile setting out what we're about, choose age limits and set filters around that and other preferences. If men meet rhrm they are free tonkessahe, that doesn't guarantee that they won't be rude, lazy or have read the profile. Yoi can't filter that out, short of blocking all men.
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You are silly to assume that 95% of people will even read your profile..... Most never get past the pretty pictures before dropping you a woefully inadequate line! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Just had yet another one of those from someone I've never spoken to before, not the first stranger to go straight in requesting to know my bra size.
Is this common? Does it only happen to big boobed ladies? And fellas, if this is how you approach women - why?
Yup I have had that a fair amount over all the years I've been on here....
The one that really foxes me though is someone asking if they can wank over my pics!?
If I say no would that actually stop them??? If I read their message hours or days later is it too late to say yay or nay!?
I think the asking is really just to let you know that they're going to do it and hopefully pique your interest to watch/receive a tribute."
My interest however is fully elsewhere after reading such like sadly!
Just read back my last reply saying you are silly - not meant in any way offensively just to confirm as my wording was bad - sorry |
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What's your bra size/have you ever used a strap on/do you sell your knickers/do you deep throat/yadda yadda yadda...
Just that, no 'hello' or anything remotely polite but what else can I expect, I'm just a faceless, profile-less wet hole on a 'sex' site, I'm here to be used and disrespected.
Not human at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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.......that doesn't guarantee that they won't be rude, lazy or have read the profile. Yoi can't filter that out, short of blocking all men.
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Thats what iv resorted to. When im online i have men blocked from messaging 75% of the time. I go looking for them instead. If im feeling lazy, ill unblock them, but then i soon get fed up of the same messages, mostly from guys who haven't bothered to read my profile. I dont like painting every guy with the same brush but needs must sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes OP, I get these msgs quite often too...it's a very mild question though compared to some I get.
I met a guy before & he forcefully removed my bra to check the size on it...it was just toooooooo weird, he was freakish about it....major turn off |
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I get asked regularly, only reason someone needs to know is to buy me lingerie.
Do you think they have a cut off "oh that's a shame if you were one cup size smaller I'd of been interested, but it's a no from me now"
It's genuinely like men come in two different species, the smart funny engaging ones you want to interact with ....and the others.
Changed out our settings recently to filter out the new/unverified accounts it's made everyday since so much easier wish we'd known that feature earlier.
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“What’s your bra size?” and it’s always inevitably followed up with “Really?”
Sometimes it’s tempting to say 30A to see if the question is actually a question or just one they think might get a better reply than “Wnt 2 FiL?” |
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I ask this but its actually because its my hobby, I'm a bra spotter.
I don my jam jar glasses, put my flat cap on, get my little leather bound note pad out and me and the boys get spotting
I'm looking for a 36G in red if anyone can help? |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
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"You should consider yourself lucky. I always get asked what my bum size is
How do you answer that one? No measurement system for that."
I would reply, “last one needed two flushes”, and then see what response you get… |
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I was going to make a post about this!!!
I get guys trying to guess mine.... Why?!
And if you get it right, which never happens, what's in it for you?! You want a prize? You going to buy me some undies? |
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"Use your message filters to stop these sort of messages.
You wouldn't leave your car or house unlocked.
To be honest you complain a lot about this, often I see you starting a thread about how men approach you and your not pro-active about this.
To me it looks like you love the drama and start these threads for attention.
Ah, you again. What do you know of my filters? Is there one to stop dumbass questions? Is it my fault that men sens stupid messages because you think I'm akin to a piece of property, ie an car?
The only one starting drama here is you. As per. On a woman's post, as per. Derailing it to centre it to your agenda, as per."
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"I get asked regularly but one guy asked how heavy they were
Not something I've ever thought of doing really!! "
Curvy Kate have a size/weight comparison thing on their site. Search curvy Kate boobs weight, it's funny! From jelly beans, to squirrels, to bottles of cola! |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for"
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless "
Omg we should do it |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless "
54 FF, close ? |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless
54 FF, close ?"
Almost |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless
Omg we should do it "
Send me boobs I’ll have a go. And will literally get it completely wrong |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless
Omg we should do it
Send me boobs I’ll have a go. And will literally get it completely wrong "
Haha. Good thinking mister. Very clever |
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It happens to me a lot and I've never understood it. You can clearly see I've a pair of melons on me, what difference does it make what number is attached to them?
Genuine question by the way, I am interested!
On another site a young lad asked and I answered WD40, to see what would happen. He replied "cool". |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless
Omg we should do it
Send me boobs I’ll have a go. And will literally get it completely wrong
Haha. Good thinking mister. Very clever "
Call it research |
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"It happens to me a lot and I've never understood it. You can clearly see I've a pair of melons on me, what difference does it make what number is attached to them?
Genuine question by the way, I am interested!
On another site a young lad asked and I answered WD40, to see what would happen. He replied "cool"."
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless "
After this post I had some people messaging to guess - way off. What's the point in having the info if they don't even know what it means? |
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"Maybe we need a boob size thread… you lovely lasses just post what size you are and those lads can refer back whenever they need to know for whatever reason it is they need to know for
There was a guess the boob size once. The men were all useless
After this post I had some people messaging to guess - way off. What's the point in having the info if they don't even know what it means?"
I know! |
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"Most men and women don’t know how bra sizing works anyway.
Surely most women do?"
You would be surprised! We were talking about this the other day over lunch, and 3 out of 5 didnt know, only me and one other knew, the other 3 didnt understand how sizing worked or how to measure for one. Don't think its common knowledge for some reason |
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"Most men and women don’t know how bra sizing works anyway.
Surely most women do?
You would be surprised! We were talking about this the other day over lunch, and 3 out of 5 didnt know, only me and one other knew, the other 3 didnt understand how sizing worked or how to measure for one. Don't think its common knowledge for some reason"
That's so weird! Are they just walking around in ill-fitting bras that dig into the boobs and gape at the back?
In fairness while I know how it works in theory, sizing is extremely variable in practice. |
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"Most men and women don’t know how bra sizing works anyway.
Surely most women do?
You would be surprised! We were talking about this the other day over lunch, and 3 out of 5 didnt know, only me and one other knew, the other 3 didnt understand how sizing worked or how to measure for one. Don't think its common knowledge for some reason
That's so weird! Are they just walking around in ill-fitting bras that dig into the boobs and gape at the back?
In fairness while I know how it works in theory, sizing is extremely variable in practice."
Yea pretty much. They said its like trial and error. But like you say, sizes vary a lot so i guess they know roughly and then see whats comfy and whats not |
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