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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
Depends on what you are looking at - do I feel unappreciated as a woman and "meet material" or as a "forum poster"?
That said, it has actually never entered my head - I post when I suddenly have the urge. I meet when I suddenly have the urge.
Does not really matter what others think - you ll always find some who appreciate you and some who do not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take it you clearly do OP, cause you’ve started this thread.
I think some of my finest work gets overlooked. For example, my ‘serotonin’ comment was completely over looked in a thread about things that make you happy the other day, I wouldn’t mind but someone said ‘bums’ and got 84 reply and quotes and people literally wetting themselves, but I put it down to I’m operating at a very different level. |
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"Depends on what you are looking at - do I feel unappreciated as a woman and "meet material" or as a "forum poster"?
That said, it has actually never entered my head - I post when I suddenly have the urge. I meet when I suddenly have the urge.
Does not really matter what others think - you ll always find some who appreciate you and some who do not."
This - the woman bit  |
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We’d all be surprised how many people notice us or appreciate our posts, humour, accountability and pics just because they don’t share it with us.
I feel as though we all touch/resonate with someone daily on here, even if we don’t know it at the time  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"We’d all be surprised how many people notice us or appreciate our posts, humour, accountability and pics just because they don’t share it with us.
I feel as though we all touch/resonate with someone daily on here, even if we don’t know it at the time "
Completely agree with you. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"We’d all be surprised how many people notice us or appreciate our posts, humour, accountability and pics just because they don’t share it with us.
I feel as though we all touch/resonate with someone daily on here, even if we don’t know it at the time "
I agree with this. I think there are some right funny, kind, thoughtful folk on here but they wouldn’t know it because I don’t tell them. I appreciate the input of a great many forumites, particularly over the last year or so, the humour and feel good stories have parted the clouds when rain has threatened to overwhelm.
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"Yes! Too fookin' right I feel unappreciated.
Someone set up a timetable for individual appreciation of me followed at the weekends by group worship and adoration.
My ego is suffering "
Granny your slip is showing.
(Always happens when she gets “animated”) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’d all be surprised how many people notice us or appreciate our posts, humour, accountability and pics just because they don’t share it with us.
I feel as though we all touch/resonate with someone daily on here, even if we don’t know it at the time "
I'd agree with this. I post because I enjoy it and if someone else does to then that's a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Naa im honestly not so bothered i like me i think im a good honourable hero of my own story every book or movie has critiques don't stop em being best sellers or cult classics |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"Yes! Too fookin' right I feel unappreciated.
Someone set up a timetable for individual appreciation of me followed at the weekends by group worship and adoration.
My ego is suffering "
I'm on it.....
*reaches for clipboard and stopwatch
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes! Too fookin' right I feel unappreciated.
Someone set up a timetable for individual appreciation of me followed at the weekends by group worship and adoration.
My ego is suffering
Granny your slip is showing.
(Always happens when she gets “animated”) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The opposite really. I message or chat with very few people so have little direct contact with most on Forum but I still have lots of enjoyable and interesting in-thread interactions with total strangers which is quite something, I feel.
Although my Detachable Cock thread didn’t really find its audience, it’s true.   |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest - am not here looking for appreciation so can't feel under appreciated by default.
If I happen to be appreciated as a result of my presence that's a pleasant by-product for sure, but it's not my reason for being here.
Those I truly appreciate being appreciated by are people I know as friends and who know me - not random people on an Internet forum. |
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I wonder if those who answered no it's because they have realistic expectations and do come looking for validation and some who do look for it and find it. I'm guessing people would be more likely to say the first but would not admit to the second. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The opposite really. I message or chat with very few people so have little direct contact with most on Forum but I still have lots of enjoyable and interesting in-thread interactions with total strangers which is quite something, I feel.
Although my Detachable Cock thread didn’t really find its audience, it’s true. "
Detachable cock? One, I didn’t see the thread and two……OUCH!!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel unappreciated on here?
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I don’t put enough time and effort into this to warrant any appreciation to be fair… hopefully you are not feeling that way, for the record you probably daily make me google a word I don’t know, so I appreciate the vocabulary even if it’s temporary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do think forum interaction isnt as interactionary as when I was first here. People would bounce off people a bit more, or just make it known if they found something funny or struck a cord. I know I become a bit lazy even if I found something funny/interesting I will just smile to myself rather than clog up the thread with a  . If you mean that sort of appreciation rather than the does anybody love me type of appreciation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if those who answered no it's because they have realistic expectations and do come looking for validation and some who do look for it and find it. I'm guessing people would be more likely to say the first but would not admit to the second. "
No, appreciation is not something I seek or crave from strangers, just as in life. I befriend people and it matters to me that they know I appreciate them and I assume it is reciprocated in some small measure. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I wonder if those who answered no it's because they have realistic expectations and do come looking for validation and some who do look for it and find it. I'm guessing people would be more likely to say the first but would not admit to the second.
No, appreciation is not something I seek or crave from strangers, just as in life. I befriend people and it matters to me that they know I appreciate them and I assume it is reciprocated in some small measure."
Well said - "appreciation is not something I seek or crave from strangers, just as in life"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if those who answered no it's because they have realistic expectations and do come looking for validation and some who do look for it and find it. I'm guessing people would be more likely to say the first but would not admit to the second.
No, appreciation is not something I seek or crave from strangers, just as in life. I befriend people and it matters to me that they know I appreciate them and I assume it is reciprocated in some small measure."
The key word there is befriend. Sometimes you befriend strangers and sometimes you wonder why befriend them in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not today
Number 2 on hot pics. Our girl done good
Stupidly proud of myself 
It’s ok, I’ll still call you a dick "
I’ve just seen the photo at number 3 in hot pics, she’s not playing games, or maybe she is I dunno. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Not today
Number 2 on hot pics. Our girl done good
Stupidly proud of myself
It’s ok, I’ll still call you a dick
I’ve just seen the photo at number 3 in hot pics, she’s not playing games, or maybe she is I dunno. "
Another salad related injury |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not today
Number 2 on hot pics. Our girl done good
Stupidly proud of myself
It’s ok, I’ll still call you a dick
I’ve just seen the photo at number 3 in hot pics, she’s not playing games, or maybe she is I dunno. "
You saw it. I’m on top of her, that cucumber is digging right in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not today
Number 2 on hot pics. Our girl done good
Stupidly proud of myself
It’s ok, I’ll still call you a dick
I’ve just seen the photo at number 3 in hot pics, she’s not playing games, or maybe she is I dunno.
Another salad related injury "
It’s just the tip of the iceberg etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not today
Number 2 on hot pics. Our girl done good
Stupidly proud of myself
It’s ok, I’ll still call you a dick
I’ve just seen the photo at number 3 in hot pics, she’s not playing games, or maybe she is I dunno.
You saw it. I’m on top of her, that cucumber is digging right in."
Ask her if she’s okay! |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Not today
Number 2 on hot pics. Our girl done good
Stupidly proud of myself
It’s ok, I’ll still call you a dick
I’ve just seen the photo at number 3 in hot pics, she’s not playing games, or maybe she is I dunno.
Another salad related injury
It’s just the tip of the iceberg etc "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not today
Number 2 on hot pics. Our girl done good
Stupidly proud of myself
It’s ok, I’ll still call you a dick
I’ve just seen the photo at number 3 in hot pics, she’s not playing games, or maybe she is I dunno.
You saw it. I’m on top of her, that cucumber is digging right in.
Ask her if she’s okay! "
I’ve eaten the cucumber, she’s fine |
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"Not in the slightest - am not here looking for appreciation so can't feel under appreciated by default.
If I happen to be appreciated as a result of my presence that's a pleasant by-product for sure, but it's not my reason for being here.
Those I truly appreciate being appreciated by are people I know as friends and who know me - not random people on an Internet forum."
Saved me typing GM . This |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
It’s not what it used to be. I preferred what it was like years ago. Which did feel a lot more accepting because people were riffing off each other all the time. There’s still moments of it here and a couple of decent op’s about but it’s lost a lot of it’s charm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today I do... I've only received one message asking to impregnate me
Raise your upper age limit and I'll send you one too
(Just kidding)"
Block him hahaha. |
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"It’s not what it used to be. I preferred what it was like years ago. Which did feel a lot more accepting because people were riffing off each other all the time. There’s still moments of it here and a couple of decent op’s about but it’s lost a lot of it’s charm. "
I do think personalities bounced off each other more frequently a few years ago but I also think it's less to do with a change of personalities and more to do with the very phoney sentimentality and insincere sincerity that pervades and gives the upper hand to professional victims. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It’s not what it used to be. I preferred what it was like years ago. Which did feel a lot more accepting because people were riffing off each other all the time. There’s still moments of it here and a couple of decent op’s about but it’s lost a lot of it’s charm.
I do think personalities bounced off each other more frequently a few years ago but I also think it's less to do with a change of personalities and more to do with the very phoney sentimentality and insincere sincerity that pervades and gives the upper hand to professional victims. "
I think that professional victims is an over statement.
Most victims that I know are preserving their amateur status for the Olympics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel unappreciated on here?
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Nope, not a bit.." lm just glad to be here...happy to be alive "..( thats a song lyric btw ..see if ya can stick in the next bit )  |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"It’s not what it used to be. I preferred what it was like years ago. Which did feel a lot more accepting because people were riffing off each other all the time. There’s still moments of it here and a couple of decent op’s about but it’s lost a lot of it’s charm.
I do think personalities bounced off each other more frequently a few years ago but I also think it's less to do with a change of personalities and more to do with the very phoney sentimentality and insincere sincerity that pervades and gives the upper hand to professional victims. "
Be kind granny
Be kind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
Honestly, not much more to it than nope.
I guess it's not somewhere that I need to be appreciated at all. "
Completely this.
I'd be worried about myself if I felt like I needed appreciation from a bunch of strangers on a forum that I cross paths with every now and then.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I take it you clearly do OP, cause you’ve started this thread.
I think some of my finest work gets overlooked. For example, my ‘serotonin’ comment was completely over looked in a thread about things that make you happy the other day, I wouldn’t mind but someone said ‘bums’ and got 84 reply and quotes and people literally wetting themselves, but I put it down to I’m operating at a very different level. "
Wit can be dangerous , the better it is the more likely it’s missed. Bums, cocks and fannys are safe replies that will generally go down well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I don't. Just because someone doesn’t say thank you to me for a comment, a wee bit of advice or a new thread doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate me. Not everyone uses words to express their gratitude. |
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"It’s not what it used to be. I preferred what it was like years ago. Which did feel a lot more accepting because people were riffing off each other all the time. There’s still moments of it here and a couple of decent op’s about but it’s lost a lot of it’s charm.
I do think personalities bounced off each other more frequently a few years ago but I also think it's less to do with a change of personalities and more to do with the very phoney sentimentality and insincere sincerity that pervades and gives the upper hand to professional victims.
I think that professional victims is an over statement.
Most victims that I know are preserving their amateur status for the Olympics "
You are correct. I inadvertently gave them greater status than they have yet to achieve. |
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"It’s not what it used to be. I preferred what it was like years ago. Which did feel a lot more accepting because people were riffing off each other all the time. There’s still moments of it here and a couple of decent op’s about but it’s lost a lot of it’s charm.
I do think personalities bounced off each other more frequently a few years ago but I also think it's less to do with a change of personalities and more to do with the very phoney sentimentality and insincere sincerity that pervades and gives the upper hand to professional victims.
Be kind granny
Be kind "
See ! I was kindness personified. Just authentic.
Where's the sack cloth and ashes.... I'll pretend to be forgiven. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I made (what I thought was ..) a cracking joke on here t’other day.
Whoosh.
Right over everyone’s heads.
Tough audience for sure!"
I want to hear the joke |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"It’s not what it used to be. I preferred what it was like years ago. Which did feel a lot more accepting because people were riffing off each other all the time. There’s still moments of it here and a couple of decent op’s about but it’s lost a lot of it’s charm.
I do think personalities bounced off each other more frequently a few years ago but I also think it's less to do with a change of personalities and more to do with the very phoney sentimentality and insincere sincerity that pervades and gives the upper hand to professional victims.
Be kind granny
Be kind
See ! I was kindness personified. Just authentic.
Where's the sack cloth and ashes.... I'll pretend to be forgiven."
I think sack cloth and ashes have moved to Wednesdays with the ever popular ‘Sach Cloth and Ash Wednesday’ thread.
I have my new avatar ready and raring to go |
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"Not at all. Luuuurve the attention I get.  "
Actually, I really admired your post the other day about 'thingy' I thought it had power and lack of self pity... i didn't respond for my own reasons , I just appreciated is silently......
I had enough forced appreciation at school for the record |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are times I wonder why I post things but it's not that I'm unappreciated.
I know I provide value to the forums. The forums are better because of my contribution. The forums need everyone to contribution to be good.
But sometimes it feels like I'm talking into a void and no one can hear me and that makes me feel like I'm wasting my time. |
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