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over a year ago
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Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does sleeping with the whole site literally mean everyone on it regardless of sex, gender or orientation?"
Well I mean, probley everyone within there own sexual orientation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
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Exactly! And there is no such thing as slit shaming! ;") |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
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By Jove, I think she’s cracked it!
This 100% |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
Exactly! And there is no such thing as slit shaming! ;")"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?"
Oh
My
God!
How devious! No one would Ever do that!
I can't believe it!!!! |
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"It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
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True |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm told that there are men who genuinely don't want to sleep with the whole site
I'm still skeptical. "
I don't. It would interfere with my book reading. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think anybody literally wants to have sex with everyone on the site. There is however a tacit suggestion in lots of profiles and forum posts that high numbers of partners is a "bad thing"."
#DIMINISHSLUTSHAMEING |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, because sleeping with the whole site would mean sleeping with about 25,000 people I have no interest in!
Also, I'm 7 months barren (deliberately, pandemic & all) so form an orderly queue. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm told that there are men who genuinely don't want to sleep with the whole site
I'm still skeptical.
I don't. It would interfere with my book reading."
What if they offer to hop on the Polony pony whilst you sit back and read? |
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"I don't think anybody literally wants to have sex with everyone on the site. There is however a tacit suggestion in lots of profiles and forum posts that high numbers of partners is a "bad thing".
#DIMINISHSLUTSHAMEING"
Never going to happen. |
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"It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
By Jove, I think she’s cracked it!
This 100%" not heard by jove since my Nan was alive! ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm told that there are men who genuinely don't want to sleep with the whole site
I'm still skeptical.
I don't. It would interfere with my book reading.
What if they offer to hop on the Polony pony whilst you sit back and read?"
I don't like a woman on top. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it even possible "
I mean it's a euphemism for lots of people right, I dont think it's said literally, do they think it portrays a sense of self control, or males them look less dorst in the eyes of other people. Iv seen profiles saying they won't sleep with any one with lots of verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
By Jove, I think she’s cracked it!
This 100%not heard by jove since my Nan was alive! "
Exclusive, classy and discerning - 3 things that literally nobody who belongs to this site can genuinely claim to be! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm told that there are men who genuinely don't want to sleep with the whole site
I'm still skeptical.
I don't. It would interfere with my book reading.
What if they offer to hop on the Polony pony whilst you sit back and read?
I don't like a woman on top."
Horses for courses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one should ever be slut shamed...Or slit shamed lol!
#allslitsarebeautiful"
Sadly, the cretins who slut shame on here struggle with reading so they don't look at the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No one should ever be slut shamed...Or slit shamed lol!
#allslitsarebeautiful
Sadly, the cretins who slut shame on here struggle with reading so they don't look at the forums."
Painting with the same brush there ain't you lad |
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"It's a weird phrase that some deploy in the hopes of seeming exclusive, classy, discerning?
To me it suggests they still have hang ups about promiscuity, which is ridiculous. One does not lose any validity or worth as a person thru having consensual sex with many people.
By Jove, I think she’s cracked it!
This 100%not heard by jove since my Nan was alive!
Exclusive, classy and discerning - 3 things that literally nobody who belongs to this site can genuinely claim to be!"
She was ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one should ever be slut shamed...Or slit shamed lol!
#allslitsarebeautiful
Sadly, the cretins who slut shame on here struggle with reading so they don't look at the forums.
Painting with the same brush there ain't you lad"
Sorry? |
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?"
Quality not quantity ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No one should ever be slut shamed...Or slit shamed lol!
#allslitsarebeautiful
Sadly, the cretins who slut shame on here struggle with reading so they don't look at the forums.
Painting with the same brush there ain't you lad
Sorry?"
No mind no harm done mwa x |
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?"
Either that or they don't want to sleep with the whole site. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity "
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception |
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception "
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would anyone on here want to sleep with the whole site?
I've seen it written on women's profiles too.
I think it means they are being selective in who they are seeking."
It's a daft thing to write, since everyone is selective in who they.....oh wait.. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception "
Also, one woman's quality might be my never in a million years.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm told that there are men who genuinely don't want to sleep with the whole site
I'm still skeptical.
I don't. It would interfere with my book reading.
Typical bloody man who can't multitask"
Typical bloody woman. Moaning:") mwa x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying. "
Very true, it is annoying. Why not aim for quantity and quality...?! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying.
Very true, it is annoying. Why not aim for quantity and quality...?! "
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying. "
I know, I wasn’t talking directly to yourself, more expanding on your point ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying.
I know, I wasn’t talking directly to yourself, more expanding on your point "
Ah I’ll let you off then. As it’s you ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying.
Very true, it is annoying. Why not aim for quantity and quality...?! "
Yeah. Not too easy to find! ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying.
Very true, it is annoying. Why not aim for quantity and quality...?!
Yeah. Not too easy to find! "
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying.
Very true, it is annoying. Why not aim for quantity and quality...?!
Yeah. Not too easy to find!
Oh the burn...."
can you feel it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do some men say they don't want to sleep with the whole site, I'n hopes that by saying that it might help them come across more appealing in order to secretly help them along the way towards sleeping with the whole site or most of, if they find the suiter attractive?
Quality not quantity
Quality and quantity aren’t mutually exclusive though. What if there’s a high quantity of quality available?
The belief that low numbers denote high quality is a common misconception
I know. I was joking because you see that all the time along with what the op said. I find it just as annoying.
Very true, it is annoying. Why not aim for quantity and quality...?!
Yeah. Not too easy to find!
Oh the burn....
can you feel it "
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"I’d quite like to see a few profiles with “I want to sleep with everyone on the site”.
People should show a little ambition!
Go on, reach for the stars, Barry! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t think there’s actually anything deep in it. I think it’s just a way of saying I’m not here just for the sex."
Oh the old companionship and foot rubs nutshell. |
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