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Finishing off on a blowjob
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"Used to be like that, one woman opened the flood gates so to speak, now not a problem.
Probably a mental thing. "
Same here.
Learning to simply relax and ‘go with it’ seems to be a key.
It’s kind of difficult to describe  |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Ive had some amazing BJ's but it is very rare I can cum.
It's like getting edged, I get so far, then it just starts all over again.
I've tried to relax, but nothing seems to work, it's very frustrating for me, and the woman giving it, as a few have taken it personally |
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I had blow jobs that have done nothing much for me and she's had to stop because of jaw ache and I've had ones that blew my mind.
It's all down to the giver and sometimes meds or things playing on your mind |
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By *eanoD90Man
over a year ago
Clacton-on-Sea |
"Used to be like that, one woman opened the flood gates so to speak, now not a problem.
Probably a mental thing.
This  "
Must be....I fucking loveeee the head, but getting to the cum point, just don't happen. Been very close a few times |
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By *eanoD90Man
over a year ago
Clacton-on-Sea |
"I had blow jobs that have done nothing much for me and she's had to stop because of jaw ache and I've had ones that blew my mind.
It's all down to the giver and sometimes meds or things playing on your mind "
this makes sense |
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Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never finished off on bj Before,
Im Starting to think i never will have any other lads had the same before?
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Guy walks into a pub and orders six whiskies in the same glass. The barman asks him why he wants so many and the guy says i’m Celebrating my first blowjob, the barman says fantastic here I will give you a seventh and the guy says fuck that, if six won’t get rid of the taste what’s a seventh going to do! |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
Start communicating with your lovers and letting each other know what feels good. Everyone is different in style and technique and in needs.. So if you want to achieve orgasm through oral sex, start by finding someone you can feel super relaxed with to experiment with.. With curiosity and lightness with no pressure on either of you.
I love this kind of sex.. Taking away the performance pressure and just pleasuring each other and exploring. |
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"Start communicating with your lovers and letting each other know what feels good. Everyone is different in style and technique and in needs.. So if you want to achieve orgasm through oral sex, start by finding someone you can feel super relaxed with to experiment with.. With curiosity and lightness with no pressure on either of you.
I love this kind of sex.. Taking away the performance pressure and just pleasuring each other and exploring."
this!! |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it "
Or perhaps what they do doesn't quite work for you. It may however work for someone else.
So Educate them..respectfully. If someone was giving me head and it didn't feel very good I'm not gonna lie there and let them carry on.. That's no good for either of us. Instruction, communication and informing can be really hot.
Why should we be expected to know exactly what makes each unique partner tick and turn. Part of the fun is finding out. |
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"Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it
Or perhaps what they do doesn't quite work for you. It may however work for someone else.
So Educate them..respectfully. If someone was giving me head and it didn't feel very good I'm not gonna lie there and let them carry on.. That's no good for either of us. Instruction, communication and informing can be really hot.
Why should we be expected to know exactly what makes each unique partner tick and turn. Part of the fun is finding out. "
Agree but I guess there’s only so much direction you can give - sometimes you’re just not connected I think. It is about communication and we are all different - more importantly we don’t all like the same things. Just sometimes I think you don’t match and you just have to accept it. Love the guitar pics by the way x |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it
Or perhaps what they do doesn't quite work for you. It may however work for someone else.
So Educate them..respectfully. If someone was giving me head and it didn't feel very good I'm not gonna lie there and let them carry on.. That's no good for either of us. Instruction, communication and informing can be really hot.
Why should we be expected to know exactly what makes each unique partner tick and turn. Part of the fun is finding out.
Agree but I guess there’s only so much direction you can give - sometimes you’re just not connected I think. It is about communication and we are all different - more importantly we don’t all like the same things. Just sometimes I think you don’t match and you just have to accept it. Love the guitar pics by the way x"
Yes, chemistry and compatability help. Thanks x |
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