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Dirty talk - does it add something?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you're having a hot and horny fuck, do you like to talk dirty? If so, how much and how dirty do you like it?
Personally i find it a huge turn on to talk filthy while fucking but not that many people are into it, or are good at it.
I'd love to find a couple (or female) who enjoy it and the extra it adds to a great fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, I was never much good at it personally though.
Saying "I'd chuck me muck in you" in a gruff Northern accent apparently isn't the road to quim that I was led to believe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you're having a hot and horny fuck, do you like to talk dirty? If so, how much and how dirty do you like it?
Personally i find it a huge turn on to talk filthy while fucking but not that many people are into it, or are good at it.
I'd love to find a couple (or female) who enjoy it and the extra it adds to a great fuck."
It does to us...   |
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The word 'dirty' tends to put me off but I know what you mean.
Sexually arousing talk works at the right place at the right time with the right person ......
To be fair it's only if 'I' am in the zone.
If i'm not it can feel a bit repugnant ...
Also .... done wrong / inappropriately it makes me laugh my head off .. ( but only with someone I know well )
I guess I don't need the fantasy of it really.
It's good at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint  |
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Mind you ...... I knew a Turkish bloke who would talk Turkish in foreplay and during ......
Jesus he could have been reciting a shopping list , I wouldn't have known, I just melted every time .....
So ........maybe it's the man not the lingo. |
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"Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint "
That's a bit too much ........ mint indeed! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint "
The key is in the moment. Even people who think they hate it I feel would find it enhances things only when it's the right things at the right times. If it's something that people feel needs to be done, then it comes across as not genuine and just meh.
Timing and context! These are the important things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I tend to dip a toe in checking what words are acceptable first. If they all are, then i go for it.
A stream of filth lets whoever you are with know just how much you're enjoying them. Importantly it's a very good way to steer them into doing what you want, or to check in that they are enjoying what you're doing.
Just an occasional "oooh...arrh" doesn't tell you how hard you're pushing their buttons or let them know how hard they're pushing yours |
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"Never been one to dirty talk and doesn't really do much for me either. I'm much more quiet as I get caught up in all the sensations going on."
On this point ....... When you are focused on a bodily pleasure or near to climax and someone utters something out of context or worse still asks a question!!!!...... all is lost ... |
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"Not for me.
The wrong word or something said that I interpreted badly could dry my fanny faster than a fast thing going full speed.
Oh you said that much better than I did  "
Especially when it's in reference to previous shags/partners. "Oh you such my dick so much better than XYZ"
Gee thanks, now I'm aware that even though that was supposed to be a compliment, you're thinking about someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dirty talk can also be very descriptive.
Some of the best sex you can have is in your head, using imagination. When you combine physical sex with getting your partner to imagine and visualise what's happening it gets deeper! (excuse the pun!) lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint
The key is in the moment. Even people who think they hate it I feel would find it enhances things only when it's the right things at the right times. If it's something that people feel needs to be done, then it comes across as not genuine and just meh.
Timing and context! These are the important things. "
I think there are two problems... One is that i sound like the talking clock /newsreader and the second occurs when i tune into myself... I then cannot help but do an internal commentary that really does not help  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint
The key is in the moment. Even people who think they hate it I feel would find it enhances things only when it's the right things at the right times. If it's something that people feel needs to be done, then it comes across as not genuine and just meh.
Timing and context! These are the important things.
I think there are two problems... One is that i sound like the talking clock /newsreader and the second occurs when i tune into myself... I then cannot help but do an internal commentary that really does not help "
The trick is to not do it as if it is a script. Leave pauses and delays between words or sentences.
Relate it to what you are feeling and want him to do. You don't need to read out a novel, just a few phrases every so often. Then build up from there. Combine dirty talk with feedback as a starter point and grow from that. I think you would surprise yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You have to free yourself to say anything. "Cunt" might be offensive to many but would you rather a big cock were easing slowly between your cunt lips as they stretched wide open round his throbbing meat, pulsing inside your dripping hole, or, would you like his willy in your fanny? lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It really is down to context and timing, has to be natural and from what you are feeling rather than forced scripture "
Of course! That's the best dirty talk, not scripted but not held back either, just go with the flow. |
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"You have to free yourself to say anything. "Cunt" might be offensive to many but would you rather a big cock were easing slowly between your cunt lips as they stretched wide open round his throbbing meat, pulsing inside your dripping hole, or, would you like his willy in your fanny? lmao"
See that's just turned my guts. Not the cunt bit. Cunt's a fantastic word, but to use it as I'd use it, it'd be..
"Get.... THE FUCK inside my cunt" without the fluff about theibbing or dribbling |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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I can have a right potty mouth but I think it all comes down to the dynamic between you, there needs to be a level of comfortableness with someone to be able to just let yourself go without overthinking what your saying. When it’s natural, unforced and not just in response to something the other says its hot! Xx
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"You have to free yourself to say anything. "Cunt" might be offensive to many but would you rather a big cock were easing slowly between your cunt lips as they stretched wide open round his throbbing meat, pulsing inside your dripping hole, or, would you like his willy in your fanny? lmao
See that's just turned my guts. Not the cunt bit. Cunt's a fantastic word, but to use it as I'd use it, it'd be..
"Get.... THE FUCK inside my cunt" without the fluff about theibbing or dribbling "
*throbbing.
My proof read game is non existent of late
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint
The key is in the moment. Even people who think they hate it I feel would find it enhances things only when it's the right things at the right times. If it's something that people feel needs to be done, then it comes across as not genuine and just meh.
Timing and context! These are the important things.
I think there are two problems... One is that i sound like the talking clock /newsreader and the second occurs when i tune into myself... I then cannot help but do an internal commentary that really does not help
The trick is to not do it as if it is a script. Leave pauses and delays between words or sentences.
Relate it to what you are feeling and want him to do. You don't need to read out a novel, just a few phrases every so often. Then build up from there. Combine dirty talk with feedback as a starter point and grow from that. I think you would surprise yourself. "
I want a full on novel thankyou very much!!!  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint "
Talk spices to me baby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to free yourself to say anything. "Cunt" might be offensive to many but would you rather a big cock were easing slowly between your cunt lips as they stretched wide open round his throbbing meat, pulsing inside your dripping hole, or, would you like his willy in your fanny? lmao"
Nobody likes a quivering member |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Yes, i wish I could be more natural at it.. I sound like I'm reading the cooking instructions for an m+s product
.. Oh Daddy, yes keep doing that, mmmm, yes , i like that.... And then stir gently to combine before resting for 15 mins... Oh yes, I want your hot cum dripping down my face and my neck onto my boobs..... And then simmer for three minutes before adding mint
The key is in the moment. Even people who think they hate it I feel would find it enhances things only when it's the right things at the right times. If it's something that people feel needs to be done, then it comes across as not genuine and just meh.
Timing and context! These are the important things.
I think there are two problems... One is that i sound like the talking clock /newsreader and the second occurs when i tune into myself... I then cannot help but do an internal commentary that really does not help
The trick is to not do it as if it is a script. Leave pauses and delays between words or sentences.
Relate it to what you are feeling and want him to do. You don't need to read out a novel, just a few phrases every so often. Then build up from there. Combine dirty talk with feedback as a starter point and grow from that. I think you would surprise yourself.
I want a full on novel thankyou very much!!! "
I didn't say it can't be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly? Doesn't matter what one says. The tone sets it all. Sometimes clever use of vocabulary. Sliding a word of temptation innocently in a conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honestly? Doesn't matter what one says. The tone sets it all. Sometimes clever use of vocabulary. Sliding a word of temptation innocently in a conversation. "
Yes, but i think that's better in the early stages as part or flirting. Innuendo, suggestive teasing, it all helps set the tone.
"Would you like milk in your coffee"..."oh no, i like plenty of cream in mine!"
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Not really ‘dirty’ as such but I do like to tell a lady how amazing it feels to be inside her/how amazing she tastes etc.
I stop short of a running commentary I should hastily add though: ‘I am inserting my penis now….ooohh that feels smashing. Do you like that? I shall now commence rhythmic pumping motions…on three…two….one….’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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So the girls like blokes taking dirty, but don't feel confident doing it themselves. Don't worry, we appreciate the effort and from what i've seen most men like to hear a girl getting down and dirty. |
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