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What do you think of me?
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I thought that I’d bring this back again, as flawed as it might be!
Let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.
It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.
Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.
Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.
The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...
Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.
Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also didn’t send any.
Away you go folks |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
I already know what people think of me so is a mute question.
But in the studio and its hot and just waiting for a suitable time to open a cold beer.
So interested to see how the thread evolves.
Will it follow the same tack or will it take a new direction
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I like these, they usually throw up a couple of surprises as to how others see me, which gives me something to reflect on...especially if it's not all positive.
I'm in "
I agree, it’s the negatives and the criticism that gives the most scope for growth in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in xx"
What can I say that people don’t already know,
Selfless, caring, funny, stunning and makes me smile constantly… also great at dinosaur impressions  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I like this one. Honest good or bad. Bring it.
I like your level headedness, and how you look at things from all perspectives
Some rather horny pictures too
Jo x "
Let’s keep it via PM please? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"I’m in 
A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers
Tom!
Don’t make me come over there!  "
I’ve gave him a warning, such a naughty boy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in
A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers
Tom!
Don’t make me come over there! "
Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in
A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers
Tom!
Don’t make me come over there!
I’ve gave him a warning, such a naughty boy x"
Yes she promised I could spank her though  |
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"I like this one. Honest good or bad. Bring it.
I like your level headedness, and how you look at things from all perspectives
Some rather horny pictures too
Jo x
Let’s keep it via PM please? "
Did actually press wrong button
*Scuttles off to corner and decides not to post again today....*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every time I've tried this I had one message each time. Not sure I want to again but I'll wait for the debrief post to see what happens. Its kinda fascinating in a weird way.
PW |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Every time I've tried this I had one message each time. Not sure I want to again but I'll wait for the debrief post to see what happens. Its kinda fascinating in a weird way.
PW"
Don’t forget to send some out as well! |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
Good afternoon lovelies. I'm in for this.
This is a interesting one. We tend to perceive the world through our own filters so often what you perceive in someone else can show you something about yourself. Win win.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done a few, will do more when I get a chance. Will reply to those I've been sent too. "
Same, done some and replied to others. I am always interested in how I am perceived on the forum (good or bad). |
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I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)
A lovely chap and a wonderful contributor to the forums with consistently superb and thoughtful threads which often require we as readers, to both introspect ourselves and be more respectful of others  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’m trying to stay away from people that I’ve already given feedback to on previous threads, unless something has drastically changed.
Newbies, I’m sorry if I haven’t seen enough of you to get a good read on you |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)
A lovely chap and a wonderful contributor to the forums with consistently superb and thoughtful threads which often require we as readers, to both introspect ourselves and be more respectful of others "
Via PM fella! |
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"I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)
A lovely chap and a wonderful contributor to the forums with consistently superb and thoughtful threads which often require we as readers, to both introspect ourselves and be more respectful of others
Via PM fella! "
Ahhhh sorry (Do I still qualify for the blandishment bribe though?) |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)
A lovely chap and a wonderful contributor to the forums with consistently superb and thoughtful threads which often require we as readers, to both introspect ourselves and be more respectful of others
Via PM fella!
Ahhhh sorry (Do I still qualify for the blandishment bribe though?) "
Absolutely!
I’ll square up with you later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in please
I'd have to break the thread rules to tell you! Damn Pesky Filters, they're worse than those meddling kids in Scooby Doo  "
Oh yes, hang on |
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"Go on then- had a bit of a shock last time, but I will risk it! "
You’re a straight talking, no nonsense similar to me person but sometimes you take things in a way it wasn’t intended…. For which I apologise |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.
Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli 
Via PM DC! "
But it was so sweet! And accurate.  Thank you DC. I'll send you yours via PM before Dicktator Tea starts growing a dodgy 'tache. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.
Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli
Via PM DC!
But it was so sweet! And accurate. Thank you DC. I'll send you yours via PM before Dicktator Tea starts growing a dodgy 'tache. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.
Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli
Via PM DC!
But it was so sweet! And accurate. Thank you DC. I'll send you yours via PM before Dicktator Tea starts growing a dodgy 'tache. "
woah woah woah, what's wrong with dodgy taches!? ...or am I to now expect new facial hair related feedback? |
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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago
Newcastle-under-Lyme |
"Would have been nice to take part but age restrictions don’t permit so I’m out
That’s no good. I’m sorry that you can’t engage as you would like to"
Thank you. I understand that people have age preferences so with something like this I adjust mine temporarily in case people want to comment as you said not to comment in the thread. Some people I’d like to offer a comment to have age limits which preclude me from sending a message. C’est la vie. |
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